The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[jobobtheclown]

I have two sbs that I see now that I have been seeing off and on for 2 years now. They are hard to find though and one month may not get you there. The high number of platonic, online only, straight up scammers, semi-pros, or chicks with insane gps make it pretty hard work these days.

Agreed on all counts. It's possible to find someone, but I wouldn't recommend it if you don't on some level enjoy talking to new people, regardless of the eventual outcome.

You can also consider other sites: I've gotten feedback that girls on WYP have trouble finding people for dates. But WYP is playing with fire since most of them have no interest in a meet beyond the first, so it's a much more expensive exploratory process. Secret Benefits is scammy AF, since it fakes online status to make you think it's teeming with SBs even if they've not actually logged in for months, but I've met a few legit women on there.

[Member #6718]

Anyone having luck with any long terms lately. Considering taking the dive back into it and have had some good luck in the past but the last two memberships produced noting.

I have two sbs that I see now that I have been seeing off and on for 2 years now. They are hard to find though and one month may not get you there. The high number of platonic, online only, straight up scammers, semi-pros, or chicks with insane gps make it pretty hard work these days.

[Sobe69]

Anyone having luck with any long terms lately. Considering taking the dive back into it and have had some good luck in the past but the last two memberships produced noting.

[Raltime]

Anyone hit this one up, https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-3e5d48ba8d9f

[TXGuido]

Has anyone here ever.

10. PrincessMarie.

Description: I talked about her before, but am curious if anyone has seen her or talked to her either recently or long ago.

Back when I met her, she was decent to talk to. But also seemed very business like in terms of "I do X for why amount".

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-ab21c0a3301c

Been there, done that. She's nice. Her approach initially online is def a bit dry, but in person she's warmer. She has a great little body, but I just didn't quite click with her as I'd hoped. I wouldn't at all say she's a pro, but she's very used to this type of dynamic so she's blunt and open about everything. Personally I found that to be a good thing.

[WhatYaThinkXXX]

Violet quoted me 1 k to meet. Blocked her instantly.

Has anyone here ever.

A. Talked to (Via SA or Text / App).

B. Met.

C. Had an arrangement.

With any of the women below? If so, what was your experience like? Whether it was good, ok, or bad, etc.

1. lillaylaaviolet710.

Description: Profile says she's been on Seeking since 2021. She used to be in the Greensboro area, but seems to be in Durham.

I remember having convos with her before, and even getting to the point of getting her number. But communication would always be horrible, or it'd end in eventual silence.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-76e3380ac9cd

2. S are 200.

Description: Early 30's. Been on Seeking for a long while. Something about reading her bio makes me think she'd be a headache, but I could be wrong.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-8ed5585bf6b8

3. Painting Perfection.

Description: Looks attractive. We briefly talked, but hasn't gotten back to me yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-b404185c29f9

4. xoxxxox.

Description: Although she is in the Fayetteville area of NC, I briefly remember me and her having a decent convo on seeking. She seemed open to traveling to raleigh for a public meet up, but we never did move forward. Since she hadn't logged back on at the time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-d6cf51e2d48d

5. PrettyVenus.

Description: Despite her having no bio.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-a378137e4e71

6. neurobunny.

Description: She looks very familiar, but I don't know why. Regardless, looks ok / decent. Ok profile. Probably picky, as she ignored my message. Anyone ever met her or had a good convo with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-007764ebd7a0

7. Sparkyjuju.

Don't think I've ever messaged her, but she's been on seeking for awhile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-52063fd692a3

8. Paradise Island.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-2b596673f894

9. SapphireDreams.

Description: Cute. Decent Profile in terms of Bio. Doesn't come across as negative. I might have messaged her before, but I can't really remember. She's been on seeking for a good while.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-6229d1909d30

10. PrincessMarie.

Description: I talked about her before, but am curious if anyone has seen her or talked to her either recently or long ago.

Back when I met her, she was decent to talk to. But also seemed very business like in terms of "I do X for why amount".

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-ab21c0a3301c

[SaintMan3500]

Has anyone here ever.

A. Talked to (Via SA or Text / App).

B. Met.

C. Had an arrangement.

With any of the women below? If so, what was your experience like? Whether it was good, ok, or bad, etc.

1. lillaylaaviolet710.

Description: Profile says she's been on Seeking since 2021. She used to be in the Greensboro area, but seems to be in Durham.

I remember having convos with her before, and even getting to the point of getting her number. But communication would always be horrible, or it'd end in eventual silence.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-76e3380ac9cd

2. S are 200.

Description: Early 30's. Been on Seeking for a long while. Something about reading her bio makes me think she'd be a headache, but I could be wrong.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-8ed5585bf6b8

3. Painting Perfection.

Description: Looks attractive. We briefly talked, but hasn't gotten back to me yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-b404185c29f9

4. xoxxxox.

Description: Although she is in the Fayetteville area of NC, I briefly remember me and her having a decent convo on seeking. She seemed open to traveling to raleigh for a public meet up, but we never did move forward. Since she hadn't logged back on at the time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-d6cf51e2d48d

5. PrettyVenus.

Description: Despite her having no bio.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-a378137e4e71

6. neurobunny.

Description: She looks very familiar, but I don't know why. Regardless, looks ok / decent. Ok profile. Probably picky, as she ignored my message. Anyone ever met her or had a good convo with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-007764ebd7a0

7. Sparkyjuju.

Don't think I've ever messaged her, but she's been on seeking for awhile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-52063fd692a3

8. Paradise Island.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-2b596673f894

9. SapphireDreams.

Description: Cute. Decent Profile in terms of Bio. Doesn't come across as negative. I might have messaged her before, but I can't really remember. She's been on seeking for a good while.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-6229d1909d30

10. PrincessMarie.

Description: I talked about her before, but am curious if anyone has seen her or talked to her either recently or long ago.

Back when I met her, she was decent to talk to. But also seemed very business like in terms of "I do X for why amount".

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-ab21c0a3301c

[SaintMan3500]

Woman: Z.

Age: 31 Years old, has a kid.

Description: Been on seeking arrangements for over 5 years. Remember her profile, and know that that pic she has is years old and is the same one she's used since 2019.

Recently she changed her bio and mentioned she starts charging meet fees. Upon asking, she said her meet fee / paid meet & greet was $300. Wonderful lmao.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-c2c946941f45

Not a Good picture. Mediocre bio. Bad communication. Either she's overinflating her value, she's a moron, or she's throwing out bigger numbers because she gets the ick. Either way, what a clown LOL. I remember having a few convos with her on seeking throughout the years, and she's always been shitty at communication.

[jobobtheclown]

Met her a few months ago. Here is what I've noticed from my meeting with her.

-She is 100% real. I thought she was some fake profile or dude using a random womans pics. Esp since I'd see her location be put to somewhere like romania. But she is real. Even if the online or text communication can be eh.

-Her PPM ask was basically in the average range. Nothing super high, but obviously not low either.

-She is decent in terms of talking IRL. As in, you can have decent conversations with her, or talk about many subjects. Open Minded, non judgmental.

-I got the impression she is very picky, and she is looking for "that guy". Always the possibility that even if you thought you guys were cool, she may move forward with someone else or stop responding.

-Didn't demand anything in terms of paid meet and greets

I didn't move forward at the time due to IRL stuff / complications, but my suggestion would be to set something up asap in terms of a public meet up and/or talk about business early on. Sometimes with women that barely respond to me, I discuss the financial aspect (outside SA) and that entices them more to respond and likely meet.

So after my last post, she eventually got back to me and rescheduled again to several days later. Several hours before our reservations, and not having discussed anything about money because it was just a meet and greet, she said she wants $500-700 PPM. Could have been just her deciding to nope out and doing so with a high fictional number (I suspect a lot of the "$2 k per meet" complaints on here are actually the girl getting the ick), but it definitely wasn't a fit; I politely declined. I do alright in the $250-400 range still.

[SaintMan3500]

Scheduled a meet for dinner a week ago while BFun was out of town, checked in over the week, moved the reservation at her request yesterday, talked to confirm earlier today. Ghosted. Not sure what's up, but suspect a drug problem; there was no attempt to get money.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-ab1ba55c77b8

Met her a few months ago. Here is what I've noticed from my meeting with her.

-She is 100% real. I thought she was some fake profile or dude using a random womans pics. Esp since I'd see her location be put to somewhere like romania. But she is real. Even if the online or text communication can be eh.

-Her PPM ask was basically in the average range. Nothing super high, but obviously not low either.

-She is decent in terms of talking IRL. As in, you can have decent conversations with her, or talk about many subjects. Open Minded, non judgmental.

-I got the impression she is very picky, and she is looking for "that guy". Always the possibility that even if you thought you guys were cool, she may move forward with someone else or stop responding.

-Didn't demand anything in terms of paid meet and greets

I didn't move forward at the time due to IRL stuff / complications, but my suggestion would be to set something up asap in terms of a public meet up and/or talk about business early on. Sometimes with women that barely respond to me, I discuss the financial aspect (outside SA) and that entices them more to respond and likely meet.

[Member #6718]

And to top it off, she expects to be paid / given money in a public meet up.

Someone here can probably negotiate her PPM to much lower numbers and the paid M&G stuff. Whether it's worth doing that or not is a diff story LOL.

Yeah personally I don't negotiate with terrorists LOL.

[SaintMan3500]

A small number of super hot IG model types can command four figure PPM around here.

Super hot IG type in LA or DC could probably command a 2 k or more PPM.

That chick is bang f**king average, I'd be offering her 300 and laughing at any demand for more.

And to top it off, she expects to be paid / given money in a public meet up.

Someone here can probably negotiate her PPM to much lower numbers and the paid M&G stuff. Whether it's worth doing that or not is a diff story LOL.

[MmceStep]

Maria: Mid 20's. Joined seeking arrangements last month, but clearly has some experience if you talk to her. She's not bad to talk to, but she wanted $2,000 PER MEET! Said that a previous SD of hers did this with no trouble and she said she plans on sticking with this.

Personally that's the highest I've ever heard from talking to someone, but w / e. Someone here may have a good experience with her IRL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-d2ac267e698e

Someone's been reading the reddit SLR sub too much!

[YourCCPimp]

Maria: Mid 20's. Joined seeking arrangements last month, but clearly has some experience if you talk to her. She's not bad to talk to, but she wanted $2,000 PER MEET! Said that a previous SD of hers did this with no trouble and she said she plans on sticking with this.

Personally that's the highest I've ever heard from talking to someone, but w / e. Someone here may have a good experience with her IRL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-d2ac267e698e

That's some Heidi Fleiss kinda numbers.

[LikesGirls]

Has anyone seen this lady recently?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-467dc0a08a14

Her bio says Durham but she's in Greensboro, though claims she doesn't mind the drive to Durham or Raleigh.