"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Airmantroy]

Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.

I recently got "threatened" by a scammer myself. I told her in no uncertain terms that it would be a very painful mistake to attempt any type of extortion and that her best course of action would be to shove it up her ass. She got all up in her feelings after I had to cancel a meet, (after she'd ghosted me once previously), I had came down with a cold and didn't feel like doing crap.

Had another one pull the"had a detective call me about sexting with a minor that had attempted suicide" I politely told said detective if he was serious about speaking with me, I wasn't very hard to find. Good Luck. I never sent her any pics and the only communication between us was Hello my name is "FAKE NAME" from me followed by her sending 2 nudes and asking when we could meet.

I have found that the easiest way to avoid BS is stay over 21 yrs old, and any profile that has the True Love tag in what they are seeking is guranteed to be a scammer. Pics that are TGTBT are almost always a dead giveaway if combined with the True Love tag. 95% or more of the Asian chicks are fake, for whatever reason. Names like IntelligentIngenuine, GratifiedHotness, or stupid shit like that are always scammers. I'm still working on picking out the content sellers by their profiles, but those are more difficult. They want to give the illusion of availability, but never available.

[FarFarAway]

Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.

You need to read the thread and the archives on the Richmond, VA page on sugaring. Spend a week doing that. Then you will know.

I have a lot to lose like you, and I have been safely on seeking for many years now.

There is also an OpSec thread on the Northern Virginia page.

[SeekingHead]

Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.

My advice set your profile to private with no photo, have a few photos of you which have never been on the internet as your private photos. Burner # & text app.

Only message women you are interested in, do a meet & greet over lunch or drinks to weed out the fakes.

[ZeppDawg33]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-985942db4cc7

Anyone have any experience with her? I like her look, & we exchanged a LOT of messages on the site, much more so than I usually prefer doing. She seems real, & is very flirtatious in her talk.

But. She just won't go to text. Like, she'll talk your head off on the site, but for reasons she won't give, won't take the next step.

Anybody dealt with her, & know why this is?

She isn't the person in the pics.

[KingFish34]

That really depends on how you value your time. It is absolutely guaranteed to be cheaper and easier to find a pro if you factor in the time and hassle involved. So it really comes down to what you're looking for.

Seeking has a little bit of something for everyone. You can find anything from escorts that charge you by the hour to girls who are looking for a successful older lover who will wine and dine them. I've been very fortunate to find some great women on the site over the years. I go for the girlfriend types who aren't looking for an allowance. My current girl has been with me over two years, she's a total knockout 25 years to my junior. Very well-to-do and cultured; definitely the type of girl who's equally comfortable at a tennis club in the Hamptons or in the finest restaurants in New York. She's at a stage in her life where she's focused on her career, doesn't care at all about finding a guy her age or starting a family, and honestly takes a lot of pride in being my trophy girlfriend / mistress. She's happily exclusive to me and enthusiastically gives me more pussy than I know what to do with. I've never paid her a dime (but I do take great care of her when we're together and cover all expenses, of course). I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but the point is, those girls are out there if that's what you're looking for.

If you're just looking to get your dick wet with minimal hassle, those girls are on Seeking as well. You'll just have to invest the time to message a lot of women and go back and forth with the hits you get until you find someone that is looking for the same type of situation you are. There are plenty of those girls on the site, so I'd encourage you to give it a try. Just read as much as you can before you get started so you know what to expect going in.

Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.

[JoyDrop]

So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?

That really depends on how you value your time. It is absolutely guaranteed to be cheaper and easier to find a pro if you factor in the time and hassle involved. So it really comes down to what you're looking for.

Seeking has a little bit of something for everyone. You can find anything from escorts that charge you by the hour to girls who are looking for a successful older lover who will wine and dine them. I've been very fortunate to find some great women on the site over the years. I go for the girlfriend types who aren't looking for an allowance. My current girl has been with me over two years, she's a total knockout 25 years to my junior. Very well-to-do and cultured; definitely the type of girl who's equally comfortable at a tennis club in the Hamptons or in the finest restaurants in New York. She's at a stage in her life where she's focused on her career, doesn't care at all about finding a guy her age or starting a family, and honestly takes a lot of pride in being my trophy girlfriend / mistress. She's happily exclusive to me and enthusiastically gives me more pussy than I know what to do with. I've never paid her a dime (but I do take great care of her when we're together and cover all expenses, of course). I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but the point is, those girls are out there if that's what you're looking for.

If you're just looking to get your dick wet with minimal hassle, those girls are on Seeking as well. You'll just have to invest the time to message a lot of women and go back and forth with the hits you get until you find someone that is looking for the same type of situation you are. There are plenty of those girls on the site, so I'd encourage you to give it a try. Just read as much as you can before you get started so you know what to expect going in.

One thing I've noticed about Seeking lately is that it's completely overrun by scammers now. I still log in regularly to admire the new talent and would venture an educated guess that at least half the new accounts I see are fake. This is a small sample, but to underscore the point I just checked and 6 of the newest 10 accounts on my saved search were not real. You're probably familiar with the stories about organized crime syndicates in Asia kidnapping job seekers and forcing them into a confidence scam operations. Seeking is ground zero for that type of thing since all of the men are there to spend money on women. It's easy to spot the fake profiles once you know what you're looking for, but still, I'm glad I'm not having to deal with any of that because it's just such a pain in the ass to sort through all the scammer BS.

Good luck if you do decide to try it, report back and let us know how you did.

[Dawgins]

This thread has devolved into scam reports. I think there are two reasons: (1) there are fewer A+ girls throwing it around for reasonable rates, and (2) guys are keeping their girls to themselves because of (1).

You never know until you try it it's for you. There's a lot of frustration with scammers and time wasters. You have to keep your head on straight and be patient. Don't treat it like browsing tryst or LC for that quick fix, you'll be disappointed. These girls are almost never ready on a moment's notice. (There have been a couple of notable exceptions to that.) You need to think about logistics, time, hotel rooms, etc. Most of these girls want at least a little connection / attraction.

Be prepared to spend a little time and money, show a little class, and you'll be one deep in some first class pussy. Heck, you might even like the girl too!

So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?

Thanks for the info.

[LoverAtl]

Of course, Seeking contacts are all over the place for ppm. $200 to $1,000 ppm. And more!

They have no clue, those girls just signed up and have absolutely no idea how much their pussy is worth. Other than it is made out of gold.

And what they read about it on reddit.

This is how it works for me. I can get 8-10 pussy in East Africa, for $25/ day / 24 hrs. Easy.

DR, $40/ day /24 hrs.

Looking closer at home. Atlanta. 1 hr, w / an Asian provider. She provides place, and 10+ service. $330.

I don't have to provide hotel, saves me time, money, and stress in doing so. We also don't need to have a M&G.

Subtracting $100, for hotel / accommodation. $200, for me, is the max ppm. Simple as that.

[KingFish34]

So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?

Thanks for the info.

[TylerDurden07]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-985942db4cc7

Anyone have any experience with her? I like her look, & we exchanged a LOT of messages on the site, much more so than I usually prefer doing. She seems real, & is very flirtatious in her talk.

But. She just won't go to text. Like, she'll talk your head off on the site, but for reasons she won't give, won't take the next step.

Anybody dealt with her, & know why this is?

[TallGuy3000]

Anyone have any info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-5afc50d2f7c0

[Darmour88]

I've had enough with Seeking, it just sucks now. The best alternative I've heard about is SDM. Is anyone here using it? If so, what's the lowdown on it? Do you like it?

The UI is probably only 60% of what seeking is. Also not too many members on there. On seeking you could virtually keep scrolling forever. On SDM it's a much shorter list. I have much better luck on seeking.

[DDogs77]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-35f8050ecba3

Had a session. She was quick to reply (pm'd me after visiting her profile) and gave out her phone number. It was a negative experience. She had a really bad breath and wasn't really into it. Felt worse after. Will not repeat.

[TylerDurden07]

I've had enough with Seeking, it just sucks now. The best alternative I've heard about is SDM. Is anyone here using it? If so, what's the lowdown on it? Do you like it?

[LThomas777]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-6b86ca7f3f28

I sent you a PM.