Sugar Babies & Arrangements

**Mandane** · 04-14-24 00:42

Originally Posted by VloneCarti [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

Short answer, no. Longer answer is that there may be a few who give you the benefit of the doubt but I wouldn't count on it being cheap. I can see you getting absolutely soaked. Lots of $1 k ppm offers. If you can't pull randos off of dating apps the women your age aren't going to be interested either. The ones who are already semi pro hoes may give you a shot but it will cost you. Seems like you would be better served finding a decent escort which isn't too expensive and see her repeatedly. The good ones will appreciate the repeat business and allow some feelings. Or at least pretend convincingly. Most mongers have stories of low cost escorts who they clicked with and saw over a long period. The young hot SBs won't take you seriously.

**VloneCarti** · 04-12-24 14:36

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

**Member #1658** · 04-11-24 14:27

Originally Posted by TomThumb12 [View Original Post]

It's usually fake. Gave up on that site as they don't want to delete the profiles.

So, do you have an alternate site or method you're using now to find SB / UTR fun?

**TomThumb12** · 04-11-24 13:06

Originally Posted by RobbinHoodz [View Original Post]

I recently rejoined seeking after taking a break for a few months. It struck me how many profiles in the area just seem odd. Perhaps fakes? Like the photos don't look like stock photos but the descriptions are just weird sentences strung together that don't really make sense with how actual people talk. A subtle example: "My name is Beth 34, I live in Tampa, Florida. I love traveling, cooking and watching romantic movies. I love traveling and meeting new people. " Another one: "I'm a easy person, I don't over do things, just want to enjoy my time with any person who's willing to have fun and do the necessary things" like what is this garbage?

It's usually fake. Gave up on that site as they don't want to delete the profiles.

**RobbinHoodz** · 04-11-24 08:09

I recently rejoined seeking after taking a break for a few months. It struck me how many profiles in the area just seem odd. Perhaps fakes? Like the photos don't look like stock photos but the descriptions are just weird sentences strung together that don't really make sense with how actual people talk. A subtle example: "My name is Beth 34, I live in Tampa, Florida. I love traveling, cooking and watching romantic movies. I love traveling and meeting new people. " Another one: "I'm a easy person, I don't over do things, just want to enjoy my time with any person who's willing to have fun and do the necessary things" like what is this garbage?

**Member #1658** · 04-10-24 15:16

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

All I can tell you is that I have all the young hotties I can handle at the amount you indicated. Of course I came here last summer from the DC area, so what you think of as GPS is pretty much all the ones in the DC area. Problem there is they are mostly not hot. There's no shortage of young and hot here. Sure some have GPS or just want to rinse, but there are plenty that don't. YMMV of course.

The poster you replied to mentioned two different budgets -- PPM 500 and $2 k / mo or less total. I'm somewhere in between. How much fun can I reasonably expect to have off of SA for $1 k / mo? That's a number I can make fly completely under the radar in my household, but $2 k / mo might start to be noticed. There's a limit.

I really could use an SA primer by someone if anyone is willing to share. I'm not sure whether to beat around the Bush or be very forthcoming about what I'm looking for, etc. Basically, I want someone to hang out with a little bit and have some awesome sex but someone who will not interfere in my primary relationship. I can't have "crazy" in my life.

Speaking of "crazy" in my life. I normally wouldn't be looking at someone this young, but this girl is not only on Seeking, she's on FetLife and there are photos of her with multiple dicks around her in a gangbang, etc. So, I know she plays! Just curious if anyone here can attest to how fun she is as a 1:1 Seeking baby. I think she'd be one who could be fun because she appears to have a full dime thing going, but I think she wants some side money as well. Seems like her guy knows, so it's on the up-and-up from that perspective (or that could be a problem depending on the dynamic).

Profile is: Youngmama19 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-25aa362c9302.

She is no longer pregnant and is now 20 or maybe 21. Baby is out in the world.

Thanks!

**Mandane** · 03-13-24 00:25

Originally Posted by Tbrayj1987 [View Original Post]

Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?

All I can tell you is that I have all the young hotties I can handle at the amount you indicated. Of course I came here last summer from the DC area, so what you think of as GPS is pretty much all the ones in the DC area. Problem there is they are mostly not hot. There's no shortage of young and hot here. Sure some have GPS or just want to rinse, but there are plenty that don't. YMMV of course.

**Tbrayj1987** · 03-12-24 17:58

Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?

**RobbinHoodz** · 03-07-24 10:36

Originally Posted by AceKingQueen [View Original Post]

You have an option to change just look next to the drop down that say 25 per page.

Usually yes. There wasn't a grid vs list option yesterday. However it looks like it was already changed back.

**AceKingQueen** · 03-06-24 17:18

Originally Posted by RobbinHoodz [View Original Post]

Does anyone else hate the new formatting for seeking? I don't care for the tiles look. I want to be able to go down a list and hide profiles I know I'm not interested in.

You have an option to change just look next to the drop down that say 25 per page.

**RobbinHoodz** · 03-05-24 13:17

Does anyone else hate the new formatting for seeking? I don't care for the tiles look. I want to be able to go down a list and hide profiles I know I'm not interested in.

**Mandane** · 03-02-24 20:54

Usually I don't bother with anyone who identifies as a findom chick. This one (sweetnspic) contacted me to try to meet so I played it out a bit over text.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-903b5d4834d7

Here's her findom shit.

https://x.com/sabrina_domme

The ask was every bit as delusional as the rest of Twitter content. Pics on SA are better than the nudes you can easily find with facecheck. I'd. Hard pass.

**BoredinIN** · 02-27-24 15:12

I was in town recently and met the sweetest. She's a good girl, treat her right. She knows how to act like a sb publicly and privately. I will say she's a real head monster, never in my life. Wow.

Fun time.

Lucky Tampa guys.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

**RobbinHoodz** · 02-27-24 14:30

Originally Posted by BillGinn [View Original Post]

Connected with Kacie easily on Seeking. She gave me her snap so we moved offsite.

Responsive and good comms, but she led with a 1 G PPM. Too rich for my blood, but she came down to 8 Benjamins. I didn't bother trying further or discussing rules, etc.

On to the next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-25aa362c9302

She also has a profile on Fetlife and posts occasionally about doing meetups at Fantasyworld. Probably could make it happen for free if you don't mind sharing.

**Bill Ginn** · 02-26-24 14:29

Connected with Kacie easily on Seeking. She gave me her snap so we moved offsite.

Responsive and good comms, but she led with a 1 G PPM. Too rich for my blood, but she came down to 8 Benjamins. I didn't bother trying further or discussing rules, etc.

On to the next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-25aa362c9302