Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**Bouinage** · 03-14-24 07:00

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

Only a fool throws away 300 to just do a public meet up. From the context of his post, "she" sounds like someone who is less willing to go straight to meeting up at a hotel / neutral location to straight up do the deed, and more like someone who wants $$$ for the sheer act of meeting in public.

It's not really the case of your research lacking. I've used seeking for years and had full on arrangements with decent looking women for as low as 100-200ish. Higher amounts are more likely to maintain arrangements longer, but the price you "pay" is dependent on a variety of factors and circumstances. For the arrangement itself, I always negotiate in the public meet up.

Correct. I would spend 300 for a session but wouldn't spend anything more than the price of a meal, or maybe 50 to meet in public.

**Grasshopping** · 03-13-24 22:40

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

Also communicated with this one. She seems nice but wanted 500 just to meet. I offered to take her out to a nice restaurant to discuss the details instead, still awaiting her response haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-8fa2fbeb3333

That's Lani. I never met her but she's been talked about here in the beginning of February (between the 1st and give and take the 7th of Feb).

She looks good in the pics but look at her video in her SB profile. Her face wasn't appealing at all (to me) without the makeup.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...cce2adbb03e880

**Dnks8** · 03-13-24 21:48

Ah if the 3 was for an initial M&G then yes that is ridiculous. I actually think paying for a M&G at all is not a good idea. Best I'd do is pay for a drink or coffee. But for an allowance or a PPM, $300 is entirely reasonable for an attractive SB. Have people gotten lower? Sure. Is lower than that the norm for quality SBs? I don't think do. I think 300 is actually a very common number IME.

**Bouinage** · 03-13-24 21:37

Originally Posted by DrSugarD [View Original Post]

She has moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Scam one area the move to another seems to be the way a lot of them operate.

Thanks! I'm glad to know my senses haven't failed me!

**SaintMan3500** · 03-13-24 21:35

Originally Posted by Dnks8 [View Original Post]

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

Only a fool throws away 300 to just do a public meet up. From the context of his post, "she" sounds like someone who is less willing to go straight to meeting up at a hotel / neutral location to straight up do the deed, and more like someone who wants $$$ for the sheer act of meeting in public.

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

Clearly my research was lacking! Appreciate the details. Yea 300 just to meet to see if we are compatible is not really in my range. I respect those mongers who do this, I get it 100%. We all have our thresholds and everyone of them differs. Appreciate the info! I will ride out my month long membership and see what happens. Thanks again!

It's not really the case of your research lacking. I've used seeking for years and had full on arrangements with decent looking women for as low as 100-200ish. Higher amounts are more likely to maintain arrangements longer, but the price you "pay" is dependent on a variety of factors and circumstances. For the arrangement itself, I always negotiate in the public meet up.

**Bouinage** · 03-13-24 21:35

Originally Posted by Dnks8 [View Original Post]

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

Clearly my research was lacking! Appreciate the details. Yea 300 just to meet to see if we are compatible is not really in my range. I respect those mongers who do this, I get it 100%. We all have our thresholds and everyone of them differs. Appreciate the info! I will ride out my month long membership and see what happens. Thanks again!

**Dr SugarD** · 03-13-24 21:14

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

She has moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Scam one area the move to another seems to be the way a lot of them operate.

**Dnks8** · 03-13-24 20:55

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

**John Dough71** · 03-13-24 20:49

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

Ha, you got a lot further than I did. She favorited me and I messaged her saying I hope she is real and not trying to sell me crypto or content. She blocked me immediately. LMAO. Looks like I need to work on my game too. .

**Bouinage** · 03-13-24 20:35

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

**Bouinage** · 03-13-24 20:10

Guys really appreciate the input / details. Texted her back after some silence and no response, after I suggested we just skip the meeting and do the deed at her house. She may or may not be real but I skipped this one for sure. Perhaps some other monger is pounding away on her right now LOL.

Also communicated with this one. She seems nice but wanted 500 just to meet. I offered to take her out to a nice restaurant to discuss the details instead, still awaiting her response haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-8fa2fbeb3333

Again, thanks again for your input.

**BlindSquirrel** · 03-13-24 18:34

This one asked for money upfront. Remember to NEVER pay upfront. Even if they're legit, they just can't resist money for nothin.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...73af1f62a65e98

**Crewzin** · 03-13-24 18:24

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

So I am pretty new to this line of mongering / dating. Did the premium (after my one free hour (which I got for three hours haha) to message ladies. She reached out to me, started talking with TraveledTemptress:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-f1d50d5c19b8

Moved quickly to texting on phones (burner app) and very responsive but would never respond to direct questions. Just mostly when do you want to meet, and said yes to everything, just seems almost to good to be true. I asked for a verfication pic of something specific (and nonsexual) and she sent me somthing close but not really it. Sent me multiple pics actually, pretty hot. Like hot! She wants to meet tonight in the southpark area and says she can host in the Chantilly area. Also did tineye on photo and searched phone number (no hits of course). As I write this I see now it seems kinda sketchy or to good to be true. Any thoughts?

This could an exception, but I have seen hundreds of this type of ad, most all disappear in less than a month. I don't respond to any ad less a month or two old, and given her pics if she is real not in my budget.

11 minutes after clicking on her ad I get a message from her, yea I would skip this one.

**CinMiner** · 03-13-24 16:34

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

So I am pretty new to this line of mongering / dating. Did the premium (after my one free hour (which I got for three hours haha) to message ladies. She reached out to me, started talking with TraveledTemptress:

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-f1d50d5c19b8

Moved quickly to texting on phones (burner app) and very responsive but would never respond to direct questions. Just mostly when do you want to meet, and said yes to everything, just seems almost to good to be true. I asked for a verfication pic of something specific (and nonsexual) and she sent me somthing close but not really it. Sent me multiple pics actually, pretty hot. Like hot! She wants to meet tonight in the southpark area and says she can host in the Chantilly area. Also did tineye on photo and searched phone number (no hits of course). As I write this I see now it seems kinda sketchy or to good to be true. Any thoughts?

New profile. Statements in profile feel "off", certainly not typical. Something doesn't feel right. Took you to text very quickly. My guess is that you will be hit up for a deposit right before the meet (gas's money, sitter), she will want you to buy content to prove you are real, or you have connected with a pro we have not seen. My advice is to proceed, with caution.

**Bouinage** · 03-13-24 15:41

Originally Posted by LostCajun00 [View Original Post]

My experience with strippers has been different. I've gotten FS from several. It is a long endgame though but the girls were fun so it was worth it.

Got FS from lots of dancers before, BBBJ in the club a few times. The days of easy FS / takeout are gone and in my opinion not worth trying to chase it down as it does require time and money. After a few dances I asked her if she did private parties, clarified the details and was banging her at a hotel a few hours later. This was decades ago though. I don't have the patience or want to spend the money on chasing it down, so there is that. Unless you had an instant connection OR she offered it first, might be cheaper to meet someone via monger site. Unless you really just want the thrill of the hunt, then I completely get that haha!

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