NoVA SugarBabies

[DrSummer]

I take all good precautions mentioned (no explicit convo on the site, respectful to the girls, never reported anyone on the site etc. Etc), but I still got suspended. Even on offline convo, if I don't like where the conversation is heading, I either drop the convo nicely saying there is no match, or just block them and move on. I never get back arguing with them. But the site is full of nut cases. It just takes something trivial for them to go off and get all hyped up. Most likely one of those nut cases reported me. The site believes them rather than us. Just how it is. We need the pussy, and they know that. LOL.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

I was banned once last year. So I just made another account. No problem since (touchwood). Idea is to never discuss any gift, gas money or any financial amount. If they insist of discussing money on the site. Just block them. Trust me it's not worthed.

As for as sending messages. Most men including me send a lot of messages hoping something sticks. I travel a lot for business so can't help it. I don't think seeking cares about how many people you message in a day.

I report 3-4 fraudulent profiles in a week, take a screen shot from my google messages and attach it "upload evidence" (not sure if they ever check it). So far so good.

Happy cautious mongering friends.

[Stealfist]

I had an experience just after re-activating my account. I also sent out a lot of messages, and they were my standard opener, so a lot of the same verbiage. I don't think I needed to do anything, or if I did email customer service, I just explained what I just said, and within 24 hours, the profile was fully functioning. I believe they keep track of such things as demerits against your profile. If you truly did not do anything wrong, I would ask them if they could expunge the demerits, because if you did something in the future (by accident or just skirting the rules), you could get banned. ANd from everything I read, you really don't want that to happen.

I also suggest unless you are really covering your ass that you Do Not report girls for anything, even when they are clearly in the wrong. I had a girl message me w / all sorts of inappropriate financial talk, I reported her, and my OWN profile was suspended.

I was banned once last year. So I just made another account. No problem since (touchwood). Idea is to never discuss any gift, gas money or any financial amount. If they insist of discussing money on the site. Just block them. Trust me it's not worthed.

As for as sending messages. Most men including me send a lot of messages hoping something sticks. I travel a lot for business so can't help it. I don't think seeking cares about how many people you message in a day.

I report 3-4 fraudulent profiles in a week, take a screen shot from my google messages and attach it "upload evidence" (not sure if they ever check it). So far so good.

Happy cautious mongering friends.

[Rudy Wellz]

She doesn't look Ethiopian / East African in her photo. But then again, it's only one photo.

You are correct in that the photo doesn't have traditional Ethiopian / East African features. However, in person, you can definitely see it and the accent is a certain give away. In grad school, I had an Ethiopian roommate and dated an Ethiopian woman for over a year. Still recognize that accent.

[FarFarAway]

I had an experience just after re-activating my account. I also sent out a lot of messages, and they were my standard opener, so a lot of the same verbiage. I don't think I needed to do anything, or if I did email customer service, I just explained what I just said, and within 24 hours, the profile was fully functioning. I believe they keep track of such things as demerits against your profile. If you truly did not do anything wrong, I would ask them if they could expunge the demerits, because if you did something in the future (by accident or just skirting the rules), you could get banned. ANd from everything I read, you really don't want that to happen.

I also suggest unless you are really covering your ass that you Do Not report girls for anything, even when they are clearly in the wrong. I had a girl message me w / all sorts of inappropriate financial talk, I reported her, and my OWN profile was suspended.

Guys,

After 5 years on seeking, my account got suspended few days ago. The email says "suspension" not a ban. Does anyone know if there is a difference between a suspension and a ban or all get the same e-mail? The following is what the e-mail says.

"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.

Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:

A violation of our Terms of Use.

Actions that trigger our automated security system".

It gives me an option to e-mail customer service if I want to provide further details. Just wondering if I should e-mail or not. Anyone with any experience, would like to hear. I am usually careful what I discuss there, but it is possible a girl I declined reported me. Another possibility is that I sent a lots of messages a day before my subscription ended, it may have triggered something.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

[TheBarbarian]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-b12dc02555d6

She's real and and requested a phone call prior to meeting. We discussed her $800 PPM and I countered with $500 (or $600 if she hosts). Despite the PPM difference, I invited her for a M&G figuring that I could charm her off the high ask. We had a couple of glasses of wine. She is a pretty Ethiopian with a nice rack, professional, with a desire to travel and have fun. Didn't take off her large overcoat, so the remainder of her body remained a mystery. She's had 1 other arrangement which was organic and not through Seeking. She indicated that we should get together again, is definitely DTF, and followed the M&G with a with a request for dates. Agreed to meet for lunch and fun in a few days. On the day of, she confirmed the meeting and $800 PPM. Again, I countered with $500/$600. She never responded.

She doesn't look Ethiopian / East African in her photo. But then again, it's only one photo.

[DrSummer]

Guys,

After 5 years on seeking, my account got suspended few days ago. The email says "suspension" not a ban. Does anyone know if there is a difference between a suspension and a ban or all get the same e-mail? The following is what the e-mail says.

"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.

Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:

A violation of our Terms of Use.

Actions that trigger our automated security system".

It gives me an option to e-mail customer service if I want to provide further details. Just wondering if I should e-mail or not. Anyone with any experience, would like to hear. I am usually careful what I discuss there, but it is possible a girl I declined reported me. Another possibility is that I sent a lots of messages a day before my subscription ended, it may have triggered something.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

[ShortMan22]

I've reviewed her in the past, maybe like 2-3 years back. She's definitely the girl in the pictures. She became very high volume and Is a heavy weed smoker. Damage at the time was 250 and it was very easy to set up meet and greet. During the meet and greet it was very easy to convince her to slob on the knob. BBBJ was 7/10. She was decent at taking a pounding as well. As time progresses and her volume increased she became lazy and everything was done half-ass. That why I dropped her.

Some one elses experience might be different from mine.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-af12efce004b

[Stealfist]

Asked for money for rent when I contacted her at the end of January. Said they needed it immediately in order to make rent. When asked why they needed it then instead of the 1st of the month when all rent is due, she couldn't come up with a believable reason. Just to confirm she was a scammer, I offered to provide the rent just for meeting for coffee, and even that was a no go for her. She clearly has no intention of doing anything and is just trying to fish for a dumb / desperate man to pay her for doing nothing.

I reported her to seeking. Please do so aswell. Clean seeking initiative.

[Member #7156]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-1022990ba76c

Spoke with this one, seemed real and DTF, even scheduled time to meet. She's an au pair in DC, so wanted an Uber ride to meet, but insisted on me sending an Uber gift card instead of calling one for her or reimbursing her for the ride. She was very responsive the entire time until it was clear I wasn't going to send a gift card, then radio silence.

[Stealfist]

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-1265c90d0c8c

I can't see her profile any more. But she has 2 same photos on the profile with half cut face. One private image that doesn't show much either. Hope that helps.

[Member #7156]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-41c14115f113#.

Immediately wanted to be spoiled (3 or 4) and would "reward me" after. No thanks. Shame.

Asked for money for rent when I contacted her at the end of January. Said they needed it immediately in order to make rent. When asked why they needed it then instead of the 1st of the month when all rent is due, she couldn't come up with a believable reason. Just to confirm she was a scammer, I offered to provide the rent just for meeting for coffee, and even that was a no go for her. She clearly has no intention of doing anything and is just trying to fish for a dumb / desperate man to pay her for doing nothing.

[ChrisCarr]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...f-fd2dea0db473

Sorry can't access her page as she blocked me. So I My list of sins:

1) asked her to send a photo with a ok sign. Obviously she can't.

2) asked her to meet in a public area.

3) says she had a billionaire arrangement for 3. 5 years who gave her 10 k ppm. Guess she is back in the poor house looking desperately for Johns.

4) mentions she can't do video call because I would record her face while we talk.

5) told her to stop the bs send me a photo with any Washington DC Site.

What got me was a proper write up she copied from somewhere I guess.

This her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-1265c90d0c8c

[Rudy Wellz]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-b12dc02555d6

She's real and and requested a phone call prior to meeting. We discussed her $800 PPM and I countered with $500 (or $600 if she hosts). Despite the PPM difference, I invited her for a M&G figuring that I could charm her off the high ask. We had a couple of glasses of wine. She is a pretty Ethiopian with a nice rack, professional, with a desire to travel and have fun. Didn't take off her large overcoat, so the remainder of her body remained a mystery. She's had 1 other arrangement which was organic and not through Seeking. She indicated that we should get together again, is definitely DTF, and followed the M&G with a with a request for dates. Agreed to meet for lunch and fun in a few days. On the day of, she confirmed the meeting and $800 PPM. Again, I countered with $500/$600. She never responded.

[Senbonzakura]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-41c14115f113#.

Immediately wanted to be spoiled (3 or 4) and would "reward me" after. No thanks. Shame.

[JustLikeThe]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-e6e18758f584

Looked up details and confirmed trans and GPS.