Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[Plasma Spray]

At least in my experience. Happens to me too. Goea both ways. You may feel a little hurt. But next! LOL!

[Plasma Spray]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

How do you know you are also her side piece?

In any case, just like any stale relationship, one qould say you need some time away. And then not respond to her messages.

People can tell and will just move on.

[Caribe]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Are your visits routine. Is she the only one servicing you at that level? Or, do you have a wide rotation so that you see her every 2 or three weeks? Or maybe you need an enhancer.

[RedRoddddd]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Tell her you are moving away / across the country. If you ever come back, you will come and visit. Kiss & bye bye.

[Christophe1]

Makes perfect sense to me. I've had girlfriends who were turned on by nipple play, stimulating themselves during sex. So I just wondered if it was mostly a gender thing, as you point out, or if I was just built funny.

Last time I saw Sunny in K-town I started sucking on her nipples enough that she got turned on. During sex she gave me a couple of properly placed double nipple pinches that were such a turn on that it got me even harder and felt good. I have been with many Chinese women and never got much out of it and just allowed it and hoped they would work their way to my dick. With the right person to me it was stimulating and keyed me in that I could bite her nips and it IMO made for a more advanced session.

[Grimmy23]

That ro. Co commercial that has the woman saying, "I had no idea that a little tiny prick could be so powerful": Does anyone else besides me find that gut-busting funny?

Lift Her Up.

Yeah that was pretty hilarious. I'm surprised they got away with that.

[Lift Her Up]

That ro. Co commercial that has the woman saying, "I had no idea that a little tiny prick could be so powerful": Does anyone else besides me find that gut-busting funny?

Lift Her Up.

[Heartless Jay]

Nothing big for me.

Let's review what the deal is for women. The prime physiological function of nipples is to feed the offspring. Mom needs a reward for that. When baby is dining, it causes the release of oxytocin. This is a hormone that affects cognition and promotes feelings of warmth, attachment, and love. Increases the bond to the kid, so mom stays around to raise it to independence. Some will recognize other things that cause oxytocin release, such as orgasms. And some women breast-feeding get them. There are some really hot videos out on the web of this, I recommend them.

It is intrinsically different for women than men to have nipples stimulated, because we don't have any biological imperative to get a benefit therefrom. I can also believe, just because of natural genetic variation, that there are women who don't particularly get anything out of nursing, and also wouldn't care if we licked / sucked their nipples in a sexual way. However, in many women nipple stim is an important component of arousal, and for guys, like me, I enjoy doing it. Large puffy nipples are a real turn-on in porn. I've not had an IRL woman with anything like those I've seen. I might have an old photo of a past lover who I really did enjoy, she had native american heritage. It does seem some asian women people report in massage parlors heareabouts sometimes have impressive nipples.

Makes perfect sense to me. I've had girlfriends who were turned on by nipple play, stimulating themselves during sex. So I just wondered if it was mostly a gender thing, as you point out, or if I was just built funny.

[FarFarAway]

Do you mongers get anything out of having your nipples fiddled with? I've had so many women twiddle or suck on my nipples thinking it's something that I want done, and maybe it's just me but it does absolutely nothing for me. They're not dead, I mean if I pinch them I feel pain, but there's zero pleasurable sensitivity going on. I figure it must be good for some of you all, otherwise why would so many women think it's bringing men pleasure. Need some feedback before I start asking the girl just who the fuck told you this was a good thing to do.

Nothing big for me.

Let's review what the deal is for women. The prime physiological function of nipples is to feed the offspring. Mom needs a reward for that. When baby is dining, it causes the release of oxytocin. This is a hormone that affects cognition and promotes feelings of warmth, attachment, and love. Increases the bond to the kid, so mom stays around to raise it to independence. Some will recognize other things that cause oxytocin release, such as orgasms. And some women breast-feeding get them. There are some really hot videos out on the web of this, I recommend them.

It is intrinsically different for women than men to have nipples stimulated, because we don't have any biological imperative to get a benefit therefrom. I can also believe, just because of natural genetic variation, that there are women who don't particularly get anything out of nursing, and also wouldn't care if we licked / sucked their nipples in a sexual way. However, in many women nipple stim is an important component of arousal, and for guys, like me, I enjoy doing it. Large puffy nipples are a real turn-on in porn. I've not had an IRL woman with anything like those I've seen. I might have an old photo of a past lover who I really did enjoy, she had native american heritage. It does seem some asian women people report in massage parlors heareabouts sometimes have impressive nipples.

[Ace McNasty]

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

This actually hapened to an older relative of mine. He was diagnosed with prostate cancer. You seem to be in the same age group where this diagnosis is plausible. Just say you are scheduled for surgery then radiation. After his treatments, he was in remission, but had permanent ED as a terrible side effect. So no more boom boom for him.

I would not tell the woman you are dumping that you have some STD. That might come back to haunt you. Who will criticize a cancer survivor?

[FreeWally]

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Your dad died and you need time.

Traveling the world.

Your friend is taking you to Thailand to show you his top 5 18 year olds.

Through therapy you realize you are truly a woman inside.

You have HIV.

[James D 2004]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

Caught something.

[Assaholic]

So I've been seeing this woman for 6-7 years. She's in her late 30's early 40's, me breaking into my 60's. She's still attractive, has a nice bod, is very smart and has her own burliness, and is very amicable and has never said no to anything I asked her to do. Problem is she apparently doesn't cut it for Jr. Anymore. I don't know if it's me getting older or if it's the familiarity factor or something else. With her, Jr. Does wake up, puts out a valiant effort, but in a minute or two goes back to sleep and doesn't deliver the goods. Same Jr. Is a total party animal with other girls whom I find attractive and even some whom I don't. So at this point, I just want to break if off and go seek some greener pastures, but I want to do it as nicely as possible. I don't want to leave her on bad terms or hurt her feelings.

So, my question to the esteemed members here is: how do you break it off with your ATF?

[DaveSC]

Grimmy, Thanks for this obseration. I didn't realize so many weren't turned on by it. I thought it was just a pathological few.

Lift Her Up.

I just figure they are that guys like licking and sucking and touching the girls nipples, so maybe it's just a human thing, a body thing?

Do unto others?

I don't mind it, but she is not bad nor good. I do like that it puts her face much closer to me (my eyes) which is more intimate and enjoyable. My teeth aren't great so I don't get much on the lfk or dfk, so having her face close is about as girlfriend as I often see.

On that subject, I guess many guys dig this but girls, suck the stick but leave my eggs out of your mouth. I don't want unnecessary squeezes there, or some random out of whack twist that hurts way more than it should.

[Lift Her Up]

. . . for the girls. Some love having their tits sucked and some can't stand it. Most tolerate it because they know we love suckin on them but not all enjoy it.

Grimmy, Thanks for this obseration. I didn't realize so many weren't turned on by it. I thought it was just a pathological few.

Lift Her Up.