General Reports

[Gemini10]

My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.

When I was married I didn't monger my wife left me for a coworker may they live happy ever after. I monger because I wasnt ready to be in another relationship, I am now but women are worst than men in fact they are the new men stone players. The better they look the less you can trust them. So mongering is fast cheaper no strings attached its like ordering a pizza. Most of these women might as well post ads because they just as bad as providers stacking up body counts demanding money. So for anyone not wanting to get into the dating scene mongering is the way to go. Because of our kids I let her have everything moved here from LA and started over. I am looking for a nice down to earth lady to date not one of them short dress wearing long finger nails chest out thots. Providers provide a good service for those in need and for those in greed. When I meet my mate I will know longer monger I am not a cheater even after being cheated on.

[RobotRock]

My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.

Yeah, after nine months of honeymoon period of the relationship (and with a beautiful Latina), with the best intimacy of my life, her drive went over a cliff. Been like this for years now, even before kids. She has a lot of issues she needs to work through. She at one point recently was fine with me having sex with others as long as it was only physical but got worried about feelings after seeing texts with a FWB. I need touch so badly, though. So yeah, I'm newer here, trying to figure this out as I don't have a ton of funds for this hobby. Massage HJs are nice, but I would love to figure out a great, ideally Latina, GFE escort.

Stay safe.

[LuccaMac]

Bro, any updates on this? You could always say you were setting up a bachlor party for a coworker and called a number a friend / coworker gave you? Lame I know but you got to deflect or redirect! Unless you want to come clean LOL. I text a spinner AA lady the other day for some info, when I said I could be there around lunch time she said I needed to send the dontaiton now. I was like naw not really, I will give it to you when I get there. THEN the exhortation, I laughed. I was using a burner app and I guess the last guy who had it was linked to his cell phone? She started sending me screenshots of a guys name and family and threatended to tell them! I would have let it drop but didn't want some poor schmuck taking the fall for something he didn't do (or enjoy) so then I threatenend her with calling various LEO agencies. She went silent, tried to find her ad to post it but it was already gone.

I remember there was a guy on the other board, Beefeater, who had litteraly thousands of reviews. Tons of money and seeing new women like 3 xs a week. Rumor was it didn't go great for him when his wife found out, removed all his reviews.

Here is an update: And thank you for all the responses and thoughts.

I use burner phone numbers and pay attention to protecting personal indentifiable information. My number is from another area code and not traceable with open source tools. (LE could find it most likely). Overall I think my opsec is tight with this hobby. Clearly not tight enough. The person contacting my sig other is from Miami area. Of the two I met one was Colombian and the other Russian in South Beach. I have never seen them active in North Carolina- so don't worry as its not anyone posting here. I've concluded it is one of these two. They only way I think she received my info was from the hotel there. I did check-in and kept my real name and not an alias for the contact screen. Perhaps the front desk provided info? IDK. All I know is she contacted her via DM on social media. (IG). I traced the IG account and its some new account with few followers. I wish I could figure out a way to unveil the sender there. Unfortunately there is no phone number to cross reference and search.

I have been separated for some time now and allowed to see others, but this really could F up the agreement. Frustrating to say the least.

[ParlorShogun]

My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.

[Bouinage]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.

LM.

Bro, any updates on this? You could always say you were setting up a bachlor party for a coworker and called a number a friend / coworker gave you? Lame I know but you got to deflect or redirect! Unless you want to come clean LOL. I text a spinner AA lady the other day for some info, when I said I could be there around lunch time she said I needed to send the dontaiton now. I was like naw not really, I will give it to you when I get there. THEN the exhortation, I laughed. I was using a burner app and I guess the last guy who had it was linked to his cell phone? She started sending me screenshots of a guys name and family and threatended to tell them! I would have let it drop but didn't want some poor schmuck taking the fall for something he didn't do (or enjoy) so then I threatenend her with calling various LEO agencies. She went silent, tried to find her ad to post it but it was already gone.

I remember there was a guy on the other board, Beefeater, who had litteraly thousands of reviews. Tons of money and seeing new women like 3 xs a week. Rumor was it didn't go great for him when his wife found out, removed all his reviews.

[Gemini10]

If you go to the following website and search a person name and city, you can get there phone number. I search for my name and it showed my current cell phone number. It also gives a list of some of your closes relatives that will also show their number. https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/.

OMG I put my brothers name in search and it showed his his number his wife and kids name other cites he lived in his old landline number that is crazy. This is why we should not pillow talk with providers I use a text app and all they know is Gemini. But you guys who want to be their friends its the risk you take. Thanks Bro.

[King0453]

If you go to the following website and search a person name and city, you can get there phone number. I search for my name and it showed my current cell phone number. It also gives a list of some of your closes relatives that will also show their number. https://www.truepeoplesearch.com/.

[KnowBody]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.

LM.

I'm sure you'll get some other decent advice on here, but one thing I'd do right away & to start is to block the crazy girl's number on your wife's phone. Get it when she is asleep or in the shitter. That might buy you some time to figure out how to shut down ole crazy girl's other attempts. It is shitty that they would betray their clients like that.

[Banger12]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess..

You're fucked.

The only good that can come out of this is you disclosing the stupid shit you may have done to get your private life info compromised, so that others on here learn what not to do.

It doesn't take much: left your cell phone open, real name, work / company info, why disclose marriage status to being with? We reverse search these chicks all the time and these chicks can do the same.

You might try to lie your self out of a short term conflict but your wife will eventually catch on.

[Gemini10]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.

LM.

If she contacting your wife what can you do but the question is even if you using your real number instead of a text app how would she get your wifes number? My ex and I had separate cell phones even though I wasnt cheating or in the hobby when I was married if I were know one could call her using my number. Just how did this person contact your wife does she have your address and went to your house? Anyway don't see her anymore and get a text now app number always uninstall app before getting home so providers can't call or text you at home. When I meet Ms Right I will know longer hobby or have a side chick its just not in my nature but I understand a lot of mongers are married but they must take precautions so the hobby doesn't follow them home. Always leave wallets in the car don't use real phone number don't get into conversations about where you work or live or anything about your family. Its just a business transaction like going to a store. But when you try to become friends with them always in contact you will share info just like we do with any other friend. Don't let the kindness fool ya these women are criminals who hang with worst criminals. And for the time we with them we are criminals also unless we in a state where its legal. Part of Nevada on the Reno side is legal the Las Vegas side isn't. Can you tell me the other state where its legal?

[King0453]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.

LM.

First you need to see what are some clues that you left behind that this provider could have used. Did you use your personal cellphone, did you send her a picture for verification, did you video chat, or did you pillow talk and reveal personal information without even thinking about it? Once you get a good idea where she got enough information to identify you, then you can come up with a good way to handle it. I just have a feeling that you gave her enough information that you may have to tell your wife the truth.

[LuccaMac]

I have a crazy one contacting my significant other. FCK! Annoying to say the least. I am not sure how she figured out the contact number. How should I handle this? Any thoughts appreciated. What a mess.

LM.

[FourthTwin]

Is "your brother" actually you? The way this is told it certainly seems like a personal admission lowkey bragging.

Trust me, it's not me. Why would I come here and announce to everyone that I cut the condoms of girls I see. What would I have to gain by that? It's not like the people here are going to give me an award for it. There are plenty of providers that allow BBCIP so all you have to do is ask and negotiate. If they say no move on and find someone else.

[TonguesOfFun]

My brother, who also frequents escorts told me the dumbest thing last week. He told me that he sees this one girl who looks to be about 18 or 19 so he has this theory that she probably hasn't been with too many guys. My thing is this. If she's posting her services on a site then she's probably had more dick in her than the average girl. Anyway, he says that this girl requires condoms but what he'll do is when they're not looking he'll cut the condom so they think he has one on but in all actuality he's going in bareback. He told me he has nutted in this particular girl a number of times without her knowing. I told him, "oh, she knows because cum doesn't just stay in there, it oozes out at some point. " I then asked him what he'd do if the girl gets pregnant and he said that's not his concern because chances are she won't know who the daddy is. So on one hand you're saying she's young so she probably hasn't had that much dick in her but on the other hand she's seeing so many it'll be hard to figure out who the father is. Not to mention any STDs he could possibly get. He then catches an attitude with me saying "well you BB girls too and cum in them. " Yes, when that's agreed upon up front. I'd never go see a girl who required condoms then cut the condom when she's not looking. I have a few regular girls I see, who aren't escorts per se, but will let me see them for a little compensation. And yes, they do BB with me. When they aren't on BC then I will gladly pull out and finish on them but I'm not going to finish in them without their knowledge or consent. I told him that's like going to a grocery store that has self-checkout and not swiping a few items. If no one sees you doing it that doesn't mean those items are free, it's still shoplifting.

Have you guys ever heard of a guy intentionally cutting a condom so he can hit BB without her knowledge.

Is "your brother" actually you? The way this is told it certainly seems like a personal admission lowkey bragging.

[J Simp]

BTU is correct. Years ago, the Wiki Leaks guy was charged with rape for removing his condom during consensual intercourse with 2 different girls. Yes, both girls consented to the intercourse but did not consent to the bareback.

Your brother is a rapist and POS. Intentionally violating someone by not disclosing that you are fucking bare back, when one party has not agreed to it is rape and it is despicable. Your brother should be arrested. This is why STD rates are so high. He's exposing her and himself to a potential death sentence and at the very least an incurable disease.

That is a huge violation. If you know who this girl is, you need to tell her and anybody else he's seeing. Brother or not, he should be reported to the police.