Sugar Daddy Sites

**Murrican** · 11-04-23 10:35

Originally Posted by Chupacabra [View Original Post]

There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).

Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.

Ok time for me to be judgmental and prick-ish.

I find the dinners with these girls interesting. In an anthropological way. They really do live in a separate universe. My life is surrounded by people like me. My friend group and my professional group are all highly educated, professional class, and they speak a sort of American dialect that signals your participation in this class. For example everyone knows "where did you go to school" means college and it's a proxy for other things. Or it's totally normal to talk about macroeconomic policy and have an opinion on it.

And then I find myself sitting in front of some seeking girl. She does nails or hair but really wants to run her own salon. Or she is a nanny but does TikTok videos and really wants to be an influencer. Or she's bored as an office manager and dreams of being a stay at home wife.

I always just listen. I'm always very encouraging, even if in my head, I'm thinking "influencer" is not a paid career destination you're likely to reach.

It really is interesting just to be reminded that you live in a stupid little bubble of robots just like you. But it's comfortable at least.

**Chupacabra** · 11-04-23 00:36

Originally Posted by Murrican [View Original Post]

There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.

I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.

Thanks for the tip. I'm a longtime single guy, so my OpSec is terrible. Haha But it's so nice not to worry.

Some info to share: Every good looking chick who's dtf will ask for $1 k. It's almost like they are all using the same playbook. If you negotiate from there, the truly hot ones will ghost you, the good looking ones will drop to 700-750, and the more cute girl next door types will drop to 400-600. I have no idea how Hollywood does it, but that's what I'm seeing. These are mainly white chicks, some asian, which probably explains the GPS. For reference I'm mid 40's, fit, gl, used to kill it in my 30's.

The other m. O. , which I haven't sampled yet, is getting some smaller amount (200 ish) to go to lunch or dinner and negotiate ppm from there. These are usually the really hot ones. I haven't pursued because I assume it's a scam. Free meal and a tip on top. LOL.

There are still a few that seem traditional, who want to grab an (expensive) meal and get to know you, so these may be the few legit sugar babies still out there, but they have all been so vapid that I couldn't summon the energy to go (plus I'm on the wagon so that makes the prospect of sitting through dinner with one, with the chance of getting blueballed, just a bridge too gar).

Anyway my two cents. I'll probably go back to straight escorts, K-girls.

**JollyJohnRoger** · 11-03-23 18:24

Originally Posted by BeeHive5 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-ecb145ad1436

Anyone try her out? Looks hot.

Is she real?

Yes, tried out. She is definitely hot. See the other posts regarding her pimp / booker / boyfriend and blackmail, etc.

**Murrican** · 11-03-23 10:30

Originally Posted by Chupacabra [View Original Post]

I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.

There's a setting in seeking, if you're a paid member, where it doesn't notify the other person if you have viewed them. You should use it.

I realized how creepy I looked when I'd check out the same girl a few times over days. She must've been like "why this dude always checking my profile?" Good switch to flip. Only works if paying.

**RanManCan** · 11-02-23 19:51

Nice looking pics, but check out that video!

Nekoshou - https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...b551fb6bbcbc2b

**Chupacabra** · 11-02-23 02:31

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

One thing I noticed since signing back up. There are no foreign profiles hitting me up. Used to be like 6 a day. Now it's zero. Big improvement.

I made the mistake of looking in Colombia (was planning a Medellin trip) and thought hell, why not Venezuela. Now I'm probably more popular than their star soccer player. Haha.

**Chupacabra** · 11-02-23 02:27

Originally Posted by RanManCan [View Original Post]

I'm curious about this too! This is the closest I could find, short for "Live Laugh Love Girl" - but could just as easily be a booker.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/defi...%20Love%20Girl

I asked one what it means, but no response yet.

**BeeHive5** · 11-02-23 00:35

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-ecb145ad1436

Anyone try her out? Looks hot.

Is she real?

**FirstClass1** · 11-01-23 20:44

Originally Posted by Danny2 [View Original Post]

Is what's your price less strict than SA?

They're owned by the same company as SA. If you get suspended / banned from one site, it'll affect your profile on the other.

**Danny2** · 11-01-23 19:04

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I was too young and not established back then. Still I think of what could have been. When I finally did get on I had women (incl. Asians) discounting themselves because I was relatively young. Never coming back LOL.

LOL I feel the same way about the CL times.

**Danny2** · 11-01-23 18:55

Is what's your price less strict than SA?

**Murrican** · 11-01-23 10:08

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I keep an amazingly long list of all those I have been in touch w / from the site, their info, etc. Sometimes I will see a profile on the site I recognize, someone I had been interested in but never moved forward with. But also at a time (mostly) that I don't have a paid membership, so I can't message them on the site. If I am lucky, I will recall enough info I can go back and get their phone # from my records, and then I can say something like "I saw your profile on seeking recently, we were in touch there earlier" and re-introduce myself.

Not for everyone, but I maintain a password-protected spreadsheet in which I document every girl, a face photo, contact info, age, body description, date, and a few words about what I thought of her. Amazingly helpful. So later when choosing a girl, or when I go back to a city, it's easy to remember. Oh yeah that was the girl who actually was 10 lbs heavier than her profile photos, but who was a great dinner date. Oh yeah that was the girl who does nails at a salon but wants to invest in stocks so remember to ask about that.

**HardToPost** · 10-31-23 23:36

Originally Posted by AceMcNasty [View Original Post]

Slow day in Cincinnati? Bam!

You newbies and aspiring daddies thinking of jumping in the bowl should subscribe to this guy. He is cursed with knowledge. One of 4-5 members here that I respect and enjoy reading. The rest of the angry male Karens, jealous drama queens, and brilliant Einsteins are nothing but static and a constant source of daily laughter for me.

Agree 100% whether it is sugaring or escorting. My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL.

Perfect example is one of my current SB below, a 22 yo hot asf brunette. Let's just call her Becca, because she looks like the young Rebecca Hall from the Iron Man movie. Brand new to the bowl, and still naive and innocent. Lets me do whatever I want to her body, and her PPM is so cheap, sometimes I don't even pay her and we just hang out. Once you establish a connection and it becomes organic, the amazing sex follows. But I am experienced enough to know the shelf life is not very long, so enjoy your regulars as much as you can. It's fun until it isn't.

No condom. CIP and CIM as much as I can give.

Which website did you find this girl? Which area are you in? Seeking has older women. Not as much good looking women or young woman anymore.

**TopGun9** · 10-31-23 15:40

Originally Posted by AceMcNasty [View Original Post]

My specialty is to hit them fast and hit them hard as soon as they create a profile, whether on Seeking, PD, or Hx. Once that account is active, you are working against the clock, and the girls will become jaded, pissed off, or worse, suddenly realize "what they're worth" LOL

This right here is the only strategy I use to find good, cheap, and fresh pussies.