NoVA SugarBabies

[TomFordModel]

34? I thought over 29 is too old for you, are you loosening your standards?

https://instagram.com/tamara?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

For her yes.

[Mcsylv]

The people that are playing in NYC this one is smoking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-f8642e42bc48


I'm chatting with her but I know I can't afford her ass. This is probably a 1 k plus.

34? I thought over 29 is too old for you, are you loosening your standards?

[Mcsylv]

If you check out the other rddt forums you will realize a huge number of legit SDs offer generous $$$ just to have m&g or dinner with a hot babe.

But for us Johns here (99% of us here are more John than SD) looking for HOs (LOL OK, UTR hos parading as sbs) its an inconvenience. But it does help them weed us out and vice versa.

It's not about being Johns or being SD's, it's about being rich or being poor. This forum caters towards people on the lower side of the income spectrum, just look at the other forums. Check the escorts are discussed in the escorts section. How many people are talking about seeing $500+/ hr girls advertising on Eros or Tryst with professional photos and a website, compared to $100/ qv hoes on Listcrawler and Skipthegames who are barely 6's on a good day.

There used to be a rdt page called pornstarescorts or something where people discussed booking porn stars through agencies or directly through their Eros ads. These are women charging $1000+ an hour, and there's dudes who regularly book them. Not like, once a year on their birthday, at least several times a year, maybe more. Those dudes aren't the same ones here trying to find $50 car blowjobs.

My main gripe with DC isn't the cost, I can afford paying 1,000 for a multi-hour date as long as she's pleasant to talk to, very beautiful, in her 20's, we're doing multiple rounds, and not using condoms. It's that there's nobody worth paying 1,000 to. This isn't the same gripe 90% of the people here have, their gripe is literally that they can't afford $1000 dates every week and girls should be charging "realistic rates" and gosh darnit they'd be able to score hot 18 yo pussy for $80 and a happy meal if it wasn't for those stupid kids (simps) ruining everything, like a fucking scooby do villain says.

[TomFordModel]

The people that are playing in NYC this one is smoking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-f8642e42bc48


I'm chatting with her but I know I can't afford her ass. This is probably a 1 k plus.

[DickLongwood]

Stumbled across this, which seems extremely relevant:

https://x.com/stillgray/status/1717147923816046870

This is what we're dealing with.

Life can be just a little bit hard. Figure it out!

[DickLongwood]

Met with her in Silver Spring by a Safeway. Went to an IHOP two minutes away. When she took me to her garage, I told her I will pay when in the room. She refused and said maybe could meet another time. Goes by Dash Diva.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-7423aa22fcec

She had might as well go by "Cash and Dash Diva" or something like "I Will Rob You."

[Shier]

What struck me was that she mentioned that what I offered her "only covered half her rent" (she has roommates). Well, duh. When I was starting out, I counted on a quarter of my salary, a full work-week, to cover my rent. You think you're going to cover yours by going on a date?? By the way, now instead of getting what I offered, you're now taking in: zero.

Stumbled across this, which seems extremely relevant:

https://x.com/stillgray/status/1717147923816046870

This is what we're dealing with.

[IanPrax]

Ivanka94.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-76085d67030a

After 4-5 yrs in the bowl I thought I'd seen enough scams to know when to snuff them out, this one caught me slipping. Chatted her up on the site, goes by Sofia. We moved to text, after four or five texts back-and-forth determining that we are on the same page in regards to what we were looking for I asked if she wanted to exchange pics. She said she'd prefer to video chat since you can fake / manipulate pictures. So I said fine, we video chatted for about five minutes, very pretty Latina girl, very innocent looking. No tats, nothing" slutty" or sketchy about her at all. We just kind of felt one another out then made plans to meet the next day. She said she doesn't have a car and that she'd be willing to host as long as we can meet somewhere in public first to make sure she's comfortable. She lives all the way in Silver Spring, so I figured instead of Ubering her to me plus saving the money on a hotel room it would be worth it so I agreed to meet her in her neck of the woods. We decided to meet for coffee at the IHOP near her place. We met for coffee, talked for probably 45 minutes. Talked about all our different experiences on the site, easy conversation lots of smalltalk. She seemed totally cool, totally normal. There was nothing sketchy about her, didn't seem anxious or nervous at all. She mentioned to me a couple of times that she had gotten scammed and so she was a little bit weary of it happening again. I assured her that I wasn't going to scam her.

Met with her in Silver Spring by a Safeway. Went to an IHOP two minutes away. When she took me to her garage, I told her I will pay when in the room. She refused and said maybe could meet another time. Goes by Dash Diva.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-7423aa22fcec

[Max #01]

Shier, I am in Portland for a meeting and I hit up several SB's. Targeted late 30's / early 40's (but attractive with nice bodies) as I didn't want to waste time with younger SB's who have a propensity to cancel / flake / show up late, etc. Told them that I travel to Portland often for business. Received a couple of request for $1000 and one wanted dinner at a 5 star restaurant and said her rate was $650 and hour and the meter starts when she begins her 30 minute Uber ride to into town. However, connected Thursday with a MILF for $300 plus dinner / drinks and had a great time. It was so good that we are doing an overnight. Love morning sex.

So, while I agree that it's way harder now than 5-7 years ago, it remains a good option. Just takes more work. Like you, I try and get an idea of how much they want prior to the M&G.

Yeah. It seems as if we have lost the middle ground of dependable and attractive escorts in the $$ range. (Think about the many DC escort agencies not that long ago that advertised quality women.) Today, the SWs with an addiction (regretful enough on its own) who can get on STGs are now considered "escorts". Un-addicted women are on SB and are now "sugar babies" for porn star donations. Past & present porn stars are advertising for mortgage payment rates.

[ShortMan22]

And while we're at it, can we stop paying average chicks $500 and up? Post after post of dudes paying half a yard to chicks that would most likely go lower if you stood your ground.

This is so true. I've had cases where I stood my ground and the chick ends up caving in. I don't ever try to low ball these Sbs, some have pushed the envelope way too far in my view.

[BobDingle10]

Please stop paying for meet and greets. Been running into more and more SBs that are saying it's their standard. Please for the sake of everyone, stop.

And while we're at it, can we stop paying average chicks $500 and up? Post after post of dudes paying half a yard to chicks that would most likely go lower if you stood your ground.

[HeyDuhman]

Please stop paying for meet and greets. Been running into more and more SBs that are saying it's their standard. Please for the sake of everyone, stop.

If you check out the other rddt forums you will realize a huge number of legit SDs offer generous $$$ just to have m&g or dinner with a hot babe.

But for us Johns here (99% of us here are more John than SD) looking for HOs (LOL OK, UTR hos parading as sbs) its an inconvenience. But it does help them weed us out and vice versa.

[DasHottCalla]

Please stop paying for meet and greets. Been running into more and more SBs that are saying it's their standard. Please for the sake of everyone, stop.

[AnonDemon69]

Man, sometimes I think I've just about had it with Seeking.

Got hit up for a ridiculous amount just after the M&G. We had a nice meeting, and agreed we'd discuss details in text afterwards. She said she wanted "four figures" per meet.

What struck me was that she mentioned that what I offered her "only covered half her rent" (she has roommates). Well, duh. When I was starting out, I counted on a quarter of my salary, a full work-week, to cover my rent. You think you're going to cover yours by going on a date?? By the way, now instead of getting what I offered, you're now taking in: zero.

Note to self: got to go back to getting that out of the way much much earlier, before the M&G, like I used to do. Would definitely have saved time in this case.

I am running into similar problems. The minimum a decent looking 6 or 7 wants is 500. Any others that one would consider an 8 or 9 want 800 to 1 k. Only the older crowd, lower income, or chubbier ones seem to be ok with 300 to 400, but mostly 400 tbh. I am about to give up.

[Rudy Wellz]

Man, sometimes I think I've just about had it with Seeking.

Got hit up for a ridiculous amount just after the M&G. We had a nice meeting, and agreed we'd discuss details in text afterwards. She said she wanted "four figures" per meet.

What struck me was that she mentioned that what I offered her "only covered half her rent" (she has roommates). Well, duh. When I was starting out, I counted on a quarter of my salary, a full work-week, to cover my rent. You think you're going to cover yours by going on a date?? By the way, now instead of getting what I offered, you're now taking in: zero.

Note to self: got to go back to getting that out of the way much much earlier, before the M&G, like I used to do. Would definitely have saved time in this case.

Shier, I am in Portland for a meeting and I hit up several SB's. Targeted late 30's / early 40's (but attractive with nice bodies) as I didn't want to waste time with younger SB's who have a propensity to cancel / flake / show up late, etc. Told them that I travel to Portland often for business. Received a couple of request for $1000 and one wanted dinner at a 5 star restaurant and said her rate was $650 and hour and the meter starts when she begins her 30 minute Uber ride to into town. However, connected Thursday with a MILF for $300 plus dinner / drinks and had a great time. It was so good that we are doing an overnight. Love morning sex.

So, while I agree that it's way harder now than 5-7 years ago, it remains a good option. Just takes more work. Like you, I try and get an idea of how much they want prior to the M&G.