Sugar Daddy Sites

**IronClad999** · 09-29-23 22:19

Originally Posted by HeyDuhman [View Original Post]

I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.

Go for it!

Sounds reliable vs other common themed sites; less chance of bugs and fishy plots respectfully.

**IronClad999** · 09-29-23 22:17

Originally Posted by Avocat [View Original Post]

It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.

I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!

This chick is ok hot borderline; but if many guys mrsp on her is 1 k, theres a good chance she'll jack it to 2 k soon cas she thinks enough peeps will fall for the pussy.

**IronClad999** · 09-29-23 22:16

Originally Posted by Christophe1 [View Original Post]

Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.

Pretty challenging to find genuine partners nowadays chris; esp on top of jaded chicks / brainwashed with materialistic characters that's blinding them into gps tactics (gold shovelers). Its more damaging on our end if we try wasting our time vs them chasing us; so much ego games esp when they show their true colors before the prenups LOL.

**HollywoodGuy** · 09-29-23 22:05

Originally Posted by Lexx1 [View Original Post]

That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.

While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.

The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.

The quintessential SB in the way that many new SD's would like to define them (a first timer, or at least monogamous), barely exists after the age of 20 and sometimes much younger. And if they do fall into that practically unicorn status, I prefer to tell them they are getting an allowance for being a good little girl. But honestly I have rarely had that conversation in the way that you describe it. But I have had a few flake on me mid-date for the reasons you allude to. Not even a HJ.

Also I just bought a snappy new euro suv, but as I like to low ball I will continue to pick them up in one of my older model cars. Not that I have much dough anyway. But very easy for a young girl to confuse a normal car payment with someone that might have a few dollars. Although none of them would confuse my humble abode as anyone with serious money.

So never flash the car, the cash, the house, the watch or the job. I always describe myself as just a hard working guy. Code for struggling a bit in these bidenomic times, because no girl even cares how much money you have, only how much you are willing to spend. I have been a jeans and t-shirt guy my entire life. Game is all about communication, nothing more.

**Lexx1** · 09-29-23 18:56

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?

That's not really a sugar baby anymore. And can be considered a pro or UTR at this point. Sounds like she's seeing multiple guys as well.

While she probably won't call herself a Pro or UTR and use the nicer term sugarbaby as her label. That's technically what she is now. If the price is right with her and you like what she offers in the sack. Then it's up to you if you want to keep seeing her or just keep communications open for the future.

The only time I've had a girl refer to it as something in terms as "sex work" is when negotiating in the beginning. Where some girls, who are completely fresh / new to arrangements might say they feel like a hooker or pro if they take money for sex. Then I discuss with them not to see it that way and just see it as help. Most of the time that convinces them to give it a shot and start the arrangement with me. But a few still can't see themselves doing it and it's a no go. I just move on the next girl.

**Dsprdo** · 09-29-23 18:18

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?

I have had multiple girls that I hadn't seen in a while for one reason or another hit me up wanting to get together again. If you want to see her again keep the lines open.

**MidnightDabber** · 09-29-23 16:11

I met up with an sb a few times then out of nowhere told me she is burnt out on sex work and sugaring. I was wondering if you guys heard this and if they ever come back to sex work? How would you guys deal with someone like this? Ignore her? Block her? Keep it open ended so she can come back?

**Lexx1** · 09-29-23 15:38

Originally Posted by RanManCan [View Original Post]

I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.

Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.

If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-928b8a3cc31d

Everything about her profile shows she's not interested in hooking up for cash help. She even says a pretty girl on his shoulder. That's speak for being just arm candy. I've hooked up with babies just as pretty for less than that. Like you said lesson learned. Just reading that profile I would have skipped over it and tagged GPS right off the bat.

**RanManCan** · 09-29-23 15:26

I met prettyprincessxxx a year ago for dinner, I gave her a small allowance for that platonic date. She insisted on bringing a friend and I relented because she's fantastically gorgeous. Never heard from her again.

Messaging her now, she doesn't remember me from my new profile (fine by me). She wants $350 for platonic date, I couldn't talk her down for anything. . . I've already learned my lesson.

If anyone wants to spend $350 to likely get nowhere with a gorgeous gal, let us know if you can get past the rinser stage!

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-928b8a3cc31d

**Christophe1** · 09-29-23 12:18

Originally Posted by Avocat [View Original Post]

It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.

I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!

Thanks for the incite. I always felt stupid sitting on the computer for hours trying to hook up with women who wanted some form of transactional relationship while I was missing out on life. Then I realized it is much easier to meet women out and about in the real world. I can take my computer anywhere, like the beach, coffee shop, even on top of Runyon Canyon, and hand out In and Out burgers to the hikers as they pass by. Maybe set up a table in the early morning and give out the Krispy Kremes. It is actually easier to meet hot women this way since most guys aren't approaching them. Online a woman is going to treat you like an ATM and you compete with lots of losers who may have more money than you. Having grown up with Hollywooders the question many of them had was are we REAL friends or is it just about the money? I guess reality has become the web world, and no one wants to be their true self covering their skin with tattoos, dying their hair, filling themselves with toy parts and buying their encounters. The hand we've been dealt.

**IronClad999** · 09-29-23 08:11

Originally Posted by Murrican [View Original Post]

I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.

Most of the times we have way more to lose than the providers themselves; that's the gaming structure in this market.

**Avocat** · 09-29-23 01:50

It's a lot of work swimming in the sugar bowl. The SB's deluge you, but it's nice, a little like the strippers in the club stopping by. Some of these girls have game, others are just "wan to get together tonight? My number is _ In LA every single girl wanted $1,000! Crazy, before Covid was the last time I did this and it was $300 for most and supermodels wanted $500. I think I have a little some game and even so, that didn't work. Although there was an Asian (Grace) with GPS but was hot, but not worth $1 K.

I think I found one for tomorrow, but this shit is tiring!

**FarFarAway** · 09-28-23 11:55

Not sure my concerns are clear. My worry is just that, being at the same place, the chance is greater that I could run into a SB IRL, and she would thereby surmise my true identity, and would therefore have something to hold over me, vis-a-vis my SO, for example.

I would presume a young woman w / a professional ambition would have the same concern w / discretion on the site, and would do as much as I am to keep my participation in the sugar bowl on the DL. I don't envision anyone disclosing in my organization I am a SD.

I guess if someone were really crazy, they could make a Title IX filing against me if they found me out, but this does not seem likely. I keep all sorts of records and screenshots, that there is consensual relationship is easily shown.

**Murrican** · 09-28-23 10:16

Originally Posted by Felix06 [View Original Post]

I don't know what kind of financial stakes you have at risk, but you might want to listen to the rationale part of you that made the rules in the first place. I'm not sure you could ever under-estimate the amount of embarrassment a person would be willing to put up with, especially someone younger than you (or, generally, of the younger generations), and even more so if they have less to lose. She might be able to start over, but what are your odds if the worst were to happen and you became the talk of your organization? Just food for thought.

I concur. I know it's easier over time for folks like Far and me (married) to relax the rules a bit, then a bit more, and so on. But it's just not worth it. You spend a career building a professional reputation and it can be destroyed with a text.

**SteveTandberg** · 09-27-23 20:03

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

Funny you mention it, I was just online with a second profile I have had for a while but haven't really used. Had a first date today with a girl that I thought went well. Immediately afterward her profile was either deactivated or she blocked me. I was curious which it was so went to the second profile, searched for her and did not find her. Hopefully this means she was BSing me when she said she was only looking for one person. I will reach out to her in a day or two and see what happens.

100% effective to determine if she blocks you. Theoretically she could take herself out of search but most girls don't do that. SB 2 times ago did that and does that so she can't be searched. Then occasionally she will pop on to answer messages and look for other SDs.