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**HollywoodGuy** · 09-03-23 02:18

Originally Posted by GiddenLade [View Original Post]

And as we all have learned, whether pro, semi-pro or civilian, hotness does not necessarily mean they are good in the FC. Or out of it for that matter.

Which is something I touched on earlier. As a low baller even if the session isn't all that, I can never really get too upset about it. But if I was paying a lot and didn't get what I was looking for? I mean there is a balance between looks and performance for sure. I find that to get that low ball agreement sometimes I am going to dip a bit on looks, but I am not willing to take much of a dip on their body. Ever since my teens I have always been more drawn to a hot body and been more forgiving on looks. But not to the point where I can say I am not attracted.

The one playboy or Cali 10 in looks & body I had as an actual GF was pretty average in the skills dept. Killer personality though which kept me around, but at this stage of the game, I would never accept that from a girl I was spending good money on. My current out of town GF isn't all that in skills (and she knows it) but she is very willing to please (actually has a pleasing kink) and takes direction to the T, so I am teaching her, and I am fine with that.

But if you mostly date the younger ones you have to be a bit forgiving. I mean some do have amazing god given talent but like anything it's something you get better at over time. But aside from all that if its gonna go beyond a one or two nite stand they would have to be of the sweet and very submissive variety or I wouldn't really be interested in them at all. And since I met my new GF I have really lost interest in any girl if they have any brattiness at all. If they're cute enough it's cute for a while, but the older I get the less patience I have for it.

**Gidden Lade** · 09-02-23 17:50

Originally Posted by Lexx1 [View Original Post]

I've turned away super hot girls because they wanted to much. I don't care how hot a girl is. You need to think with your big head not the little head.

And as we all have learned, whether pro, semi-pro or civilian, hotness does not necessarily mean they are good in the FC. Or out of it for that matter.

**MidnightDabber** · 09-02-23 16:55

Iirc didn't someone have their account restored after emailing support and having to do some CYA course online about not being explicit or something? The site was kinda getting stale but I was planning to take a break for a month or 2. When I come back I don't want to drop $80-110 bucks just to be banned / deleted again. How do I come back safely? Anyone else banned and come back?

**Lexx1** · 09-02-23 16:14

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

When messaging on seeking I like to say I am spontaneous. Practically a synonym for sex. Or I ask them if they like kissing or are they submissive or naughty, pretty harmless. I never ask for sex directly on the site, but the point is made. If they say they do not like kissing you can assume they are more of a pro and depending on how hot they are choose to proceed or not.

If they pressure me for an answer on seeking about sex I just say I am looking for an intimate date. That could mean anything and has never gotten me in trouble.

As far as money talk I tell them I pay for "dates". That's it. If they want to know what happens on a date they can txt me. If they want to know how much I tell them it's less than most guys, so if they are looking for top dollar I am not interested, and if they are not interested that's fine and politely move on if we are not on the same page. At this point they will usually throw out a number or let me know they are either expensive or reasonable. This also gives them the option to just not reply, delete or block me. No problem. On to the next one.

Good stuff as always HG. That last one is a hard rule some don't follow. You have to set a hard max for yourself of what you are willing to spend. I usually do PPM not monthly arrangements. At the most I go is weekly arrangement but I prefer PPM. It keeps the girl honest that she won't show up or flake. And if weekly I provide the cash at the end of the week not the beginning. Like a regular job where you work first and get paid later. I've had to raise my hard max since the non-pro days on Craigslist which was 200 then. The average back then though was 100, alot of times less and that was for all the beautiful colors / ethnicities of girls. But because of all the GPS / PPS, that's platinum pussy syndrome for the OGs that know. PPS are chics that go super crazy with there money expectations and is higher than GPS. So set a hard max you are comfortable with and stick to it. I've turned away super hot girls because they wanted to much. I don't care how hot a girl is. You need to think with your big head not the little head.

**HollywoodGuy** · 09-02-23 14:42

Originally Posted by Lexx1 [View Original Post]

Yes banned pretty much. As HG has mentioned countless times here you have to be very careful what you say to the girls on SA. Most of the girls know what the site is about already and what is expected from them. So no need to talk about specifics such as PPM or sex details on the site itself. Once you've established something that may be going somewhere with a girl. You take those conversations off the site and discuss specifics through text, email, phone call or facetime chat. So that the girl can't report you on the site or the algorithm SA uses doesn't catch those "taboo" keywords in your conversations.

When messaging on seeking I like to say I am spontaneous. Practically a synonym for sex. Or I ask them if they like kissing or are they submissive or naughty, pretty harmless. I never ask for sex directly on the site, but the point is made. If they say they do not like kissing you can assume they are more of a pro and depending on how hot they are choose to proceed or not.

If they pressure me for an answer on seeking about sex I just say I am looking for an intimate date. That could mean anything and has never gotten me in trouble.

As far as money talk I tell them I pay for "dates". That's it. If they want to know what happens on a date they can txt me. If they want to know how much I tell them it's less than most guys, so if they are looking for top dollar I am not interested, and if they are not interested that's fine and politely move on if we are not on the same page. At this point they will usually throw out a number or let me know they are either expensive or reasonable. This also gives them the option to just not reply, delete or block me. No problem. On to the next one.

**Lexx1** · 09-02-23 14:24

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I am not sure why, I did have some recent negative interactions with some girls on SA. Is deleted the same as banned? I messaged support to get more answers but doubt I will hear back.

Yes banned pretty much. As HG has mentioned countless times here you have to be very careful what you say to the girls on SA. Most of the girls know what the site is about already and what is expected from them. So no need to talk about specifics such as PPM or sex details on the site itself. Once you've established something that may be going somewhere with a girl. You take those conversations off the site and discuss specifics through text, email, phonecall or facetime chat. So that the girl can't report you on the site or the algorithm SA uses doesn't catch those "taboo" keywords in your conversations.

**MidnightDabber** · 09-02-23 12:45

I am not sure why, I did have some recent negative interactions with some girls on SA. Is deleted the same as banned? I messaged support to get more answers but doubt I will hear back.

**HollywoodGuy** · 09-01-23 17:52

Been a bit more than a few years now. But I used to get tested for free at Hollywood Presbyterian. At the mens clinic and I believe there is a bit of anonymity. Like I said, can't recall all the details but I remember it was free. If you park in the back it's in the bldg on the left, maybe the 5th floor?

**FarFarAway** · 09-01-23 16:51

Originally Posted by LimpAndSmall [View Original Post]

Thanks. I only checked in this forum.

But my experience is contrary to some of what is posted there about using an online STD testing company, simply using a fake "hobby" I'd / persona and address. I did that, paid, and got an appointment at a local testing center. Only to be told I would need to present I'd when I arrived for the test. So, money down the drain. That approach did not work.

Meanwhile the Arani option mentioned in that thread is very expensive - starts at about 800 or 900, and goes from there, depending on number of tests!

I did this in the past year, don't often need more frequently.

stdcheck.com

You can pay in advance w / a prepaid debit card. They send you to a local Quest for a blood draw and pee in a cup. I have never been asked for I'd, I have a form I printed out from the website. W / all my fake monger info.

**Ace McNasty** · 09-01-23 10:03

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I sometimes get girls sending me videos on my burner #. I would like to get those off my phone and onto my computer for viewing and archiving (they are big and take up a lot of memory. Sometimes I need to purge that stuff from the phone).

Within the webpage for GV, I was able to do a download. The format of the file that was created (it is 3. 4 MB) is ". Mhtml". Is there a way to save directly in standard video format? That file, I tried to open it w / a browser, it was junk.

I am an OCD downloader and archive addict. I download everything on my phone. About 7 years ago I picked a screenrecorder app. The one I eventually liked is so good that I bought the ad-free version. So many options. I can just shake the phone real quick and it instantly records whatevs on the screen, including any PornHub video you are jacking off to. And the Settings option are limitless. You can save anything on any file format to any folder of your choice. It automatically records all my phone calls.

Fair warning. It will record EVERYTHING on your screen, including the cute battery level icon on top, the date and time, and if you happen to go to the home page, even the desktop background of you and your wife smiling and kissing at the Grand Canyon. Go to the App Store and check out the free versions.

**LimpAndSmall** · 09-01-23 02:00

Originally Posted by Lexx1 [View Original Post]

There's an existing thread already covering this. Check in the thread called "actual private std testing?".

Thanks. I only checked in this forum.

But my experience is contrary to some of what is posted there about using an online STD testing company, simply using a fake "hobby" I'd / persona and address. I did that, paid, and got an appointment at a local testing center. Only to be told I would need to present I'd when I arrived for the test. So, money down the drain. That approach did not work.

Meanwhile the Arani option mentioned in that thread is very expensive - starts at about 800 or 900, and goes from there, depending on number of tests!

**Lexx1** · 09-01-23 01:36

Originally Posted by LimpAndSmall [View Original Post]

A lot of posts here stress the need for opsec with regard to communications, burner phone, photos, payments, etc.

But what about STD testing? Is there a way to do that anonymously / securely?

Probably can avoid some part of a paper trail by paying cash, but the real issue is I believe most (all?) testers want to see I'd?

Nightmare scenario would be a positive result. I believe some are notifiable, I. E. SO would potentially be informed, if you give real info?

There's an existing thread already covering this. Check in the thread called "actual private std testing?".

**LimpAndSmall** · 09-01-23 01:27

A lot of posts here stress the need for opsec with regard to communications, burner phone, photos, payments, etc.

But what about STD testing? Is there a way to do that anonymously / securely?

Probably can avoid some part of a paper trail by paying cash, but the real issue is I believe most (all?) testers want to see I'd?

Nightmare scenario would be a positive result. I believe some are notifiable, I. E. SO would potentially be informed, if you give real info?

**FarFarAway** · 08-30-23 18:32

I sometimes get girls sending me videos on my burner #. I would like to get those off my phone and onto my computer for viewing and archiving (they are big and take up a lot of memory. Sometimes I need to purge that stuff from the phone).

Within the webpage for GV, I was able to do a download. The format of the file that was created (it is 3. 4 MB) is ". Mhtml". Is there a way to save directly in standard video format? That file, I tried to open it w / a browser, it was junk.

**TopGun9** · 08-30-23 08:57

Anyone else having issue upgrading membership with SDM?

I tried Vanilla Prepaid card, Visa credit card, and Discover card. Nothing goes through.

This is the error message I got.

"We were unable to process your subscription. Please make sure your bank authorizes this transaction. ".