Sugar Daddy Sites

[TopGun9]

Does anyone use Sugardaddyforme?

Sent around 50-60 messages and have yet to receive a single response.

The site seems like it was designed in the 1990's. Pics look low quality, can't see a baby's join date or last active date / time. Can't sort by newest, most recent active, distance, etc.

Is this site still legit, do you hunt on here?

[Murrican]

I'd say you are hosed if you want to maintain opsec. I got one of my profiles suspended maybe 6 months ago, for a completely bass-ackward reason. I reported a girl who said she wanted Venmo to pen her private pics, and she reported my for 'soliciting sex for $' when I told her she was violating TOS.

I was required to watch a video and read the TOS and check a box that I agreed to it. This was a profile that has been on the site 5+ years. I presume I am also on probation, and any new violation means an automatic suspension.

I guess your profile had less status than mine, so they came down on you harder for whatever you did to attract their attention.

Never never do anything to attract attention from the mods on seeking. I don't change my profile, my pics, my tagline. They will check it, and then they may find something they don't like and you are screwed.

I will add (in response to myself) that I always write as though I assume some moderator might read my message. And I always want to to be clear I was a total gentleman, even when the girl was pushy, rude, etc.

[Murrican]

I know it's been spoken about before. But my opinion... never report anyone and never get into any negative conversations. The moment any girl says anything ridiculous just politely move on or ghost or block. Sometimes a girl will get under your skin or push a button. Let them. No big deal. Just move on. For whatever reason seeking is heavily weighted to the girls side of things. That is not going to change.

This. And this again.

I've been saying this for years on this thread.

People who try to win conversations with crazy girls and pat themselves on the back because they got the last word in are idiots. Some girls are awful. You will encounter them. If you just politely excuse yourself from the conversation you don't get the smug satisfaction of the last word, but you also won't be posting here asking about alternatives to Seeking because you got banned. Just politely say "you seem great but we want different things and I wish you all the best. You deserve it and some guy will be lucky to have you. " And then move on. I've personally done this maybe 50 times and never once regretted it later. I don't even remember the girls anymore, but I'm still doing my thing. That's the point.

[HollywoodGuy]

I'd say you are hosed if you want to maintain opsec. I got one of my profiles suspended maybe 6 months ago, for a completely bass-ackward reason. I reported a girl who said she wanted Venmo to pen her private pics, and she reported my for 'soliciting sex for $' when I told her she was violating TOS.

I was required to watch a video and read the TOS and check a box that I agreed to it. This was a profile that has been on the site 5+ years. I presume I am also on probation, and any new violation means an automatic suspension.

I guess your profile had less status than mine, so they came down on you harder for whatever you did to attract their attention.

Never never do anything to attract attention from the mods on seeking. I don't change my profile, my pics, my tagline. They will check it, and then they may find something they don't like and you are screwed.

I know it's been spoken about before. But my opinion... never report anyone and never get into any negative conversations. The moment any girl says anything ridiculous just politely move on or ghost or block. Sometimes a girl will get under your skin or push a button. Let them. No big deal. Just move on. For whatever reason seeking is heavily weighted to the girls side of things. That is not going to change.

[FarFarAway]

Well, I've never been. Now I got a notice saying my account is temp suspended until I get verified. Never done it nor have I been interested in it. I know it helps users verify you're an actual person and I'm sure it helps get more engagement but I've never struggled getting responses from individuals on there. So I've never cared for it.

Not sure it's something I want to do.

I'd say you are hosed if you want to maintain opsec. I got one of my profiles suspended maybe 6 months ago, for a completely bass-ackward reason. I reported a girl who said she wanted Venmo to pen her private pics, and she reported my for 'soliciting sex for $' when I told her she was violating TOS.

I was required to watch a video and read the TOS and check a box that I agreed to it. This was a profile that has been on the site 5+ years. I presume I am also on probation, and any new violation means an automatic suspension.

I guess your profile had less status than mine, so they came down on you harder for whatever you did to attract their attention.

Never never do anything to attract attention from the mods on seeking. I don't change my profile, my pics, my tagline. They will check it, and then they may find something they don't like and you are screwed.

[Boobman76]

Just wanted to share a renewal code good for 33% off. It worked for me two days ago: VWO33 COM. No space between 33 and COM when adding promo code to Seeking.

[Dsteezy]

IDK if they forced it on me but I am verified.

Well, I've never been. Now I got a notice saying my account is temp suspended until I get verified. Never done it nor have I been interested in it. I know it helps users verify you're an actual person and I'm sure it helps get more engagement but I've never struggled getting responses from individuals on there. So I've never cared for it.

Not sure it's something I want to do.

[HollywoodGuy]

Is seeking trying to force Verification on anyone else?

IDK if they forced it on me but I am verified.

[Dsteezy]

Is seeking trying to force Verification on anyone else?

[FarFarAway]

"I'm educated, gorgeous and looking for a man who appreciates me as I would appreciate him. ".

"I am well educated, a model part-time, and they work in tech".

That combined with she is definitely not 32. Closeup on her hands and face / eyes -- my guess is 40+. Quick guess is she was very hot when she was late 20's. Still thinks that.

My $0. 01.

I can read her profile and did so before I got engaged in messaging w / her. I was asking if anyone else had experiences in doing the latter, so we could compare notes. I think she might be on the spectrum, and has a hard time relating to people. There is a hint of that on the profile too.

[SteveTandberg]

I've been in touch w / her for a week since rejoining. Pretty but quirky. Was supposed to meet this morning, I think she was trying to avoid it, suggested doing a picnic lunch. Not on my schedule, already had a lunch M&G.

Anyone else have any luck w / her?

"I'm educated, gorgeous and looking for a man who appreciates me as I would appreciate him. ".

"I am well educated, a model part-time, and they work in tech".

That combined with she is definitely not 32. Closeup on her hands and face / eyes -- my guess is 40+. Quick guess is she was very hot when she was late 20's. Still thinks that.

My $0. 01.

[FarFarAway]

I've been in touch w / her for a week since rejoining. Pretty but quirky. Was supposed to meet this morning, I think she was trying to avoid it, suggested doing a picnic lunch. Not on my schedule, already had a lunch M&G.

Anyone else have any luck w / her?

[Murrican]

I follow a thread for sugar babies on Reddit. Let me tell hou what I think is really happening.

A small minority of girls are getting monthly allowances in the thousands or ppm of 1 k+.

And there is a much larger cohort of girls sitting around cursing guys for being cheap, splenda daddies, johns, hobbyists, etc while they sit frustrated by the supposedly lowball offers they are getting.

It's like the housing market in LA. The prices are remaining buoyant but it's only because transaction volume has plummeted so we only see overpriced sales, not the majority of transactions that never actually happen because there's no agreement on price.

Been working hard on contacting / meeting new SBs over the past 3 months. Probably contacting 25 to 35 per week. Have found a few gems and a bunch of turds. Curious what other guys have found.

1. $600 is the new $300 from pre pandemic. Able to talk it down to $5 but at the risk of tainting her attitude. Would rather pay the extra and get all the extras. Kind of like the chef spitting in the food.

This is for anything from mediocre to good. The exception is a new SB that hasn't been exposed to the GPS from Reddit and other stupid sources. Interesting that on the Reddit Sugarlife forums, the avg PPM is $300 for LA. Not sure how that is found as the absolute bottom basement I've seen is $300 so where is the $200 that's averaging out the $4's and $5's?

2. $1 k is the new $500 from pre pandemic. For all the hotties that used to be $500, it's $1 k+ now. Unfortunately, this also includes the ones that used to be a hottie and no longer fit that.

3. $6 k - $10 k allowance. Used to be rarified air. Not so much. So many professional SBs meaning that's all they do. Don't work. Don't do shit. Just living off SDs.

4. PPM + expensive dinners + gifts+ travel -- used to be if you're doing PPM, then dinner on the first couple dates and then just straight to the action thereafter with no expectation of gifts. Conversely, gifts + travel was also an option but no PPM or allowance. Again, either Reddit or Crypto bros have fucked this one up. Straight up in the profile are expectations of all of the above. Otherwise you're a splenda, fake, or cheap SD.

Strangely enough, these expectations are not limited to the supermodel types or social media influencers. Always get a kick out of finding a 50 k+ follower influencer that's begging for a SD and preaching on wealth creation))). This is after excluding the obvious pro's, super long nails, super long fake eyelash types. I've tried the AA and Latina route and even gone outside of the general LA area. No better than $500 to start. Depressing.

5's to 7's are also quoting these asks without shame. Same for late 30's through late 40's MILF types. $600 to $1 k is the norm if she's cute and has a good body. Nothing fantastic but you might take a 2nd look at Whole Foods.

GPS is alive and well and spreading quickly.

[Omfgitzjin]

Ya'll be posting up some real fuglies up in here. Whats good? LOL.

[HollywoodGuy]

GPS is alive and well and spreading quickly.

I started in this game with basically unlimited funds. I was one of those overpaid internet dudes capitalizing on the ignorance of the masses. Starting with the crash of 2008 I had to reprioritize my spending. I still had a hefty budget but was dating 20-25 days a month and had to keep it at 3 k a month maximum. I was asking myself, like how is this even possible?

So I put all my energy into figuring out how to pay less. The main theme of my convo's has been putting a lot into letting them know I am interested in them as a person, that I am not pushy (which I am not) and that I am a fun person. Now this is not going to work on a strictly money motivated gal most of the time, but sometimes it does. And just like a lot of you guys want something more than just pussy but more of a GF type arrangement, well some of these girls are looking for the same thing and especially if they are new. So you need to be sincere or a good actor.

And I do have two approaches depending on the vibe I get off their profile. One is more sincere and the other is for the obvious one night stand girls. But I have a bit of each come-on in both of them to mitigate the risk of going too far in one direction or the other.

As far as GPS, today my main girl made $$$ just selling videos online. Yes they are very sexy but there is no nudity or sex going on. So if a girl can make bank without even meeting a guy or taking her clothes off, the cost for meeting just went through the roof. In her case its 1 k for a trip to the FC which she doesn't even look for and has even made that much just chatting with guys online (with her clothes on). And yes she has 10 years experience covering the full range of SW. Dancing, dating, OF, etc. But I met her before she did all that and I was paying a $ a date and seeing her about 10 days a month and all overnites. Today she lives in my apt complex and I pay nothing but that's the benefit of a 10 year relationship.

And admittedly if you are not a tall, in-shape or good-looking guy or if you are someone that gets nervous around pretty girls then you are going to pay more. But to this day almost every girl that gets to know me calls me a dork. So you can be a dork, or short, or average looking but you really need to work on your communication / social skills. And if getting rejected bothers you for any reason, then you will never get past the GPS. Because all rejection can be eliminated if you pay enough. I know some of you guys are super busy and traveling and just don't have the time or energy to get past the fact that you have been married forever and just don't have the dating skills needed to get past the GPS (and may not even care).

But I started this after coming off of 25 years of marriage and only getting extra pussy when it almost fell in my lap. I got married soon after HS and I had really no social / dating skills at all. Lucky for me what really gave me some inspiration was my first real SB. She took full advantage of my lameness when we were together (I was spending about 6 k a month on her for 2 years) but when we were breaking up she told me I was clueless, had low self esteem & could actually get any hot girl I wanted. She gave me a few pointers and I was on my way.

But it actually took 2 more years of work to learn how to get a steady stream of reasonably priced pussy and I have never looked back. But I put in the time, experimented with multiple come ons and even kept excel spreadsheets with multiple data points. That's what it took for me. But as always YMMV in this game no matter how much time or energy you invest. And that's the way I approached it... as a long term investment.