Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[MustangGuy]

They have a support email address and you can ask them. If you don't get a real answer, meaning some error on their part, don't renew.

I got the same thing on the WYP site but with a twist. I renew ok, then fixed a typo in my profile and got locked out. I wrote to support and got a BS reply that I needed to send them a DL photo for security and to block spammers. I was on that site 3-4 years with no issues yet I'm the one who is spamming? You can't reason with idiots or brick walls..

Thanks BMD. I did reach out them. Got a few automatic responses but nothing by a person willing to fix the situation. I was on there for years without a problem. I guess I won't renew.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Like most of you guys, I renew my paid subscription every now and then when they have a special. The last few times I logged in it says that my profile needs to be edited? I change it around and it still does not get accepted. Never was there any communication that was derogatory and the profile is written very vanilla and respectful. I don't want to spend the $100 on the upgraded membership if this will still happen. Any suggestions? Thanks.

They have a support email address and you can ask them. If you don't get a real answer, meaning some error on their part, don't renew.

I got the same thing on the WYP site but with a twist. I renew ok, then fixed a typo in my profile and got locked out. I wrote to support and got a BS reply that I needed to send them a DL photo for security and to block spammers. I was on that site 3-4 years with no issues yet I'm the one who is spamming? You can't reason with idiots or brick walls.

Next!

BMD.

[PoolPlayInTool]

Any intel on this one? Wouldn't verify but not sure if she's fake.

If you can't tell this is a fake profile pic then you should not be doing this.

[MustangGuy]

Like most of you guys, I renew my paid subscription every now and then when they have a special. The last few times I logged in it says that my profile needs to be edited? I change it around and it still does not get accepted. Never was there any communication that was derogatory and the profile is written very vanilla and respectful. I don't want to spend the $100 on the upgraded membership if this will still happen. Any suggestions? Thanks.

[Tribeca67]

Any intel on this one? Wouldn't verify but not sure if she's fake.

[Chudakkad]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-dc521e7dc010

Needs money for rent. Does not drive.

[Sutigel2]

I don't even post when I encounter an online scammer etc. There are too many of those and I don't want to consume needless real estate here. Unless it's an in-person ripoff of a serious magnitude, I won't report it here. And of course the good experiences are mostly shared offline so that we don't ruin a good thing.

I generally don't leave reviews of the good ones until after our arrangement ends, for whatever reason. At the same time, I usually only post reviews of the bad if they are really bad or ridiculous. I'd be reviewing them constantly.

I am looking for a specific thing. I want to see a cute girl next door type. Hopefully no significant psychological issues. Reasonable prices.

Five years ago, I was able to find and meet multiple such girls in the Springfield / Hartford area in a given week. In the last year, I have joined twice for a month at a time. I found none. Full disclosure, I was coming off a very successful arrangement that lasted nearly a year and only ended when the girl graduated university and moved far away. Fewer and fewer girls are meeting my requirements. When I do a search, very few come up compared to the past. Many that do gone up are fake or scammers or have unrealistic expectations.


I actually met with a young woman from the site a couple weeks back. She was very nice and above average in looks. She was not "great" looking, she was early 30's (about ten years older than what I generally used to look for), she started by asking for $600 ppm (but I was able to talk her down), she seemed emotionally needy, and tbh I'm not sure she was psychologically capable of sex work. It could have been a real disaster. We had an amicable meetup. I gently broke it to her that I didn't think it was going to work out. We hugged and wished each other well. I feel as if I really dodged a bullet, especially after she sent me an emotional and desperate text a week later. A week later she was off the site. It’s possible that she’s hooked up with one of you, but I think it’s more than likely that she realized she’s not cut out for the SB lifestyle.

I felt bad for this person, but that was the best I encountered on SA this year, after having great success in previous attempts.

[DarkClouds]

I don't even post when I encounter an online scammer etc. There are too many of those and I don't want to consume needless real estate here. Unless it's an in-person ripoff of a serious magnitude, I won't report it here. And of course the good experiences are mostly shared offline so that we don't ruin a good thing.

I sure hope that's the case.

You do have a point there, customers always leave reviews online when they have bad experiences, they rarely leave reviews for great experiences.

And completely agree, no one is going to hand out digits for the gems they work very hard to find. Everyone in the bowl need to put in efforts to find their own gems.

[TopGun9]

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

I sure hope that's the case.

You do have a point there, customers always leave reviews online when they have bad experiences, they rarely leave reviews for great experiences.

And completely agree, no one is going to hand out digits for the gems they work very hard to find. Everyone in the bowl need to put in efforts to find their own gems.

[Chudakkad]

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

Probably that's true, I just renewed my membership and all I am finding so far is scamsters and hags.

[XxMarkXx]

Damn, what happened to this thread.

No one pulling any p*sies from these sites any more?

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

[TopGun9]

Damn, what happened to this thread.

No one pulling any p*sies from these sites any more?

[Troutman]

Would be surprised if she's legit. If she is, she probably charges top dollar.

She'd have to. She has a huge tattoo addiction that she has to pay for.

[Big Mac Daddy]

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There are many lists and here's one with comprehensive reviews.

https://www.techradar.com/vpn/best-vpn

BMD.

[DarkClouds]

There are many options depending on where you're connecting from. Google just out with one for desktop / laptop that I use and seems to be good. The phones have apps you can try. No need to pay for it. Once I installed VPN (VPN Super Unlimited, I think) on my iPhone it seems I got another option on my settings to turn VPN on / off with the touch of a button. Very convenient. If it was there before I didn't notice it. The key to note is that depending on which country your VPN makes it look like you're connecting from, many other apps like email and browsing to STG will stop working. So, if I'm checking this site, I turn on VPN, check the site, turn off VPN to go back to normal. PITA, but such is this great nation we live in.

What VPN are you fellow mongers using? I tried one and it ended up being from the Netherlands. I messed up all of my searches and was a pain in the ass. Also, Buy a VPN or use a free one??