Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Chudakkad]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-dc521e7dc010

Needs money for rent. Does not drive.

[Sutigel2]

I don't even post when I encounter an online scammer etc. There are too many of those and I don't want to consume needless real estate here. Unless it's an in-person ripoff of a serious magnitude, I won't report it here. And of course the good experiences are mostly shared offline so that we don't ruin a good thing.

I generally don't leave reviews of the good ones until after our arrangement ends, for whatever reason. At the same time, I usually only post reviews of the bad if they are really bad or ridiculous. I'd be reviewing them constantly.

I am looking for a specific thing. I want to see a cute girl next door type. Hopefully no significant psychological issues. Reasonable prices.

Five years ago, I was able to find and meet multiple such girls in the Springfield / Hartford area in a given week. In the last year, I have joined twice for a month at a time. I found none. Full disclosure, I was coming off a very successful arrangement that lasted nearly a year and only ended when the girl graduated university and moved far away. Fewer and fewer girls are meeting my requirements. When I do a search, very few come up compared to the past. Many that do gone up are fake or scammers or have unrealistic expectations.


I actually met with a young woman from the site a couple weeks back. She was very nice and above average in looks. She was not "great" looking, she was early 30's (about ten years older than what I generally used to look for), she started by asking for $600 ppm (but I was able to talk her down), she seemed emotionally needy, and tbh I'm not sure she was psychologically capable of sex work. It could have been a real disaster. We had an amicable meetup. I gently broke it to her that I didn't think it was going to work out. We hugged and wished each other well. I feel as if I really dodged a bullet, especially after she sent me an emotional and desperate text a week later. A week later she was off the site. It’s possible that she’s hooked up with one of you, but I think it’s more than likely that she realized she’s not cut out for the SB lifestyle.

I felt bad for this person, but that was the best I encountered on SA this year, after having great success in previous attempts.

[DarkClouds]

I don't even post when I encounter an online scammer etc. There are too many of those and I don't want to consume needless real estate here. Unless it's an in-person ripoff of a serious magnitude, I won't report it here. And of course the good experiences are mostly shared offline so that we don't ruin a good thing.

I sure hope that's the case.

You do have a point there, customers always leave reviews online when they have bad experiences, they rarely leave reviews for great experiences.

And completely agree, no one is going to hand out digits for the gems they work very hard to find. Everyone in the bowl need to put in efforts to find their own gems.

[TopGun9]

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

I sure hope that's the case.

You do have a point there, customers always leave reviews online when they have bad experiences, they rarely leave reviews for great experiences.

And completely agree, no one is going to hand out digits for the gems they work very hard to find. Everyone in the bowl need to put in efforts to find their own gems.

[Chudakkad]

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

Probably that's true, I just renewed my membership and all I am finding so far is scamsters and hags.

[XxMarkXx]

Damn, what happened to this thread.

No one pulling any p*sies from these sites any more?

Honestly, the lack of activity here is likely more a sign of good times. Meaning that people are finding quality women on the site. Unlike STG, most women on seeking don't want their profiles advertised and shared. Si, when we find some good ones, there is less to post about than when we find the didasters.

Personally, I have not been a paying member for about 6 months and still enjoying the connections I made then. Got to work hard to find the gems, but they are there.

[TopGun9]

Damn, what happened to this thread.

No one pulling any p*sies from these sites any more?

[Troutman]

Would be surprised if she's legit. If she is, she probably charges top dollar.

She'd have to. She has a huge tattoo addiction that she has to pay for.

[Big Mac Daddy]

It depends on what your needs are for 'best'. Best in what? Sales, design, ease of use, cheapest, features, security, etc?

There are many lists and here's one with comprehensive reviews.

https://www.techradar.com/vpn/best-vpn

BMD.

[DarkClouds]

There are many options depending on where you're connecting from. Google just out with one for desktop / laptop that I use and seems to be good. The phones have apps you can try. No need to pay for it. Once I installed VPN (VPN Super Unlimited, I think) on my iPhone it seems I got another option on my settings to turn VPN on / off with the touch of a button. Very convenient. If it was there before I didn't notice it. The key to note is that depending on which country your VPN makes it look like you're connecting from, many other apps like email and browsing to STG will stop working. So, if I'm checking this site, I turn on VPN, check the site, turn off VPN to go back to normal. PITA, but such is this great nation we live in.

What VPN are you fellow mongers using? I tried one and it ended up being from the Netherlands. I messed up all of my searches and was a pain in the ass. Also, Buy a VPN or use a free one??

[TopGun9]

What VPN are you fellow mongers using? I tried one and it ended up being from the Netherlands. I messed up all of my searches and was a pain in the ass. Also, Buy a VPN or use a free one??

Been using NordVPN. Works great. You can log in with IP from anywhere in the world (Mexico, Canada, England, Germany, Brazil, etc.).

[LuckyCT]

The forum has been slow because it seems Verizon is colluding with the government and blocking this site. People haven't figured out that they need to use VPN to get on. Comcast hasn't blocked yet but that might be coming.

What VPN are you fellow mongers using? I tried one and it ended up being from the Netherlands. I messed up all of my searches and was a pain in the ass. Also, Buy a VPN or use a free one??

[DarkClouds]

The forum has been slow because it seems Verizon is colluding with the government and blocking this site. People haven't figured out that they need to use VPN to get on. Comcast hasn't blocked yet but that might be coming.

I agree with you.

[Chudakkad]

This forum is dead not just seeking arrangements, but the hold in Connecticut forum. Here's my advice and take it with a grain of salt:

Stay away from the street walkers. There's nothing but walking diseased almost dead people.

I agree with you.

[DaReal86]

Any information on this one?

Would be surprised if she's legit. If she is, she probably charges top dollar.