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**Rudy Wellz** · 08-23-23 22:20

Originally Posted by VictorSmitham [View Original Post]

I have met quite a few women on seeking but I haven't slept with any of them. I am married and in need of some intimacy. The girls on seeking find me attractive and are ready for an arrangement but I always question whether they will actually be exclusive if I ask them. I see many of you asking to sleep with women without protection. How are you gauging if this will be safe? Do you ask them about it? Are you on an HIV preventative medication for this lifestyle? I want to be able to get out of my compulsiveness about diseases but what can I do? Please don't be mean about your answers, as this is a serious question for me. Thanks so much!!

I am married 20+ years and in need of intimacy too. You are not unique. Overwhelmingly, SB's are not looking for exclusivity from us. In general, they get cash / experiences from us, and we get sex / intimacy from them. They get their companionship (boyfriends / future husbands) from younger, civilian guys, not SD's. Of course there are outlier experiences, but this is The Game.

Everyone has their own appetite for sexual risks. You do what makes you comfortable, and don't let anyone's risk tolerance (mine is high. I hate condoms) affect your choices. If you don't want any diseases, use condoms. Easy and problem solved. My experience, is just that. My own unique experience, and it shouldn't be extrapolated. I've had predominantly unprotected sex in the sugarbowl for 10 years and remain disease free. Try to make intelligent choices. Whatever that means. Maybe I'm lucky? Maybe next week, my fortune changes. I am willing to take that risk.

**VictorSmitham** · 08-23-23 22:16

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

We met, hit it off and had a few "dates". Thought is was going well. She then ended our arrangement in favor of "civilian dating". Profile is not active to me. Wonder if her profile is active to others, or if she's really off Seeking?

Just set up another profile without any pics and limited info. It only will take you a few minutes and you can check out who blocked you. That's how I found out a girl that told me she is civilian dating continued to be on Seeking.

**Lodzvisiter** · 08-23-23 21:08

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Did you see her. Anyone else has any info?

I've seen her a bunch in the past. Still surprises me that she gives out her real name. Cool girl. Can PM for details if you want.

**VictorSmitham** · 08-23-23 20:59

I have met quite a few women on seeking but I haven't slept with any of them. I am married and in need of some intimacy. The girls on seeking find me attractive and are ready for an arrangement but I always question whether they will actually be exclusive if I ask them. I see many of you asking to sleep with women without protection. How are you gauging if this will be safe? Do you ask them about it? Are you on an HIV preventative medication for this lifestyle? I want to be able to get out of my compulsiveness about diseases but what can I do? Please don't be mean about your answers, as this is a serious question for me. Thanks so much!!

**Rudy Wellz** · 08-23-23 20:54

We met, hit it off and had a few "dates". Thought is was going well. She then ended our arrangement in favor of "civilian dating". Profile is not active to me. Wonder if her profile is active to others, or if she's really off Seeking?

**JonFisher** · 08-23-23 20:32

I guess I was bored. But SA has more bots and pros and semi-pros and professional SBs and escorts than.

**Tophat31** · 08-23-23 20:27

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

She is from Arlington. I spoke with her about 3 years ago on SA and we moved to snap. She is very attractive and sent me videos and pics of her getting it on with a girl. We couldn't agree to terms. She wanted 1 k per meet and condoms. Honestly if it was unprotected I might have considered bc her body is that good.

Anyways bc I had her snap, I got her IG and followed her over the years. She ended up getting a much older boyfriend and followed him on IG too. This guy looked pretty well off and would always upload IG stories about her. This went on for about 1. 5 years and looks like he had even bought her a art business for her, guessing she is an artist.

So I noticed that the dude scrubbed his account and she no longer is in any photos. I'm not going to lie, the dude seemed kinda weird (sorry if you are reading this) but looks like he has moved on to a new SB / GF and posts about her now. Not sure what happened.

Anyways my SA subscription is about to run out so just been monitoring the messages and lo and behold. She messages me. I recognized her right away. We moved to text and she immediately sends me nudes and says she can meet right now but her one rule is condoms. I pushed back a little and she then ghosted me before we could get to price. She had blocked me on SA so no link to share.

She's right back to where she started messaging dudes on SA. If you are interested in her then be direct, open to condoms right away, and ready to pay a premium. Could be worth it over time.

I guess this was a classic seeking arrangements love story that has ended LOL.

If you are blocked then you can access messages but not the profile. Tried a few times. There has been references to former usernames, didn't record them as it has been many years. Liberty university? No idea.

However here are the text photos. Have fun.

**Rudy Wellz** · 08-23-23 19:28

When searching for a new SB, occasionally see NSA and platonic in the same profile. Has anyone had success getting CBD's with a SB having this profile combo?

**Rudy Wellz** · 08-23-23 18:00

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Did you see her. Anyone else has any info?

I wrote a nice intro message which she favorably responded. Shared my private photos with her and received a compliment. But, then nothing when I suggested we meet in public for dinner and drinks. Followed up again a few weeks later, but still no response.

**Itfcd** · 08-23-23 13:02

Originally Posted by JustLikeThe [View Original Post]

Her IRL shows hosting an Artisian shop sometime time back.

LOL, so Samantha is Rainbows and wants 1 k? Whatever. I've had hotter and 10 years younger for 250 out of the bowl.

**HeyDuhman** · 08-23-23 12:30

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Did you see her. Anyone else has any info?

I met this one for drinks long time ago. I think she has a corp job at some fed gov contracting company. She is recent divorcee with a baby. Good petite slim body. Face ok. She wanted more than I was willing to offer for her and also required condoms so it was a pass for me.

**JustLikeThe** · 08-23-23 11:37

Her IRL shows hosting an Artisian shop sometime time back.

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I think someone on the forum also posted something about her. But she had a different user name, so can't find it.

**JonFisher** · 08-23-23 08:53

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

She is from Arlington. I spoke with her about 3 years ago on SA and we moved to snap. She is very attractive and sent me videos and pics of her getting it on with a girl. We couldn't agree to terms. She wanted 1 k per meet and condoms. Honestly if it was unprotected I might have considered bc her body is that good.

Anyways bc I had her snap, I got her IG and followed her over the years. She ended up getting a much older boyfriend and followed him on IG too. This guy looked pretty well off and would always upload IG stories about her. This went on for about 1. 5 years and looks like he had even bought her a art business for her, guessing she is an artist.

So I noticed that the dude scrubbed his account and she no longer is in any photos. I'm not going to lie, the dude seemed kinda weird (sorry if you are reading this) but looks like he has moved on to a new SB / GF and posts about her now. Not sure what happened.

Anyways my SA subscription is about to run out so just been monitoring the messages and lo and behold. She messages me. I recognized her right away. We moved to text and she immediately sends me nudes and says she can meet right now but her one rule is condoms. I pushed back a little and she then ghosted me before we could get to price. She had blocked me on SA so no link to share.

She's right back to where she started messaging dudes on SA. If you are interested in her then be direct, open to condoms right away, and ready to pay a premium. Could be worth it over time.

I guess this was a classic seeking arrangements love story that has ended LOL.

I think someone on the forum also posted something about her. But she had a different user name, so can't find it.

**JonFisher** · 08-23-23 08:07

Originally Posted by TheCurve [View Original Post]

Seems a familiar face I've seen prior to the start date of this account. Anyone have experience with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-54f2e024c105

Did you see her. Anyone else has any info?

**NovaDaddy69** · 08-23-23 03:08

Originally Posted by Tophat31 [View Original Post]

She is from Arlington. I spoke with her about 3 years ago on SA and we moved to snap. She is very attractive and sent me videos and pics of her getting it on with a girl. We couldn't agree to terms. She wanted 1 k per meet and condoms. Honestly if it was unprotected I might have considered bc her body is that good.

Anyways bc I had her snap, I got her IG and followed her over the years. She ended up getting a much older boyfriend and followed him on IG too. This guy looked pretty well off and would always upload IG stories about her. This went on for about 1. 5 years and looks like he had even bought her a art business for her, guessing she is an artist.

So I noticed that the dude scrubbed his account and she no longer is in any photos. I'm not going to lie, the dude seemed kinda weird (sorry if you are reading this) but looks like he has moved on to a new SB / GF and posts about her now. Not sure what happened.

Anyways my SA subscription is about to run out so just been monitoring the messages and lo and behold. She messages me. I recognized her right away. We moved to text and she immediately sends me nudes and says she can meet right now but her one rule is condoms. I pushed back a little and she then ghosted me before we could get to price. She had blocked me on SA so no link to share.

She's right back to where she started messaging dudes on SA. If you are interested in her then be direct, open to condoms right away, and ready to pay a premium. Could be worth it over time.

I guess this was a classic seeking arrangements love story that has ended LOL.

Is she the same girl who went to Liberty University? Cause that makes it all the hotter in some ways, to know she grew up repressed with a strict upbringing and is now back to banging dudes on SA. .