Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**TopGun9** · 06-16-23 15:22

Scammer. Will play along and agreed to FC meet.

Right before the meet, she wants you to Cashapp her to make sure you're real and won't rip her off.

Block and report them to SA and Cashapp.

‪Phone:

(601) 879-5569‬.

Cashapp:

$AByfield19.

$katiebbygirl0807.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...8-6bfd9ae95885

**ILoveThatPoo** · 06-16-23 12:47

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-245a7d2ff615

Seems nice with the limited convo we have had. She is a bit to curvy for my tastes but is cute. She gave me permission to share her with a couple of close friends. So if you have an account send her a message. She is in New Haven and would meet for between 3 and 4 hundred. Which means I think you can score her for 250.

Your welcome.

P.S. I am in no way personally endorsing her ad I have never met her in person! Always be awake!

**TopGun9** · 06-15-23 15:15

Content seller. Don't waste your time!

Report and block her.

**JasonKruger1** · 06-14-23 20:55

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-42b60fec5b3a

I have something set up with Lexi for this weekend but has anyone seen her or had any experiences with her in the past? Want to make sure it's worth the trip to see her.

**FireBalls420** · 06-12-23 23:58

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-9831b707d4c3

She's legit. I have tried her for. 2 ppm all covered & an ok performance.

Just wondering if any of you guys doing her BBFS & if she's down for it.

**TopGun9** · 06-12-23 10:21

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

I commented briefly on the National board, so forgive me a more lengthy response here.

Excellent post, as expected form a seasoned monger LOL.

Agreed, unfortunately the bowl will always take lots of time and effort. There's no quick and easy way to weed out the fakes and scammers. It just has to go through its due course.

**Sutigel2** · 06-11-23 13:18

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

I met with a girl who was a young single mom. Very suggestive profile and profile pics. Very. She does not want money. Her profile even says this. She's somewhat of a nympho, but in addition to the sex, what she REALLY wants is for someone to be a father to her kid, who is like 4 or 5 years old by now. Good looking girl, dirty dirty mind, but I'd rather pay a ppm than be a step dad to her kid! So it was. Next!

**Shampoo55** · 06-11-23 08:37

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Another time waster!

Started out with good communications, agreed to ppm terms pretty quickly, easy to setup FC date, send nice pics leading up to the FC date.

Then boom, the morning of FC date she hit you with the 'my phone got shut down' and she doesn't feel comfortable going to meet you with her phone off. How convenient that it get shuts off on this EXACT day, but she's still able to text you with her phone off. LMFAO.

Of course you know what's next, she ask if you can help her pay her phone to get it back on so she can go ahead and meet at the FC later. Well, if you were thinking with the small head, you might go ahead and cashapp her the money for her phone and look like an f* moron afterward.

These scams are getting more complex and time consuming to identify. There's really no great ways to weed out these scammers until the very end; but then hours and days have been wasted talking to them and setting up FC date, etc.

If you have better ways to weed these f*kers out, I love to hear them.

I commented briefly on the National board, so forgive me a more lengthy response here.

I found several things in my years of mongering. First I was the only dude really watching out for me so I needed to do my own DD. Oh sure one can use "reviews" from this site and other sites, but many times I see glowing reviews of girls who I have dated that are mediocre at best. Not sure if it is a case of the blind leading the blind or YMMV? So I do my own research and come to my own conclusions.

As a monger IMHO my job is to weed out the posers, rinsers, professional girls and scammers. It use to drive me crazy as doing this takes a lot of time, often lots of time. I mean I was born deficient a patience gene, but eventually got tired of winding myself up, so I bought an industrial strength can of patience. Now I spend whatever time I need to find the right girl.

SA is not immune to pros posting on the site. Oh and many girls have learned that there are numerous simps out there falling all over them self looking for a girl to give their money away to for free. So any girl with a couple of brains might use any of the scams like money upfront, OF, sell content, scams etc. So nothing on SA prevents that, so I take a sip from the patience can and settle in to do my search.

As far as doing DD goes, first pic posted Jazz1 Google results come up with a tiktok page with the title "Jordan racist nia". No idea what's up with that, but jeez, for me that's a red flag. Also, I find it useful to google her number. Not looking to play Jr Detective, just figure out if she is real. When I do find a FB page or other SM, I'll tuck away a few facts and then ask questions, at the M&G, about those facts (thinks I already know) just to test her veracity and gauge her reaction. Not playing "gotcha" just measuring a girl. In fact, I never let them know I found anything else about them, other than what they tell me.

Next, I always insist on doing a Meet & Greet (M&G) with a girl. I hear all the time from girls who think it is strange that a guy wants to do a first meeting at his hotel room. From a woman's perspective that is about as unsafe a practice as possible. Guy could be there with his 10 buddies and she gets gang raped, dude could be a trafficker and send her into servitude or dude could be LE and arrest her. Point is that most girls wanting to be sugar babies don't want to feel like they are just prostitutes (well we know they are, but they want an illusion). So we play a dance that keeps the girl happy.

So in my experience, only pro girls are willing to do a first meeting in a hotel room. I found offering that up while online chatting is a good way to weed out the pros. So I offer to do a M&G for coffee or drinks. I have found that most pro girls and scammers will refuse to meet "for free". Oh sure, the site WhatsYourPrice gives girls the impression they should get paid to eat your food & drinks at a fancy restaurant and then walk away. Sometimes I have to be part of the educational process when I decline that and walk away.

Something else mentioned caught my eye. Many girls (Like guys should) use text apps to communicate. As such anywhere they can get a wifi signal they can communicate, regardless if their regular phone service is down or not. So a girl saying her phone is off, but still communicating could be true. But what was correctly analyzed here was the scam request for money.

Bottom line: do your own DD, draw own conclusions, open a can of patience and above all no sugar, until the panties hit the floor!.

Hope this helps? Good luck hunting!

**BlueFox141** · 06-10-23 22:10

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

Had one in Waterbury who just wanted sex because her OTR truck driver husband was never home and then told her he was not coming back. Offered her money after the first time and she declined. Only saw her 4 or 5 times. When the Mall closed she lost her job and moved to NYC. Might be up here in a few weeks. Hoping so.

Blue.

**McKilla** · 06-10-23 13:58

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Another time waster!

Started out with good communications, agreed to ppm terms pretty quickly, easy to setup FC date, send nice pics leading up to the FC date.

Then boom, the morning of FC date she hit you with the 'my phone got shut down' and she doesn't feel comfortable going to meet you with her phone off. How convenient that it get shuts off on this EXACT day, but she's still able to text you with her phone off. LMFAO.

Of course you know what's next, she ask if you can help her pay her phone to get it back on so she can go ahead and meet at the FC later. Well, if you were thinking with the small head, you might go ahead and cashapp her the money for her phone and look like an f* moron afterward.

These scams are getting more complex and time consuming to identify. There's really no great ways to weed out these scammers until the very end; but then hours and days have been wasted talking to them and setting up FC date, etc.

If you have better ways to weed these f*kers out, I love to hear them.

That sucks. If she is the one on those pics she could run the city!

**TopGun9** · 06-09-23 15:58

Another time waster!

Started out with good communications, agreed to ppm terms pretty quickly, easy to setup FC date, send nice pics leading up to the FC date.

Then boom, the morning of FC date she hit you with the 'my phone got shut down' and she doesn't feel comfortable going to meet you with her phone off. How convenient that it get shuts off on this EXACT day, but she's still able to text you with her phone off. LMFAO.

Of course you know what's next, she ask if you can help her pay her phone to get it back on so she can go ahead and meet at the FC later. Well, if you were thinking with the small head, you might go ahead and cashapp her the money for her phone and look like an f* moron afterward.

These scams are getting more complex and time consuming to identify. There's really no great ways to weed out these scammers until the very end; but then hours and days have been wasted talking to them and setting up FC date, etc.

If you have better ways to weed these f*kers out, I love to hear them.

**TopGun9** · 06-08-23 15:27

SCAM ALERT!

Everything cool through text, set up FC date. An hour before the FC date, ***** wants you to cashapp / venmo her payment upfront before she go meet up with you.

*****, you fucking DUMB or something. GTFOH.

Digits if you want to fuck around with her ‪(781) 474-0294‬

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-1e82bcce7fc8

**PopPoppy70** · 06-08-23 13:09

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

Not the same but I was seeing this plump college girl from SA 2021-2022 for about 8 months, paid the ppm each time. She went home to the midwest for the summer and when she came back she just wanted to fuck for free which was joyous, only had to get dinner and some drinks. She said she missed me over the summer. That lasted for a few months until about Thanksgiving but then she ghosted me and no sign of her since.

**ILoveThatPoo** · 06-08-23 13:02

Of these encounters. Sometimes they forget and just go with the flow and enjoy themselves so much that they don't want to ask. But keep in mind she'll be hooking up with someone else that's willing to pay next time even though you were fun, she got nothing out of it. If I were you and I wanted to continue seeing her, I would text her and say "hey I know it didn't come up but I really wanted to give you something. I had such a great time with you but I'd love to see you again. ".

Poo.

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

**DarkClouds** · 06-08-23 11:15

I'm probably in the minority here but I think it's shameful and risky to not discuss allowance before meeting or at least before action. How do you know she's not going to ask for something you don't have? And to think that you should not gift her just because she's too shy to ask for it seems wrong. If you're that cheap this is the wrong lifestyle for you. I will say there have been girls that just wanted groceries or booze or clothes. That's fine. It doesn't have to be a certain kind of gift. But to skip the gift entirely seems like you're not being a gentleman. I wouldn't even do that on a regular date never mind an arrangement.

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.