Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**TopGun9** · 06-09-23 15:58

Another time waster!

Started out with good communications, agreed to ppm terms pretty quickly, easy to setup FC date, send nice pics leading up to the FC date.

Then boom, the morning of FC date she hit you with the 'my phone got shut down' and she doesn't feel comfortable going to meet you with her phone off. How convenient that it get shuts off on this EXACT day, but she's still able to text you with her phone off. LMFAO.

Of course you know what's next, she ask if you can help her pay her phone to get it back on so she can go ahead and meet at the FC later. Well, if you were thinking with the small head, you might go ahead and cashapp her the money for her phone and look like an f* moron afterward.

These scams are getting more complex and time consuming to identify. There's really no great ways to weed out these scammers until the very end; but then hours and days have been wasted talking to them and setting up FC date, etc.

If you have better ways to weed these f*kers out, I love to hear them.

**TopGun9** · 06-08-23 15:27

SCAM ALERT!

Everything cool through text, set up FC date. An hour before the FC date, ***** wants you to cashapp / venmo her payment upfront before she go meet up with you.

*****, you fucking DUMB or something. GTFOH.

Digits if you want to fuck around with her ‪(781) 474-0294‬

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-1e82bcce7fc8

**PopPoppy70** · 06-08-23 13:09

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

Not the same but I was seeing this plump college girl from SA 2021-2022 for about 8 months, paid the ppm each time. She went home to the midwest for the summer and when she came back she just wanted to fuck for free which was joyous, only had to get dinner and some drinks. She said she missed me over the summer. That lasted for a few months until about Thanksgiving but then she ghosted me and no sign of her since.

**ILoveThatPoo** · 06-08-23 13:02

Of these encounters. Sometimes they forget and just go with the flow and enjoy themselves so much that they don't want to ask. But keep in mind she'll be hooking up with someone else that's willing to pay next time even though you were fun, she got nothing out of it. If I were you and I wanted to continue seeing her, I would text her and say "hey I know it didn't come up but I really wanted to give you something. I had such a great time with you but I'd love to see you again. ".

Poo.

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

**DarkClouds** · 06-08-23 11:15

I'm probably in the minority here but I think it's shameful and risky to not discuss allowance before meeting or at least before action. How do you know she's not going to ask for something you don't have? And to think that you should not gift her just because she's too shy to ask for it seems wrong. If you're that cheap this is the wrong lifestyle for you. I will say there have been girls that just wanted groceries or booze or clothes. That's fine. It doesn't have to be a certain kind of gift. But to skip the gift entirely seems like you're not being a gentleman. I wouldn't even do that on a regular date never mind an arrangement.

Originally Posted by DonnnyBravo [View Original Post]

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

**DonnnyBravo** · 06-08-23 10:57

Tldr. Saw a girl from SA, but no ppm. What happened? No I'm not sharing her info yet till I figure out what happened.

So as I mentioned before, I'm banned from SA. One of my buddies vetted a girl and saw her then passed her number to me to check out. I contacted and set up to meet for dinner with no other expectations a couple weeks later. An arrangement was never discussed. The girl didn't even know what I looked like. We met up and ate at a decent restaurant. Ended up finding out we had a lot of common interests and experiences, and the convo flowed over dinner. Afterwards, we transitioned to getting a room. She made it really easy to propose the room. Everything my buddy said about being with in her in the room was minimal compared to what I experienced with her. Kissing, BBBJ, bbfscip, msog, she moaned, and shower. It was really good. She initiated everything. Just laying on the bed and she automatically goes to taking my clothes off and hers. Even the second session after shower, she undid my towel to play with me. After I played with her a bit, she pulled me on top of her. It was a good time throughout. Dropped her off at her home, gave a hug and kiss, and talked about seeing each other again.

I only paid for the meal and dayuse room. Ppm and allowance were never brought up by either, and I know her ppm is decently high based on what my friend told me. This seems odd to me. It seemed like a legit date when that was not my expectation. Well, she hasn't responded yet to my text for a second date, but I also she supposedly has a pretty busy schedule.

Anyone else deal with girls that you never discussed ppm or allowance and just got away with not paying anything?

**DonnnyBravo** · 06-08-23 10:31

Originally Posted by Hawg219 [View Original Post]

Avoid this one. The short version is that she's a decent BBFSCIP, but her ppm is a steep 500 which she wants upfront. I was only stupid enough to fall for it after a glowing review from another member, and though I enjoyed my date with her, scheduling a second date with her has been near impossible. She's taken an additional 500 from me and constantly cancels the second date for me unless I fork over more despite the advance. She has an obsession with modding her car, and if there's the slightest thing to work on, she'll prioritize the car over you even if she needs your money badly. I've been canceled many times over that stupid car.

I cannot recommend if you value your time, it takes a great deal of effort to text her and get her attention. The young 20-something asian body is Not worth it, and if you don't want to heed my warning, enjoy the hours on end you'll waste trying to set something up. The looks and experience have not been worth the headache of her wasting your time and being unreliable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-586b773ff2b6

Don't fall for the photos. She may look great, but you'll endure a massive headache with her constantly ghosting you.

I see her from time to time. She's a good time when you can actually get a meet and she doesn't cancel last minute. She'll have no problem asking for cash help but is a real pain to collect on the credit later. I'm all settled up. I think that once credit is involved, it gets increasingly hard to see some of these girls. Their mentality is that they are seeing you for virtually no money or less money which isn't worth it in their mind. They don't think about that you already paid and that you're probably going to continue to see in the future. I saw her almost weekly. As soon as credit got involved, I didn't see her again for prob a month. She lost out on all those weeks bc of her mentality. Never give advances, or it will hurt you future opportunities. Make them want to see you again bc you have what they seek.

Her car and tats are everything and always priorities over meets even if she is behind on bills. I agree, don't count on this girl for anything reliable especially for her quoted price point. Always haggle down. A lot of these girls will do 150-200 or even less for multiple hrs or no real time limit. Some peeps just accept the asking price.

**ILoveThatPoo** · 06-08-23 10:25

Yes it was down for half a day but it's back up and running. I had the most interesting and annoying thing just happen to me.

I was favorited by a hot 24 year old in CT. I sent a message and we went back and forth 3-4 times. I looked away for 10 min and logged back on and she disappeared as if she never was there. Gone from my favorite or vied me list, messages gone, profile gone, no trace almost as if she was a figment of my imagination! No not even a blocked sign. I even looked in messages sent and there was nadda!

Weird. Ok back to fucking! Poo.

**Brennan1138** · 06-07-23 22:54

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

I guess it's time to move to the next target.

Who else is tapping this young ass?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...d-f1dc6feee11f

Care to share the details?

**Hawg219** · 06-07-23 21:34

Avoid this one. The short version is that she's a decent BBFSCIP, but her ppm is a steep 500 which she wants upfront. I was only stupid enough to fall for it after a glowing review from another member, and though I enjoyed my date with her, scheduling a second date with her has been near impossible. She's taken an additional 500 from me and constantly cancels the second date for me unless I fork over more despite the advance. She has an obsession with modding her car, and if there's the slightest thing to work on, she'll prioritize the car over you even if she needs your money badly. I've been canceled many times over that stupid car.

I cannot recommend if you value your time, it takes a great deal of effort to text her and get her attention. The young 20-something asian body is Not worth it, and if you don't want to heed my warning, enjoy the hours on end you'll waste trying to set something up. The looks and experience have not been worth the headache of her wasting your time and being unreliable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-586b773ff2b6

Don't fall for the photos. She may look great, but you'll endure a massive headache with her constantly ghosting you.

**SR Only** · 06-07-23 19:40

I had log in issues too. I figured they:

A) booted me.

B) blocked me.

C) the site was gone.

I logged in a moment ago, so back to mongering.

**TopGun9** · 06-07-23 16:46

Originally Posted by McKilla [View Original Post]

You my friend is most likely have the account suspended as myself.

Not really.

I got that same error message a few days ago. Give it a few hours, or maybe a day or two and should be able to log in just fine.

**McKilla** · 06-07-23 15:06

Originally Posted by OldPup [View Original Post]

Is anybody else having login problems?

Every time that I attempt, I receive this same message, "Sorry, we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. ".

You my friend is most likely have the account suspended as myself.