Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Yuk Phu]

Anyone here try friends-with-benefits.com? If so, any luck and is it any better than seeking.com? I created an account but haven't ponied up any cash. The girls seem more "real" than some of the other scam sites.

I think I have an answer. The site doesn't allow right-click so I snipped various picts and then searched on Tineye and Google. Tineye was more helpful and found picts out there from various sources.

[Yuk Phu]

Anyone here try friends-with-benefits.com? If so, any luck and is it any better than seeking.com? I created an account but haven't ponied up any cash. The girls seem more "real" than some of the other scam sites.

[BBFreak]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...c-a9e056e0ee69

How many of you dirty dogs are sticking your penis in this sweet piece?

Poo.

The link is to your inbox.

[ILoveThatPoo]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...c-a9e056e0ee69

How many of you dirty dogs are sticking your penis in this sweet piece?

Poo.

[Sutigel2]

Was it that chubby chick from New Haven, I was in a similar situation with her, she said she will report me at my job etc etc and tried to extort, kept on messaging from different numbers after I blocked her.

Skinny brunette from Springfield area. I was a bit scared, but also let her know that she was in the process of committing a felony. I wasn’t sure if my legal threats would work, but something got her to stop. In reality, she probably didn’t have as much info on me as she claimed. I am not sure she realized that we had some mutual acquaintances… or I could have had a legit problem.

[Chudakkad]

I had a girl attempt to blackmail me, even though I barely gave any personal info. Long story, but there was a small chance that she knew my civilian identity through some mutual acquaintances and work stuff. Fortunately, she overplayed her hand, and I was able to determine that she didn't know as much as she claimed. It was a tense couple of minutes. I reported her to seeking, included screenshots, etc. They thanked me. Within a week, she was back on with a different name and location. She eventually disappeared, but then reappeared yet again with yet another name and location. Then Covid hit. Haven't seen her online since.

So Im not sure how effective their bans are, at least in the case of this one particularly awful human being.

Was it that chubby chick from New Haven, I was in a similar situation with her, she said she will report me at my job etc etc and tried to extort, kept on messaging from different numbers after I blocked her.

[Sutigel2]

I think it's about any whiff of prostitution. They have to deal with payment processors that can pull the plug if they see illegal activity. People can report each other even for of site communication and upload evidence like screen shots of text messages. That's why reviews are helpful to avoid. I was with a girl that was banned. She said shortly after a bad meet, her account was banned. She said she never discussed money or activities through the site. I don't know how factual her story was.

I had a girl attempt to blackmail me, even though I barely gave any personal info. Long story, but there was a small chance that she knew my civilian identity through some mutual acquaintances and work stuff. Fortunately, she overplayed her hand, and I was able to determine that she didn't know as much as she claimed. It was a tense couple of minutes. I reported her to seeking, included screenshots, etc. They thanked me. Within a week, she was back on with a different name and location. She eventually disappeared, but then reappeared yet again with yet another name and location. Then Covid hit. Haven't seen her online since.

So I’m not sure how effective their bans are, at least in the case of this one particularly awful human being.

[DonnnyBravo]

In observing the posts of folks who get banned on SA over the years, my initial reaction was like yours, BMD. They are making a quick buck by taking your payment and then not allowing you to use their services. However, when you think about it from a simple business model, it makes no sense. Their bread and butter, outside of advertisers, are the paying Daddys. Why would they want to cut off that revenue stream? There must be something else that factors into their banning practices. Perhaps the risk of having even the faintest whiff of prostitution related content on their site or subscribers who are reported on by Sugars for risky exchanges, far outweighs the loss of monthly subscriber fees. I've never paid to use SA so I have no first hand experience with dealing with their policies. I have a simple login that only allows me to see who's on it.

I think it's about any whiff of prostitution. They have to deal with payment processors that can pull the plug if they see illegal activity. People can report each other even for of site communication and upload evidence like screen shots of text messages. That's why reviews are helpful to avoid. I was with a girl that was banned. She said shortly after a bad meet, her account was banned. She said she never discussed money or activities through the site. I don't know how factual her story was.

[TopGun9]

This scammer goes by flores.

Another cash grab scammer. Wants half of the money transferred before the meet. Told her / them to go suck a horse's dick. Sadly bee seeing too many of these scammers on SA. Give me the god damn old CRAIGLIST back.

[TopGun9]

This girl is looking to move in with you if you have a spare bedroom.

I can imagine such a move will end up with way more headaches than it's worth the pussy.

[DarkClouds]

Agree. They are very sensitive to any STG type of language. It might take some practice to learn how to succeed there. Bottom line, be a gentleman.

[Stickman55]

So I went on Seeking to look at some profiles. I only paid for one month of subscription last year and haven't sent a msg to any girl since October. I did get the original warning and watched the video thingy to get back in, but I haven't met any nee girls since and watched what I said. How does one get banned without sending msg's for over 7 mo? Seems pretty random. I'm currently seeing one girl that I met from there but never had any issues with her and on good terms. A second girl I only got her number bc I didn't have her new number, but I haven't seen her since December and we still talk on the phone. Why would I get flagged many months later?

Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.

In observing the posts of folks who get banned on SA over the years, my initial reaction was like yours, BMD. They are making a quick buck by taking your payment and then not allowing you to use their services. However, when you think about it from a simple business model, it makes no sense. Their bread and butter, outside of advertisers, are the paying Daddys. Why would they want to cut off that revenue stream? There must be something else that factors into their banning practices. Perhaps the risk of having even the faintest whiff of prostitution related content on their site or subscribers who are reported on by Sugars for risky exchanges, far outweighs the loss of monthly subscriber fees. I've never paid to use SA so I have no first hand experience with dealing with their policies. I have a simple login that only allows me to see who's on it.

[Big Mac Daddy]

I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.

Ain't that quaint!

You're guilty of something but it's a secret. It's their new way of stealing member funds since they have no balls.

BMD.

[DonnnyBravo]

E-mail their Support people. They at least owe you a reason. It could be an old grudge from the past or a mistake on their side.

BMD.

I tried emailing them. They said I already had a warning and I violated after the warning based on their "evidence". They said that they cannot share the evidence with me and the case is closed. Any further inquiries will not receive a response. Oh well.

[JDeller]

Cashapp is useless and they crack me up. They tell you to ask for the money back from the person who scammed you. Yeah right. The cc company makes sense and is a bit different. Best thing to do is never use cashapp unless with you are with a long time SB. I got scammed once to help a SB I saw a couple of times but discovered the elaborate and rather convincing scam too late after the money was sent. Could have tried other measures (legal, etc) to get the money back but the best thing to do is just move on and learn from it. Don't think bringing a SB scam to court is in your best interest, especially for a couple of hundred dollars.

I've dealt with cashapp before and they're like. Just work it out with who you sent it to. My buddy disputed with his cc company and they pulled it back right away. Funny bc the girl unblocked him to ***** him out for causing her to overdraft. Sucks to be her. Next time don't scam.