Non Pro's

**MilfHunter66** · 05-19-23 22:02

The last couple of months I had contact with several women ages 35-45. Several lead to phone calls. I would say I hit it off really good with 3 of them. When it came time to meet in person they all either had some sort of excuse or just went ghost. These were like let's meet for a nice dinner and go from there meetups. That's what they were asking for too.

I'm coming to a conclusion that most of those women just want to know a guy wants them. They want to feel wanted but don't really want anything physical. It's like there just out to to with men and collect them.

Maybe it's just me LOL. I have had good luck with the mid 20's to early 30's BTW.

**KnoxNenters** · 05-19-23 21:12

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I feel like a manwhore, I keep knowing all these fucked up people.

You're not alone, brother. I think we all have stories. But she sounds like the reddest of all flags. Escorts at least operate in the open about what they're up to, and are most likely using protection. A girl on seeking having unprotected sex 4-5 times for money is clearly a trafficked prostitute, and that boyfriend story isn't real. Yikes.

I wish all of us were able to share more red-flag stories with girls active on these sites, to help the rest of us save time and resources. None of us go out searching for these types. To find out they're that way after all the energy we put into finding someone is super frustrating. There's already too many frustrations with liars, scammers, no-shows, desperate for money but too lazy to change their life-types.

The Portland Non-Pros forum (http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...1774-Non-Pro-s) has a saint, Mizunate (http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/sear...earchid=903803) doing the lord's work of calling out the ones he has come across that are worth avoiding. We should have someone here do that. How about all of us? LOL.

**HelloThar** · 05-19-23 21:00

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

Thanks for the info. I didn't get any of that info out of her on our meetup.

She ended up contacting me just a little bit ago. Her crazy came out big time LOL. Went from acting shy to bat shit crazy. I had to block her, I just don't want to deal with that.

Some of these women can put up a good act for you. But there act eventually shows cracks and falls apart. Oh well on to the next.

I feel if you do a decent job filtering out the crazies that the types on here seem a bit more levelheaded at least.

I'm actually surprised coming across some people you normally wouldn't think would be in this scene due to their background or career such as tech professionals in big companies. Or they're someone you wouldn't even mind dating if circumstances were different or they were closer in age.

Just shows everyone has their hustles.

**MilfHunter66** · 05-19-23 20:29

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

DJ Sybian, I met around April or May of last year. She came to my place a few times for $400 each. We hit it off, but there are a million red flags.

1. After we had sex, she said she'd be raped 3 weeks earlier. Claimed that she was doing Instacart and someone drugged her while she was shopping, took her out of the store. She woke up naked in the back of pick up truck with some guy stripping her car. According to her, the police showed up, told her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. The story is so unbelievable that I was skeptical. I believe she was raped, but I couldn't imagine any cop in Washington State encountering a naked woman claiming she was raped and telling her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. I believe it has something to do with the other things she told me.

2. She mentioned she was raped previously to this instance. She got drunk and woke up being fucked by several guys. Never reported.

3. Before that, she was raped again. She was at a bar, got drunk and woke up in a hotel room with two guys having sex with her. Once they were done, they put her on the streets to work for several weeks. She eventually got sick and they dumped her off at the hospital. When she was discharged, she didn't have anywhere to go, so she went back to motel looking for the guys that trafficked her.

4. Her best sexual experience was when she took on six guys. I asked how it happened, she didn't remember how it started but she was really drunk (see a pattern here?).

5. She was seeing 4-5 people per day on Seeking. No screening at all, all bareback (because guys didn't want to pay if it wasn't bareback). If they had $400 she'd immediately go to their place, no questions asked.

All of that made me realize that she has too many issues to fuck. I finally casually mentioned that it's sounds like she has a problem with alcohol. If you've been raped at least three times while drunk (I believe she had a couple of more rapes that happened to her, she said she was really unlucky) and had a gang bang while drunk. I also mentioned that I was concerned for her safety with her basically going to any guys house that has $400 without screening. She got EXTREMELY pissed at me for bringing it up (You don't know me!). So, I just blocked from my phone and online and got tested.

Oh and as far as this instance. She had a boyfriend that took care of her (she didn't need to work as an escort) and he hated that she was going out and working. She would fuck people to piss him off and (of course) for money. If I remember correctly, her boyfriend was tall and was on the spectrum. He had her arrested once for domestic violence.

In the end though, she was a great fuck (at the time, it's been a year, she may be jaded now), but all the crazy ones are great fucks.

I feel like a manwhore, I keep knowing all these fucked up people.

Thanks for the info. I didn't get any of that info out of her on our meetup.

She ended up contacting me just a little bit ago. Her crazy came out big time LOL. Went from acting shy to bat shit crazy. I had to block her, I just don't want to deal with that.

Some of these women can put up a good act for you. But there act eventually shows cracks and falls apart. Oh well on to the next.

**HelloThar** · 05-19-23 17:31

Originally Posted by CasMong75 [View Original Post]

I realized I hadn't finished setting up my profile to get connected with folks. I was curious what works best from your experience? What should one say vs. Not say?

I'm with some of the others on here and agree that being direct and fairly explicit, but respectful is best. I just don't have the patience to beat around the bush (heh). You might miss out on some that you could grind out and work with, but I don't mind that if it means weeding out a majority of time wasters, scammers, or those looking for something serious, one or two messages in or sooner.

A good example is asking if they're comfortable with intimacy and if they ask you to elaborate, ask if that means sex, or aren't confident in their reply, I almost always drop them. I don't mind a good reply while also saying they'd want to make sure we click first though.

Also it helps to put SB / SD / mutually beneficial in your bio, some do keyword searches. There are some who also hide themselves from being searched for discretion reasons, so it's worth having a good bio; they'll find you themselves.

If you aren't picky like I am or don't hate driving to downtown Seattle, you can find a few fairly easily. I would not be surprised if the majority are ones users in this thread already have arrangements with, but just aren't sharing. The pool of known, good SB's is smaller than one would think (though I think it'll be more common with time). Hell, I feel like I've gone through almost every profile in the area within the past few days. Just wish there were more non-Seattle ones.

**Michael1967** · 05-19-23 17:11

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

Avoid this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-f96f038609c1

Seen her once a few months ago. I wasn't going to see her again because it was just an ok time.

She reached out last week wanting to see me again. I figured what the heck maybe it would be better this time since we had been together once. Communication was great all week. A hour before she texted me saying how excited she was. I was going to her apartment BTW. About 10 minutes I let her know I was almost there. Parked texted I was there. Started walking to here place and was approached by a guy asking what I was doing here. I said I was visiting a friend. He said no I wasn't and should leave. So I did. I sent her a few more text but never heard anything back.

Be warned

DJ Sybian, I met around April or May of last year. She came to my place a few times for $400 each. We hit it off, but there are a million red flags.

1. After we had sex, she said she'd be raped 3 weeks earlier. Claimed that she was doing Instacart and someone drugged her while she was shopping, took her out of the store. She woke up naked in the back of pick up truck with some guy stripping her car. According to her, the police showed up, told her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. The story is so unbelievable that I was skeptical. I believe she was raped, but I couldn't imagine any cop in Washington State encountering a naked woman claiming she was raped and telling her to get dressed and go home and let the guy go. I believe it has something to do with the other things she told me.

2. She mentioned she was raped previously to this instance. She got drunk and woke up being fucked by several guys. Never reported.

3. Before that, she was raped again. She was at a bar, got drunk and woke up in a hotel room with two guys having sex with her. Once they were done, they put her on the streets to work for several weeks. She eventually got sick and they dumped her off at the hospital. When she was discharged, she didn't have anywhere to go, so she went back to motel looking for the guys that trafficked her.

4. Her best sexual experience was when she took on six guys. I asked how it happened, she didn't remember how it started but she was really drunk (see a pattern here?).

5. She was seeing 4-5 people per day on Seeking. No screening at all, all bareback (because guys didn't want to pay if it wasn't bareback). If they had $400 she'd immediately go to their place, no questions asked.

All of that made me realize that she has too many issues to fuck. I finally casually mentioned that it's sounds like she has a problem with alcohol. If you've been raped at least three times while drunk (I believe she had a couple of more rapes that happened to her, she said she was really unlucky) and had a gang bang while drunk. I also mentioned that I was concerned for her safety with her basically going to any guys house that has $400 without screening. She got EXTREMELY pissed at me for bringing it up (You don't know me!). So, I just blocked from my phone and online and got tested.

Oh and as far as this instance. She had a boyfriend that took care of her (she didn't need to work as an escort) and he hated that she was going out and working. She would fuck people to piss him off and (of course) for money. If I remember correctly, her boyfriend was tall and was on the spectrum. He had her arrested once for domestic violence.

In the end though, she was a great fuck (at the time, it's been a year, she may be jaded now), but all the crazy ones are great fucks.

I feel like a manwhore, I keep knowing all these fucked up people.

**MilfHunter66** · 05-19-23 16:06

Avoid this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-f96f038609c1

Seen her once a few months ago. I wasn't going to see her again because it was just an ok time.

She reached out last week wanting to see me again. I figured what the heck maybe it would be better this time since we had been together once. Communication was great all week. A hour before she texted me saying how excited she was. I was going to her apartment BTW. About 10 minutes I let her know I was almost there. Parked texted I was there. Started walking to here place and was approached by a guy asking what I was doing here. I said I was visiting a friend. He said no I wasn't and should leave. So I did. I sent her a few more text but never heard anything back.

Be warned

**DrtyHarry** · 05-19-23 15:25

Originally Posted by BuckNaked123 [View Original Post]

This one on SA cracks me up mainly because her name is Great Smile and in my opinion, her fake smile is not her strong point. Just curious, has anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-466a314fb30f

LOL. Thanks for making my day. Gosh how unbelievable her "smile" or rather cringe is.

**CasMong75** · 05-19-23 11:54

I realized I hadn't finished setting up my profile to get connected with folks. I was curious what works best from your experience? What should one say vs. Not say?

**BusSit69** · 05-19-23 11:17

Originally Posted by Bronco62 [View Original Post]

Thanks, she had a pro vibe.

She reminds me of this porn star named Kaden kole (cole)!

**DelToro** · 05-18-23 08:21

Originally Posted by ScotchYoke [View Original Post]

Nothing first hand, but.

https://www.tnaboard.com/member.php?592144-stormjay333

Nice and helpful catch.

She did remind me of a provider I used to see a few years ago. It's not her but they do look alike.

**MilfHunter66** · 05-17-23 23:22

Originally Posted by BuckNaked123 [View Original Post]

This one on SA cracks me up mainly because her name is Great Smile and in my opinion, her fake smile is not her strong point. Just curious, has anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-466a314fb30f

I sent her a message a while back. She never responded or even bothered to read it.

**BuckNaked123** · 05-17-23 22:28

This one on SA cracks me up mainly because her name is Great Smile and in my opinion, her fake smile is not her strong point. Just curious, has anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-466a314fb30f

**HelloThar** · 05-17-23 21:03

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-45545f8af29a

This one can host for $400. Not my type though after looking again, so didn't pursue. Have zero info other than that.

I think I missed out on 2-3 potential hookups so far based on polite replies back regarding them not being able to host, but not declining ppm. Will probably keep them in back pocket.

Also found some success and met someone for fun times in Seattle already, so dunno if I want more there. Hate driving downtown and had to go a benji higher but whatever, much better looks/value/service than most on other board. I'd love for one to be 15 min or closer to me but it's tough.

My profile being explicit as can be without violating guidelines definitely helps. I still get the occasional type that goes, "wait, you want what!?" after being fine with the ppm and it just blows my mind. As if I'd pay just to chat or be in their presence. The ones that know exactly what they want, what you want, and answer all your questions are the best tho sometimes you want someone new. The one I saw straight up said she loves sex when I tried asking tactfully.