The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[DJprofessorK]

I would never tell someone to sell themselves short or agree to terms that make them uncomfortable, but I feel like many of these women bought into the content of one too many 'influencer' SB's from a metropolitan area with a high millionaire per capita rate, and have no clue why the same isn't being replicated for them. I have no doubt that a woman who is an 11/10 or a 10/10 in NYC, LA, DC can land a high paid arrangement.

I do not, under most circumstances, believe that a 6/10 in Nebraska will ever see those sort of results. And most women don't want to accept that reality. Many of these women need to look into the median incomes of the places they live. And then be brutally honest with themselves:

'Am I a 10/10 in my area?

'Am I still in the prime of my youth?

'Am I willing to indulge in the whims of someone with those sort of resources?

'Do I come with baggage like a boyfriend / husband, children, or a difficult schedule?

'Am I okay with being someone's mistress and the issues that go along with that?

'Am I willing to be with someone I'm not physically attracted to? And can I fake it well?

When I've hobbied in the past, I've often messaged Girl Next Door types, and many have quoted 700 to 1 k. And I always ask, 'Have you personally received those amounts?' I have yet to come across a GND type who has gotten anywhere near those numbers. I'm not saying it hasn't happened, I just haven't seen it. Sometimes they lie and say, 'yup. All the time. ' And then I say, 'well, I don't want to waste your time, good luck!' And more than a few times, in the span of a few minutes or a few days, they'll message again and want to keep talking.

I know those online SB forums suggest that women wait for 'the whale'. And that's good sense. What they leave out is that by the very nature of the whale, there AREN'T VERY MANY. And the vast majority of those women, the whales DON'T WANT THEM. And will absolutely NOT put up with the whole 'sex once a month'. That's both hilarious and misleading.

They're not helping these women. Stop telling fat women, women with criminal records, women with multiple kids, and women with volatile relationships that millionaires are lining up to be with them. That's a lie. It's also why most women quit SA before they even meet anyone. Those sort of numbers, in most parts of the US, do not exist.

I lived in DC till about 3 years ago. It started out great there. Lot's of fun dates, beautiful girls, less BS. One of the girls told me about an online book named "How to be a Sugar Baby. I read it. Was crazy. It says girls should charge $1000 a week and limit the texting and chatting. Claimed it made the man more generous. They said sex once a month was enough too. I chatted with quite a few girls who read the book. Silly. This isn't rocket science, it's just a very personal business deal. Now seeking arrangements is like a Prostitute website.

[VincentLeMec]

I lived in DC till about 3 years ago. It started out great there. Lot's of fun dates, beautiful girls, less BS. One of the girls told me about an online book named "How to be a Sugar Baby. I read it. Was crazy. It says girls should charge $1000 a week and limit the texting and chatting. Claimed it made the man more generous. They said sex once a month was enough too. I chatted with quite a few girls who read the book. Silly. This isn't rocket science, it's just a very personal business deal. Now seeking arrangements is like a Prostitute website.

It's hit or miss, some crazed 38 year old wanted 4 k a month. But some are still working out really well. .

[GregG73]

The amount of chicks on there that I wouldn't touch for free is staggering. And they have the audacity to ask for money for talking to them. LOL.

It's hit or miss, some crazed 38 year old wanted 4 k a month. But some are still working out really well. .

[JMot87]

SA has become a real shit show over the past year. I first get on in Feb of 2022 and in a three month period, I went on about 30 dates with attractive women and slept with half of them for free. It's like those girls were too afraid or ashamed to ask for anything in return. Best time of my adult life. Now it's almost all bullshitters, scammers or old / fat chicks.

The amount of chicks on there that I wouldn't touch for free is staggering. And they have the audacity to ask for money for talking to them. LOL.

[DbbClassy2]

SA has become a real shit show over the past year. I first get on in Feb of 2022 and in a three month period, I went on about 30 dates with attractive women and slept with half of them for free. It's like those girls were too afraid or ashamed to ask for anything in return. Best time of my adult life. Now it's almost all bullshitters, scammers or old / fat chicks.

[SmallAsianCock]

Any info on this lady. PM me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-c2715df8fc52

[Ncsmm]

Looks like her profile not active.

Look for Laya on SA. I don't know if she's active these days, but I saw her a couple times when she was still in the Raleigh area. Cute girl, very pleasant company. I haven't seen her again only because she's all the way in Greenville. If you contact her, I'd be curious as to if she's still active and doing arrangements.

[South215]

Anyone got any info on this one? Pm is open if you prefer to keep it private!!

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-2e7e2f13cc1d

[LikesGirls]

Any recommendations in Greenville nc?

Thanks.

Look for Laya on SA. I don't know if she's active these days, but I saw her a couple times when she was still in the Raleigh area. Cute girl, very pleasant company. I haven't seen her again only because she's all the way in Greenville. If you contact her, I'd be curious as to if she's still active and doing arrangements.

[ElectricHug]

I wonder if this is what's behind the rash of profiles who initiate contact and then immediately ask for a phone number? The excuse is always canned, if not word for word, "I don't check this very often, what's your number so we can message directly?" I always ignore those because real women are all afraid of being murdered so you have to win their trust before they give out any numbers.

Probably not doxxing as often as a run-of-the-mill upfront pay / deposit / plea for emergency money / plane ticket money. Same reasoning as it's in everyone's interest to communicate off the site -- avoid a ban.

Any info on this lady will be appreciated. Has she been on and off SA?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-78298e61de79

Fake -- https://www.instagram.com/p/CembUhROCy8/.

[SmallAsianCock]

Any info on this lady will be appreciated. Has she been on and off SA?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-78298e61de79

[Ncsmm]

Any recommendations in Greenville nc?

Thanks.

[DbbClassy2]

PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.

I wonder if this is what's behind the rash of profiles who initiate contact and then immediately ask for a phone number? The excuse is always canned, if not word for word, "I don't check this very often, what's your number so we can message directly?" I always ignore those because real women are all afraid of being murdered so you have to win their trust before they give out any numbers.

[SexGeek]

PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.

I've only my true number once. That was 4 years into a sugar relationship and she had given me her actual address. I don't care if you are married, civilian relationship. I have a number for mongering. Use that until you have trust and no feelings. I've heard d of guys losing everything because they revealed too much to soon. It's not a real boy meets girl relationship!

[Swimmer123]

PSA to never give your real number ever. Use a fake number or Snapchat. Anyone who insists on your real number does not have good intentions. I've given my real number with success before but the other week a scammer doxxed me some and demanded money. Thankfully all they had was my name and as soon as they sent the text that showed my number looked up I set every social media account to paused / hidden. They showed their hand too soon and I was able to hide everything in time so once it was clear they had nothing else on me I just blocked their number and relaxed. They moved on to lower hanging fruit. Anyways never give your real number until you have met them and are sure they are legit. Been doing this for years and it was the first time I ever dealt with it. Thankfully they showed their hand too early and I had time to hide my online presence.