Arrangement Reports

[Freakspead]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-e1779f2870fb

Want's 1 K per meet. I asked her if she was staying for the week.

This one wants 1 K a meet too. I had a good conversation with her. But I told her I can't do that much. https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-39f8d662b279.

[Dbomb]

Living the good life!

I 100% cosign what you're saying. And it sounds like the gals you been laying are fitting your neeeds. That's what its all about. It takes a while sometimes to find the right person on SA. But when you find that hidden gem. Hang on for dear life!

It could all just outright go to shit right now and I'd still be glad I had the experiences I did. Even when the average ask rises, the great ones will make it worth it.

[Dbomb]

I think it's called CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). Super fun with someone trusting, and I did it a couple of times with a few girls I hooked up on Feeld.

BTW do you take them out for drinks before? Or are they ever willing to meet you in person in the hotel / their place directly? If it's the latter do you provide any assurance so that they know they're safe in your company?

CNC is the term, yeah. I've never done a meet and greet or date beforehand, always straight to my place, theirs, or rarely a hotel. If they express any concern over safety I just tell them they can let someone trustworthy know they'll be hanging out with a guy named (my first name) at this or that time and place, etc and they'll check in later if everything is ok. Sometimes I do this too with friends of mine.

This might sound crazy, but I personally have my own security practices on the very off chance I get killed or something. I leave a note or some other message in a place that I know would be checked were I to disappear or die, plainly stating who I'm about to meet (to the best of my knowledge), where, their number, that I found them on SA, and their profile name. I also often google phone numbers. Sometimes I'll find some info via sites like Peoplesearch dot now. I fully expect them to try to do the same with me, and that's fine, though I have a hard time finding anything about me on the internet.

I have to say I'm pretty shocked by how careless how some of these women are. I first met the CNC girl at her place at night, less than 2 hours after she replied on seeking and we started texting. Her roommate was out of town so it was just us and some nice cats. I remember thinking that someone with bad intentions could do anything to her and no one would know for quite a while. She was clearly book smart and her place was very neat and clean, but sometimes those are the most sexually reckless ones.

[Meddic80]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-e1779f2870fb

Want's 1 K per meet. I asked her if she was staying for the week.

"Staying for week" hahaha.

[FruitNinja]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-e1779f2870fb

Want's 1 K per meet. I asked her if she was staying for the week.

[Bill Underwood]

Living the good life!

I 100% cosign what you're saying. And it sounds like the gals you been laying are fitting your neeeds. That's what its all about. It takes a while sometimes to find the right person on SA. But when you find that hidden gem. Hang on for dear life!

I would agree with $400-500 being the norm. If I haven't met the girl yet and they ask, that is usually what I tell them. However, once I meet them and especially after seeing them a couple of times, then maybe I stay there, occasionally I go higher or I go lower depending on actual looks, how the energy goes and how long the dates last. Right now, the girl I see is around $300 each time but she seems to have an issue staying the night which in my case is something I enjoy and is a positive but not all of us are in the same spot.

[Freakspead]

The most I've ever given a SB is 300, which seems to be a common ask, and I almost always got 2-4 hours, no rubber, no pulling out. The least I gave was 150, back in 2017 with a very sexy 20 year old girl who just wanted to relax and get some bills paid. 300 for 3 to 4 hours with a 26-27 year old who was built like a yoga / pilates instructor who liked being dominated and simulating, how do I say, "non-consensual scenarios". I'm still grateful for and shocked by some of the experiences I've had with women of THAT caliber for 300 and under, always pumping every drop into them. Another was a Hispanic MILF, late 20's, very sweet and caring, and some baby damage which somehow made her sexier to me. She wanted 300 as well. These figures are what they asked for, no negotiation from me. They've all since moved on from the scene.

My most recent was a married Hispanic woman who was nice, plain face with a decent body and made it clear she was only doing this to help her family. I saw her several times. 240 for only one hour (not ideal but oh well) due to work schedules and her husband (he didn't know). Creampies and CIM every time. No daty, nothing near the back door, no kissing. She was never enthusiastic but took direction well. She would try to stay quiet and reserved, but I'd manage to get her moaning and crying sometimes until finally feeling her cum on my fingers or cock, clenching and relaxing over and over. Felt like a cigar cutter LOL. Eventually she stopped texting. Profile is long gone. I think she felt guilty, or maybe her man found out. I hope she's alright.

400-500 will probably be the norm soon. I'm open to giving that much as long as she can host or come to me (there's no way I'm giving 400 or more AND covering a decent hotel room) we have at least a few hours together and not a rubber in sight, and she's punctual, disease free, showered, and nice. I don't expect a fitness model (but I'll take one), nor do I accept obesity. The looks are a secondary concern, behind attitude and performance. I consider my standards to be more than fair.

Living the good life!

I 100% cosign what you're saying. And it sounds like the gals you been laying are fitting your neeeds. That's what its all about. It takes a while sometimes to find the right person on SA. But when you find that hidden gem. Hang on for dear life!

[Smitsy54]

Never heard of Feeld before. Looks interesting. Is it worth the time and money?

It's a good site for non-monogamous individuals who're looking to date / hook up with other non-monogamous people. But similar to other dating sites, there's no guarantee that your conversations will lead to a date, and your date will lead to a hookup. Personally I get bogged down by the hassle of chatting up girls for the "potential" that it may lead to something fruitful. That's why I prefer the convenience / guarantee of escorts or sugar babies.

It is still a fun site to explore though, but you might want to state that you're in an ethical non-monogamous relationship, since that's what most women on the site are seeking.

[Smitsy54]

Never heard of Feeld before. Looks interesting. Is it worth the time and money?

It's an pretty good dating / hookup app for non-monogamous people. But similar to Tinder, Okcupid etc, there's no guarantee that the date will end up in a hookup. Personally I feel I get bogged down by the distraction of dating apps and can't concentrate on work as much as I want to. That's why I prefer the convenience / guarantee of escorts or sugar baby.

But it's a fun site to explore. From my experience I feel the girls there prefer someone who's ethically non-monogamous, so you might want to state it as such.

[MwmChicago]

I think it's called CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). Super fun with someone trusting, and I did it a couple of times with a few girls I hooked up on Feeld.

BTW do you take them out for drinks before? Or are they ever willing to meet you in person in the hotel / their place directly? If it's the latter do you provide any assurance so that they know they're safe in your company?

Never heard of Feeld before. Looks interesting. Is it worth the time and money?

[Smitsy54]

300 for 3 to 4 hours with a 26-27 year old who was built like a yoga / pilates instructor who liked being dominated and simulating, how do I say, "non-consensual scenarios".

I think it's called CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). Super fun with someone trusting, and I did it a couple of times with a few girls I hooked up on Feeld.

BTW do you take them out for drinks before? Or are they ever willing to meet you in person in the hotel / their place directly? If it's the latter do you provide any assurance so that they know they're safe in your company?

[NewCleve]

Do not waste your time.

At first when chatting and even had lunch with her, was cool. But she was dead fish in bed. Was a redhrad and her profile was something akin to Strawberry Shortcake. But good god did she suck in bed. And not in a good way.

Seriously one of the worst lays. Lots of cats too.

[Dbomb]

So I am negotiating with a prospect. She is 6 feet tall, slim and fit, soft skin, her face only ok (being honest here LOL). We have good chemistry, and I think the vibe could lead to very good things. We met socially a couple of times. Great conversation, and we both acknowledge the chemistry is there. So, the conversation.

She can't host, and initially asked for $800 per meet. (Yes, you read that correctly). I told her that I respect what she asks for, but that is a bit much. I told her that I don't employ anyone, and at $800 I couldn't see her much in a month because that adds up (plus hotels, etc.). What are you guys really paying for quality sugar babies that you want to see long term? I agreed to $500, and I figure if I don't think it's worth it I will either move on or tell her it has to be lower. I do think that I'm going to get everything I want though, so I am not upset to settle on $500. But I am curious, as I have been in the SB game a while, but I only recently moved to Chicago. So what are you paying, and what are you getting.

I will say this, at $500, I expect great chemistry and passionate intimacy. I expect her to open the menu and let me experiment on her (to her great pleasure I might add). I don't expect to hear the word "no" very often at all.

What about you guys?

The most I've ever given a SB is 300, which seems to be a common ask, and I almost always got 2-4 hours, no rubber, no pulling out. The least I gave was 150, back in 2017 with a very sexy 20 year old girl who just wanted to relax and get some bills paid. 300 for 3 to 4 hours with a 26-27 year old who was built like a yoga / pilates instructor who liked being dominated and simulating, how do I say, "non-consensual scenarios". I'm still grateful for and shocked by some of the experiences I've had with women of THAT caliber for 300 and under, always pumping every drop into them. Another was a Hispanic MILF, late 20's, very sweet and caring, and some baby damage which somehow made her sexier to me. She wanted 300 as well. These figures are what they asked for, no negotiation from me. They've all since moved on from the scene.

My most recent was a married Hispanic woman who was nice, plain face with a decent body and made it clear she was only doing this to help her family. I saw her several times. 240 for only one hour (not ideal but oh well) due to work schedules and her husband (he didn't know). Creampies and CIM every time. No daty, nothing near the back door, no kissing. She was never enthusiastic but took direction well. She would try to stay quiet and reserved, but I'd manage to get her moaning and crying sometimes until finally feeling her cum on my fingers or cock, clenching and relaxing over and over. Felt like a cigar cutter LOL. Eventually she stopped texting. Profile is long gone. I think she felt guilty, or maybe her man found out. I hope she's alright.

400-500 will probably be the norm soon. I'm open to giving that much as long as she can host or come to me (there's no way I'm giving 400 or more AND covering a decent hotel room) we have at least a few hours together and not a rubber in sight, and she's punctual, disease free, showered, and nice. I don't expect a fitness model (but I'll take one), nor do I accept obesity. The looks are a secondary concern, behind attitude and performance. I consider my standards to be more than fair.

[Freakspead]

So I am negotiating with a prospect. She is 6 feet tall, slim and fit, soft skin, her face only ok (being honest here LOL). We have good chemistry, and I think the vibe could lead to very good things. We met socially a couple of times. Great conversation, and we both acknowledge the chemistry is there. So, the conversation.

She can't host, and initially asked for $800 per meet. (Yes, you read that correctly). I told her that I respect what she asks for, but that is a bit much. I told her that I don't employ anyone, and at $800 I couldn't see her much in a month because that adds up (plus hotels, etc.). What are you guys really paying for quality sugar babies that you want to see long term? I agreed to $500, and I figure if I don't think it's worth it I will either move on or tell her it has to be lower. I do think that I'm going to get everything I want though, so I am not upset to settle on $500. But I am curious, as I have been in the SB game a while, but I only recently moved to Chicago. So what are you paying, and what are you getting.

I will say this, at $500, I expect great chemistry and passionate intimacy. I expect her to open the menu and let me experiment on her (to her great pleasure I might add). I don't expect to hear the word "no" very often at all.

What about you guys?

I'm seeing a gal right now. Amazing in bed. We have a ton of chemistry and very early on talked about what she likes, and what I like. And we've been giving it to each other since. Meeting her regularly, couple of times a month. $350 every time we meet. She's done it all in her life and I'm sure she's down to experiment. Haven't built up enough trust / time with her yet to fully experiment. But I would expect her not to say No very often at all either.

There are a few girls on the side I dabble with. Including an Indian gal. She's a bit more. Like 400. But we haven't seen each other enough. So I'll live with that cost.

For the most part I start at 300 and go to 350 if needed. And I've been having decent luck with that.

[Meddic80]

So I am negotiating with a prospect. She is 6 feet tall, slim and fit, soft skin, her face only ok (being honest here LOL). We have good chemistry, and I think the vibe could lead to very good things. We met socially a couple of times. Great conversation, and we both acknowledge the chemistry is there. So, the conversation.

She can't host, and initially asked for $800 per meet. (Yes, you read that correctly). I told her that I respect what she asks for, but that is a bit much. I told her that I don't employ anyone, and at $800 I couldn't see her much in a month because that adds up (plus hotels, etc.). What are you guys really paying for quality sugar babies that you want to see long term? I agreed to $500, and I figure if I don't think it's worth it I will either move on or tell her it has to be lower. I do think that I'm going to get everything I want though, so I am not upset to settle on $500. But I am curious, as I have been in the SB game a while, but I only recently moved to Chicago. So what are you paying, and what are you getting.

I will say this, at $500, I expect great chemistry and passionate intimacy. I expect her to open the menu and let me experiment on her (to her great pleasure I might add). I don't expect to hear the word "no" very often at all.

What about you guys?

If she's totally my type, cannot host and I need to get a room 450 max. If her looks is ok, but can fuck 350.