Strip Club Reports

[FreeWally]

Blame California and their asinine employment rules. I do agree that I've had better luck on lap dances at SR lately though.

Different clubs have different variations, I know a dancer at SR who used to work at Paradise and she says the SR system works better for her. Another dancer said the same. "it motivates her to work harder" to make it back she says. Whereas at the Kim clubs the dancers are literally afraid to go on their first VIP unless it's "worth it".

I saw Safari at Synn where I said let's go VIP and she stopped me to make sure I wanted extras. I said sorry I'm just here to try out the club but I will tip you. She thanked me and walked off. She was very polite about it, I don't even hold it against her. Bottom line there are a lot of "extras only" girls at Synn.

I take about 10 girls to VIP at SR each year and have never had a single bad dance. Each one has a different limit, but compared to clubs where I'm from it's sky high and actually more than I'm looking for. So I'm good.

[CaseyX]

What a coincidence I went on Sunday and Kaylani gave me the exact same experience. We started the dance and I touched her briefly before she pushed my hands away. Was confused, but she then said it's a tip to touch her. She wasn't that good so I declined and had the same awkward dance.

At Spearmint Rhino just 1 block away it's full contact dances even for the 4 for 2 ($40 topless $80 nude).

That was my first and only lap dance experience at Synn, so I just left for SR. Apparently with the quota system here with the first $140 the club keeps all of it. So she's basically dancing on us for free and has no incentive to actually give a dance unless we tips. It's a bad system and these girls are not strippers. They are not here to properly dance for us. Dancing is literally an extra!

Blame California and their asinine employment rules. I suppose the club could come up with a different system that preserves some incentives but it's a strip club and a Kim club at that so I don't expect much business sense. That said, there are still dancers at Synn who have a clue and give good lap dances without demanding tips in advance. Just walk away from the ones like Kaylani.

I do agree that I've had better luck on lap dances at SR lately though.

[FreeWally]

Had a bad experience at Synn lately (some good ones too but nothing crazy), worst was Kaylani. Went back for a 2 for 40 with her and she told me it was an additional 20 tip to touch her at all. Considered just walking there but instead got an incredibly awkward dance.

What a coincidence I went on Sunday and Kaylani gave me the exact same experience. We started the dance and I touched her briefly before she pushed my hands away. Was confused, but she then said it's a tip to touch her. She wasn't that good so I declined and had the same awkward dance.

At Spearmint Rhino just 1 block away it's full contact dances even for the 4 for 2 ($40 topless $80 nude).

That was my first and only lap dance experience at Synn, so I just left for SR. Apparently with the quota system here with the first $140 the club keeps all of it. So she's basically dancing on us for free and has no incentive to actually give a dance unless we tips. It's a bad system and these girls are not strippers. They are not here to properly dance for us. Dancing is literally an extra!

[CaseyX]

** Some minor improvements: Add weekday name. Fix splitting of dancer names. Show approximately 10 days of history.

** The upload looks decent, but unfortunately preview and actual post still kind of suck. Maybe newline handling, tab to space conversion or fixed width vs proportional font??

** Will post each "weekly summary" rollcall as a separate report with the ending date in the title.

** Working on something similar for Spearmint Rhino COI.

Wednesday 04-05 day Lust, Ava, Raya, Angel, Cherish, Mya, Gemma, Maryjane.

Shorty, Raven, Jodi, Emerald, Mercedes.

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I'd suggest removing newlines from within each day. Let the reader's browser breaking lines up. Just putting all the dancer names for one shift in a single line should be easier and would probably end up looking better. IMO anyway.

[Billj1034]

** Some minor improvements: Add weekday name. Fix splitting of dancer names. Show approximately 10 days of history.

** The upload looks decent, but unfortunately preview and actual post still kind of suck. Maybe newline handling, tab to space conversion or fixed width vs proportional font??

** Will post each "weekly summary" rollcall as a separate report with the ending date in the title.

** Working on something similar for Spearmint Rhino COI.

Wednesday 04-05 day Lust, Ava, Raya, Angel, Cherish, Mya, Gemma, Maryjane.

Shorty, Raven, Jodi, Emerald, Mercedes.

Wednesday 04-05 night Precious, Jada, Saweetie, Chanel, Daisy, Meadow, Kaylani.

Krystal, Katrina, Lilly, Aria, Honey, Esme, Iris, Shyane.

Rose, Tiny, Lolie, Yuri, Sapphire, Blue, Lola, Venus.

Thursday 04-06 day Raya, Lizzy, Andrea, Amari, Bambi, Jocelyn, Texass, Angel.

Gina, Skylar, Shirley, Gemma, Maryjane, Fiji, Rosetta.

Aria, Diamond, Raven, Nyomi, Jodi, Keyoko, Shay, Cattleya.

Emerald, Riri, Mercedes.

Thursday 04-06 night Jasmine, Brooklyn, K2. , Cinnamon, Kendall, Saweetie.

Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra, Jewels, June, Texass, Cherish.

Mulan, Sunny, Fantasy, Simone, Meadow, Katrina, Miso.

Sally, Cleo, Belle, Malaysia, Ivy, Rose, Tiny, Yuri, Dream.

Renee, Vikki, Sapphire, Demi, NeNe, NYOKO, Klair, Heidi.

Isabella, Melanie, Lola, Irie, Venus.

Friday 04-07 day Raya, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Krystal, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini.

Diamond, Yaya, Lala, Jodi, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald.

Mercedes.

Friday 04-07 night Jasmine, Anara, Brooklyn, K2. , Cinnamon, Zonnay, Andrea.

Bambi, Nikki, Aioki, Texass, Catherine, Daisy, Lex.

Princess, Capri, Cleo, Honey, Shyane, Cielo, Nyomi, Dream.

Renee, Kaitlyn, Yaya, Sapphire, Nadia, NeNe, NYOKO, Klair.

Dulce, Isabella, Venus, Barbie, Sadie, Ari.

Saturday 04-08 day Lust, Lizzy, Cinnamon, Pia, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini, Shorty.

Yaya, Josie, Keyoko, Mariah, Shay, Heidi, Cattleya, Emerald.

Saturday 04-08 night Precious, Leah, K2. , Bonnie, Blaze, Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra.

Texass, Sunny, Gabbana, Nova, Princess, Indica, Tiny.

Raven, Sapphire, NeNe, NYOKO, Isabella, Venus, Barbie.

Sunday 04-09 day Pia, NeNe, Mariah, Shay.

Sunday 04-09 night K2. , Andrea, Bailey, Cielo, Nadia, Irie, Barbie.

Monday 04-10 day Lust, Bonnie, Andrea, Sierra, Dime, Amari, Skylar, Shirley.

Katrina, Snow, NeNe, Henny, Mariah, Shay, Riri, Jessica.

Monday 04-10 night Lust, Leah, Cinnamon, Saweetie, Blaze, Cherish, Simone.

Kaylani, Bailey, Yuri, Renee, Blue, Heidi.

Tuesday 04-11 day Lust, Raya, Dime, Amari, Aioki, Jocelyn, Texass, Gina.

Sunny, Shirley, Diamond, Lala, Mariah, Cattleya, Riri.

Jessica.

Tuesday 04-11 night Jasmine, Leah, Jada, Bambi, Cherish, Mulan, Daisy, Flower.

Belinda, Alice, Katrina, Fiji, Lilly, Aria, Honey, Rose.

Yuri, Sapphire, NeNe, NYOKO, Blue, Dulce, Sakura, Lola.

Wednesday 04-12 day Raya, Kendall, Andrea, Shyla, Gemma, Fiji, Sweets, Diamond.

Raven, Nyomi, Lala, Dulce, Keyoko, Emerald, Riri, Jessica.

Wednesday 04-12 night Jasmine, Safari, Precious, Jada, Saweetie, Bonnie, Blaze.

Chanel, Sierra, Cherish, Meadow, Kaylani, Indica, Remmy.

Honey, Esme, Tiny, Lolie, Naima, Sapphire, NYOKO, Blue.

Lola, Salena, Milly, Clarissa.

Thursday 04-13 day Lust, Lizzy, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Jocelyn, Angel, Gina.

Shyla, Shirley, Fiji, Malaysia, Diamond, Nyomi, Kisses.

Stacy, Yaya, Sapphire, NeNe, Jodi, NYOKO, Shay, Cattleya.

Emerald, Riri, Suzzy, Mercedes, Jessica, Jessica Rose.

Thursday 04-13 night Lust, Jasmine, Leah, K2. , Cinnamon, Kendall, Zonnay.

Bonnie, Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra, Bambi, Texass, Cherish.

Catherine, Mulan, Simone, Meadow, Kaylani, Belinda.

Gabbana, Lex, Krystal, Alice, Katrina, Rosetta, Indica.

Cleo, Aria, Esme, Rose, Tiny, Lolie, Raven, Dream, Renee.

Lexi, Vikki, Sapphire, NYOKO, Josie, Klair, Dulce, Heidi.

Lola, Milly, Irie, Venus, Barbie, Sadie, Ari.

Friday 04-14 day Jasmine, Ava, Raya, Andrea, Dime, Gina, Krystal, Skylar.

Shirley, Fiji, Velvet, Malaysia, Gemini, Sweets, Diamond.

Stacy, Yaya, NeNe, Jodi, Keyoko, Cattleya, Riri, Suzzy.

Mercedes, Jessica.

Friday 04-14 night K2. , Cinnamon, Zonnay, Saweetie, Bonnie, Blaze, Andrea.

Bambi, Cherish, Catherine, Daisy, Laylani, Nova, Princess.

Katrina, Capri, Maryjane, Honey, Iris, Shyane, Tiny, Renee.

Lexi, Sapphire, NYOKO, Josie, Klair, Dulce, Heidi, Milly.

Venus, Barbie.

Saturday 04-15 day Lust, Raya, K2. , Kristella, Gemma, Velvet, Gemini, Diamond.

Shorty, Lala, Jodi, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, Riri, Suzzy.

Mercedes, Jessica.

Saturday 04-15 night Jasmine, Precious, K2. , Cinnamon, Jada, Katana, Bonnie.

Blaze, Roxxxy, Andrea, Chanel, Sierra, Cherish, Catherine.

Sunny, Simone, Flower, Kaylani, Alice, Maryjane, Indica.

Cleo, Ivy, Becca, Shyane, Camila, Naima, Dream, NeNe.

Klair, Barbie, Sadie, Ari, Xena.

Sunday 04-16 day Bonnie, Sierra, Gina, Laylani, Evee, Shirley, Katrina.

Shorty, Camila, Snow, Shay, Milly.

Sunday 04-16 night Safari, K2. , Cinnamon, Zonnay, Roxxxy, Bambi, Laylani.

Meadow, Kaylani, Belinda, Katrina, Remmy, Tiny, Renee.

Vikki, Demi, Shay, Heidi, Isabella, Lola, Milly, Barbie.

Monday 04-17 day Raya, Andrea, Amari, Aioki, Flower, Skylar, Shirley.

Diamond, Teddy, Yaya, Snow, Jodi, Shay, Riri, Mercedes.

Jessica, Astrid.

Monday 04-17 night Leah, Cinnamon, Andrea, Flower, Krystal, Katrina, Aria.

Yuri, Blue, Milly, Clarissa.

[PelicanT99]

I agree it's useful, and thanks.

But before everyone posts questions like "is that the Kianna from Tropical Lei in 2000? Remember, Synn & the other Kim clubs post pictures of the dancers on their app roll calls. So just look it up & get the answer. Answers to such questions on this board are often speculation or wrong, despite how they're presented. If you've seen the girl, it's better to check the picture first. Stripper names get re-used a lot.

[CaseyX]

If people find this useful I'll continue to post once a week.

Sorry that the after posting formatting sucks.

Club_name date shift dancers.

Even with the crappy formatting I think it's useful. Thanks for doing this.

[CuziletYou72]

The more beautiful she is the more she's good at playing games, lying and making you believe she's your fantasy girl. We need to keep in mind that she will start by saying she is not into out of the club fun, she'll say she's not into extras or that she is shy. But is all a game, to make us believe she is the ONE! If o e is not cautious and careful with his wallet, she'll own it and sometimes without getting nothing in return. How she plays it will be driven by whether you're a player, a newbie, a sugar daddy, or a simp. If we keep in mind that is a simple transaction of give and take then will be find. If you believe her lies and believe that she misses you, that she wants to see you, she's right LOL. She misses your wallet, she misses your money. Just be careful dawgs, play the game but don't let the game play you!! They are pro's and some of them could be the first round pick if this was the NFL or NBA LOL.

Rickers & Jeep speak the truth, from what I've experienced. It's a transaction, "she don't love you" and "just because she tells you about her life doesn't mean you're part of it."

Some would say we're just cynical, & that attitude kills the fun & fantasy of seeing a stripper. That is true, and everyone is entitled to make bad decisions (assuming they also will pay the price themselves & not whine about it to the rest of us who think otherwise). I've felt the buzz of "this stripper likes me! But like with booze & drugs you need to think it through before you spend excessively or do shit that hurts you in other relationships or respects in reliance on your heat of the moment feelings. One girl I saw had a guy take her to Italy for 2 weeks & then denied sex and eventually took off on him (& changed her flight back he bought, to avoid him). I dumped her after that BS move on a fellow user, cause it's only a matter of time till it's me. Do you want to be that guy? I don't.

Sure there's 1 in 100 cases, but don't lose your head & enjoy it for what it is: an enjoyable but temporary transaction. Remembering your birthday is nice, but my stockbroker sends me birthday gifts too & I don't get misty-eyed about that LOL.

[Billj1034]

If people find this useful I'll continue to post once a week.

For admins, would a separate User Blog thread make sense?

No, you're info is about strip clubs and this is the Strip Club Reports thread.

I'm thinking it's a hand in glove sorta thing.

A2

Sorry that the after posting formatting sucks.

Club_name date shift dancers.

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Synn-industry 2023-03-31 day Raya, Blaze, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Jocelyn, Lorraine, Gina, M.

Ya, Shirley, Gemma, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini, Sweets, Teddy, Jod.

I, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, Suzzy, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-03-31 night Anara, Ava, K2. , Cinnamon, Andrea, Nikki, Aioki, Evee, Lex.

Katrina, Capri, Fiji, Honey, Kiana, Shyane, Tara, Vikki, Nad.

Ia, Klair, Kassy, Ruby, Isabella, Sakura, Salena, Irie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-01 day Lizzy, Katrina, Velvet, Gemini, Shorty, Raven, Teddy, Shay.

Sakura, Cattleya, Emerald.

Synn-industry 2023-04-01 night K2. , Cinnamon, Saweetie, Bonnie, Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra, Ali.

Na, Lorraine, Cherish, Daisy, Nova, Princess, Katrina, Tiny.

Sapphire, Josie, Klair, Keyoko, Ruby, Isabella, Miley.

Synn-industry 2023-04-02 day Lizzy, Sunny, Evee, Shirley, Velvet, Gemini, Teddy, Josie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-02 night Precious, K2. , Saweetie, Bonnie, Bambi, Daisy, Krystal, Tiny.

, Dream, Renee, Sapphire, Nadia, NeNe, NYOKO, Miley, Irie, S.

TacyJay.

Synn-industry 2023-04-03 day Andrea, Sierra, Amari, Fiji, Malaysia, Sasha, Lala, Snow, Ne.

Ne, Shay.

Synn-industry 2023-04-03 night Leah, Cinnamon, Andrea, Daisy, Nina, Kaylani, Indica, Esme.

Becca, Shyane, Nadia, NYOKO, Valerie, Lola, Scarlett.

Synn-industry 2023-04-04 day Raya, Dime, Aioki, Jocelyn, Angel, Gina, Shirley, Gemma, Mar.

Yjane, Fiji, Rosetta, Velvet, Gemini, Nyomi, Stacy, Yaya, Jo.

Di, Keyoko, Cattleya, Riri, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-04-04 night Jasmine, Cinnamon, Sierra, Fantasy, Kaylani, Belinda, Lex, K.

Atrina, Aria, Shyane, Tiny, Renee, Nadia, Demi, NYOKO, Josie.

, Dulce, Heidi, Sakura, Lola, Salena, Irie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-05 day Lust, Ava, Raya, Angel, Cherish, Mya, Gemma, Maryjane, Short.

Why, Raven, Jodi, Emerald, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-04-05 night Precious, Jada, Saweetie, Chanel, Daisy, Meadow, Kaylani, Kr.

Ystal, Katrina, Lilly, Aria, Honey, Esme, Iris, Shyane, Rose.

, Tiny, Lolie, Yuri, Sapphire, Blue, Lola, Venus.

Synn-industry 2023-04-06 day Raya, Lizzy, Andrea, Amari, Bambi, Jocelyn, Texass, Angel, G.

Ina, Skylar, Shirley, Gemma, Maryjane, Fiji, Rosetta, Aria.

Diamond, Raven, Nyomi, Jodi, Keyoko, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald.

, Riri, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-04-06 night Jasmine, Brooklyn, K2. , Cinnamon, Kendall, Saweetie, Roxxxy.

Andrea, Sierra, Jewels, June, Texass, Cherish, Mulan, Sunny.

, Fantasy, Simone, Meadow, Katrina, Miso, Sally, Cleo, Belle.

, Malaysia, Ivy, Rose, Tiny, Yuri, Dream, Renee, Vikki, Sapp.

Hire, Demi, NeNe, NYOKO, Klair, Heidi, Isabella, Melanie, Lo.

La, Irie, Venus.

Synn-industry 2023-04-07 day Raya, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Krystal, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini, Di.

Amond, Yaya, Lala, Jodi, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, Mercedes.

Synn-industry 2023-04-07 night Jasmine, Anara, Brooklyn, K2. , Cinnamon, Zonnay, Andrea, Bam.

Bi, Nikki, Aioki, Texass, Catherine, Daisy, Lex, Princess, C.

Apri, Cleo, Honey, Shyane, Cielo, Nyomi, Dream, Renee, Kaitl.

Yn, Yaya, Sapphire, Nadia, NeNe, NYOKO, Klair, Dulce, Isabel.

La, Venus, Barbie, Sadie, Ari.

Synn-industry 2023-04-08 day Lust, Lizzy, Cinnamon, Pia, Fiji, Velvet, Gemini, Shorty, Ya.

Ya, Josie, Keyoko, Mariah, Shay, Heidi, Cattleya, Emerald.

Synn-industry 2023-04-08 night Precious, Leah, K2. , Bonnie, Blaze, Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra.

Texass, Sunny, Gabbana, Nova, Princess, Indica, Tiny, Raven.

Sapphire, NeNe, NYOKO, Isabella, Venus, Barbie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-09 day Pia, NeNe, Mariah, Shay.

Synn-industry 2023-04-09 night K2. , Andrea, Bailey, Cielo, Nadia, Irie, Barbie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-10 day Lust, Bonnie, Andrea, Sierra, Dime, Amari, Skylar, Shirley.

Katrina, Snow, NeNe, Henny, Mariah, Shay, Riri, Jessica.

Synn-industry 2023-04-10 night Lust, Leah, Cinnamon, Saweetie, Blaze, Cherish, Simone, Kayl.

Ani, Bailey, Yuri, Renee, Blue, Heidi.

Synn-industry 2023-04-11 day Lust, Raya, Dime, Amari, Aioki, Jocelyn, Texass, Gina, Sunny.

, Shirley, Diamond, Lala, Mariah, Cattleya, Riri, Jessica.

Synn-industry 2023-04-11 night Jasmine, Leah, Jada, Bambi, Cherish, Mulan, Daisy, Flower, B.

Elinda, Alice, Katrina, Fiji, Lilly, Aria, Honey, Rose, Yuri.

, Sapphire, NeNe, NYOKO, Blue, Dulce, Sakura, Lola.

Synn-industry 2023-04-12 day Raya, Kendall, Andrea, Shyla, Gemma, Fiji, Sweets, Diamond.

Raven, Nyomi, Lala, Dulce, Keyoko, Emerald, Riri, Jessica.

Synn-industry 2023-04-12 night Jasmine, Safari, Precious, Jada, Saweetie, Bonnie, Blaze, Ch.

Anel, Sierra, Cherish, Meadow, Kaylani, Indica, Remmy, Honey.

, Esme, Tiny, Lolie, Naima, Sapphire, NYOKO, Blue, Lola, Sal.

Ena, Milly, Clarissa.

Synn-industry 2023-04-13 day Lust, Lizzy, Andrea, Dime, Aioki, Jocelyn, Angel, Gina, Shyl.

A, Shirley, Fiji, Malaysia, Diamond, Nyomi, Kisses, Stacy, why.

Aya, Sapphire, NeNe, Jodi, NYOKO, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, are.

Iri, Suzzy, Mercedes, Jessica, Jessica Rose.

Synn-industry 2023-04-13 night Lust, Jasmine, Leah, K2. , Cinnamon, Kendall, Zonnay, Bonnie.

Roxxxy, Andrea, Sierra, Bambi, Texass, Cherish, Catherine.

Mulan, Simone, Meadow, Kaylani, Belinda, Gabbana, Lex, Kryst.

Al, Alice, Katrina, Rosetta, Indica, Cleo, Aria, Esme, Rose.

Tiny, Lolie, Raven, Dream, Renee, Lexi, Vikki, Sapphire, NY.

OKO, Josie, Klair, Dulce, Heidi, Lola, Milly, Irie, Venus, B.

Arbie, Sadie, Ari.

Synn-industry 2023-04-14 day Jasmine, Ava, Raya, Andrea, Dime, Gina, Krystal, Skylar, Shi.

Rley, Fiji, Velvet, Malaysia, Gemini, Sweets, Diamond, Stacy.

, Yaya, NeNe, Jodi, Keyoko, Cattleya, Riri, Suzzy, Mercedes.

Jessica.

Synn-industry 2023-04-14 night K2. , Cinnamon, Zonnay, Saweetie, Bonnie, Blaze, Andrea, Bamb.

I, Cherish, Catherine, Daisy, Laylani, Nova, Princess, Katri.

Na, Capri, Maryjane, Honey, Iris, Shyane, Tiny, Renee, Lexi.

Sapphire, NYOKO, Josie, Klair, Dulce, Heidi, Milly, Venus.

Barbie.

Synn-industry 2023-04-15 day Lust, Raya, K2. , Kristella, Gemma, Velvet, Gemini, Diamond.

Shorty, Lala, Jodi, Shay, Cattleya, Emerald, Riri, Suzzy, Me.

Rcedes, Jessica.

Synn-industry 2023-04-15 night Jasmine, Precious, K2. , Cinnamon, Jada, Katana, Bonnie, Blaz.

E, Roxxxy, Andrea, Chanel, Sierra, Cherish, Catherine, Sunny.

, Simone, Flower, Kaylani, Alice, Maryjane, Indica, Cleo, Iv.

Why, Becca, Shyane, Camila, Naima, Dream, NeNe, Klair, Barbie.

Sadie, Ari, Xena.

[Rickers]

I haven't been to Paradise since they remodeled, so yeah it's been a while. Can you still get action in the lap dance area or is it only in the VIP now?

Action is fairly limited there because unless it's very slow and you are the only one in there you could have someone seated across from you staring right at you. It's basically two rows of booths facing each other. Hope this helps.

[TheStiffMeiste]

I haven't been to Paradise since they remodeled, so yeah it's been a while. Can you still get action in the lap dance area or is it only in the VIP now?

[PelicanT99]

I completely agree that outside the club tends to make it feel real, normal, and legit but I always stop and ask myself one question. If the money stopped flowing, would she still be around?? This tends to bring me back to reality.

Rickers & Jeep speak the truth, from what I've experienced. It's a transaction, "she don't love you" and "just because she tells you about her life doesn't mean you're part of it."

Some would say we're just cynical, & that attitude kills the fun & fantasy of seeing a stripper. That is true, and everyone is entitled to make bad decisions (assuming they also will pay the price themselves & not whine about it to the rest of us who think otherwise). I've felt the buzz of "this stripper likes me! But like with booze & drugs you need to think it through before you spend excessively or do shit that hurts you in other relationships or respects in reliance on your heat of the moment feelings. One girl I saw had a guy take her to Italy for 2 weeks & then denied sex and eventually took off on him (& changed her flight back he bought, to avoid him). I dumped her after that BS move on a fellow user, cause it's only a matter of time till it's me. Do you want to be that guy? I don't.

Sure there's 1 in 100 cases, but don't lose your head & enjoy it for what it is: an enjoyable but temporary transaction. Remembering your birthday is nice, but my stockbroker sends me birthday gifts too & I don't get misty-eyed about that LOL.

[Rickers]

Man, thanks for all of your input. Really insightful post. I always tell myself that no matter how outgoing and bubbly she is with me, at the end of the day, she is only doing her job. It just sucks that the time spent outside the club felt so real and legit. Apart from the banging, our conversations about life and our past experiences made it feel like we knew each other since forever. Also, I don't think I will ever find another dancer to drop me off at the airport or bake me a birthday cake, LOL.

I completely agree that outside the club tends to make it feel real, normal, and legit but I always stop and ask myself one question. If the money stopped flowing, would she still be around?? This tends to bring me back to reality.

[TcoMan]

There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

Man, thanks for all of your input. Really insightful post. I always tell myself that no matter how outgoing and bubbly she is with me, at the end of the day, she is only doing her job. It just sucks that the time spent outside the club felt so real and legit. Apart from the banging, our conversations about life and our past experiences made it feel like we knew each other since forever. Also, I don't think I will ever find another dancer to drop me off at the airport or bake me a birthday cake, LOL.

[Rickers]

There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

Well said. We have to keep reminding ourselves that some of these girls are better liars than we are. I can't believe how many of these girls have spouses who willingly drop them off every night to "entertain" numerous guys at the club.