Arrangement Reports

**ChiHobby1985** · 02-04-23 20:13

Originally Posted by TJGeek [View Original Post]

Hi,

I'm thinking about getting an account with Seeking but have a few questions.

1. Which prepaid credit card do you recommend or does it have to be a real credit card linked to a person?

2. When using the search feature, does checking the "I'd Verified" option (or any other options) give better search results?

Also, anyone see one of these 2 ladies?

Lilbabyxx https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-9fdff2884163.

Xxrosenxo https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-9a19f28acc5d.

Thanks in advance!

TJ.

Don't waste your time with anyone not from the US. That second link the user is from Poland. Should be your first red flag. I'm also Leary if anyone who hasn't been on the site for very long. Lots of scammers create profiles to try and get you to send money upfront and once you do, profile is gone.

**Big Penor** · 02-04-23 11:34

Originally Posted by BillUnderwood [View Original Post]

The girl that I am mostly currently seeing told me about the guy she was seeing before me who would fly into Chicago and pay her $1,000 per visit, 3 X a month. She did not spend the night, just hang out and of course, FS. There are guys out there that will just throw the money out there because they don't care. Personally in the past, I too have paid $1,000 because she was just that hot, (Karli, mentioned the other day) and almost that much when I saw a certain popular agency girl as an Indy where we had our own arrangement.

If you're looking for top tier instagram models, it's that or more.

**TJGeek** · 02-04-23 09:39

Hi,

I'm thinking about getting an account with Seeking but have a few questions.

1. Which prepaid credit card do you recommend or does it have to be a real credit card linked to a person?

2. When using the search feature, does checking the "I'd Verified" option (or any other options) give better search results?

Also, anyone see one of these 2 ladies?

Lilbabyxx https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-9fdff2884163.

Xxrosenxo https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-9a19f28acc5d.

Thanks in advance!

TJ.

**Bill Underwood** · 02-04-23 02:23

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I simply dismiss the idea that there are lots and lots of guys out there giving average girls thousands per date, and that is what is driving up GPS. There is, like in many aspects of the world, too much BS on social media, and the readers (=POTs) are too gullible. Girls have come to think that is what they deserve, but they are sitting at home, and because they haven't ever had a real arrangement, this is OK w / them.

IK that great short term (I did well when I visited Chicago on a business trip) and ongoing (3 6 mo+) arrangements are still available from the site. At price points I am able to pay, hiding the $ from my SO.

The girl that I am mostly currently seeing told me about the guy she was seeing before me who would fly into Chicago and pay her $1,000 per visit, 3 X a month. She did not spend the night, just hang out and of course, FS. There are guys out there that will just throw the money out there because they don't care. Personally in the past, I too have paid $1,000 because she was just that hot, (Karli, mentioned the other day) and almost that much when I saw a certain popular agency girl as an Indy where we had our own arrangement.

**FarFarAway** · 02-04-23 00:41

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

I've heard stories of guys paying $500 for a casual meal but never heard of it being consistent and definitely not $1000. Even the high end pros don't charge that typically. I think social media, much like the instagram influencers have warped the brains of our youth.

And to think Gen why had a brighter future than millennials. They need a good old fashioned recession to set them straight.

I believe that some girls are on seeking to flatter their ego. I mean, they may be super hot. If they ask a ridiculous amount, they might get a guy to actually pony up, and if he isn't a creep, they have a major windfall. If they don't want to bang him, they can make up some excuse, but they have his offer in their mind. But mostly they can sit there and have a lot of guys pursue them (often I see profiles that say they get tons of messages), which makes them feel great and they don't have to put out.

These don't truly need the $, and they aren't in it for the quality of sex they can get.

**Vicdemoan** · 02-03-23 22:37

BarbieNY.

Will send you a very explicit menu of services from BJ to CFS to greek via text. Wants deposit to meet up. Attached below.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-8fe744f190a8

FineChickie.

Moves to text quick and then bad to no communication. Pass for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-58be50179da4

Melissa.

Wants 500 ppm. Dtf.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-1b992c5b3c1c

Bambi.

Wants 1000 ppm or 5000 monthly. Dtf and claims to be a nymphomaniac.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-ae0eb803f22f

Pixley.

500 ppm, no action. 800 ppm when fwb.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-f73d8f0afc73

Sapphire.

Her ad seems to move with her location. She was downtown when we chatted. 300. Cfs.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-f73d8f0afc73

**DynoJr** · 02-03-23 20:48

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I simply dismiss the idea that there are lots and lots of guys out there giving average girls thousands per date, and that is what is driving up GPS. There is, like in many aspects of the world, too much BS on social media, and the readers (=POTs) are too gullible. Girls have come to think that is what they deserve, but they are sitting at home, and because they haven't ever had a real arrangement, this is OK w / them.

IK that great short term (I did well when I visited Chicago on a business trip) and ongoing (3 6 mo+) arrangements are still available from the site. At price points I am able to pay, hiding the $ from my SO.

I've heard stories of guys paying $500 for a casual meal but never heard of it being consistent and definitely not $1000. Even the high end pros don't charge that typically. I think social media, much like the instagram influencers have warped the brains of our youth.

And to think Gen why had a brighter future than millennials. They need a good old fashioned recession to set them straight.

**FarFarAway** · 02-03-23 18:12

Originally Posted by Donger999 [View Original Post]

Unfortunately, many of us are to blame for this proliferation of scammers and quick buck seekers or the outrageous expectations. Guys provide it so the women come to expect it. It's kind of like Mr. Powell trying to reduce inflation by softening demand. Maybe over time it works. If we all reject reject the average woman asking for 1 K per meet, she'll either starve, quit SA or reduce her ask. Maybe.

I simply dismiss the idea that there are lots and lots of guys out there giving average girls thousands per date, and that is what is driving up GPS. There is, like in many aspects of the world, too much BS on social media, and the readers (=POTs) are too gullible. Girls have come to think that is what they deserve, but they are sitting at home, and because they haven't ever had a real arrangement, this is OK w / them.

IK that great short term (I did well when I visited Chicago on a business trip) and ongoing (3 6 mo+) arrangements are still available from the site. At price points I am able to pay, hiding the $ from my SO.

**Donger999** · 02-03-23 16:09

Originally Posted by FafaFooey [View Original Post]

Sugar baby hype and tall tales are all over TikTok, Instagram Reels, etc these days. Middle school girls already joke about how they can skip college and find a rich old man to pay for everything (I know this from family / friends, not from trying to date middle school girls).

15 years ago, a sugar baby was a waitress at a gold club or barista in an office tower who flirted with an executive and ended up getting help with rent & school in exchange for secret afternoons at an upscale hotel.

5+ years ago the old Seeking Arrangement crowd was less organic and more mercenary, but still filled with like minded 'regular' girls who wanted to discreetly exchange intimacy for some financial help.

Since then, especially with rise of online payment services, its mostly full of quick buck seekers or outright scammers, mixed in with a few semi pros. Girls really willing to play the long term, discreet, arrangement game have become the rare unicorns now.

Unfortunately, many of us are to blame for this proliferation of scammers and quick buck seekers or the outrageous expectations. Guys provide it so the women come to expect it. It's kind of like Mr. Powell trying to reduce inflation by softening demand. Maybe over time it works. If we all reject reject the average woman asking for 1 K per meet, she'll either starve, quit SA or reduce her ask. Maybe.

**FafaFooey** · 02-03-23 15:31

Originally Posted by BillUnderwood [View Original Post]

The girls have their own forums as well. Mostly complain how they all deserve $1,000+ a date plus gifts and why isn't their SD doing that.

Sugar baby hype and tall tales are all over TikTok, Instagram Reels, etc these days. Middle school girls already joke about how they can skip college and find a rich old man to pay for everything (I know this from family / friends, not from trying to date middle school girls).

15 years ago, a sugar baby was a waitress at a gold club or barista in an office tower who flirted with an executive and ended up getting help with rent & school in exchange for secret afternoons at an upscale hotel.

5+ years ago the old Seeking Arrangement crowd was less organic and more mercenary, but still filled with like minded 'regular' girls who wanted to discreetly exchange intimacy for some financial help.

Since then, especially with rise of online payment services, its mostly full of quick buck seekers or outright scammers, mixed in with a few semi pros. Girls really willing to play the long term, discreet, arrangement game have become the rare unicorns now.

**GeneralObvious** · 02-03-23 14:06

Originally Posted by BillUnderwood [View Original Post]

The girls have their own forums as well. Mostly complain how they all deserve $1,000+ a date plus gifts and why isn't their SD doing that.

Times sure have changed the last few years. When I started looking for a sb, rates varied from $200-$400 for a quality woman. Generally, you would get a nice looking, intelligent, funny woman, usually in grad school or a touch older.

There were no clock watchers, no attitudes, and it was all fun. I met all 3 of my gals on Backpage at the time. I would never do that these days. Better to party with a high end escort who gives repeat clients nice discounts.

**Bill Underwood** · 02-03-23 09:01

Originally Posted by DynoJr [View Original Post]

Had a casual meet and greet with a college girl from one of the major schools in the city and she told me that her friends are all in the sugar game and surprisingly open about it. She said they don't share names but let each other know when they're going on dates and talk about their adventures.

Not sure how I feel about this. We're all discussing them on this forum and between ourselves so I guess it's fair play. It's maybe that I'm surprised that it's so accepted now. My prior SBs were older and were careful about keeping this part of their lives discreet.

Also, why am I not finding these girls?! Shit only ones I can find are mostly community colleges.

The girls have their own forums as well. Mostly complain how they all deserve $1,000+ a date plus gifts and why isn't their SD doing that.

**Cdds20** · 02-03-23 05:04

Originally Posted by ChicagoGoer [View Original Post]

Assuming not the same Gigi?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-2159ec1b3837

No different girl.

**DynoJr** · 02-03-23 04:42

Had a casual meet and greet with a college girl from one of the major schools in the city and she told me that her friends are all in the sugar game and surprisingly open about it. She said they don't share names but let each other know when they're going on dates and talk about their adventures.

Not sure how I feel about this. We're all discussing them on this forum and between ourselves so I guess it's fair play. It's maybe that I'm surprised that it's so accepted now. My prior SBs were older and were careful about keeping this part of their lives discreet.

Also, why am I not finding these girls?! Shit only ones I can find are mostly community colleges.

**ChicagoGoer** · 02-03-23 02:03

Originally Posted by HitMan1783 [View Original Post]

I personally didn't have any issues w her. Meet, drop a load in her and that's it. Never asked for babysitting money and most times I fucked her no charge.

Assuming not the same Gigi?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-2159ec1b3837