"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 01-27-23 12:40

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

That's probably true for the most part, but I once met a sugar-virgin, and I talked to her in detail before we met the first time. She had spent weeks just researching the lifestyle, reading up on reddit forums etc, researching what to expect, so she knew how to do this even before meeting her first SD.

I'm just interested in solutions for protecting our identity behind a "real" number, hopefully solving the problem from both sides.

Wow, yeah long are the good ole days of no reddit forum etc. A SB doing that much research including looking up numbers is not the type of SB I'm looking for. She's obviously trying a little too hard and has probably GPS intentions and will suck in the sack.

**SugarDaddio** · 01-27-23 11:41

I offered 300 and she said okay. Now she's not replying back to my snap. Probably for the better I guess based on the reviews I'm seeing. She did send me a hell of a picture with her on fours from behind LOL.

SD.

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

She's real. Will do BBFS for $350 ppm. Wants a clean test beforehand.

I was ok with her until I asked for a better facial pic. I got one, & just not my type. Good body, but not a good enough face.

That's only my opinion, though. She's not a scammer & if her face is acceptable to you, I suspect a good time can be had.

**2me4Looking2** · 01-27-23 10:44

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

She's real. Will do BBFS for $350 ppm. Wants a clean test beforehand.

I was ok with her until I asked for a better facial pic. I got one, & just not my type. Good body, but not a good enough face.

That's only my opinion, though. She's not a scammer & if her face is acceptable to you, I suspect a good time can be had.

Based on her build and back tattoo she looks a lot like a girl that used to advertise on backpage. She started off with great reviews and then I recall there were some rip-off reports. I can't say for certain that it's her, but I'm betting it is.

**FarFarAway** · 01-27-23 10:28

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

If I get a second real phone line, is it inevitable that people can find out my name? Off the top of my head, I would have guessed that this is private information that the phone carrier is not allowed to share. How do sugar babies find out? Is there a way to sign up with a carrier and insist on a private number?

I think that it is very likely to be impossible to keep this information out of the hands of info brokers. Especially in Georgia. In California we have a right to prevent someone from *selling* our personal information, but I could also see them getting around this by giving it away to the brokers (for other considerations).

I have a SO, my anonymity w / SBs is essential, and the only way I see to do this is with a burner phone and a texting app. I personally use Google Voice. I use TracFone for my burner, I find that very economical. You could have that for like $100/ yr. After purchase. For cash, from Target or Walmart.

**NewAnonymousName** · 01-27-23 09:07

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

That's probably true for the most part, but I once met a sugar-virgin, and I talked to her in detail before we met the first time. She had spent weeks just researching the lifestyle, reading up on reddit forums etc, researching what to expect, so she knew how to do this even before meeting her first SD.

I'm just interested in solutions for protecting our identity behind a "real" number, hopefully solving the problem from both sides.

If I get a second real phone line, is it inevitable that people can find out my name? Off the top of my head, I would have guessed that this is private information that the phone carrier is not allowed to share. How do sugar babies find out? Is there a way to sign up with a carrier and insist on a private number?

**Bawall69** · 01-27-23 07:57

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

That's probably true for the most part, but I once met a sugar-virgin, and I talked to her in detail before we met the first time. She had spent weeks just researching the lifestyle, reading up on reddit forums etc, researching what to expect, so she knew how to do this even before meeting her first SD.

I'm just interested in solutions for protecting our identity behind a "real" number, hopefully solving the problem from both sides.

In my experience, this is super common. I still use google voice though.

**OliverNP** · 01-26-23 22:35

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

Any SB looking up your number is a seasoned pro, used up, and have no value. Probably a stupid GPS. Let them self filter themselves. I'm after UTR game.

That's probably true for the most part, but I once met a sugar-virgin, and I talked to her in detail before we met the first time. She had spent weeks just researching the lifestyle, reading up on reddit forums etc, researching what to expect, so she knew how to do this even before meeting her first SD.

I'm just interested in solutions for protecting our identity behind a "real" number, hopefully solving the problem from both sides.

**OliverNP** · 01-26-23 22:32

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I am a 'member' of the SA "Customer Advisory Council". They want me to do a survey on something they are planning called Activity Feed.

"the Activity Feed will provide a more dynamic and personalized experience, this way you can discover new members easier."

They want to interview me by phone.

Tell them to quit fixing that which is not broken. It sounds like they are trying to move toward the swipe-right-swipe-left "feed" nonsense. I just want a filter where I can specify what I'm looking for, and show me the results. I don't want something that's trying to imitate twitter or some other app, just to change something to justify their jobs. My advice to them is that if they want to change something try it by creating a new site and leave the old one alone. If the new method is superior, customers will gravitate to the new site.

I've seen other sites do what they are trying to do, and if they follow suit it will be the end of the hobby as we know it.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-26-23 21:37

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

Lots of them do look ups these days, especially if they've been in the game for a while. All sorts of apps or websites out there that do it. I have the "Mr Number" app loaded on my phone, and most of the time it will reveal the name behind a non VOIP line. Sometimes it says "Suspected Spam", sometimes "Personal Line". But don't kid yourself that they're oblivious to these lookup mechanisms. These girls do network, they learn most of what they know from social media these days and most of them are very savvy at searching and figuring out how to verify as much as they can about a guy.

Now, in terms of the number of them that actually do it (versus the ones that know they can easily). The number of girls that actually complain about my fake number is maybe 1 out of 75 or so. Some of them don't really complain, they just say "is this your real number?" and I know they are fishing to see if I will lie or whatever. Why else would they ask that if they didn't already look it up? So I usually explain my reasons why they will not get my real number at first and most of them want an arrangement enough to just accept that and move on. The number of girls that do that (inquire about whether its my primary cell or not) is much higher. Like maybe 1 out of 15 or 20. So yeah, lots of them are looking up that number the very first thing when I send it to them on the site.

Any SB looking up your number is a seasoned pro, used up, and have no value. Probably a stupid GPS. Let them self filter themselves. I'm after UTR game.

**TylerDurden07** · 01-26-23 17:03

Originally Posted by MrVmp [View Original Post]

I'm from down there and still visit as I have fam there. I may hit her up and see what gives next time I'm heading down.

She's real. Will do BBFS for $350 ppm. Wants a clean test beforehand.

I was ok with her until I asked for a better facial pic. I got one, & just not my type. Good body, but not a good enough face.

That's only my opinion, though. She's not a scammer & if her face is acceptable to you, I suspect a good time can be had.

**Jims2321** · 01-26-23 17:03

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I am a 'member' of the SA "Customer Advisory Council". They want me to do a survey on something they are planning called Activity Feed.

"the Activity Feed will provide a more dynamic and personalized experience, this way you can discover new members easier."

They want to interview me by phone.

That old ploy again. Tell them if you will provide feedback for lifetime, unbannable subscription.

**NewAnonymousName** · 01-26-23 16:23

Every now and then a woman messages me for the first time and it lands in the filtered out messages box instead of the inbox. Anyone know why? Does that mean the profile who sent the message is more likely a scam or something?

**NewAnonymousName** · 01-26-23 16:18

This one asked about sensual fun service and said she gets paid after. Offline, she sent a list of "services" (her word) and prices without any prompting from me. She has asked me multiple times what "services" I want. It's odd and off putting. Pass for me. YMMV.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-2af73c22b3bf

EDIT she sent another unsolicited message saying she needs a deposit because SA guys often dont show up. The scammer with this profile is dumb. I had already said I wasnt interested in a straight up transaction like she had offered. The communications felt off from the beginning. And then she confirmed she is in fact a scammer. My gut reaction was right.

**FarFarAway** · 01-26-23 15:41

I am a 'member' of the SA "Customer Advisory Council". They want me to do a survey on something they are planning called Activity Feed.

"the Activity Feed will provide a more dynamic and personalized experience, this way you can discover new members easier."

They want to interview me by phone.

**Jims2321** · 01-26-23 09:29

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-648b5ca28fec

Ok, this is slightly off topic, because this girl is in Wisconsin, but had to share the profile, because of the crazy face tattoo. That is one of the most obvious and glaring red flags, for me. It makes it seems like the girl is a gang member, or at the very least just extremely unstable, if not batshit crazy. And she looks really pretty in the pics that must have been pre-ink.

I have a thing for pregnant sb's though, so probably good she doesn't live here, or I might be tempted to put myself in danger.

Funny thing is that she would be highly sought after in a bunch of areas.