Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[OP2286]

Hope my lessons learned for an outcall on adult search website and contacting on (escort babylon as well cash was not in the ad for local as well as out of state area codes).

99.99% are a scam they will try with either a sympathetic story or that " they are trustworthy" don't buy it My scam was both. I'm outing the sites because YMMV.

Heed from my lessons learned.

[Kenal1]

All of them.

If they aren't ghetto, they're ragged white trash, if they're not addicts with open sores or track marks clearly visible, they're fat hippos with all the attributes. Then comes the Incall / Outcalls dance. I'm not paying you extra for Outcall. You didn't have to get a room and the chances for a sting are lower I believe or getting arrested. I'm not counting ebony because I don't even fuck around in that mess (0 attraction).

All my searches have turned up just a metric fuck ton of scammers or skags. Tryst / Eros have also become fucking unbelievable because of the prices and menu limitations and bam! There's some of the trash that blew over from the other dumps like Babylon and Alligator and not limited to Sumo, STG to what I thought was a better site.

The only decent place or reprieve I can find is to get a massage and HE from one the Asian joints. I know it's cultural culinary but for the love of whatever god can they please stop using so much fucking garlic and spices. Jesus. I like it, but it takes me 20 minutes to get over the smell right when I walk in. I'm going to go buy them some fucking febreze wall flowers or Bath and Body works.

Full stop.

So tell us what you REALLY think, Smokey!

[OP2286]

Hi been playing the game for a while and its like the Northeast of Cincinnati has fallen off the map for 99% of the good ones that used to be on Escort Babylon and Escort Monkey. If you find any link them here. Thanks.

[Smokey Gringo]

All of them.

If they aren't ghetto, they're ragged white trash, if they're not addicts with open sores or track marks clearly visible, they're fat hippos with all the attributes. Then comes the Incall / Outcalls dance. I'm not paying you extra for Outcall. You didn't have to get a room and the chances for a sting are lower I believe or getting arrested. I'm not counting ebony because I don't even fuck around in that mess (0 attraction).

All my searches have turned up just a metric fuck ton of scammers or skags. Tryst / Eros have also become fucking unbelievable because of the prices and menu limitations and bam! There's some of the trash that blew over from the other dumps like Babylon and Alligator and not limited to Sumo, STG to what I thought was a better site.

The only decent place or reprieve I can find is to get a massage and HE from one the Asian joints. I know it's cultural culinary but for the love of whatever god can they please stop using so much fucking garlic and spices. Jesus. I like it, but it takes me 20 minutes to get over the smell right when I walk in. I'm going to go buy them some fucking febreze wall flowers or Bath and Body works.

Full stop.

[Simp4ebony]

If that's what you want to do you have to be comfortable enough to enjoy it, enjoy the stares, the questionable glances, and the company. Otherwise it's just going to be uncomfortable, embarrassing and weird.

I'm a white guy who has pretty exclusively dated black women for 15 years across half the country. Things are getting better now, but imagine 15 years ago a woman asked my mother if she was ok with us being together and asking if it was serious. When she said she wasn't sure but we lived together she told me the woman turned bright red. This was at an open house and we were in the next room.

You just have to own it.

This same concept translates into sugar dating or taking an escort out on a date. People are going to watch, and more than anything it will be a curiosity. They're going to be paying attention more to the chemistry you share (or don't share) than age or differences in perceived differences in attractiveness.

Even if she seems out of your league but she is comfortable with you and it's obvious she is, people are going to wonder just how big your dick and wallet are to keep her happy (or whatever the fuck they think).

I see a girl at home who takes really good care of me. I don't get there often but if I'm a little short on cash she doesn't care (discount not free) she comes and picks me up, we have fun, and then we usually go out to eat. Just ask her where she wants to go. It doesn't have to be fancy. She picked fucking Applebees last time and that's where we went.

It helps we don't see each other often to confuse the vibe. The first time we went out her brother showed up to Dennys while we were eating to pick up a door dash order LOL.

Man you only live once and fuck what every one else thinks about what you are enjoying yourself doing. With the caveat that it's not harming or hurting anyone else. Go enjoy a meal anywhere you want to and if you run into someone introduce her as a friend.

Ha! Thanks for the kind words!

I'm not really worried about what strangers think. I'm worried about what people I know think! I do believe I came up with a good "excuse," so to speak, so we'll see!

[Member #6230]

Hey, I know this is a nerdy question, but here it is. I want to take Thalia out on a "date. " Like maybe a nice lunch with a couple drinks. I'm also scared of getting caught as I feel like I generally know too many people. So I'm looking for spot recs. Anyone have an idea for a lunch spot, nice but not too busy, located not too far away but certainly not in any kind of hot spot zone for people out and about in the afternoon?

Maybe PM me if you don't mind. I am trying to be super secretive after all!

If that's what you want to do you have to be comfortable enough to enjoy it, enjoy the stares, the questionable glances, and the company. Otherwise it's just going to be uncomfortable, embarrassing and weird.

I'm a white guy who has pretty exclusively dated black women for 15 years across half the country. Things are getting better now, but imagine 15 years ago a woman asked my mother if she was ok with us being together and asking if it was serious. When she said she wasn't sure but we lived together she told me the woman turned bright red. This was at an open house and we were in the next room.

You just have to own it.

This same concept translates into sugar dating or taking an escort out on a date. People are going to watch, and more than anything it will be a curiosity. They're going to be paying attention more to the chemistry you share (or don't share) than age or differences in perceived differences in attractiveness.

Even if she seems out of your league but she is comfortable with you and it's obvious she is, people are going to wonder just how big your dick and wallet are to keep her happy (or whatever the fuck they think).

I see a girl at home who takes really good care of me. I don't get there often but if I'm a little short on cash she doesn't care (discount not free) she comes and picks me up, we have fun, and then we usually go out to eat. Just ask her where she wants to go. It doesn't have to be fancy. She picked fucking Applebees last time and that's where we went.

It helps we don't see each other often to confuse the vibe. The first time we went out her brother showed up to Dennys while we were eating to pick up a door dash order LOL.

Man you only live once and fuck what every one else thinks about what you are enjoying yourself doing. With the caveat that it's not harming or hurting anyone else. Go enjoy a meal anywhere you want to and if you run into someone introduce her as a friend.

[Member #6230]

We've been getting a lot of requests for whether an ad is real. It's not always possible to know, but it's fairly easy to spot some of them.

1) If they ask for a deposit, almost certainly a scam.

2) If they advertise bareback or BBFS, generally a scam. Plenty do it, but they don't put it in ads, unless they're advertising an upcharge for it.

3) Anything with "dear" or "dears. " Not only scam, probably overseas scam.

4) Professional looking photos. Generally lifted from a porn star. Not many porn stars come through -- though it is a rare treat.

5) The rulesy ads are more likely to be real. They may be a pain, and you may want to avoid them anyway, but scammers aren't going to bother casting a narrower net by saying they aren't GFE or don't do BBBJ.

In general, you can just kinda tell, without asking here.

Start browsing other cities ads and it starts to become more obvious which ones are fake also. You'll see some of the same spam in multiple cities but you'll also start to notice the ad copy just seems off.

Ask yourself is this something a 25 yr old, 30 yr old would actually say? Most ads are written in a way you can imagine the person posing speaking. If they look like a white girl who is hood, they write like a white girl who sounds hood. There are exceptions, and some ads are hilarious written full of emojis that are actually providers, but for the most part it becomes very easy to spot.

Look at small cities and areas like bowling green ky with a much smaller population (which should mean less providers by a larger percentage) and it becomes much much more obvious that a 10/10 or 9/10 isn't just hanging out in bowling green waiting for some red neck to come plow her for $80 qv's.

[WhereDreamsGo]

We've been getting a lot of requests for whether an ad is real. It's not always possible to know, but it's fairly easy to spot some of them.

1) If they ask for a deposit, almost certainly a scam.

2) If they advertise bareback or BBFS, generally a scam. Plenty do it, but they don't put it in ads, unless they're advertising an upcharge for it.

3) Anything with "dear" or "dears. " Not only scam, probably overseas scam.

4) Professional looking photos. Generally lifted from a porn star. Not many porn stars come through -- though it is a rare treat.

5) The rulesy ads are more likely to be real. They may be a pain, and you may want to avoid them anyway, but scammers aren't going to bother casting a narrower net by saying they aren't GFE or don't do BBBJ.

In general, you can just kinda tell, without asking here.

[BamBam]

On Eros there are a half dozen, if not more, listings for visitors to the Queen city for the day. Seems odd.

Maybe they are here making contacts or finding 'friends' to give them a list to Buffalo for the weekend. LOL!

BAM.

[WanderingAbout]

On Eros there are a half dozen, if not more, listings for visitors to the Queen city for the day. Seems odd.

[Cartog]

No navigation issues for me. But two weeks ago, my email notifications stopped. I verified my settings and they're all current. I messaged the Admin, but no response yet.

Check your spam folder. For some reason, my e-mail notifications stopped. I checked my spam folder and there they were. I have no idea what changed to make that happen but I have not been able to get them back to my inbox again. I just check for them in my profile now.

BAM.

I too have noticed the issue of not getting an email notification when I get a private message. They are not in a spam folder either. My email is a google gmail account which I have used for years to get my notifications. Just curious, anyone else having this issue with gmail? Thanks.

[WanderingAbout]

Getting someone is fishing vibes from these posts. Could be wrong.

Sup guys? Has anyone check out well being massage house off Montgomery Rd. Wanted to check it out but the review on rubmaps is kinda out dated.

Anybody know where I can get some neck service in Mason / Westchester?

What does cg stand for. I'm for new here.

[RoboPimp]

Let's set your bullshit straight. I agreed to 'help' restore the bathtub plumbing and walls........Fast forward to over a year later you called crying for money and asking if I would loan you $200-$300. I sent you $300, (no mention of the bathroom cluster fuc_). After over a month I tried to reach you to see if you could repay the money I loaned you, I suggested that you could even repay me in $100 payments if that worked for you. You said that when your kids finished trick or treating you would send the money. What happened? Crickets. Your business must not be doing to well I guess. I really don't mind not being repaid as I had counted that 'loan' as loss (money a FRIEND needed) when I sent it to you, you were what I considered a friend needing some help. However, I did AT LEAST expect you to let me know what was going on. Again your favorite 'trick' was employed. You ghosted me and I reported had RIPPED ME OFF! That 'loan' as you well know was just that. One has nothing to do with the other. If it did you owe me $300 for the loan and an additional $350 for labor. Don't worry 'friend' I never expect to see a cent from you. If you would do this to a 'friend' I felt the need to let our friend here know what your 'word' means and how you might well treat their deposit money.

What in the Bluepilled-Simp Hell?

At what point did you think a Prostitute was your friend?

You worked 12 HOURS for a mere $200? (I can barely get a contrator when I'm paying them!

Do you normally send chicks money like this? That is a lot to send a someone.

I bet you don't even give the females in your family that much money.

When is the last time you hit your Mom with a smooth $300?

🤣

Why were you cutting her so many breaks? Was she letting you creampie her and record it?

Ngas fkn up the game.

And she is OBESE. I'd say she's at least 220 lbs cankles and all. Since when do obese chicks get $300 and up like this?

Am I missing something?

I'm usually 100% of the man's side but you are 100% wrong here.

You can feed a Tiger every day then pet it as it purrs.

But don't let that fool you into thinking you can come petting it without feeding it.

You can't be mad after your hand gets ripped off.

The Tiger is doing what Tigers do.

[RoboPimp]

Just saying, and not really saying much. Think about how many more dollars you'd have by not letting them waste time telling sad stories during your visits. The way some of you play the shoulder to cry on sneaky-fucker game with women you're literally paying to fuck you! LOL.

You must not have heard of my man Shampoo then.

He's from my city section of Philly and is well documented in his Captain SaveAHoe tactics.

-The Guy will listen to all types of sob stories from these chicks.

-Takes them to dinner.

-Let them rob him.

Etc.

[Santa22]

Really? Nothing online about this. Maybe I need to call! Curtains may make me feel better about it's location!

Really very nice and very private! You need to call and reserve! Good Luck report back.