"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 01-10-23 15:46

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.

+1. The prob with the 18-24 range is the flake rate is off the charts. So many times everything is great and they seem excited and then when the day of meet comes, radio silence. They are just playing you for an ego boost and never were serious. 25-29 there's alot less games: They'll either ignore you completely or if they talk to you are much more likely to meet. A 26 year old looks just as good as a 22 year old to me anyway.

Now 30+ you start running into either really trashy girls or super overpriced MILF GPS types.

PS: Just had a 23 year old flake the day off. Said she "needed to clean her house". Couldn't even come up with a good excuse. This is a girl who had sent several "excited to meet" texts the previous days. A few things I may have done wrong. When the girl is ready to meet, meet within 2-3 days. I waited 4 days. Get in there before she finds a better prospect. In this case I tried to schedule a meet with her sooner but she had to work this weekend and Tuesday was her first day off. Most likely this was just a time waster. It is very frustrating dealing with < 24 year old chicks. My attitude is to expect them to flake and be pleasantly surprised if they don't. That way I'm never disappointed.

Also it helps I had some good sex last nite with one of my regular SBs and tomorrow have another potential lined up. Always play the numbers game, never stop trying to obtain prospects b/c the vast majority are bust outs.

**TylerDurden07** · 01-10-23 15:04

For the past 5 days or so, every time I've tried to log in to SA on my PC, with what I know is my correct password, I've gotten this message:

"Sorry we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. ".

I know it's not my account, as I've had no problems accessing the site on my phone. I've tried every trouble shooting method I could find & even tried different browsers, but so far no luck in fixing this. I emailed SA, but their customer service seems worthless.

Anyone experienced this before and / or has any idea how to fix this? Like I said, it affects my access only on my PC.

**Member #6704** · 01-10-23 14:52

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!

I think I am having the best of luck. Joking but similar to "sunmoonsky" I will add.

"SMeadow" this is even weird. As she seemed real, exchanged numbers and supposed to meet for coffee. She is a and Gainesville. Confirmed 2 hrs before.

And then didn't show up. Blocked my account when I asked.

**HollowGuy** · 01-10-23 14:28

Another Scammer.

We moved to text and she trys to scam didn't waste any time.

**Member #6718** · 01-10-23 14:04

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

I'm on bumble also and between the ladies all being old and requiring 3 dates before FS and then making you get a STD test before going uncovered, it's really not worth it. Then when the new pussy factor wears off you can't even climax. Not all will make you jump thru those hoops but on avg this is the bullshit you deal with. And it's not any cheaper if you factor in the TIME (number 1 thing) and the dinners etc before they will spread their legs. I digress.

I spent over $500 on one chick who was older than me on Bumble, and she ghosted me. Fuck that shit LOL. This sugar shit is way more fun.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-10-23 13:43

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.

I'm on bumble also and between the ladies all being old and requiring 3 dates before FS and then making you get a STD test before going uncovered, it's really not worth it. Then when the new pussy factor wears off you can't even climax. Not all will make you jump thru those hoops but on avg this is the bullshit you deal with. And it's not any cheaper if you factor in the TIME (number 1 thing) and the dinners etc before they will spread their legs. I digress.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-10-23 13:31

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Tinylittlepixie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-dc7fd8add858

Someone else here linked to her and I clicked the link. She messaged me unprompted within a few minutes of viewing her profile. Was very direct and went to snap very quickly. Asked for nudes and she immediately sent over her cashapp LOL. Told her I didn't do that but only meet in person cash only which she was fine with. We talked a bit about what she likes (I'm getting pro/semi-pro vibes), and she eventually asks about the arrangement amount. I tell her it would help if she's send me nudes to determine the arrangement amount, and she sent a few lingerie pics over. Eventually she said she's looking for 500 per meet but she can't host. I tell her that's too high if she can't host and she immediately goes down to 400 but says she won't do less than that, but I suspect I could move her lower. Was open to BB all.

I might could charm / negotiate with her more, but frankly I've already met 2 SBs last week that I'm happy with and both are less than that and host, so I don't really feel the need to push for more with her. Still she seems easy to land if you want to land her.

Literally got a screenshot of this review from her less than 4 hours after posting this. Good job whoever sent her a copy of this. You're not getting laid for any cheaper LOL. FWIW she was cool about it. But you just guaranteed she's not moving off her 500 PPM now

Anyways, this is why I don't post reviews of my ATFs or anyone I'm actively seeing. I was going to post a link to my last SB's recent active profile now that she and I aren't hooking up, but I guess I'll wait a few months first. Not only are you not getting laid by the girl you sent the screenshot to, but now you're not getting good info on an active, real, eager, and fun SB. To quote a meme: Congratulations, you played yourself.

**Peter Johnson** · 01-10-23 07:05

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.

For sure, and one of the best I had last year was Kayla in Kennesaw who was 27 at the time:

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-5a1f92b9470d

She hasn't been on the site in several months, and apparently is pretty much retired, but damn she was good. I just wish she would have let me take pics that one time.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 01-09-23 23:56

I'm thinking possible escort and / or substance abuser. Does she look familiar to anyone?

https://members.seeking.com/messages...0-e8d89d83e018

**BrownSugaTwo** · 01-09-23 23:53

I believe this is her:

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-6da6132a105e

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!

**Member #6704** · 01-09-23 23:46

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.

Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.

**Peter Johnson** · 01-09-23 23:15

Originally Posted by Sikindil [View Original Post]

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.

Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.

**Member #6704** · 01-09-23 22:57

Anyone had any luck with this girl?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...9-3066670930f7

**Member #6704** · 01-09-23 22:36

Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!

**LouisHernandez** · 01-09-23 22:02

Originally Posted by Sikindil [View Original Post]

I met my first SB candidate the other day. She is 30+, lives close to my place, has her own routine during the day and so on. We met at a coffee shop. She was hot. I wasn't particularly well-dressed because SO was around when I left home, it was quite early in the day, and I wanted to see her reaction. I explained why I didn't dress like I'm going to a freaking wedding. She sounded ok. We spoke for a while over the coffee. She couldn't get to the details since there was a dude sitting close to us. Said she was going to text about details. Never received that text LOL.

I suspect she was going to ask for a ridiculous amount and in form of allowance since she pulled up with a luxury car. I'm no millionaire yet, just your friendly neighborhood PPM guy.

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.

You have to consider one and done opportunities with a hot GPS. I suggest reading a book on how to negotiate, it can come in handy.