"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Member #6517** · 01-09-23 15:24

I met my first SB candidate the other day. She is 30+, lives close to my place, has her own routine during the day and so on. We met at a coffee shop. She was hot. I wasn't particularly well-dressed because SO was around when I left home, it was quite early in the day, and I wanted to see her reaction. I explained why I didn't dress like I'm going to a freaking wedding. She sounded ok. We spoke for a while over the coffee. She couldn't get to the details since there was a dude sitting close to us. Said she was going to text about details. Never received that text LOL.

I suspect she was going to ask for a ridiculous amount and in form of allowance since she pulled up with a luxury car. I'm no millionaire yet, just your friendly neighborhood PPM guy.

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-09-23 15:18

Originally Posted by SugarDaddio [View Original Post]

Guys this woman needs money now and wants to meet today or tomorrow. She quoted me 300 off the bat with no attempt to negotiate down as I'm not available until Wednesday. I'm thinking for an immediate meet up you can get her lower. Best of luck and let me know if anyone was able to take advantage of her two day availability.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-316a5f485fde

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

The profile gives off scammer vibes. Brand new account, only 1 pic that looks like an instagram model, and very little profile info. Combine that with the "sense of urgency" she's attempting to create in her messages to you, and I bet a shiny nickel she'll ask for cashapp money upfront for gas or a babysitter.

**GoneForGood97** · 01-09-23 15:06

Tinylittlepixie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-dc7fd8add858

Someone else here linked to her and I clicked the link. She messaged me unprompted within a few minutes of viewing her profile. Was very direct and went to snap very quickly. Asked for nudes and she immediately sent over her cashapp LOL. Told her I didn't do that but only meet in person cash only which she was fine with. We talked a bit about what she likes (I'm getting pro/semi-pro vibes), and she eventually asks about the arrangement amount. I tell her it would help if she's send me nudes to determine the arrangement amount, and she sent a few lingerie pics over. Eventually she said she's looking for 500 per meet but she can't host. I tell her that's too high if she can't host and she immediately goes down to 400 but says she won't do less than that, but I suspect I could move her lower. Was open to BB all.

I might could charm / negotiate with her more, but frankly I've already met 2 SBs last week that I'm happy with and both are less than that and host, so I don't really feel the need to push for more with her. Still she seems easy to land if you want to land her.

**SugarDaddio** · 01-09-23 14:59

Guys this woman needs money now and wants to meet today or tomorrow. She quoted me 300 off the bat with no attempt to negotiate down as I'm not available until Wednesday. I'm thinking for an immediate meet up you can get her lower. Best of luck and let me know if anyone was able to take advantage of her two day availability.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-316a5f485fde

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-09-23 13:56

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.

Yeah I make it public, there's always a poker edge if they make the first move. I only pay attention to the ones that are local, and many are scammers / pros. I had one recently that seemed legit, went to text and she started the picture selling scamming nonsense. Immediately blocked her number / profile. I still find messaging first having the highest success rate if they respond back.

There are girls who keep their profiles hidden from public search and you potentially will miss them if they can't find you. I don't have a SO or care much about being hidden.

I only run 30 day subscriptions so I'm not "public facing" for very long.

**SugarDaddio** · 01-09-23 13:49

We had a very good chat on the site. Found out she lives in south fla. She never offered why she is on an Atlanta SA board. Maybe she was just blowing me off. Who knows. If you find out is she really is in Atlanta it would be good to know.

May the pussy be with you.

SD.

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Hey folks, just wanted to see if anyone has spoken with Venus https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-6c16d66533d5 and got anywhere. I like her a look (I'm a sucker for tattood alt / goth girls) and it looks like one of her pics is in a strip club locker room, which means I figure one of you guys has filled her up at least once. What was the damage and how was she?

**GoneForGood97** · 01-09-23 10:22

Hey folks, just wanted to see if anyone has spoken with Venus https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-6c16d66533d5 and got anywhere. I like her a look (I'm a sucker for tattood alt / goth girls) and it looks like one of her pics is in a strip club locker room, which means I figure one of you guys has filled her up at least once. What was the damage and how was she?

**FarFarAway** · 01-09-23 09:39

Just to put a finer point on this, I presume what you guys are referring to is whether your profile is hidden from search. I. e. Private. Yes, I do the same. Women cannot search to find me cold. I must go to their profile for them to see mine. This is the way to go I think, for someone w / a SO. For most people, too, for the reason mentioned by another poster. If you can be found, you get a huge # of messages from outside the US, indeed likely scammers.

About the photos, I found photos of someone not too famous who I've been told I look like. I doctored all of them to cut off about mid-face. It looks like they could be my real photos, just that I am concerned about my privacy. I have several, one public one, and a few private photos, and then opening up "my" private is one way to communicate interest to a POT in between my paid memberships. I get likes and even messages from that, sometimes they even open up their own private photos, presumably based on reading my pretty complete profile. The only thing I still can't really get when I am not paid up is their contact info. Though I did have a recent situation, I had sent my burner # to a POT the last time I was on but I guess I missed her. She got back on, I happened to view her profile at the same time, and my number was there. So she texted me and we started chatting, she shared full photos that way (her photos on the site had the face blanked out). No doubt she is real, and I am totally good w / the fact that she is a little careful.

**KingHorama2** · 01-09-23 07:40

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

I started in my mid-30's. I'm no multimillionare but I'm debt free and own my own home, but I don't think net worth is actually as important as seeking thinks it is. For me, Tinder and other online dating apps suck and have incredibly low success since I'm not an attractive guy (the Tinder reddit posts the first 2 rules of Tinder: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive LOL). I've been doing this a little over a year now and have scored a ton, found some really great borderline relationships, and much much prefer this to dealing with escorts.

Regarding not bringing up the arrangement, I've had it happen a few times, but it's very rare. The girl has to either 1) seriously like you over text and / or 2) find talking donation awkward and hopes you'll bring it up. During my last active sub back in Sept I banged out a cute kinky red head co-ed who just hated talking about it and so did not, but after we finished I gave her what I thought was fair (my standard 200 since I picked up a hotel) and she pouted, said she normally gets 400. I gave her an extra 50 and she left without any fuss, but later blocked me. So that's the risk you take. On the other hand I did bang out a 19 year old near the beginning of my sugaring who was just happy to go out on a date that didn't involve fast food, and didn't give a rats ass about $. So if you don't bring up the arrangement, it can go either way.

Thanks for sharing. And I'm the same, not attractive, average looks and a little overweight.

Started working before I was a teenager so never got any female attention and don't have the gift of gab so full on uphill climb for me, but even the last few days since finding this forum, I've noticed my text game improve and rate of responses drastically go up!

Had a Latin / Korean baddie on the hook and invited me out without any mention of money or arrangement but work ducked me and lost her!

Have to give you all props! The info and advice you generously share definitely works.

**AmpFanatl** · 01-08-23 22:59

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

I stay private too, and don't have a public pic just privates. I have gone public a few times but I find 99% of the messages you then get are just scammers.

I will be honest I do have a couple of fake SB accounts just to check out the competition from time to time and it amazes me dudes that put up real pics in public on seeking.

I have found myself doing the same, seeing what our competition is using in their profiles.

Dude, I do reverse image searches on a few of them randomly. It's absolutely crazy how many men used their professional head shots from interviews, linkedin etc. Able to find their real name, and employment with a couple clicks. It just blows my mind.

**Member #6718** · 01-08-23 18:55

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.

I stay private too, and don't have a public pic just privates. I have gone public a few times but I find 99% of the messages you then get are just scammers.

I will be honest I do have a couple of fake SB accounts just to check out the competition from time to time and it amazes me dudes that put up real pics in public on seeking.

**Member #6704** · 01-08-23 17:57

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

I am 50 and only recently decided to dabble in this age range. A lot of flakiness for sure and I don't get as many responses with the bigger age gap, but damn it's worth it when you pull it off. My current one steady SB just turned 21 and is amazing.

Wow, that's awesome. Well done!

**Member #6704** · 01-08-23 17:56

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

The phone numbers are starting to roll in, as I suspected things were just really slow during the holidays. I have a meet setup Tuesday with a spry 23 year old who has given very positive vibes so far so flake percentage is lower than normal. Have a few other phone number leads. The quality is pretty good so far and many have favorited me / messaged me first - all in the 20's range.

Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.

**LouisHernandez** · 01-08-23 16:50

The phone numbers are starting to roll in, as I suspected things were just really slow during the holidays. I have a meet setup Tuesday with a spry 23 year old who has given very positive vibes so far so flake percentage is lower than normal. Have a few other phone number leads. The quality is pretty good so far and many have favorited me / messaged me first - all in the 20's range.

**SugarDaddio** · 01-08-23 15:37

Wondering if anyone has any experience with this woman. We have talked and texted. She is definitely a woman I am interested in. She wants up front babysitter money and this is something I don't do. Most likely a scam but just wondering if anyone has met her yet. If so then I may be willing to take the plunge.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-f1b6e77998a5

May the pussy be with you.

SD.