Safe Sex Information and Advice

[Trogon]

Question.

Guys hopefully someone w / direct knowledge can help me.

What is the legal responsibilities of medical staff to report std's.

I think I may have gotten trich from a utr lady.

If I go to my doc asking for test and meds will they be forced to co fact my wife?

What are my options. Never had this happen before.

Thanks.

[Retro21]

Just curious, but how often do you guys get checked, and any info on how often shop girls get checked? I'm asking cause I've only indulged a few times, everything covered but I do still hook up with other girls. Obviously both are risks but I try to manage it as best I can.

Recommend going to your local health department. They probably often do free testing or is pretty cheap for a full panel. If they ask you how much you make, make sure you low ball it. They give you a link where you can sign up and check your results when they come in (usually 3-5 days). Apparently guys only show symptoms about 50% of the time for chlam / gono so I recommend getting tested regularly, best to do it a week after a risk event (anything uncovered).

[TheSpaceGuy]

Just curious, but how often do you guys get checked, and any info on how often shop girls get checked? I'm asking cause I've only indulged a few times, everything covered but I do still hook up with other girls. Obviously both are risks but I try to manage it as best I can.

[BigPappay]

Just because you don't know something it doesn't make it untrue. I am joking, I didn't know about it either until I encountered that woman. Yes, there are housing programs and apartments specifically for people with HIV / AIDS. Some are operated by private landlords, and instead of getting $1200 a month for a typical section 8 tenant, they would rent their entire buildings to people with HIV exclusively and get $1600 per one bedroom unit.

Juz like COVID some folks have immunity to STDs merely by birth and healthy lifestyle. As always if you don't take care of yourself you will get burned.

[BigTruckBob]

Didn't know they had housing specifically for people with hiv, hmmm.

Just because you don't know something it doesn't make it untrue. I am joking, I didn't know about it either until I encountered that woman. Yes, there are housing programs and apartments specifically for people with HIV / AIDS. Some are operated by private landlords, and instead of getting $1200 a month for a typical section 8 tenant, they would rent their entire buildings to people with HIV exclusively and get $1600 per one bedroom unit.

[Moraxus]

I was on the hunt one morning and I came across a stunningly beautiful woman who was trying to get a ride. I took her to her apartment near Park heights where she lived with her daughter. We exchanged numbers and for weeks we talked on the phone like teenagers. She told me that she wanted me to give her a son, and that she was going to ride me until I came inside of her. I was so close to banging her, and I might have done something stupid like going raw considering how sexy she was. The night I was suppose to see her she revealed that she had bedbugs, so I canceled going to her place. She couldn't get a sitter, so we made plans to see each other that weekend. The next day she called me and was very upset, the apartment's two maintenance guys wouldn't treat her apartment unless she fucked them. She said she once dated a different maintenance guy when she needed work done to her apartment, and now they were all trying to run through her whenever she needed a repair. She asked me for help with getting the apartment complex to resolved the bug issue. While calling around trying to help her, I found out the apartments were special HUD units, housing people that were infected with HIV. When I confronted her she confessed she had it, and gave me a BS excuse that she was going to tell me before we had sex. I cut her off promptly, but what perplexes me is why were the maintenance guys still trying to fuck her when they knew she had HIV. I feel like that situation was God's intervention at its finest. Not only did he save me, but he showed me what he saved me from.

Didn't know they had housing specifically for people with hiv, hmmm.

[BigTime22]

Has anyone ever got head and ended up with an std? I haven't just asking for my own piece of mind.

Yea a ***** gave me herps from a bbj about a year ago, I know exactly who cause hadn't been engaged in any FS for a min and she was only to me bbj material not totally hideous but when first met slightly bigger than advertised, but some bigger chicks can give killer head, she a bunch of cheap tattoos and overall not my cup of tea, but since she made the meet up I figured BBJ couldn't hurt (so little I knew) least something for her troubles, no signs of anything except them damn tats, week later I experienced a pain people would refer to as an earache or toothache, hurt to sit, stand walk etc and not pleasant in the least and a lot more common than I thought but, I hate CBJ but if I knew the burning ungodly pain I was was going to endure a wrap would've been a god send!

[Kcdark]

Not sure if this was brought up but my biggest concern is the number of guys who are bi and participate in BBFS. Too often, I have seen reviews of guys who have had BBFS with providers and then have the same kind of session with a TS provider. It is a statical fact that transmission rates of a number of STD / STI's are easily transmitted through the anus. I am not sure how anyone can justify being that reckless.

Also please keep in mind, this is not about sexual preference. This is about transmission rates in MF sexual encounters vs MM sexual encounters.

[Robert662]

This is true. There are a lot of providers that will do BBBJ or BBBJCIM bc they think it's GFE or standard but when it's time for the main event, make you slap on a rubber. The risks are not that much different at that point. Maybe they feel better about themselves. Also, maybe they aren't on birth control, so it's a prevention method.

I don't always have to have BBFS but if a provider is not willing to give me a BBBJ then the hell with them. That's a bare minimum for me these days.

Lastly, for BBFS it's much better if you make the provider think it was her idea meaning you're passionate and in the heat of the moment rather than just asking for it outright. I also try to look for providers that allow Stripper Slides bc more often than not, they'll allow BBFS if you treat them right.

Cheers,

Robert.

Saw action on this thread so thought I'd toss in my. 03 - If a provider does BBBJ, I have already been exposed to whatever, so BBFS is not Adding risk of std. The ones that do BBBJ and then want a cover for health reasons are ignorant on how std are spread, or lacking birth control, or perhaps they feel like less of a prostitute, by saying No, more in control. Also I get a chuckle when girls will BBBJ and not kiss because that's too personal. And that's my. 03. Happy mongering.

[Member #6989]

Saw action on this thread so thought I'd toss in my. 03 - If a provider does BBBJ, I have already been exposed to whatever, so BBFS is not Adding risk of std. The ones that do BBBJ and then want a cover for health reasons are ignorant on how std are spread, or lacking birth control, or perhaps they feel like less of a prostitute, by saying No, more in control. Also I get a chuckle when girls will BBBJ and not kiss because that's too personal. And that's my. 03. Happy mongering.

[Dj Hunter]

I have Googled this already but the information tends to be a bit vague on probabilities.

For example apparently you can catch just about anything from receiving oral if the circumstances are just right (sore in her mouth, cut on your glans, etc).

I'm wondering in more practical terms, how likely are you to catch something from the title acts, and what might you catch? I guess add covered full service too.

Sorry if this is the wrong sub-forum, not really sure where to post it.

No one can tell reliably tell you the risk of catching something from those activities. The best rule of thumb is to assume that all working girls have something and you can roll the dice from there. You can catch chlamydia / gonorrhea from BBBJ fairly easily. Of course, HSV1 is a risk of DFK and I've even heard there's a small risk that syphilis can be caught from DFK but not sure how true that is. You'll have to taylor your activities to your level of risk tolerance.

[AssHat]

I have Googled this already but the information tends to be a bit vague on probabilities.

For example apparently you can catch just about anything from receiving oral if the circumstances are just right (sore in her mouth, cut on your glans, etc).

I'm wondering in more practical terms, how likely are you to catch something from the title acts, and what might you catch? I guess add covered full service too.

Sorry if this is the wrong sub-forum, not really sure where to post it.

[AssHat]

I'm not new to the game but I tend to just go for HE for various. However as I happen to be in the Phoenix market for the moment I've been wondering.

How likely are you to catch anything from her mouth on various parts of your body?

I know mono is common from kissing but I believe it's not infectious when dormant, and it goes dormant after the first infection. These girls must all have had it so it's probably not much of a risk?

As for receiving oral, google says you can get all kinds of things but I'm wondering how common that is? I know you can get HIV from oral for example, but it's extremely rare.

[Nikalo]

I don't disparage anyone for their preferences or lifestyle. Especially on this site, as we all are looking for a variety of the same objective. My biggest concern with the STD thing is the lack of concern or knowledge about the spread, specifically HIV and Herpes II. I know a few guys and girls that have it and the scary part is that these people can (and have) lived with it without knowing it because they were asymptomatic. No there's no guarantee you will pass it on each time you have sex but passing it unknowingly is still passing it. Studies say 15% to 20% of the population carry herpes.

But it could be as much as 25% because of the asymptomatic or dormant presence, which no one would feel the need to get tested. So if we could confirmed one out every four guys that banged a girl bare has herpes, or even one out of every 10 guys, it's only a matter of time. Hell that's one day at work for a lot of the AMPs and Asian agencies. Believe me I never want to hear another word about asymptomatic spread and virtue shaming people for "exposing" others after the corona horse shit. But there are some similarities and, although may not as deadly, does stay with people the rest of their life. Some without doing anything wrong but have unprotected sex with a loved one.

Ok, lecture over. Now back to paying girls to bang me.

I'm always of the belief that humans and our predecessors have been barebacking for hundreds of thousands of years. Yes, the women we're seeing are banging above average amounts of dudes, but they are healthy and wake up the next day and repeat the process as the day before without issues.

Unless an AIDS type disease breaks out, I'm OK raw dogging.

[GutterMind4]

I don't disparage anyone for their preferences or lifestyle. Especially on this site, as we all are looking for a variety of the same objective. My biggest concern with the STD thing is the lack of concern or knowledge about the spread, specifically HIV and Herpes II. I know a few guys and girls that have it and the scary part is that these people can (and have) lived with it without knowing it because they were asymptomatic. No there's no guarantee you will pass it on each time you have sex but passing it unknowingly is still passing it. Studies say 15% to 20% of the population carry herpes.

But it could be as much as 25% because of the asymptomatic or dormant presence, which no one would feel the need to get tested. So if we could confirmed one out every four guys that banged a girl bare has herpes, or even one out of every 10 guys, it's only a matter of time. Hell that's one day at work for a lot of the AMPs and Asian agencies. Believe me I never want to hear another word about asymptomatic spread and virtue shaming people for "exposing" others after the corona horse shit. But there are some similarities and, although may not as deadly, does stay with people the rest of their life. Some without doing anything wrong but have unprotected sex with a loved one.

Ok, lecture over. Now back to paying girls to bang me.

Pretty lucky over 25 years of mongering with 40% percent of my engagements are bare. I am starting to think that the government just wants us to wrap up due to population control not because STD are a HUGE percentage risk. That being said. You do you. YOLO.