Arrangement Reports

[JDuB1970]

Can BURN through credits very quickly, much like Secret Benefits.

[OngBak15]

Is there a new promo code before I re-sign up for a month for SA?

[ArielDude28]

Even if you weren't explicit in your intentions, the fact that you kissed her, paid no money and will have another meet (maybe lunch or dinner?) means you'll be banging her in no time. They want the money but want to feel safe. Once that trust is established you'll have lots of fun.

I hear ya and I think I am getting the vibe. She paid for her Uber trip one way and did not ask me for anything but she was fine with me dropping her back when I told her I could. She probably felt safe after seeing and talking to me to let me drop her in front of her house. She is here with her parents for holidays or something. We are still snapping not like crazy every 5 minutes, but 2-3 snap chats per day. Again keeping the chats on different topics with no explicit talk. I think she would have said something and took Uber if I asked for something crazy during coffee. LOL.

[JDuB1970]

Hi all,

For reasons that are still unknown to me, SA banned my active and in good standing account that I had when I lived in another city. From what I've read, it seems like they're doing this a lot lately. Anyway, has anyone else tried the forum's advertiser Secret Benefits? I see the pricing structure is a bit odd, but if it's good for the Chicago area I'd be willing to try it. Breaks my heart that I can't see Seeking links posted here anymore LOL.

I'm in the same boat. At least they threw me off when my renew was about to be due.

Found this.

https://sugar-daddies.us/top-websites

[DynoJr]

Yep, already done and reported. Etc. Also had a good outing and it was a simple talk over coffee that ended with a nice kiss not initiated by her but did it when I paused looking into her eyes after the good bye hug. None of this may mean much. LOL but there is hope.

Even if you weren't explicit in your intentions, the fact that you kissed her, paid no money and will have another meet (maybe lunch or dinner?) means you'll be banging her in no time. They want the money but want to feel safe. Once that trust is established you'll have lots of fun.

[ArielDude28]

Do yourself a favor and block that. If they're asking for money and they haven't even met you, 90% it's a scam. There's even a halfway decent chance the profile isn't real. Worst case you've wasted a few hours of back and forth texting with a dude.

Yep, already done and reported. Etc. Also had a good outing and it was a simple talk over coffee that ended with a nice kiss not initiated by her but did it when I paused looking into her eyes after the good bye hug. None of this may mean much. LOL but there is hope.

[StanKost]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-d681702a51fa

This chic messaged me 1 week ago how interesting my profile is, blah blah. I told her that I live in Chicago and she is in Ohio, but next week (now) I'm coming to Ohio for work. She messaged me today and decided to meet half way for both of us about 50 mi drive each. We are planning m & g and she gave me her availability. She hasn't asked for gas money or cashapp and even ignored my comment that I'll reimburse her mileage. She is not a looker but sounds very normal. Yesterday her profile said NYC but now is back to Ohio although she changes it. I can't imagine why a woman will drive 50 mi to meet me at some lame peasant diner. Something feels off.

[DynoJr]

Great suggestions and I did have a situation earlier with one person bombarding me with messages for help explaining all her life troubles with money. Etc. Honestly, some don't even care about meeting but start asking for some funds to help their situation. I am not hoping it will be the same but who knows, can't tell much with texting. But, I get the message to not be desperate which I am not to jump into next steps but also not be unprepared if the situation demands. The nice thing is that we talked about keeping 3-hours time just in case but I did not go into texting what we do, and left that open. Only talking about different coffee on text at this time. Thank you again.

Do yourself a favor and block that. If they're asking for money and they haven't even met you, 90% it's a scam. There's even a halfway decent chance the profile isn't real. Worst case you've wasted a few hours of back and forth texting with a dude.

[ArielDude28]

This is actually great advice, to have a place ready in case things go really well but also not appear overly aggressive or pushy. I personally agree with your approach of not getting explicit in initial texts and doing a no expectations meet and greet.

If the M&G goes well and you've already had a good conversation about PPM expectations, it shouldn't feel too awkward to playfully suggest 'I've got time now if you wanted to take this further right away' or something like that. I've kicked myself a few times for not being ready or have cleared more of my schedule and had a girl ask 'do you want to go somewhere now?' as we were wrapping up a coffee meet and greet.

But in general, its a safe assumption that the girls know what this site it all about and you shouldn't have to do a lot of subtle convincing or using pick up lines to move to the next steps. If you're sensing resistance, then flags should go up that the girl's either too flaky to follow through or is getting ready to bombard you with lots of requests for 'help' instead of actually getting together.

Great suggestions and I did have a situation earlier with one person bombarding me with messages for help explaining all her life troubles with money. Etc. Honestly, some don't even care about meeting but start asking for some funds to help their situation. I am not hoping it will be the same but who knows, can't tell much with texting. But, I get the message to not be desperate which I am not to jump into next steps but also not be unprepared if the situation demands. The nice thing is that we talked about keeping 3-hours time just in case but I did not go into texting what we do, and left that open. Only talking about different coffee on text at this time. Thank you again.

[ChicagoDog1]

Hi all,

For reasons that are still unknown to me, SA banned my active and in good standing account that I had when I lived in another city. From what I've read, it seems like they're doing this a lot lately. Anyway, has anyone else tried the forum's advertiser Secret Benefits? I see the pricing structure is a bit odd, but if it's good for the Chicago area I'd be willing to try it. Breaks my heart that I can't see Seeking links posted here anymore LOL.

[FafaFooey]

But not sure if you're asking how to get them to agree to a meet, or one at a hotel. I personally don't try to hook up on my first meet, but if I were trying and they were not explicitly saying they would, I would get a dayuse hotel nearby and cancel at no cost if you aren't successful or the girl isn't as advertised. It should be a plan either way because until you see her in person you will want an exit plan and the nice thing about SBs is most don't expect to be paid for their time. I said most, those that do aren't worth pursuing.

You also might be overthinking as any girl that has gone through the trouble of setting up a profile already knows what the expectation is. The key is to not make them feel like a pro.

This is actually great advice, to have a place ready in case things go really well but also not appear overly aggressive or pushy. I personally agree with your approach of not getting explicit in initial texts and doing a no expectations meet and greet.

If the M&G goes well and you've already had a good conversation about PPM expectations, it shouldn't feel too awkward to playfully suggest 'I've got time now if you wanted to take this further right away' or something like that. I've kicked myself a few times for not being ready or have cleared more of my schedule and had a girl ask 'do you want to go somewhere now?' as we were wrapping up a coffee meet and greet.

But in general, its a safe assumption that the girls know what this site it all about and you shouldn't have to do a lot of subtle convincing or using pick up lines to move to the next steps. If you're sensing resistance, then flags should go up that the girl's either too flaky to follow through or is getting ready to bombard you with lots of requests for 'help' instead of actually getting together.

[ChiGuy1977]

This lady on SA is an escort, not an SB. 400/ hr. She promises everything covered with BBBJ YMMV because she doesn't CIM.

I asked for PPM and she gave me her straight rate. Decent looking with bolt ons. But for that price you can do better if you search harder. If you want an ez in and out, go for it but some GPS attached.

Couldn't find her on SA. Do you have a link?

[SugarDaddyX]

This one was ready to meet right away, but got mad when I asked to meet in public first. She is from the westside of the city. I got a bad vibe. Looks like she has a tattoo that says 'Austin' on her chest. Maybe one of you guys can take one for the team.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-41d4956a5b6f

This one was also pushy to meet. She doesn't understand guys have jobs and keeps begging you to meet her at the last minute. She wanted me to meet her without seeing a picture first. I finally got a picture and she is hideous. She looks like a Jewish crackwhore.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-ed049025409f

This one just wants to send you the link to her 0nlyfan5. She said she has no interest in meeting guys.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-491d8f4a9d19

This one is running some type of scam. She wants to video chat for money. The profile had its location in Las Vegas for a few days and apparently Atlanta previously because the profile text says that.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-f1c7f55df185

This one thinks she can get $3,000 per month. She is in Hyde Park, doesn't have transportation, and can't host. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...f-7182c5fe947a

This one wants $1,000 per meet. I'm sure there is some rich dude out there with yellow fever.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...8-352daabb3e02

Before this one moved to Chicago, she was jumping between cities in the Midwest. I think she is originally from Evansville and stripping. I talked to her when I worked in St. Louis about ten months ago. She wanted 300 and would only allow one SOG. Other guys saw her and reported she was horrible in bed. She had too many rules and was not into sex at all. She was traveling with another girl for awhile and offered 600 for a threesome, but only one SOG.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-e17ca8c3171c

Get that sex.

SDX.

[DynoJr]

Silly question. What is the best pick up line to use to convert the first meetup / date into something private?

I think I have a first timer and that's one challenge. I used the pickup line "We should probably talk in a less noisy place in more private about. Whatever the topic of our conversation was. " during my clubbing days. LOL. It worked but now I am a SD and I don; t want to look silly trying to be that young guy.

I don't want to be an ass and being too explicit about everything in my text/snap and scare her away. The only thing I let her know was to keep 3-4 hours so we can spend some quality time and left it at that. We already discussed PPM and all.

But not sure if you're asking how to get them to agree to a meet, or one at a hotel. I personally don't try to hook up on my first meet, but if I were trying and they were not explicitly saying they would, I would get a dayuse hotel nearby and cancel at no cost if you aren't successful or the girl isn't as advertised. It should be a plan either way because until you see her in person you will want an exit plan and the nice thing about SBs is most don't expect to be paid for their time. I said most, those that do aren't worth pursuing.

You also might be overthinking as any girl that has gone through the trouble of setting up a profile already knows what the expectation is. The key is to not make them feel like a pro.

[ArielDude28]

Silly question. What is the best pick up line to use to convert the first meetup / date into something private?

I think I have a first timer and that's one challenge. I used the pickup line "We should probably talk in a less noisy place in more private about. Whatever the topic of our conversation was. " during my clubbing days. LOL. It worked but now I am a SD and I don; t want to look silly trying to be that young guy.

I don't want to be an ass and being too explicit about everything in my text/snap and scare her away. The only thing I let her know was to keep 3-4 hours so we can spend some quality time and left it at that. We already discussed PPM and all.