Arrangement Reports

**FafaFooey** · 12-13-22 10:34

Originally Posted by Witness2002 [View Original Post]

So maybe more like a couple thousand a month.?

I read a few reported on redd it about exclusive arrangements. But they are talking like 10 k a month or more. No way I'm doing that.

You don't have to be a 'lifestyle' daddy in one of those arrangements for it to add up. There's plenty of data points already in the thread. Figure:

$100 is the basic price of admission to get on the site and send messages, maybe a little less with their frequent discounts.

$300 to 500 per meet in this market when you finally weed out fakes, scammers, etc. Yes, you might get lower if you really click with a girl and repeat frequently, but opening quotes lower than that these days come with some kind of risk. You say you expect 'a number of meetups' per month, so multiply as needed.

A hotel room for each meetup. Obviously a big range, but somewhere between $75 and 200 is realistic in the Chicago area. You will find some girls that will host, but they're either pros or you don't know what you're walking into from a cleanliness and safety perspective. Again, multiply by number of meets.

You may need a few more bucks for meet and greets, usually not more than coffee or quick drinks. If you feel the need to wine and dine with high end dinners, etc then of course add that in.

Many of us aren't big on random extra gifting, but if your arrangement takes you down that road, who knows?

It's not a cheap game, but all that being said, with a little luck you can end up with much better quality experiences than you do in other hobby channels.

**ArielDude28** · 12-13-22 00:52

Originally Posted by GeneralObvious [View Original Post]

Look on Bedpage. Write up your own ad. If you have some writing skills, use them to be specific about what you want. Serial daters flush many sites looking for that one dumb guy who will do anything. It's the dating world's version of phishing.

I tried Backpage, now Bedpage. Basically said, looking for "fun and a connection. " At the time, my kids were living at home, so I preferred someone who could accommodate our activities. I met a youngish Korean, and a Latina. Both were great, and lots of fun. If you want an arrangement, let them come to you.

That's an interesting advice and I am going to try this. I stopped responding to this person anyways. I am getting back to this game after almost 2 1/2 years and things have certainly changed a lot. I was able to score someone real in a month around 2018 when I was in it. Now, I only come across following types.

1 - Real but say they don't want to go physical. There are so many platonic but don't say it in their profile that they are. There were 2-3 that met for coffee and also said they can have great conversation and good time. Haha. I have my female friends who can do that way better than you dumb heads.

2 - some real & pros and picture seller. They start by sharing snapchat and take you into purchasing. Anyone can find the star of their interest for free on internet.

3 - Pros that look ugly. They may not be getting it anyways in the pro circles so try this route.

Its really a slow run on SA as well as SDM.

**Witness2002** · 12-12-22 23:10

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

I don't think its possible for you to be more off base.

So maybe more like a couple thousand a month.?

I read a few reported on redd it about exclusive arrangements. But they are talking like 10 k a month or more. No way I'm doing that.

**HitMan1783** · 12-12-22 22:55

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

I don't think its possible for you to be more off base.

Exactly Pau Ford!! Smdh on sum of these questions.

**Pau Ford** · 12-12-22 22:30

I don't think its possible for you to be more off base.

Originally Posted by Witness2002 [View Original Post]

Never tried SA but does anyone know what the potential costs can amount to? Sounds like one can strike gold and potentially get a number of meet ups for a couple hundred a month; and no clock. ?

**Witness2002** · 12-12-22 22:19

Never tried SA but does anyone know what the potential costs can amount to? Sounds like one can strike gold and potentially get a number of meet ups for a couple hundred a month; and no clock. ?

**Limeyincal** · 12-12-22 13:34

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...5-bfad104051b9

Suzy.

Great photos (large cans).

But then wanted me to Zelle her some cash for her phone number!

WTF is the world coming to. I'm sure some idiot has already done it or will do it!

She's apparently in the Midway area

**Razorthin2011** · 12-12-22 13:05

Has anyone had the pleasure of meeting her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-fa6d45b0c1fa

**Jayp80** · 12-12-22 10:22

Originally Posted by GeneralObvious [View Original Post]

Look on Bedpage. Write up your own ad. If you have some writing skills, use them to be specific about what you want. Serial daters flush many sites looking for that one dumb guy who will do anything. It's the dating world's version of phishing.

I tried Backpage, now Bedpage. Basically said, looking for "fun and a connection. " At the time, my kids were living at home, so I preferred someone who could accommodate our activities. I met a youngish Korean, and a Latina. Both were great, and lots of fun. If you want an arrangement, let them come to you.

I used to do this a lot, if you get 10 hits maybe 3-4 are pros who already run ads the rest are girls looking for any way to make quick cash to pay their rent or car note. I haven't tried recently but it defiantly worked when I did it.

**GeneralObvious** · 12-12-22 09:05

Originally Posted by ArielDude28 [View Original Post]

I was talking to her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-ae3980ee9600

Wants 300 for meetup for a drink and said 300 will not take us far for any discrete activities. Looks pro and not sure if anyone had any different experience.

Look on Bedpage. Write up your own ad. If you have some writing skills, use them to be specific about what you want. Serial daters flush many sites looking for that one dumb guy who will do anything. It's the dating world's version of phishing.

I tried Backpage, now Bedpage. Basically said, looking for "fun and a connection. " At the time, my kids were living at home, so I preferred someone who could accommodate our activities. I met a youngish Korean, and a Latina. Both were great, and lots of fun. If you want an arrangement, let them come to you.

**Tkow70** · 12-12-22 02:06

Originally Posted by ArielDude28 [View Original Post]

I was talking to her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-ae3980ee9600

Wants 300 for meetup for a drink and said 300 will not take us far for any discrete activities. Looks pro and not sure if anyone had any different experience.

She says in her first paragraph, 3 dates for her to even warm up. LOL. Her $300 plus your dinner expenses for each encounter go right out the window. Then, if you're really lucky, you may be able to hold her hand on the fifth date. Dude. She is trying to slow play you and anyone else here. All she wants is dinners and cash for nothing in return. At least, that's how I'm reading it.

**ArielDude28** · 12-12-22 01:00

I was talking to her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-ae3980ee9600

Wants 300 for meetup for a drink and said 300 will not take us far for any discrete activities. Looks pro and not sure if anyone had any different experience.

**Big Penor** · 12-11-22 21:45

Thelovingbaby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-d911943663a8

Pics are not of her. Account is running the usual deposit scam before meet.

DreamyPrincess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...c-2a8bdf65fcb0

Not slim. Mushy. Inaccurate age. Face not so good.

Has a profile pic of her tits, but then claims she's looking for a gentleman.

**StanKost** · 12-11-22 20:42

Guys, has anyone seen an USA born Philippina, mid 20 s, cute, curvy, does SA as a side gig and has a real job. Lives in the city alone, but doesn't host. We were meeting for 4 - 5 mos, had a great time, but towards the end she was taking 3 - 4 days to respond to my text. I saw the writing on the wall and wasn't surprised when she ghosted me. I assumed she met a guy who pays better, looks better, fcks better, can see her more often, etc. I gave her some space and tried to reconnect twice to no avail. We never had a bad moment or anything. She is smart enough to know arrangements don't last long and wonder why she didn't keep me in the back burner in case her new sd replaces her, runs out of money, his wife catches him, etc. She had mentioned she was diagnosed with bipolar but doesn't take meds, I grew fond of her and just wonder if she is OK and dandy or something had happened to her. It is not her style to completely disappear, she would have thrown me crumbles or lie that she is too busy.

**RobertSterling** · 12-11-22 13:43

Originally Posted by Silver6933 [View Original Post]

Hi,

I remember seeing a report on the girl below. I just can't remember whether it was good or bad.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-733e976553c8

It's been said many times, many ways. The "seach thread" button upper right of the forum is your friend. Searching 733e976553c8, the last part of the profile's URL, comes up with 19 posts.

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