"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[GolfMan57]

Wants 5 PPM and can't host https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-40060bd7b2a1.

That's a little outrageous IMO. Odd her profile says she doesn't want a pen pal, but chats forever online before agreeing to go to text. We did have a quick meet & greet. Super nice person but not worth the asking price for me.

She asked for the same thing from me. Plus lots of rules.

[SBmidlo]

Wants 5 PPM and can't host https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-40060bd7b2a1.

That's a little outrageous IMO. Odd her profile says she doesn't want a pen pal, but chats forever online before agreeing to go to text. We did have a quick meet & greet. Super nice person but not worth the asking price for me.

[SolarFun]

I've used Hushed for years and it is has been generally very good. Had a minor blip where my account was disabled but it was an error on their end and they reinstated it.

Hushed has been very reliable for me with texting. It costs about $40 annually through the App Store. It's also based in Canada which has better privacy protections than the US.

[Vince2000]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-b2868a6c5a3e

Asking for $500 ppm. Can't host anyone had any luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-7bee2c71f330

She lives in Roanoke but travels to Richmond agreed for $400.

[Member #3308]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-9acdb645c333

I've made contact with this student. She seems genuine but I can't really get a read for whether she is DTF or wants to just hang out. I've asked directly and she's dodges so I think she's just trying to get some extra cash for nothing. Does anyone have any experience with her?

[SBmidlo]

Met this one recently. https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-0a3ab14d26c6.

Private pics are nothing special and are old. She is heavier than her pics. More curvy than the average body type she lists in her profile. Skipped the meet and greet and she invited me over to her place. She started at 4 but very quickly accepted 2.

Pros. Cute, can host in a nice apartment downtown.

Con. Heavier than I like, talks nonstop, doesn't swallow.

Will only repeat in a pinch. Happy hunting!

P.S., will not share digits.

[SrUnderbridge]

SB is largely fake accounts, but there are a few real one scattered in there. You do need to pay attention to clues like pictures that obviously aren't in the area. Sure, they could go on vacation somewhere, but if there aren't any local backgrounds in pictures that's a red flag. Even something like the plants. California vegetation tends to be more olive green that the brighter green around here. Never reply to messages sent from a profile with nothing written in the about me or seeking sections. The ones that mention local colleges or places, more likely to be real. Also check the other sugar sites: SA and WYP. If they show up with similar profiles on more than one of these, you might have a real one.

I have had a few meets with ladies from there. But I've also had a lot of messages from ones that seem local and then ghost after "Hi. ".

Overall, there are some real ones there, but the majority seem to be fakes. Is it worth it to spend the 89 to get 200 tokens? Meh. And those get whittled away by unocking private pics. Never use your tokens for "Read reciepts" or "Boost" or the latest, "Become a Top Admirer".

Currently I have a college gal I see regularly I found on WYP, but she's turned into more of a real fwb. Except for buying dinner / lunch and occasional shopping, haven't had to outlay cash for dates with her in six months. And the shopping today was just at a pop up fair, where I spent maybe fifty on little things that made her happy. My cash out is just as if we were dating. And I get regular access to those E cups of hers, and more.

[Passport4]

I think Secret Benefits, for the largest part, is a fraud. I have met with a very few over the past year I have been doing it. None as good as Seeking. I turned to it because I got blocked by Seeking. I still have no idea as to why and nor will they tell me. The vast number of girls on the Secret Benefits are fake. Hand down. FAKE! I assume its, as what you wrote, that Secret is the ones making up the profiles. Its to widespread on that site. Its funny, there will be some small town somewhere and there will be 2 to 4 girls from that town. Good luck meeting one of them. Its the types of pictures that let me know if they are real or not. I have noticed that the profiles with pictures that ALL have the same expression on the girls face are usually fakes. The ones that look very very staged are usually fakes too. I think its a real rip off and I think its a shame this site is promoting it.

I am currently a non paying member of both SA and Secret Benefits. I am much older than many of the ladies would probably like as a sugar daddy. Maybe I could be a sugar granddaddy. Everyday, I get several messages from ladies on SB ranging in age from 18 up. I always will look up any of them (21 or older) when their name can be figured out on Facebook when they use a real first name or have it in their profile. I have not been able to find any of them on FB, and I am sure it is not that none of them are on there. On the other hand, I will only rarely get a message from SA, and if their name or description has a real first name, I am able to find them on FB and contact them thru messenger or thru an email address that I find on the web.

On SA, when I was a paying member a few months ago, I did not get any more unsolicited messages than I currently get as a non payer. I was on SB 5 years ago and actually found an unhappy married lady who I was able to meet for fun. Unfortunately, getting our schedules to match has been very difficult, but not impossible.

My comment on SB is mostly FAKE.

[Tidad]

I am curious for *recent* experiences with SecretBenefits. I tried a year or so ago and was a complete waste of time and money. And I had read on Reddit they have staff creating fake accounts and sending messages. However I am seeing sbs that I have seen pop up more frequently, and accounts that at least seem legit. So am considering dabbling again.

Anyone know any tricks for discounted access to SB?

I met my current UTR there. Asian / Latina VCU girl; 1 date plus 1 overnight a week. I pay for her cell and half her rent.

[HardAndLucky]

I think Secret Benefits, for the largest part, is a fraud. I have met with a very few over the past year I have been doing it. None as good as Seeking. I turned to it because I got blocked by Seeking. I still have no idea as to why and nor will they tell me. The vast number of girls on the Secret Benefits are fake. Hand down. FAKE! I assume its, as what you wrote, that Secret is the ones making up the profiles. Its to widespread on that site. Its funny, there will be some small town somewhere and there will be 2 to 4 girls from that town. Good luck meeting one of them. Its the types of pictures that let me know if they are real or not. I have noticed that the profiles with pictures that ALL have the same expression on the girls face are usually fakes. The ones that look very very staged are usually fakes too. I think its a real rip off and I think its a shame this site is promoting it.

I am curious for *recent* experiences with SecretBenefits. I tried a year or so ago and was a complete waste of time and money. And I had read on Reddit they have staff creating fake accounts and sending messages. However I am seeing sbs that I have seen pop up more frequently, and accounts that at least seem legit. So am considering dabbling again.

Anyone know any tricks for discounted access to SB?

[Member #6718]

Are there any alternative sites / apps that you've consistently had good luck with (*consistently* being the operative word)? Or are they all still miles behind SA?

There are seemingly a lot of sugar related apps in the iPhone store, any of them worthwhile?

I am curious for *recent* experiences with SecretBenefits. I tried a year or so ago and was a complete waste of time and money. And I had read on Reddit they have staff creating fake accounts and sending messages. However I am seeing sbs that I have seen pop up more frequently, and accounts that at least seem legit. So am considering dabbling again.

Anyone know any tricks for discounted access to SB?

[KrustyDawg7]

I've been using TextNow for the past several years. Today, it got disabled permanently and they didn't give me a reason. Basically, they said the system detected activities that violate their terms and shut it down.

Babies do send me explicit pics and videos on my TextNow number, and of course there are explicit sexual conversations as well. Not sure if that triggers it. But this been going on for years.

Anyway, probably ready to move onto the next texting app; since keeping a secret monger phone is a bit too much work to hide from the spouse.

So, what's your favorite texting app that you're using specifically for the bowl?

Thanks!

I was using text now for a couple of years and paying the annual $30 fee. Got kicked off for some unknown reason. I could never figure out why, but I think they somehow monitor content. It said I violated their TOS but no idea what. I switched to TextFree which is $5 a month, and it works fine, so far so good. Had to get a new phone number but no big deal.

[FarFarAway]

Are there any alternative sites / apps that you've consistently had good luck with (*consistently* being the operative word)? Or are they all still miles behind SA?

There are seemingly a lot of sugar related apps in the iPhone store, any of them worthwhile?

IDK of any. For those of us w / SOs, paying for some sites is an issue. As the poster below notes, paying for membership can be even harder than w / SA. I did meet a girl or two off another site years ago, before the pandemic. I just hope SA keeps going, and can elude efforts from LE to cut its activities. I am all in favor of them banning flat out escorts on the site, and the guys who are courting them. There are plenty of places they can go for that, IK only seeking to get what I am looking for (and have found).

[FarFarAway]

I use Google Voice. Have it attached to a monger phone number. Keep the monger phone turned off and hidden deep in my golf bag where SO would never look.

Great minds think alike. No doubt, it is essential to keep the burner hidden. SO finds it, it is pretty much as bad as her finding condoms. I often leave it at work, stashed equally well. I have a buddy there who has a letter to open in case I get killed in a car crash, giving him instructions how to sanitize my office.

Those who want to run GV on their main cell phone, there is danger that there can be cross over to your real life.

I also always want to be in a position to hand my phone or my laptop to my SO at any time, to prove that there isn't anything for her to even think about. Therefore, I only ever have stuff at home on websites or in the cloud. I have a jump drive stashed at work w / my burner, with all the mementos of my past SBs. Some images are burned in my brain of course.

[OliverNP]

Are there any alternative sites / apps that you've consistently had good luck with (*consistently* being the operative word)? Or are they all still miles behind SA?

There are seemingly a lot of sugar related apps in the iPhone store, any of them worthwhile?