Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[MidnightSteel]

This may be a tall ask but can someone advise how to have success on SB?

I have a general idea of the scene but paying per message seems extreme.

I've had good luck on the site. Few basic tips. Safest to stick with the video verified girls, don't pay extra to boost your message, don't pay extra to see their private pics until you have some communication with them going. Does SB have fake profiles. Yes for sure but I've met up with both verified members and non verified members. I also have a fake pic I send. It looks very close to me but it's not me. Google a description of how you look and download a pic. Never send a real pic of your face.

I have a pretty standard direct first message with included a brief description about me, what I'm looking for which is PPM but I don't say PPM. Something to the effect. We meet up and you leave with allowance. The girls who want PPM will respond to that theme. After 30 day's the messages disappear so if she's verified and hot and I still want to bang her I'll start over assuming she's read hundreds of messages and forgot what I initially sent. The 2nd message will be super casual and friendly no mention of any meet up. Kinda like hey how is this site treating you. Lots of weido O's. You probably have some funny stories. Some girls are nervous and want to be slow played a little.

Like right now I have 3 girls in the rotation and my credits on SB are sitting waiting for me. I like not having a monthly subscription. Feel free to PM me specific question.

[AcltE0092]

This may be a tall ask but can someone advise how to have success on SB?

I have a general idea of the scene but paying per message seems extreme.

[FrmLurker]

Time waster in my experience. Never wants to meet.

She hit me up, with her hidden pics. Anyone have any intell, she looks familiar just can't put a time and place on it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-605e6442c770

[Member #6771]

Agreed. Definitely don't give them them a free dinner either. I got hustled on that one before, a fine dining place in uptown. I didn't even click with the chick. She got a free luxury dinner and I got nothing. If they want a meet & greet, do Starbucks. No money or food ever upfront.

What the hell is going on with these queens? I am on what my price and the last 4 or so queens have asked for deposits! I just had 1 cutie who I agree on a first that incentive of 25 $ say to me let's meet and to make sure you come because I have been stood up send me $50.00 and the other 50 you can give me at dinner. Hold on. I never agreed on any amount of money as an allowance! And dinner. What guy would send money before we meet, He'll no! I told her to start I would agree to give her agree 1st date incentive when we meet and for the first date it is Coffee or maybe lunch to see if we click, no money will be sent in advance at all. I had another tell me we haven't met yet but I need like 10 or 20 dollars to pick up my kids at day care send it? Are they nuts? She had the nerve to say I'm real and send me a blurry 4 sec video that I never asked for and said that has to be worth 20.00. Aaa no! These queens feel they will influence us to send cash based on their looks and make us think they will follow up on anything they say? Guys if you need more details pm me.

Don't send money in advance, if you have let me know if any of them ever followed through?

If you have any one who you can recommend who does follow through please pm me. Seriously!

Please stay safe out there.

[Crewzin]

She hit me up, with her hidden pics. Anyone have any intell, she looks familiar just can't put a time and place on it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-605e6442c770

[Dollersine]

What the hell is going on with these queens? I am on what my price and the last 4 or so queens have asked for deposits! I just had 1 cutie who I agree on a first that incentive of 25 $ say to me let's meet and to make sure you come because I have been stood up send me $50.00 and the other 50 you can give me at dinner. Hold on. I never agreed on any amount of money as an allowance! And dinner. What guy would send money before we meet, He'll no! I told her to start I would agree to give her agree 1st date incentive when we meet and for the first date it is Coffee or maybe lunch to see if we click, no money will be sent in advance at all. I had another tell me we haven't met yet but I need like 10 or 20 dollars to pick up my kids at day care send it? Are they nuts? She had the nerve to say I'm real and send me a blurry 4 sec video that I never asked for and said that has to be worth 20.00. Aaa no! These queens feel they will influence us to send cash based on their looks and make us think they will follow up on anything they say? Guys if you need more details pm me.

Don't send money in advance, if you have let me know if any of them ever followed through?

If you have any one who you can recommend who does follow through please pm me. Seriously!

Please stay safe out there.

[DriveHard]

Would also add that I believe Seeking works on a 3 strikes and you're out policy (or something similar).

When I report an obvious fake account, it rarely disappears immediately but after a few hours or next day. I always provide evidence, cash app scams, etc.

So, keep flagging!

On a related note, I reported this one for demanding a deposit up front. Evidence was provided to Seeking, but the profile is still up. She is either a pro (talks like one) or a fake scam account:

MysteriousCutie:

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...c-e5051c21c692

Don't ever send a deposit.

[DriveHard]

In my experience, SA rarely boots a woman off when a man complains. They, SA, will rather block the male individual who made the complaint. I know this because I have multiple logins on the site, 3 actually. And when I would make a complaint about a woman with my paid profile. They will block that profile from seeing that female. But am able to see the same female from my non-paying profile. Basically the profile that did not file a complaint.

Would also add that I believe Seeking works on a 3 strikes and you're out policy (or something similar).

When I report an obvious fake account, it rarely disappears immediately but after a few hours or next day. I always provide evidence, cash app scams, etc.

So, keep flagging!

[SmallAsianCock]

I don't know if it's still true but previously if a girl posted on-line only or no meet-ups, all you had to do is report to SA admin and they would kill the account. In those rules that you gloss over and hit the agree tab, it says the purpose of the site is to meet, and on-line only violates the rules. They loosened the rules during covid but I would think that has been reinstated.

In my experience, SA rarely boots a woman off when a man complains. They, SA, will rather block the male individual who made the complaint. I know this because I have multiple logins on the site, 3 actually. And when I would make a complaint about a woman with my paid profile. They will block that profile from seeing that female. But am able to see the same female from my non-paying profile. Basically the profile that did not file a complaint.

[LolBoat]

Dyed red hair, lived down a dirt road?

I did see her once out that way I believe (I'm not from NC originally but did live in CLT for a few years) and it was at her friends house / trailer somewhere out there.

I do think her hair was red and she had lots of tattoos. Is she still around / alive?

[FiveOfSix]

What is going on with the massive increase in profiles saying they are only looking for platonic, or online, or nothing sexual? Seems like fully half of the profiles have some version of that. Is there really a market for girls who just want a guy to give them money but get nothing but "talking" in return? I find it hard to believe but feel like it must exist or these girls wouldn't be telling their friends to join up in droves. Rant over, just wondering if I'm crazy for thinking this sounds unlikely.

I don't know if it's still true but previously if a girl posted on-line only or no meet-ups, all you had to do is report to SA admin and they would kill the account. In those rules that you gloss over and hit the agree tab, it says the purpose of the site is to meet, and on-line only violates the rules. They loosened the rules during covid but I would think that has been reinstated.

[SingleGuyClt]

She was about 19 or 20 in 2019 or so when I was seeing her, really hot girl from the lincolnton area. About 5'7, big perfect tits and really pretty.

Anyone still seeing her? Someone posted a review or two of her on here back then but her # doesn't work anymore.

Dyed red hair, lived down a dirt road?

[John Dough71]

What is going on with the massive increase in profiles saying they are only looking for platonic, or online, or nothing sexual? Seems like fully half of the profiles have some version of that. Is there really a market for girls who just want a guy to give them money but get nothing but "talking" in return? I find it hard to believe but feel like it must exist or these girls wouldn't be telling their friends to join up in droves. Rant over, just wondering if I'm crazy for thinking this sounds unlikely.

[Bruco]

She a fake pic selling scammer.

Has a 315 area code. Claims to work at a restaurant uptown and live in Matthews.

She blocked me, but that's a unique area code.

[LolBoat]

She was about 19 or 20 in 2019 or so when I was seeing her, really hot girl from the lincolnton area. About 5'7, big perfect tits and really pretty.

Anyone still seeing her? Someone posted a review or two of her on here back then but her # doesn't work anymore.