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[LolBoat]

I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.

Convince her to get off the site and keep her to yourself!!

[LimpAndSmall]

Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.

They use Canvas fingerprinting.

[FarFarAway]

Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.

I think that using anything from past profiles that got banned puts you at risk. Are you changing the MAC address on your device?

I would also suggest contacting customer service if you can and pleading with them.

On the other hand, why did you get banned? Were you using un-approved acronyms? If you really did violate their TOS (which you should re-read), perhaps because you were just mongering, maybe they don't really want you on there, and you shouldn't be there.

I have had a profile since 2016. I hide that info. I figure I am pretty much immune to getting banned at this stage. I am even in their users focus group. I would never do anything to jeopardize my status there. I do have a new unpaid profile I can use to peek at someone I've blocked on my main profile, or vice versa.

I've never tried to convert that to a paid membership to contact girls. It is interesting, sometimes I see someone on the unpaid profile I don't see on my old one. Don't know why that is. I'd like to hear from anyone with experience.

[ReboundJohn]

Hi guys, I was banned over a month and tried making a new account using ghostery and vpn. Successfully created my account and added new pic and have been engaging in likes for a week. When I subscribed with vanilla gift card, I automatically got suspended. Tried making a new account with no pic which works but when I use the vanilla gift card again to subscribe I get suspended automatically. I am using all new info for name and billing each time and turned off vpn public Wi-Fi when paying. Am I missing something? What am I doing wrong. Is the card number now flagged? What are the proper steps that I'm missing.

[RanManCan]

I use an extreme closeup photo of my cheek / beard / side of nose for my profile photo, then have a few real, face blurred, full and half body shots in my private photos.

Not exactly "no face", but nothing that's identifiable by an AI, or even a human that doesn't already know me well. Plus they're all photos that have never been posted elsewhere.

Thanks for that. Good idea. Already uploaded.

NEXT QUESTION: What does everyone think about uploading a photo showing another (non-identifiable) girl kissing you?

I know this is a no-go on normal dating sites, and I assume so here. But these girls are way more open, so I'd like to hear your thoughts.

[HollywoodGuy]

Got to ask more, I just spoke to her, she was pushy on it all, asked the same amount, but I said I was looking for a few hours together (just to see) she said "LOL no, just make you cum and leave".

I hate that kinda girl and glad I asked. Warning to all.

Also, https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-e7ab6f4e9ad3 Is another version of the pic seller / scammer on my last post. Tried to get me again today on a diff account. Like WTF LOL.

Overall I can say the number of girls has picked up a bit lately. Must need Christmas money. So don't be in a rush to overspend.

[Ajfff]

Went for a splurge with the 5 bills. She drove herself. Young and pretty cute, with lots of piercings (nose, lower lip, gauged earlobes). 5'7 with modest rack but a great ass. Said she's 22. Asked for money upfront. Pretty responsive at daty but couldn't give head very long because of her braces? Open to multiple positions and had a decent session. Rushed in / out, got dressed immediately and bolted out. Might be open to Greek for more. Overall decent time but probably won't repeat due to price.

Got to ask more, I just spoke to her, she was pushy on it all, asked the same amount, but I said I was looking for a few hours together (just to see) she said "LOL no, just make you cum and leave".

I hate that kinda girl and glad I asked. Warning to all.

Also, https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-e7ab6f4e9ad3 Is another version of the pic seller / scammer on my last post. Tried to get me again today on a diff account. Like WTF LOL.

[PhillUponThese]

The first one tried to pull that pic selling crap with me also-been in the game waaaayyy to long to fall for it. Anytime they want to move to text in the first or second message its tommy on the other end. I played along and sent her the phone number of another scammer--then blocked her.

Thanks for the post about the discount, I waded back in yesterday and already have some reports of BS for everyone!

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-9c161c80b387

WittyBabe. Cashapp pic seller / scammer though lies at first about it, pretends to be about the right thing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-bb6012cb093f

Basically said I was too poor to even talk to even at 500 LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-4123007f09f3

Says she's in LA but her location seems to change. Reasonable PPM amount but wants a fee first so next'd.

Couple more in the works, let you know what I find. I fucked up and didn't take the chance on an awesome one last night and looks like she's ghosting today.

[ColoHobbyist]

I know some of you gents use a profile with no pics.

I'd love to hear your suggestions. Last time I uploaded a pic, I got booted instantly. I think they have facial recognition now.

I use an extreme closeup photo of my cheek / beard / side of nose for my profile photo, then have a few real, face blurred, full and half body shots in my private photos.

Not exactly "no face", but nothing that's identifiable by an AI, or even a human that doesn't already know me well. Plus they're all photos that have never been posted elsewhere.

[Ajfff]

Thanks for the post about the discount, I waded back in yesterday and already have some reports of BS for everyone!

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-9c161c80b387

WittyBabe. Cashapp pic seller / scammer though lies at first about it, pretends to be about the right thing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-bb6012cb093f

Basically said I was too poor to even talk to even at 500 LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-4123007f09f3

Says she's in LA but her location seems to change. Reasonable PPM amount but wants a fee first so next'd.

Couple more in the works, let you know what I find. I fucked up and didn't take the chance on an awesome one last night and looks like she's ghosting today.

[Member #6883]

They are running a special now, 33% off.

https://members.seeking.com/billing/...mo=BFCM2022V33

[WhiteCollarGuy]

I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.

Sounds like you found a potential winner. That's nice to find someone who is accomplished, etc. On the site. If it were me, I'd play it cool, just like you are and let the relationship develop. If she feels comfortable, she will discuss some of, or a lot of, the stuff you already know. Then, that opens things up between you two in terms of progressing the relationship. I think if she were to find out that you already know a lot about her, she'd freak out since I'm sure discretion is important to her as well.

[Omfgitzjin]

I have an unusual situation I would like input on. I have seen a seeking profile for several years, 42 YO single mom, at one point I got to see the private pics, and did not pursue because one was at my fancy, $200/ mo gym. My wife and I were both members, and I realized how risky it could be the POT could recognize me, connect me to her, it could get really ugly. Fast forward, SO isn't at the gym anymore and I see the profile again. I message, we hit it off, and a couple of weeks ago, we M&G. She is different than in text and by phone, much warmer. Also, obviously very competent businesswoman, though reserved about details. We adjourn to her car, a Tesla, for a deeper chat, and she is responsive to my touching her leg. We discuss details, and set FC for a week ahead. I spend a morning w / her at a hotel she books and I pay for. She is into the ritual, a nice lingerie set, etc. Really, some of the nicest natural big, firm tits I've ever seen. It leads to great great pretty straight-ahead sex. Not submissive, not pushy. And she loves to get hit from behind. Our personal interactions during the 2 hours + together are also great, she's really impressive, so I get curious. I use one of the paid information services to reverse phone search her number. It isn't a burner or a GV number, it is one of her old businesses. I then have her name and find her new businesses. She is the founder of a significant professional business in her field, and has received all kinds of accolades. She is all over the internet, on social media, etc. I am excited, I really like this sort of woman. If I were single I would want to date her. She was nominated for a special businesswoman of the year award by the LA Times. And in the Sunday paper yesterday, there was a large section on women-owned businesses, and I flipped through there she was.

So, how do I handle this situation? I know a great deal about her, but don't want to screw up the good thing I have going w / her, and I also require my own anonymity. I would like to eventually get the lady to open up to me. So far, the obvious thing is to keep mum. Yet I need to open up my strategy to new thinking.

I think along with this hobby, SA should be just as discreet. It seems like if anyone were to find out about why she sugars, it would burst in her face especially in the world of business she is in. I think if she really does like you and develops into a real relationship. Then let it happen naturally. I'd keep mum til it develops that way.

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-079d0fe4d1f1

In response to my saying I didn't think it was a good idea to discuss allowance on the site, she came back with:

I've been kicked off a dozen times, frankly I'm not one to concern myself over the rules, I like to determine viability because I'm not for everyone. I'm accustomed to a monthly allowance between 10-20 k.

[FarFarAway]

Nice enough in messaging, hot hot photos, once I got her onto text, she just sent me her address.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-cfe9ba6588ee