NoVA SugarBabies

**Arty33** · 11-06-22 14:08

I face same at a hotel I've been going with because the rates are always good and location convenient for the two SBs I was meeting, then front desk said last time we overcharged you but corrected it, that's when I realize they've been knowing me for several more visits back. I never check in with SB, instead either check in before if I trust them to show up, or check in by leaving them outside, then ask them to come up separate. But a particular hotel has no way around walking in front of front desk, and the SB always insist of walking in / out together after we check in, going to restaurant etc, the front staff see me with her, and they probably think it's my GF or hookup, but who cares. I try to pick hotels where front desk can be avoided, at large hotels this isn't an issue. But more of problem I found lately is frequenting same restaurants / bar with different girl on back to back weeks or a just few weeks apart. I got same waitress with two different girls, and she probably recognized me, but pretended nothing, very professional. These things happen more than we think and it's not unusual for guys / girls to hang out with different partners, no one really cares, except when you bump into an overly friendly / nosy staff.

Originally Posted by BDM1227 [View Original Post]

Agreed. I'm less worried about the girl than I am the front desk knowing how many chicks I am banging. As for Marriott: watch turning on the TV your name will be on the screen when you first turn it on.

At restaurants. And it seems common in South Florida: when paying the tab with your cc, they return the check to you and say "Have a good night Mr. Magee".

**BDM1227** · 11-06-22 12:06

Originally Posted by GuyInTheCorner [View Original Post]

One of the reasons why I like to check in ahead of time by myself. Or do so online and avoid the front desk altogether (though mobile keys are inconsistent, so always make sure it works first).

Agreed. I'm less worried about the girl than I am the front desk knowing how many chicks I am banging. As for Marriott: watch turning on the TV your name will be on the screen when you first turn it on.

At restaurants. And it seems common in South Florida: when paying the tab with your cc, they return the check to you and say "Have a good night Mr. Magee".

**Arty33** · 11-06-22 10:42

Get railed is what I meant, not riled, LOL. Although SBs are looking for allowance the big difference from pros is that they want it good, so if you give it to them and be a nice guy unlike the deuches they got to deal everyday, and without expectation or strings unlike personal dating, then they'll pay back sometimes. You always know they aren't faking it when the nails are digging in to your back.

**Arty33** · 11-06-22 10:39

As others said patience and sticking with it pays dividends. My hot new babe squeezed in time in her busy schedule to come see me, got what she wanted badly, which was to get railed, then left, basically free. I still had it left in me, and since it was free thought why not double up, so tried a few who have been messaging lately, one of them responded ready to meet, then after a few texts came down, had a few drinks then back at the FC location, riled her nice and good and gave her what was left, she was happy too, didn't ask for any money, WTF, it was turning to too good a night, but I wasn't wanting any jinx over me, so gave her lower end of what I would give anyone and send her back. Sometimes it pays dividends, other times it sucks, so take the ebb and flow.

**Lobsid** · 11-06-22 08:17

There no getting around it. Most of the staff at the hotels remember me. I collect Marriott points, and after a few years of playing the bowl. This year I reached Ambassador Elite status with Marriott. There are a lot of benefits, such as guaranteed late check out at 4 pm, and free upgrades. With all this the staff will remember you. Just last week I book a hotel I haven't used in 6 months, and the staff still remember me. My opinion is that the hotel staff has a good idea on what's going on. They don't care as long as you aren't causing problems. 15 years ago my buddies and I were traveling to Bangkok, and doing my research on hotels, I discovered that a majority of the Bangkok hotels requirements you to check in guest. Not a big deal but annoying to do. Marriott is one of the few hotels that didn't require additional guest to check in.

Why are you checking in with the SB? I had SBs do stupid things while checking in a few times so I always try to minimize hotel and SBs interact. Had a SB get upset at hotel staff because room wasn't ready when we got there. I was in a rush and didn't have time to check in 1st then pick her up. Now I rather just tell the SB I'm running 15-20 minutes late and always check in 1st. Majority of the SBs aren't the smartest, or lack common sense. Miss that SB only girl who took a creampie and turn around so fast that she could swallow the 2nd half of my load. She did that every time I would finish doggy. Had to end things when she was talking about moving in together in the future. I'm her SD not a normal BF.

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Have to start changing up my hotels as I've gotten into a pattern where I frequent about 5 locations. Checking in last night and the helpful front desk person said "Welcome back! Observant SB picked up on it and inquired. Didn't stop any fun time, but had to answer some questions and the situation could have been avoided. In the past, I always checked in and got the room "ready" (music, temperature, lighting). But after years in the Bowl, I've become a little complacent.

**Member #6951** · 11-06-22 08:06

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Have to start changing up my hotels as I've gotten into a pattern where I frequent about 5 locations. Checking in last night and the helpful front desk person said "Welcome back! Observant SB picked up on it and inquired. Didn't stop any fun time, but had to answer some questions and the situation could have been avoided. In the past, I always checked in and got the room "ready" (music, temperature, lighting). But after years in the Bowl, I've become a little complacent.

One of the reasons why I like to check in ahead of time by myself. Or do so online and avoid the front desk altogether (though mobile keys are inconsistent, so always make sure it works first).

**Rudy Wellz** · 11-06-22 06:16

Have to start changing up my hotels as I've gotten into a pattern where I frequent about 5 locations. Checking in last night and the helpful front desk person said "Welcome back! Observant SB picked up on it and inquired. Didn't stop any fun time, but had to answer some questions and the situation could have been avoided. In the past, I always checked in and got the room "ready" (music, temperature, lighting). But after years in the Bowl, I've become a little complacent.

**TheYoungMonger** · 11-05-22 22:06

Lately, I've been feeling the urge for another 3 some. Have you ever noticed any of the profiles with multiple ladies, without fail, there is always one that is a smoke show and one that is a whale. What's the deal with that? Is it worth sticking your dick in Shamu to bang her hot friend??

**IronMan40** · 11-05-22 19:25

Chatted for a bit, then went to text. Came to an agreement on PPM and set a dinner date. Comms were great, confirmed about an hour before the reservation. Then I was ghosted. Glad I hadn't booked anything beyond dinner.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-06e1119bf379

**BDM1227** · 11-05-22 19:14

It always cracks me up that we're dropping thousands a month on these chicks and yet a $20 coupon code sways us.

**GMarts018** · 11-05-22 18:56

Originally Posted by TheYoungMonger [View Original Post]

Easy as a google search.

20 OFFSD = 20% off.

Damnit! I was going to take a break but 20% off lured me back in. It's good through all November BTW. If your auto payment date hasn't occurred yet you can "suspend" your payment and then 5 days before it runs out they ask you if you want to renew and you can use the promo code.

**BDM1227** · 11-04-22 21:54

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-b28013a82001

DesirableCutie.

Here her new profile. You aren't missing anything. I saw her earlier this year for some hotel fun. She is a lot fatter then the pics lead you to believe. It was a one and done deal for me.

I saw her profile while brosing a few days ago and said 22 looks 32. And post child. Pic of her literally holding in the tummy. Standing poses also are clasic angles chubby chicks use to distact from the chubby.

**FatWhiteGuy** · 11-04-22 21:41

Yep, sounds like a mess. Thanks 👍127996;.

Was at Patsy's, now the Perch.

Great night for beer drinking 🍺.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-b28013a82001

DesirableCutie.

Here her new profile. You aren't missing anything. I saw her earlier this year for some hotel fun. She is a lot fatter then the pics lead you to believe. It was a one and done deal for me.

**Lobsid** · 11-04-22 19:45

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-b28013a82001

DesirableCutie.

Here her new profile. You aren't missing anything. I saw her earlier this year for some hotel fun. She is a lot fatter then the pics lead you to believe. It was a one and done deal for me.

Originally Posted by FatWhiteGuy [View Original Post]

Browsing my old posts and this one was just below mine from a year ago.

Was talking to her off SDM a few wks ago. Hit me up out of the blue via text to come over at 3 p. She lives in Fredericksburg. Sorry, but fuck that 95's traffic.

So we set another time, she folded like a CAT 3 chick so I sent her a sweet jerkoff vid and she replied with a "WTF BRUH".

I then told her she was too young for this lost my patience with her which goes against my previous post and blocked her.

If you see her on SDM, she wants to host and bang but assplay is out of the question, which turned me off. Go get her!

**Arty33** · 11-04-22 19:25

Oh boy, you have monk like patience, wish I could, may be I should. I think I've become better. Although one girl lately I got pissed and used a slightly different tone then she blew off, but she came back to me after a week when she realized the SA pool of mongers aren't going to cut for her. These girls get defensive too quick even when it's their fault, may be the mongers are douches and that gets to their nerves.

Originally Posted by FatWhiteGuy [View Original Post]

The key is fucking patience. Lots of it!

Girls who I thought were full of shit turned out to be real and fun as fuck.

One of them was AnnaJes, most of you remember her. Lackluster on responses but kept at it and I wasnt a douche in my msgs and its paid dividends. She still hasnt responded to my snap of 4 wks ago. No worries.

Don't lose your cool.

These girls field tons of dickpic msgs from us so just be patient or move on.

The most I've dealt with is Cat 2 & 3. They'll get back to you eventually. Being stood up is part of the game, just don't go off the deep end and go all AlecBaldwin on them. They have lives and jobs and kids so they will get back to you.

Save their number and get back to them every month, they'll come around. Can't count how many times I've prepped myself, house and then NCNS by them. Be cool chalk it up as a monetary win for the day and go rub on out.