NoVA SugarBabies

**Arty33** · 11-04-22 19:25

Oh boy, you have monk like patience, wish I could, may be I should. I think I've become better. Although one girl lately I got pissed and used a slightly different tone then she blew off, but she came back to me after a week when she realized the SA pool of mongers aren't going to cut for her. These girls get defensive too quick even when it's their fault, may be the mongers are douches and that gets to their nerves.

Originally Posted by FatWhiteGuy [View Original Post]

The key is fucking patience. Lots of it!

Girls who I thought were full of shit turned out to be real and fun as fuck.

One of them was AnnaJes, most of you remember her. Lackluster on responses but kept at it and I wasnt a douche in my msgs and its paid dividends. She still hasnt responded to my snap of 4 wks ago. No worries.

Don't lose your cool.

These girls field tons of dickpic msgs from us so just be patient or move on.

The most I've dealt with is Cat 2 & 3. They'll get back to you eventually. Being stood up is part of the game, just don't go off the deep end and go all AlecBaldwin on them. They have lives and jobs and kids so they will get back to you.

Save their number and get back to them every month, they'll come around. Can't count how many times I've prepped myself, house and then NCNS by them. Be cool chalk it up as a monetary win for the day and go rub on out.

**FatWhiteGuy** · 11-04-22 19:24

Browsing my old posts and this one was just below mine from a year ago.

Was talking to her off SDM a few wks ago. Hit me up out of the blue via text to come over at 3 p. She lives in Fredericksburg. Sorry, but fuck that 95's traffic.

So we set another time, she folded like a CAT 3 chick so I sent her a sweet jerkoff vid and she replied with a "WTF BRUH".

I then told her she was too young for this lost my patience with her which goes against my previous post and blocked her.

If you see her on SDM, she wants to host and bang but assplay is out of the question, which turned me off. Go get her!

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

Has anyone met this girl? She says that she is a dance in a strip club.

https://www.seeking.com/member/53221...2-c5239a765622

**FatWhiteGuy** · 11-04-22 18:37

The key is fucking patience. Lots of it!

Girls who I thought were full of shit turned out to be real and fun as fuck.

One of them was AnnaJes, most of you remember her. Lackluster on responses but kept at it and I wasnt a douche in my msgs and its paid dividends. She still hasnt responded to my snap of 4 wks ago. No worries.

Don't lose your cool.

These girls field tons of dickpic msgs from us so just be patient or move on.

The most I've dealt with is Cat 2 & 3. They'll get back to you eventually. Being stood up is part of the game, just don't go off the deep end and go all AlecBaldwin on them. They have lives and jobs and kids so they will get back to you.

Save their number and get back to them every month, they'll come around. Can't count how many times I've prepped myself, house and then NCNS by them. Be cool chalk it up as a monetary win for the day and go rub on out.

Originally Posted by Arty33 [View Original Post]

What are you guys experience about SB communication with the established ones? Interested to learn about how others handle this. I have had SBs who were very good in schedule follow up and planning the next meets, they respond within reasonable time, communicate well on their preferences of location, time, date, and do not keep me guessing with arranging bookings. These are the perfect one's, but they are the unicorns. Currently, only have one college girl who falls in this category.

Rest have been all over the place, the worst offenders change plans on the day of, even tho they communicate well during the week (s) leading up to. With these I know before hand that's likely, so I keep my plan open and do not book anything or confirm plans until they confirm day of, and even then I keep it open until I am about to leave. Almost no one cancel at this point, and those who do will be dropped. They are annoying but not the worst experience since they still telegraph their intentions.

The third kind is one who doesn't respond to messages for many days, ignores the message to re-confirm plan made a week before until very last day, typically a day before or may be day of, and do not respond to casual messages checking on them until many days. They always say busy or something happened when they respond. But the one that does this, never cancels an appt and do show up on time. The annoying part is the cold response he gives. It's like she prefers minimal communication as possible and just confirm once then show up.

I prefer the first kind obviously, and do get the second type, but I can't understand the 3rd type. It doesn't take long to respond to a message.

**ExpresSurvey** · 11-04-22 18:26

Gents, I started dabbling with SA but had to delete account after 2 days. Had a real world bleed over with a wife's friend, deleted account and doing damage control. Opsec is a challenge with this one.

Regardless. I had a lot of success in 48 hours. I don't have links but I have pics and numbers.

Need Help: if anyone has experience with red haired (dyed), insane amount of piercings, 19 years old. Hit me up on a DM. You'll know who I'm talking about. One of a kind.

Recommendation: the best hookup I had was a middle eastern married chick who goes by Ellis. I can send screenshot of profile, but she's the only Ellis in Rockville, MD. Very opsec savvy, and she's picky. But the sex was phenomenal.

I had a few other connections but nothing worth writing about. MILF in York, PA was alright and you've talked about her before. Lazy eye but fun and true MILF.

I have a few more I'm still developing over text; I'll share what I can.

**SlapHappy123** · 11-04-22 13:16

Any intel on destiny? Talked on and off with her before. Now she is back on seeking and listed as Married but Looking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-8c7fb5d246a0

**Mandane** · 11-04-22 12:02

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

This is a link to your inbox.

Sorry. Here's the link.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-1476384f7ed9

**Arty33** · 11-04-22 11:22

What are you guys experience about SB communication with the established ones? Interested to learn about how others handle this. I have had SBs who were very good in schedule follow up and planning the next meets, they respond within reasonable time, communicate well on their preferences of location, time, date, and do not keep me guessing with arranging bookings. These are the perfect one's, but they are the unicorns. Currently, only have one college girl who falls in this category.

Rest have been all over the place, the worst offenders change plans on the day of, even tho they communicate well during the week (s) leading up to. With these I know before hand that's likely, so I keep my plan open and do not book anything or confirm plans until they confirm day of, and even then I keep it open until I am about to leave. Almost no one cancel at this point, and those who do will be dropped. They are annoying but not the worst experience since they still telegraph their intentions.

The third kind is one who doesn't respond to messages for many days, ignores the message to re-confirm plan made a week before until very last day, typically a day before or may be day of, and do not respond to casual messages checking on them until many days. They always say busy or something happened when they respond. But the one that does this, never cancels an appt and do show up on time. The annoying part is the cold response he gives. It's like she prefers minimal communication as possible and just confirm once then show up.

I prefer the first kind obviously, and do get the second type, but I can't understand the 3rd type. It doesn't take long to respond to a message.

**FogHorn1** · 11-04-22 10:01

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

Private picture is a decently attractive 40 year old woman. Probably a 7. Got right to inquiring about PPM. I offered 400, with a range of 400 to 600. She claimed that was substantially less than her previous arrangements which typically means she's looking for 800 to 1 K. That's going to be a big no for me dawg.

Left unsaid by was I have at least two similarly aged much hotter chicks I am working from SA and Bumble who just want to be wined, dined, and properly bedded.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-12252d719c2e

This is a link to your inbox.

**FogHorn1** · 11-04-22 09:45

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

...She claimed that was substantially less than her previous arrangements...

When I hear that I always respond with the same thing "oh, did he move away?" They always ask "yes, how did you know?" or something like that, to which you can just politely say "Seems to be a trend or something, the last 25 or so girls I've chatted with all had a SD that moved away. Crazy that so many of them move. " This lets them know you don't buy their line of shit, without telling them their full of shit and getting them defensive or pissed off.

Telling you want the last arrangement paid (which is complete BS 98% of the time) is SB psychology 101. That's the number they want, not what anyone has EVER paid them. By saying someone else did, they are trying to accomplish 3 things:

1. Justifying themselves as being worth that amount, so you don't think you're overpaying.

2. Subtly trying to shame you for not manning up and paying their "rate", and / or making you feel inferior if that number is out of your budget.

3. Most importantly. Getting paid.

These are things (along with the tired line of "my last SD moved away") that they learn on various SB TikTok accounts and on the SB Reddit. Don't believe it. If they want to talk about what their last SD gave them, it's also easy to let them know your last 3, 4, however many SBs. Have been more than happy with Insert your budget here . This lets them know that other girls that are just as hot or hotter are available for less.

You don't have to be a dick about it, just be polite and reasonable. At the end of the day, this is just a business transaction; nearly 100% of the time.

**Cruisin1011** · 11-04-22 08:09

Originally Posted by DCOutlaw [View Original Post]

Went to text immediately. Wants to meet soon and offers threesome with her girlfriend. She looks familiar but I can't place her. Definitely sending pro vibes but price is reasonable. I'm going to pass even though she sent some good private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

I was just coming here to post about her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

Before she went as minx. I did the three some (I have post on here about it) with her friend who actually set it up.

I actually met up with her partner. Total waste of time. I got room and she shows up walking through the lobby looking like 2 dollar street walker.

Her partner shows up and they put on this over the top act for 15 minutes then spent 30 min in the bathroom together. Asked if they could keep the room. I said no and from walk in to walk out 45 min.

They were learning on how to shake people down. They asked if they could video I said no. Then after the negotiated price she tried to get more. I laughed and said no.

Her friend used to met me early in the morning for BJ before work. Then roped me into this three some thing. 5 minutes out the door she blocked me and boy was I glad. The pic she will show are from 5 years ago when she was thinner but still curvy. Now she is just fatter.

**DC Outlaw** · 11-04-22 07:46

Went to text immediately. Wants to meet soon and offers threesome with her girlfriend. She looks familiar but I can't place her. Definitely sending pro vibes but price is reasonable. I'm going to pass even though she sent some good private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

**BuffBill75** · 11-04-22 07:13

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Two former SBs contacted me out of the blue. One moved for grad school but asked me to call her when I'm in her area and told me she's coming back home to see her parents for thanksgiving and wants to hang out. Now I also have a place to crash when I visit the city she is in.

The other broke up with her boyfriend a few months back and wanted to see if I wanted to rekindle things with her before she reactivated her seeking account. I told her that I missed her and couldn't wait to see her again in a few weeks when I come back home from a work trip. Fc trip secured later this month.

Long story short, treat them well and it returns dividends. Yes, seeing one or two on a weekly or regular basis starts to feel really mechanical over time, but seeing them once every 6 weeks or so makes it feel like reconnecting with an ex, but without all the work.

Happy hunting fellahs.

They always come back rather than go back on SA. I guess fucking a bunch of randos trying to find something stable and trustworthy isn't all that easy after all.