NoVA SugarBabies

**Arty33** · 11-04-22 11:22

What are you guys experience about SB communication with the established ones? Interested to learn about how others handle this. I have had SBs who were very good in schedule follow up and planning the next meets, they respond within reasonable time, communicate well on their preferences of location, time, date, and do not keep me guessing with arranging bookings. These are the perfect one's, but they are the unicorns. Currently, only have one college girl who falls in this category.

Rest have been all over the place, the worst offenders change plans on the day of, even tho they communicate well during the week (s) leading up to. With these I know before hand that's likely, so I keep my plan open and do not book anything or confirm plans until they confirm day of, and even then I keep it open until I am about to leave. Almost no one cancel at this point, and those who do will be dropped. They are annoying but not the worst experience since they still telegraph their intentions.

The third kind is one who doesn't respond to messages for many days, ignores the message to re-confirm plan made a week before until very last day, typically a day before or may be day of, and do not respond to casual messages checking on them until many days. They always say busy or something happened when they respond. But the one that does this, never cancels an appt and do show up on time. The annoying part is the cold response he gives. It's like she prefers minimal communication as possible and just confirm once then show up.

I prefer the first kind obviously, and do get the second type, but I can't understand the 3rd type. It doesn't take long to respond to a message.

**FogHorn1** · 11-04-22 10:01

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

Private picture is a decently attractive 40 year old woman. Probably a 7. Got right to inquiring about PPM. I offered 400, with a range of 400 to 600. She claimed that was substantially less than her previous arrangements which typically means she's looking for 800 to 1 K. That's going to be a big no for me dawg.

Left unsaid by was I have at least two similarly aged much hotter chicks I am working from SA and Bumble who just want to be wined, dined, and properly bedded.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-12252d719c2e

This is a link to your inbox.

**FogHorn1** · 11-04-22 09:45

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

...She claimed that was substantially less than her previous arrangements...

When I hear that I always respond with the same thing "oh, did he move away?" They always ask "yes, how did you know?" or something like that, to which you can just politely say "Seems to be a trend or something, the last 25 or so girls I've chatted with all had a SD that moved away. Crazy that so many of them move. " This lets them know you don't buy their line of shit, without telling them their full of shit and getting them defensive or pissed off.

Telling you want the last arrangement paid (which is complete BS 98% of the time) is SB psychology 101. That's the number they want, not what anyone has EVER paid them. By saying someone else did, they are trying to accomplish 3 things:

1. Justifying themselves as being worth that amount, so you don't think you're overpaying.

2. Subtly trying to shame you for not manning up and paying their "rate", and / or making you feel inferior if that number is out of your budget.

3. Most importantly. Getting paid.

These are things (along with the tired line of "my last SD moved away") that they learn on various SB TikTok accounts and on the SB Reddit. Don't believe it. If they want to talk about what their last SD gave them, it's also easy to let them know your last 3, 4, however many SBs. Have been more than happy with Insert your budget here . This lets them know that other girls that are just as hot or hotter are available for less.

You don't have to be a dick about it, just be polite and reasonable. At the end of the day, this is just a business transaction; nearly 100% of the time.

**Cruisin1011** · 11-04-22 08:09

Originally Posted by DCOutlaw [View Original Post]

Went to text immediately. Wants to meet soon and offers threesome with her girlfriend. She looks familiar but I can't place her. Definitely sending pro vibes but price is reasonable. I'm going to pass even though she sent some good private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

I was just coming here to post about her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

Before she went as minx. I did the three some (I have post on here about it) with her friend who actually set it up.

I actually met up with her partner. Total waste of time. I got room and she shows up walking through the lobby looking like 2 dollar street walker.

Her partner shows up and they put on this over the top act for 15 minutes then spent 30 min in the bathroom together. Asked if they could keep the room. I said no and from walk in to walk out 45 min.

They were learning on how to shake people down. They asked if they could video I said no. Then after the negotiated price she tried to get more. I laughed and said no.

Her friend used to met me early in the morning for BJ before work. Then roped me into this three some thing. 5 minutes out the door she blocked me and boy was I glad. The pic she will show are from 5 years ago when she was thinner but still curvy. Now she is just fatter.

**DC Outlaw** · 11-04-22 07:46

Went to text immediately. Wants to meet soon and offers threesome with her girlfriend. She looks familiar but I can't place her. Definitely sending pro vibes but price is reasonable. I'm going to pass even though she sent some good private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-981586154749

**BuffBill75** · 11-04-22 07:13

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Two former SBs contacted me out of the blue. One moved for grad school but asked me to call her when I'm in her area and told me she's coming back home to see her parents for thanksgiving and wants to hang out. Now I also have a place to crash when I visit the city she is in.

The other broke up with her boyfriend a few months back and wanted to see if I wanted to rekindle things with her before she reactivated her seeking account. I told her that I missed her and couldn't wait to see her again in a few weeks when I come back home from a work trip. Fc trip secured later this month.

Long story short, treat them well and it returns dividends. Yes, seeing one or two on a weekly or regular basis starts to feel really mechanical over time, but seeing them once every 6 weeks or so makes it feel like reconnecting with an ex, but without all the work.

Happy hunting fellahs.

They always come back rather than go back on SA. I guess fucking a bunch of randos trying to find something stable and trustworthy isn't all that easy after all.

**Mcsylv** · 11-03-22 20:38

Originally Posted by CruisingXX [View Original Post]

Here is her link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-fc8ca8d7f490

I sent her 3 messages 2 months ago. All unread.

**CruisingXX** · 11-03-22 19:57

Originally Posted by CruisingXX [View Original Post]

Thank you for your post, she has reached out to me as well, has anyone spent anytime with her? I am getting pro vibes from her.

Here is her link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...b-fc8ca8d7f490

**DCKing** · 11-03-22 14:45

An Asian girl on seeking told me she's going to give me a discount because I am cute. Only 800 PPM!

**Mandane** · 11-03-22 13:54

Private picture is a decently attractive 40 year old woman. Probably a 7. Got right to inquiring about PPM. I offered 400, with a range of 400 to 600. She claimed that was substantially less than her previous arrangements which typically means she's looking for 800 to 1 K. That's going to be a big no for me dawg.

Left unsaid by was I have at least two similarly aged much hotter chicks I am working from SA and Bumble who just want to be wined, dined, and properly bedded.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-12252d719c2e

**TomFordModel** · 11-03-22 12:55

Something is off when tinder is providing better results than sa. That indicates SA is a just a cesspool now.

And I'm just your 50 plus old short Asian guy.

**Joe1278** · 11-03-22 10:23

Gents,

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...7-445ce5556759

Dorothy claims to be a part-time bartender and sales rep. She will play nice on the text (last 4 digits 0082); but then ask if you have seen her private pics. Now, there are no private pics available on the seeking. She will forward you the link to access the private photos where you have to enter the credentials. Based on my IT security knowledge, this is an attempt to hack your user I'd and password, where she or he can see your account information.

This is the link she shares on the text;.

https://seeking.private-photos-pictures-images.com

**Mandane** · 11-03-22 02:07

I no universe is "Slim" her body type. She's definitely a filter buster LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-18083a029f9e

**Member #7156** · 11-03-22 00:20

Originally Posted by DCKing [View Original Post]

Sweet Grace.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-c5a85e619529

Not exactly sure what she's looking for but seems like a nice thai chic.

She said she was looking for platonic initially when I spoke to her, but that's since been removed from her profile since I spoke to her. Anyone have any luck with her?

**CruisingXX** · 11-02-22 21:58

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Don't have the link because I had to block her. Yes, that's three Ps in the apple.

Batshit crazy. Never met in person, and thankfully I didn't waste too much time messaging her, though why I continued after the initial contact just proves Im a glutton for punishment. If you come across her profile, you'll probably want to do the same.

Thank you for your post, she has reached out to me as well, has anyone spent anytime with her? I am getting pro vibes from her.