"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ernest Ll** · 10-25-22 17:18

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Anytime a profile has Virginia, Virginia as the location, it's been my experience that's a red flag. If she actually said she was attending "Uni", I would say that's another red flag. It sounds like a European expression.

Uni for sure.

Also Petersburg in general, unless she is AA. The only college in P'burg is VSU which is a HBCU.

**Vince2000** · 10-25-22 14:17

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

It doesn't bother me but found you have to draw the line somewhere. Was talking to a 35 YO MILF who told me she has had 7 kids. For whatever reason that was the turn off for me for wanting to pursue. Besides she can only meet during the day and during the weekdays when the husband is at work and the kids are at school. She is still active on the site if anyone else wants to pursue.

Please share the profile link.

Thanks.

**SBmidlo** · 10-25-22 12:44

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

What do you guys think broadly about SBs # of kids. I have no problem w / single moms, but most typically have had SBs who had one child. Anything special to think about if they have 2? Or more?

It doesn't bother me but found you have to draw the line somewhere. Was talking to a 35 YO MILF who told me she has had 7 kids. For whatever reason that was the turn off for me for wanting to pursue. Besides she can only meet during the day and during the weekdays when the husband is at work and the kids are at school. She is still active on the site if anyone else wants to pursue.

**Kwagmire** · 10-25-22 07:26

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

What do you guys think broadly about SBs # of kids. I have no problem w / single moms, but most typically have had SBs who had one child. Anything special to think about if they have 2? Or more?

I think you have to take people as individuals. My current SB is a single mom, mid 30's, twice divorced with three kids. From my interactions with her I can see how that happened -- I'm sure she can have a "volatile" personality if things don't go her way (which was probably a contributing factor in her divorces) and she's been "bad decision girl" for a long time. I think she is trying to change that now, but at her core she is a "hedonistic" personality. She likes pleasure and touch and seems to enjoy a good "O" on a deeper level than most. Where most women have an orgasm and think to themselves, "that was nice" this one seems to appreciate them in a "my God, that was life-changing" kind of way. Really makes it fun. It doesn't hurt either that her body doesn't look or feel like she's had three kids -- flat tummy, tight pussy and perfectly perky A-cup boobs of a college student.

Of course, there are women who have one kid and their body goes to hell. And there's the general rule of "more kids, less time for anything else". In general I agree that as the number of kids increases the likelihood of a woman being a good candidate for a SB decreases but, based on my experience, to discount someone just because she has x kids may be shortsighted.

**SrUnderbridge** · 10-24-22 22:01

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

What do you guys think broadly about SBs # of kids. I have no problem w / single moms, but most typically have had SBs who had one child. Anything special to think about if they have 2? Or more?

I've got one who just had her fourth, but she is a freak and a half! Cuffs, paddles, loves getting face fucked. As long as there's a sitter or the kids are somewhere else, game on!

**BamBam** · 10-24-22 16:40

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

What do you guys think broadly about SBs # of kids. I have no problem w / single moms, but most typically have had SBs who had one child. Anything special to think about if they have 2? Or more?

My cut-off is two. Even then, they better be slim and hot. More than that, there is always weight or BD issues. Also, reliability / dependability drops substantially at 3 and above. I also look at age / kids combination. If a women is really young and has multiple kids, she is not managing her sex life very well. With so many options, why take the chance?

BAM.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-24-22 12:04

Originally Posted by GiveItRaw10 [View Original Post]

Had a chance to talk with this one. Says she is in Petersburg attending Uni. Exchanged digits and was a NC area code. Continued messaging back and forth, basically wants deposit prior to meet.

Anytime a profile has Virginia, Virginia as the location, it's been my experience that's a red flag. If she actually said she was attending "Uni", I would say that's another red flag. It sounds like a European expression.

**TopGun9** · 10-24-22 11:05

Hey guys,

What's your favorite / prefer morning after pills?

There's so many options out there: Morning After, Plan B, Option 2, My Ways, etc.

Plan B is too damn expensive, while My Ways look pretty decent at less than $10 a pill.

**FarFarAway** · 10-24-22 10:14

What do you guys think broadly about SBs # of kids. I have no problem w / single moms, but most typically have had SBs who had one child. Anything special to think about if they have 2? Or more?

**GiveItRaw10** · 10-23-22 14:17

Had a chance to talk with this one. Says she is in Petersburg attending Uni. Exchanged digits and was a NC area code. Continued messaging back and forth, basically wants deposit prior to meet.

**OliverNP** · 10-23-22 12:25

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

She may not have arrived a hooker, but it sounds like she left one.

Sort of, if only by subjective definitions. The SA girl ended up going shopping with me the next day (wasn't something agreed on or promised, it just happened), which resulted in a few clothing items and a bag of food for her dog. The other girl got a new set of tires for her car (small car, inexpensive tires) but that was about four dates in. Cash didn't exchange hands in either case.

**DWinthrop** · 10-23-22 00:37

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I thought they were all hookers too until my second virgin (confirmed, as in dick-busting-through-hymen logistic difficulties and subsequent sheet blood cleanup). Granted, one of them was through SA and one of them was not, but they are out there. This is what I like about the sugar lifestyle, you never fully know what you're going to get. Go escorts and you can be pretty sure, you're getting the cum stains of the last customer on your dick when you hit it.

She may not have arrived a hooker, but it sounds like she left one.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-22-22 21:12

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Thanks, I'll remember this next time I select a h**ker for their good moral character.

I'm not Sheldon Cooper, therefore I get your sarcasm. You have the information. Do with it what you choose. I understand that what matters to me may not matter to everyone.

**OliverNP** · 10-22-22 20:30

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Thanks, I'll remember this next time I select a h**ker for their good moral character.

I thought they were all hookers too until my second virgin (confirmed, as in dick-busting-through-hymen logistic difficulties and subsequent sheet blood cleanup). Granted, one of them was through SA and one of them was not, but they are out there. This is what I like about the sugar lifestyle, you never fully know what you're going to get. Go escorts and you can be pretty sure, you're getting the cum stains of the last customer on your dick when you hit it.