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**Hypster** · 10-16-22 20:43

She blocked me before I could get her profile link. Her SA name is "Fun Girl". Blonde, thin, smiling in her pics. Seems to have big tits. Quoted me a low price, so I was already suspicious. Then she asked to be uber-ed over, which I was theoretically OK with. But then, boom. She asks me to cashapp money over. Nope, of course I won't. Boom. Account disabled, then came a few insults over text. Anyway, you've been warned.

**Michael1967** · 10-16-22 19:57

Originally Posted by Bronco62 [View Original Post]

She contacted me after I looked at her profile. She was ready to meet, offered the same 500 per hour or 250 half hour. Sent me an address a block of Hosmer in Tacoma. Blocked.

She also contacted me and said she can host in Tacoma. I told her I have people come to my place.

**Asianguy** · 10-16-22 17:52

Originally Posted by Bronco62 [View Original Post]

She contacted me after I looked at her profile. She was ready to meet, offered the same 500 per hour or 250 half hour. Sent me an address a block of Hosmer in Tacoma. Blocked.

500 hour near Hosmer? GTFO 😂.

**Bronco62** · 10-16-22 17:05

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

She has contacted me twice over a couple of weeks.

I could have sworn I seen a add on one of the escort sites for her I just can't find it. She seemed to be pushing a meet up really hard. I would think you could get that rate down lower.

She contacted me after I looked at her profile. She was ready to meet, offered the same 500 per hour or 250 half hour. Sent me an address a block of Hosmer in Tacoma. Blocked.

**MilfHunter66** · 10-16-22 10:30

Originally Posted by Irwin18 [View Original Post]

Hot pics (heavy filter?) and wants to see you NOW. I can't, so go for it. $500 bb.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-bc3c735b41cb

She has contacted me twice over a couple of weeks.

I could have sworn I seen a add on one of the escort sites for her I just can't find it. She seemed to be pushing a meet up really hard. I would think you could get that rate down lower.

**Irwin18** · 10-15-22 21:22

Hot pics (heavy filter?) and wants to see you NOW. I can't, so go for it. $500 bb.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-bc3c735b41cb

**Irwin18** · 10-15-22 21:19

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Hourly rates are just inappropriate for a sugar dating situation.

Hourly rates would imply (1) that if she wasn't available when I wanted to spend some time, she would arrange and be okay with an appropriate substitute; and (2) that she would be available on short notice, e. G. I could call at 5 pm and she would be at my door at 6:30.

None of those would ever be the case in sugar dating.

Not being available when I want to see her, but available if I want to see her? I'm sorry but I'm confused.

**Irwin18** · 10-15-22 21:17

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

Not yet. I'm not yet convinced she intends to move forward after a paid meet and greet.

Yeah, when she said paid mtg, she got substantially less hot. 😂.

**KnoxNenters** · 10-15-22 19:05

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Hourly rates are just inappropriate for a sugar dating situation.

Hourly rates would imply (1) that if she wasn't available when I wanted to spend some time, she would arrange and be okay with an appropriate substitute; and (2) that she would be available on short notice, e. G. I could call at 5 pm and she would be at my door at 6:30.

None of those would ever be the case in sugar dating.

If there's any SB's here, what do you think? You shouldn't be afraid to share your opinion, but more importantly, do you feel this particular SB's approach is either apporpiate or just "not the way of the system"?

**Marko Ramius** · 10-15-22 14:12

Hourly rates are just inappropriate for a sugar dating situation.

Hourly rates would imply (1) that if she wasn't available when I wanted to spend some time, she would arrange and be okay with an appropriate substitute; and (2) that she would be available on short notice, e. G. I could call at 5 pm and she would be at my door at 6:30.

None of those would ever be the case in sugar dating.

**BoBroBgobs** · 10-15-22 13:49

Originally Posted by Irwin18 [View Original Post]

Can't find the OP. Thought someone was going to see her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-6f9d5217a712

Not yet. I'm not yet convinced she intends to move forward after a paid meet and greet.

**Irwin18** · 10-15-22 13:43

Can't find the OP. Thought someone was going to see her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-6f9d5217a712

**3Putt** · 10-15-22 13:21

Originally Posted by OliverQueen [View Original Post]

Also saw her for $500. MSOG and bare. She was honestly one of the best in bed I have ever been with. Very enthusiastic, passionate, and talented. No joke, my pelvis was bruised / tender the next day.

Did you see a lot of surgical scares?

**Irwin18** · 10-15-22 11:25

Hot pics, but after declining buying photos, I guess the date is off. 😂.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-3dcc626045af

**Maui Glory** · 10-15-22 10:46

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

Let's hear from both sides.

Especially because she wanted a structure where I compensate her for her time at an hourly rate...

Other cost factors: She lives in a city 60 miles from Seattle, so she shouldn't be pricing herself at Seattle rates, IMO. I would additionally cover the gas, $200 hotel room and incidentals. So all-in, possibly $900 for an encounter. That's a lot, in general. Definitely above my preference...

If you were filthy rich you wouldn't be trolling a shitty forum like this to talk about the used goods out there...If she were to read your comments about this, what would you want her to know, in terms of her rates and angle?

I troll this shitty forum because I'm not filthy rich. But I am kinda rich, meaning I can comfortably support a SB on the side. That said I do have limits because I have lots of other things I like to do, like travel and go to concerts and collect vintage sports cars. Also, I got to where I'm at in life by being disciplined and making smart & rational decisions and choices. My experience tells me (and it seems you are thinking among this line) that you want reliability in knowing what to expect with your time & money.

So that's why you go for SB, to get straight to the point, for the reliable intimacy with someone you have chemistry with, or is pleasant to be with, with clear expectations on cost & time. The lack of reliable intimacy, or unpredictability on the time together all up, is called "dating" as in the old way of meeting someone, getting to know them, and wondering if some day either one of you is interested enough in the other to get busy, or make the relationship more permanent. The pay per hour is called prostitution, and falls deeper into this category to the degree that chemistry is lacking or getting to know the person is lacking.

A SB is a long term arrangement where time spent for the allowance is based on spending time for extended periods at a fixed price. In other words we're talking about volume pricing for the SD and reliable income for SB. The advantage for the SD is cost and intimacy with someone pleasant is predictable and reliable. The advantage for the SB is reliable and predictable income from someone who is not a stranger and she gets to know and may have chemistry with.

Your SB is very confused and is mixed up in the concepts. She wants to be paid to date someone without owing reliability of intimacy and no volume pricing. This is why my personal pov is M&G is not a a deal I'm willing to pay for, though I would pay for a drink or meal for such to give a prospective SB, and me, a chance to assess whether she or I want to go for it. Nor will I ever get into a per hour deal. It has to be volume pricing for an extended sessions though it can be per half day or full day or week or month basis.

And yes if she says she says her costs are a factor in the deal, as in she has to pay for gas, then you get to say that your costs get factored in too. Remember you are driving there too. If she says her gas cost is a full tank then yours can be too. And you're paying for a hotel and that should be factored in. Her $20 or $40 in RT gas, or even $80 for a full tank, is nothing compared to $200 - $400 a night for a decent to nice hotel. And meals and drinks too - these are not cheap. So if she wants to bring cost into the negotiation then YES absolutely welcome that because she will lose big time on that point. This is a perfect example of "fuck around and find out"

SB is not a metered billing situation. I can just go pay for a VM on AWS if I ever want to get fucked that way.