"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**TopGun9** · 09-22-22 19:09

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

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Anyway. The standard response when someone threatening to expose you to family, friends, spouse should be that, while what I did might not have been the nicest thing I've ever done, and could be embarrassing, it isn't illegal. However, blackmail is a Federal felony, and I happen to have all of the documentary evidence a prosecutor could ever want in your texts to convict you of that. So, if you would like to pursue this action, I won't just lay back and take it, I will be heading to the Department of Justice.

Argeed with.

After that, block them and you will never hear from them again. They will move to the next target.

**EscortReview89** · 09-22-22 18:18

If you get threatend with blackmail, call that shit. It's a felony, she said she is 17 and going to send it, and filmed it with out you knowing? That's the production and distribution of underage material, another two felonies. I'd roll those dice at court.

**FarFarAway** · 09-22-22 16:42

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

Also keep in mind that many jurisdictions have laws against 'revenge porn'. While we might think of this as usually a guy exposing his ex, I am sure the way the laws are written, the perp can be the woman, not the guy (and same-sex relationships of course). Check into that, and use the laws against revenge porn in your push back against her.

**FarFarAway** · 09-22-22 16:02

Originally Posted by Happtrav [View Original Post]

What is the best US city for sugaring?

Phoenix, AZ used to be great. But now is full of scammers and girls asking for minimum of $500 for a meet and greet.

Please post suggestions.

I had a great time on a business trip to Chicago a month or so ago, I posted about it in their Arrangement thread. Saw 3 girls in 5 nites there. Memorable experiences.

**FarFarAway** · 09-22-22 13:30

Originally Posted by Ares999 [View Original Post]

Sorry to hear that. Had a very similar experience a few years when I was travelling. Not sure if this one will go through it in your situation but for me I held firm and the girl eventually stopped contacting me. I told her if she went through with her threats I would report it to local law enforcement and the FBI. Sent her a link to an article where a lady was prosecuted for trying to blackmail someone in a similar situation. All in all though it was probably the most stressful two weeks of my life. I guess the lesson I learned was either stop taking these risks or make sure not to leave your phone or anything else that could identify you lying around. Put everything in the hotel safe and lock it up.

The standard response to such threats should be. That is, assuming that you are 100% sure that she is of legal age (you checked this out, right? She has tattoos, so you have to be 18 to get those, right?) or you saw her drivers license?

Anyway. The standard response when someone threatening to expose you to family, friends, spouse should be that, while what I did might not have been the nicest thing I've ever done, and could be embarrassing, it isn't illegal. However, blackmail is a Federal felony, and I happen to have all of the documentary evidence a prosecutor could ever want in your texts to convict you of that. So, if you would like to pursue this action, I won't just lay back and take it, I will be heading to the Department of Justice.

**TopGun9** · 09-22-22 09:04

Got an email with 33% offer code. Might be specific to accounts / emails, but doesn't hurt to give it a try if you've been considering paying for SA Premium.

VWO33 RBELT1.

**Ares999** · 09-22-22 07:10

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

What a DISASTER.

Sorry to hear that. Had a very similar experience a few years when I was travelling. Not sure if this one will go through it in your situation but for me I held firm and the girl eventually stopped contacting me. I told her if she went through with her threats I would report it to local law enforcement and the FBI. Sent her a link to an article where a lady was prosecuted for trying to blackmail someone in a similar situation. All in all though it was probably the most stressful two weeks of my life. I guess the lesson I learned was either stop taking these risks or make sure not to leave your phone or anything else that could identify you lying around. Put everything in the hotel safe and lock it up.

**Happtrav** · 09-22-22 02:23

What is the best US city for sugaring?

Phoenix, AZ used to be great. But now is full of scammers and girls asking for minimum of $500 for a meet and greet.

Please post suggestions.

**CandyMan555** · 09-21-22 23:35

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

What a DISASTER.

**Tidad** · 09-21-22 22:06

Originally Posted by Round3 [View Original Post]

This one has some family drama going on so be forewarned that she might blow up your phone asking for help. In need of money so is open to most anything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-9f5f00f0147f

That there is some fat infested waters, beware.

**Round 3** · 09-21-22 17:59

This one has some family drama going on so be forewarned that she might blow up your phone asking for help. In need of money so is open to most anything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-9f5f00f0147f

**Ernest Ll** · 09-21-22 09:47

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

I am married and I do the exact same thing. Never put your REAL face out there.

I did the same -- similar but not me pic.

Started texting, she noticed the difference in the pics I did send and when I wouldn't meet her outrageous $ expectation, she reported me.

SA suspended me, asking that I send a copy of a Govt I'd to verify the pic in my profile was me, or I could kiss access good bye.

Was able to create a new profile with different, but real pic.

I'm not on social media. At all. I don't reveal my real career, schooling or any of the nuggets I've used to verify a POT IRL so they won't turn the tables on me.

**TopGun9** · 09-21-22 09:16

Originally Posted by BroadwayJay [View Original Post]

Stumbled across this old post and wanted to share my experience. .

I am married and I do the exact same thing. Never put your REAL face out there.

**Broadway Jay** · 09-20-22 23:09

Originally Posted by TennisStud90 [View Original Post]

Married guys. Do you use your real pictures on SA? I have been on before and used real pictures but always so worried someone I know would be on there and see me. Or that someone would screenshot my account and use it as leverage if they wanted to blackmail me. It seems so risky. Is there a place where I can find similar pictures of myself? Or where I can alter my pictures?

Stumbled across this old post and wanted to share my experience. I am married. When I first got on SA a few years ago, I did not have a public photo but did have a private photo of myself. I would only reveal the private photo to POTs I felt comfortable with. I was naive and inexperienced to all the scammers on the site. I also texted a few POTs face pics and mentioned my IRL profession in conversation. I was using a burner phone and thought that was enough opsec.

Big mistake. A blackmailer started calling me on my real cell and at work. I tried blocking the number but he had some technology that could bypass the block with No Caller I'd that would come up. I tried ignoring him but he was relentless and started calling my wife too. He wanted 10 k or else he was going to "come to my neighborhood and tell everyone what I was up to. " Knew my real name and address. I said fuck you I will never give you any money and filed a police report. I was ready to accept the damage to my RL rather than pay a blackmailer. He eventually went away but it was a very stressful few weeks.

Took about a year off SA bc I didn't want to expose myself to that again. Got back on a few months ago. Now I use the pics of a guy who looks like me except maybe a bit better looking. I get the photos from FB but not of any of my friends. Even with that my profile pic cuts off half the face. My private pics are of the same guy and show the full face but I changed the color of the photos using the Painter app. I never, never, never text my actual photo to anyone. If a POT asks me to text a face pic I send her one of the same dude I use for my private pics. I also never tell any POT my real profession. I look enough like the dude in the photos that when I meet the baby it's never an issue.

**Tidad** · 09-20-22 00:10

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

Well, this is not helpful. Some idiot from Stanford is conflating OF, TikTok and Snap posters with being a sugar baby. Worse, there are men (simps) participating happily. Am I the only person who has not heard of "Thirst Traps" before?

https://www.piratewires.com/p/the-su...rd-university?

BAM.

It's a pretty common phrase.