"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[TopGun9]

I think I did the steps needed, but still banned whenever I attempted to pay for premium membership.

1 - Get VPN.

2 - Cleared cache / cookies.

3 - Get new pics and email.

4 - Get a new prepaid Vanilla One card (register with different zip code).

5 - Sign up for new SA membership. DONE. So far so good.

6 - Browse SA profiles for a few days, put in some likes, etc.

7 - Go upgrade to premium membership under different name, address, zip code, prepaid card, etc. - BOOM Suspended!

WTH is going on. How the hell do you get around this?

I've tried the other sites such as SB, WYP, Tagged, etc. And they are all worse than SA IMO.

[Kwagmire]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

Respectfully, could you provide a little more clarity on this? I'm always very interested in how the scams and robberies these "girls" do play out -- knowing how these things work is the first step to us all being able to prevent it from happening to us on these dates.

I get how the girl could steal your college ring while you weren't looking, that one's easy. But she took video of you having sex? I mean, to do that she would have had to carefully prop her phone up and aim the lens at the bed, and roll the camera. Or she went into this with some kind of "spy-cam" hardware actually pre-installed in her purse of something. You said "after she left" so that implies she was in your space / hotel room, so she couldn't have pre-set her camera to record -- she would have had to have done this on the fly after she came to your room. If the hidden-cam/spy-cam route, that is some serious pre-planning plus an actual initial investment in hardware. If true, seems like she is likely not working alone in this scam -- Not out of the realm of possibility, but I have a hard time imagining an 18 year-old-looking girl pulling this kind of investment / pre-planning / operation off completely by herself. I mean, 18 year old girls generally have much simpler and reliable ways of extracting money from men using their 18 year old wiles....

And also -- how the hell did she get the contacts on your phone? Is this girl some Lebanese NSA-grade hacker? Did she show proof of having those contacts? I'm guessing that is a bluff, but damn, if true I'd really like to know how the hell that happened.

[TopGun9]

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Anyway. The standard response when someone threatening to expose you to family, friends, spouse should be that, while what I did might not have been the nicest thing I've ever done, and could be embarrassing, it isn't illegal. However, blackmail is a Federal felony, and I happen to have all of the documentary evidence a prosecutor could ever want in your texts to convict you of that. So, if you would like to pursue this action, I won't just lay back and take it, I will be heading to the Department of Justice.

Argeed with.

After that, block them and you will never hear from them again. They will move to the next target.

[EscortReview89]

If you get threatend with blackmail, call that shit. It's a felony, she said she is 17 and going to send it, and filmed it with out you knowing? That's the production and distribution of underage material, another two felonies. I'd roll those dice at court.

[FarFarAway]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

Also keep in mind that many jurisdictions have laws against 'revenge porn'. While we might think of this as usually a guy exposing his ex, I am sure the way the laws are written, the perp can be the woman, not the guy (and same-sex relationships of course). Check into that, and use the laws against revenge porn in your push back against her.

[FarFarAway]

What is the best US city for sugaring?

Phoenix, AZ used to be great. But now is full of scammers and girls asking for minimum of $500 for a meet and greet.

Please post suggestions.

I had a great time on a business trip to Chicago a month or so ago, I posted about it in their Arrangement thread. Saw 3 girls in 5 nites there. Memorable experiences.

[FarFarAway]

Sorry to hear that. Had a very similar experience a few years when I was travelling. Not sure if this one will go through it in your situation but for me I held firm and the girl eventually stopped contacting me. I told her if she went through with her threats I would report it to local law enforcement and the FBI. Sent her a link to an article where a lady was prosecuted for trying to blackmail someone in a similar situation. All in all though it was probably the most stressful two weeks of my life. I guess the lesson I learned was either stop taking these risks or make sure not to leave your phone or anything else that could identify you lying around. Put everything in the hotel safe and lock it up.

The standard response to such threats should be. That is, assuming that you are 100% sure that she is of legal age (you checked this out, right? She has tattoos, so you have to be 18 to get those, right?) or you saw her drivers license?

Anyway. The standard response when someone threatening to expose you to family, friends, spouse should be that, while what I did might not have been the nicest thing I've ever done, and could be embarrassing, it isn't illegal. However, blackmail is a Federal felony, and I happen to have all of the documentary evidence a prosecutor could ever want in your texts to convict you of that. So, if you would like to pursue this action, I won't just lay back and take it, I will be heading to the Department of Justice.

[TopGun9]

Got an email with 33% offer code. Might be specific to accounts / emails, but doesn't hurt to give it a try if you've been considering paying for SA Premium.

VWO33 RBELT1.

[Ares999]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

What a DISASTER.

Sorry to hear that. Had a very similar experience a few years when I was travelling. Not sure if this one will go through it in your situation but for me I held firm and the girl eventually stopped contacting me. I told her if she went through with her threats I would report it to local law enforcement and the FBI. Sent her a link to an article where a lady was prosecuted for trying to blackmail someone in a similar situation. All in all though it was probably the most stressful two weeks of my life. I guess the lesson I learned was either stop taking these risks or make sure not to leave your phone or anything else that could identify you lying around. Put everything in the hotel safe and lock it up.

[Happtrav]

What is the best US city for sugaring?

Phoenix, AZ used to be great. But now is full of scammers and girls asking for minimum of $500 for a meet and greet.

Please post suggestions.

[CandyMan555]

Quote Originally Posted by CandyMan555.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-12a395845580

Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to BU you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.

After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.

She sent me videos of us having sex and said she was going to send them to my contacts.

What a DISASTER.

[Tidad]

This one has some family drama going on so be forewarned that she might blow up your phone asking for help. In need of money so is open to most anything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-9f5f00f0147f

That there is some fat infested waters, beware.

[Round 3]

This one has some family drama going on so be forewarned that she might blow up your phone asking for help. In need of money so is open to most anything.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-9f5f00f0147f

[Ernest Ll]

I am married and I do the exact same thing. Never put your REAL face out there.

I did the same -- similar but not me pic.

Started texting, she noticed the difference in the pics I did send and when I wouldn't meet her outrageous $ expectation, she reported me.

SA suspended me, asking that I send a copy of a Govt I'd to verify the pic in my profile was me, or I could kiss access good bye.

Was able to create a new profile with different, but real pic.

I'm not on social media. At all. I don't reveal my real career, schooling or any of the nuggets I've used to verify a POT IRL so they won't turn the tables on me.

[TopGun9]

Stumbled across this old post and wanted to share my experience. .

I am married and I do the exact same thing. Never put your REAL face out there.