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**Lego19** · 09-20-22 00:56

Originally Posted by KuatoKuato [View Original Post]

Hey, so I have a SB who agrees that what she's asking for is waaaay too much and she's telling me to suggest a good amount.

So what would you suggest is a good / reasonable monthly SB $ amount? I don't want to pay a lot but I also don't want to go too cheap, but also factoring in that I'd have to pay for a hotel for our meet ups.

She's pretty willing and is down for what I propose for frequency and what we would do when together.

If it helps, she's kind of MILFy, in her 40's. A little bit of a middle age belly but not overweight. Her body, for a 40 year old MILF, I'd give 3 out of 5 rating. Face I'd give a 2. 5 out of 5. Personality I'd give a 2 of 5. Willingness to do what I want I'd give a 4 of 5.

Suggestions?

Based on your description of her age and ratings I would do 250-300/ ppm or 1000- 1200 considering you'll meet her once a week.

**Maui Glory** · 09-19-22 21:12

Hey, so I have a SB who agrees that what she's asking for is waaaay too much and she's telling me to suggest a good amount.

So what would you suggest is a good / reasonable monthly SB $ amount? I don't want to pay a lot but I also don't want to go too cheap, but also factoring in that I'd have to pay for a hotel for our meet ups.

She's pretty willing and is down for what I propose for frequency and what we would do when together.

If it helps, she's kind of MILFy, in her 40's. A little bit of a middle age belly but not overweight. Her body, for a 40 year old MILF, I'd give 3 out of 5 rating. Face I'd give a 2. 5 out of 5. Personality I'd give a 2 of 5. Willingness to do what I want I'd give a 4 of 5.

Suggestions?

**3Putt** · 09-19-22 12:51

Originally Posted by MorganCreamin [View Original Post]

Greetings, perverts. I used to be one of you but had to move away for work. Coming back to the motherland for a brief visit and would love to find an easy arrangement while I'm here. Are they are any SBs currently active that are DTF without any drama? BBFSCIP highly preferred.

Just check my last shared post, she is fun.

**Member #6240** · 09-19-22 01:06

Originally Posted by Hypster [View Original Post]

Watch out, bro. What you're describing sounds dangerously close to what some call "dating".

No, not at all. It's strictly transactional.

**Lego19** · 09-18-22 13:04

Originally Posted by WillShookSpear [View Original Post]

That's exactly why I pursue cuddlers and LMT / CMTs. Both It's a ton of fun to gently convince someone to have sex with you, and some of the ladies that I've met. Particularly LMT / CMTs. Have been fucking amazing. There's one if I posted a pic you guys would be lining up for; stunning blonde MILF that does it all and enjoys every second of it.

What are the sites where you can find cuddlers?

**Hypster** · 09-18-22 13:03

Originally Posted by WillShookSpear [View Original Post]

That's exactly why I pursue cuddlers and LMT / CMTs. Both It's a ton of fun to gently convince someone to have sex with you, and some of the ladies that I've met. Particularly LMT / CMTs. Have been fucking amazing. There's one if I posted a pic you guys would be lining up for; stunning blonde MILF that does it all and enjoys every second of it.

Watch out, bro. What you're describing sounds dangerously close to what some call "dating".

**Morgan Creamin** · 09-18-22 12:20

Greetings, perverts. I used to be one of you but had to move away for work. Coming back to the motherland for a brief visit and would love to find an easy arrangement while I'm here. Are they are any SBs currently active that are DTF without any drama? BBFSCIP highly preferred.

**Member #6240** · 09-18-22 10:31

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

I've seen this mentioned here a couple of times. And I've always wondered why bother when there's already SA?

Is it the thrill of it or are there like really good looking ones there?

That's exactly why I pursue cuddlers and LMT / CMTs. Both It's a ton of fun to gently convince someone to have sex with you, and some of the ladies that I've met. Particularly LMT / CMTs. Have been fucking amazing. There's one if I posted a pic you guys would be lining up for; stunning blonde MILF that does it all and enjoys every second of it.

**Member #6240** · 09-18-22 10:28

Originally Posted by PussyHound [View Original Post]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

The tip is that you're paying to cuddle and that's all you should go into the session with expectations for. In discussion, make known that you are open to other arrangements. If she is, she will offer to book sessions directly and not via the site. If she's not, she will require that you book via the site. Never go beyond cuddling on any session that is booked via the cuddling sites; only on subsequent visits that are booked directly. Always write a nice review about your first platonic cuddle session. Always wait a decent interval, perhaps 2 weeks, before booking a follow-up session directly.

The bottom line is that, as with LMT / CMTs, you can never ask. It can only be offered. Realize that it's likely a progression. More intimate cuddling, maybe less clothing, maybe some OTC touch, maybe some UTC touch. And from there, maybe. Get pushy or grabby and get shown the door. Or as someone mentioned, worse.

But the answer is yes, some cuddlers use the cuddle sites as a safe, non-threatening way to find quality clients that will respect their boundaries and that they feel they can trust be discreet.

**Michael1967** · 09-17-22 23:18

Originally Posted by PussyHound [View Original Post]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

Someone said they were able to get laid on the cuddling sites like a year ago. He basically said he would have them over to cuddle and it turned into sex. There were just way too many red flags for me on that. You pay a woman to come over to your place to cuddle, you have sex with her, she can simply say it wasn't consentual and she was scared because she was trapped at your place. Nope. Not going there.

**BoBroBgobs** · 09-17-22 21:01

Originally Posted by PussyHound [View Original Post]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

I've seen this mentioned here a couple of times. And I've always wondered why bother when there's already SA?

Is it the thrill of it or are there like really good looking ones there?

**Pussy Hound** · 09-17-22 19:45

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

**BbKingg** · 09-15-22 18:47

Originally Posted by BackInSea [View Original Post]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

If you are chill, decent looking and have a nice cock, you can have plenty of fun. It helps to have proof that you are safe and a good fuck.

You can't run around being an asshole.

Most just want to get pounded out.

Mostly 30 or 40 somethings.

The younger ones want $$.

Many are hooked on something.

I have teamed up with about 8 or 9 like minded gents. We share women. This has led to mfm and small gangbangs.

We help each other out. Many of these women want to be sluts and just want to fuck random men. Sometimes daily.

It can be awesome. It just takes time.

**KitWalker1967** · 09-15-22 12:06

Originally Posted by BackInSea [View Original Post]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

As far as one on one interactions these days, I'd echo what Michael1967 has said. FetLife offered what I'd describe as a "Target Rich Environment" years ago. You could find a lonely, horny chick who wanted to get dicked-down on a Friday / Saturday night or some dude trying to organize a gangbang for his lady. Back then I banged a lot of guys' wives / girlfriends (funny how a lot of them are teachers or nurses) at hotels and adult theaters and I only had one bad experience with a chick who turned out to be a stalker. Now, post FOSTA & COVID, it seems like the few gangbangs announced are mainly sex workers (like the California Girls) and everyone has a damn OF account they're pimping. At most, I've used it lately for infrequent notifications about ladies saying they're going to a particular adult theater / bookstore here in Washington or down in Oregon.