"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[CandyMan555]

They are not trying to sell videos or pix or asking for money for silly reasons but seem legit.

Some guys ask for a picture of the girl with a paper with the date on it and the words Hello Joe on the paper.

Who wants to set up a hotel meet and have NO SHOW or a meet and greet with a no show.

Any ideas would be appreciated.

Thanks CM.

[Tidad]

Can't get much traction with any of these hotties. Some read all messages, but no replies.

Anyone having better luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-310e9aa72107

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-7373b9731caf

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-4fa6a9f58779

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-d7970f1fb6ab

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-931d7f017a39

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-7284c3c2ed07

#6 is def real. She was briefly the utr flavor of the week years back and has been through the wringer since. Monkey, greybar, rehab. The whole cycle. Last I knew she had settled in to make a run at the straight and narrow but maybe she's hit a rough patch. When I saw her last she was charming, cute (think Meg Ryan in Top Gun) and willing to please but really wasn't my favorite body style.

[Kwagmire]

Last one blocked me after reading my last few messages -- she must be real, scammers never pass up a possible mark.

She's probably real, but she might have done you a favor. After reading her profile and checking out her pics I'd be worried she'd boil my bunny if I pissed her off. Those eyes are capable of some serious, off-the-handle anger.

[Ernest Ll]

First one replied saying she was looking for Online Only.

Last one blocked me after reading my last few messages -- she must be real, scammers never pass up a possible mark.

[SBmidlo]

Can't get much traction with any of these hotties. Some read all messages, but no replies.

Anyone having better luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-310e9aa72107

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-7373b9731caf

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-4fa6a9f58779

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-d7970f1fb6ab

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-931d7f017a39

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-7284c3c2ed07

Had a brief convo with the 5th one a couple of months ago. If you are older than her stated age range you're probably SOL. Doesn't want to see older guys.

The sixth one sent me a message and I replied. No response yet but she only logs in every few days it seems.

The rest just seem fake to me so have never reached out to any of them.

[BobLobLa]

Can't get much traction with any of these hotties. Some read all messages, but no replies.

Anyone having better luck?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-310e9aa72107

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-7373b9731caf

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-4fa6a9f58779

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-d7970f1fb6ab

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-931d7f017a39

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-7284c3c2ed07

[Tidad]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-6ae60d27872c

If anyone has seen her let me know. I got a late night message from her. I got a pro vibe, but I could be wrong.

Definitely a pro but will talk your ear off about how she isn't. She's just "looking for some help until her first paycheck from her new job". I've seen her 3 times and she was high enough that she forgot what tale she told on the first visit. She's skinny, pretty good tits and overall body but no ass or hips whatsoever. Early 30's but looks younger and told me she has never before had to pay bills on her own. Had a live-in bf (he's locked up) and she was fucking her mom's bfs for years but that dried up when mom moved. Poor thing. She's not a great lay but will get the job done and can be flexible on $$.

[PPJones]

Would you mind sharing how to spot a fake profile? I've found two legit SB's on the site that have lead to pleasurable encounters. But 95% of the time I don't receive a response to my message. I've wasted hundreds of dollars. SA is the much better value. I would and have given up on SB entirely but by the end of my month on SA I seem to have exhausted all potential leads and need another site to look for chicks on.

Thank you.

So, there's a major difference in the way those two sites work. One, gets you to spend credits to message girls, while the other gives you a timeline.

SA, get on there, message as many girls as you can in your quick month, in an attempt to gain "off site" paths of communication (phone, email, SM accts).

SB,. Be selective on who your messaging and only message those that appear to be real, or at least look like they will actually meet.

The similarities:. DO NOT mention sex or money on ANY site.

Read that last line again☝65039;.

Any communication about pretty much anything should be done "off-site".

I can NOT give you what I learned in YEARS of searching in a quick write up on how to spot a fake or fraud, but I can give you a few tips.

If someone from Cali is favoriting and messaging you and you're from Virginia, haven't looked at her ad and haven't favorited her, 🚩 that's a red flag (prolly fake).

If they look to good to be true 🚩.

If wording in the ad is misspelled or grammatically incorrect 🚩.

If things just don't seem to add up🚩.

I'm sure there's many more experienced mongers here that can add to this short list, but that's what I could come up with at the time. Feel free to jump in fellas with any others.

[Broadway Jay]

That site "can" work and does. That said, the whole basis of the set up is to get you to spend your credits. Unfortunately for you, it worked. There are many, many fake profiles on there and then there's some, that just don't respond. I guess my skills of spotting a fake ad have been honed over the years. I may even be an intermediate at that now.

Would you mind sharing how to spot a fake profile? I've found two legit SB's on the site that have lead to pleasurable encounters. But 95% of the time I don't receive a response to my message. I've wasted hundreds of dollars. SA is the much better value. I would and have given up on SB entirely but by the end of my month on SA I seem to have exhausted all potential leads and need another site to look for chicks on.

Thank you.

[Geechie Dan]

I saw her last March when she had a different username. See post #21118 from me and 21097 from someone else. The price is right and she can host in her apartment on Grace Street. Nothing to write home about but decent.

Thanks for the intel. I may save her for when I'm in a drought.

[PPJones]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...f6b0d28c3086a7

Have any of you paid for this site and found that when you do that no women answer when you message them, I mean none at all? Is it a total rip off? I got banned from seeking so desperate to find a good sb site.

That site "can" work and does. That said, the whole basis of the set up is to get you to spend your credits. Unfortunately for you, it worked. There are many, many fake profiles on there and then there's some, that just don't respond. I guess my skills of spotting a fake ad have been honed over the years. I may even be an intermediate at that now🤣.

The first girl I messaged on there years ago led to a several year "relationship" that still continues today. So I KNOW it works. Many others have stated all the games and bots aren't worth the price of admission.

Not too effective in my particular area is "sugar fetch" maybe you can see if it yields better results for you. Not many SB's on there in my area. ORRR, just try picking them up "in the wild".

[SBmidlo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-6ae60d27872c

If anyone has seen her let me know. I got a late night message from her. I got a pro vibe, but I could be wrong.

I saw her last March when she had a different username. See post #21118 from me and 21097 from someone else. The price is right and she can host in her apartment on Grace Street. Nothing to write home about but decent.

[Geechie Dan]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-6ae60d27872c

If anyone has seen her let me know. I got a late night message from her. I got a pro vibe, but I could be wrong.

[BagIt]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...f6b0d28c3086a7

Have any of you paid for this site and found that when you do that no women answer when you message them, I mean none at all? Is it a total rip off? I got banned from seeking so desperate to find a good sb site.

[TheHobbyLobby]

Same thing was happening yesterday to me.

I've had that problem for several months. It's a real problem.