"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Vince2000** · 08-24-22 11:33

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-2d7c6db03a74

Started texting, she is slow is responding doesn't know what she is looking for.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...f-78f6084f5531

Wants $$ upfront so she can meet. Pass.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...a-e79761526ce3

Chatting for a week doesn't want to meet until she feels comfortable itseems which I don't have a clue but she wants help LOL.

So I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-a22c7fe8c23c

Needs money upfront to know you are real she asked to send some money to do nails / wax LOL.

And planning to next this weekend will update.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...7-3bc19b1cf6a5

Want $350 per meet.

Please share your experience if you have seen anyone. Thanks.

**KrustyDawg7** · 08-24-22 11:31

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-9ff766977404

Did anyone ever meet this hottie? Texted and snapped with her, but there was always a reason why she couldn't meet -- no car, no job, nosy roommate.

Did anything ever come of this? I'm chatting with her and she says has no job. I questioned her location since she says in Roanoke but has a Richmond #. How does a 29-30 why / o not work, unless they're a pro or living off sugar daddy's. Has two profiles on SA at the moment. Something fishy.

**BobbyRichmond** · 08-24-22 07:37

Just curious if anyone has had any experiences with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/75363bff-2b8d-4ebd-be72-3db9bacc8e38

**RogerOver** · 08-22-22 20:54

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

I agree with everything you said but would urge you to consider the source when responding. Sometimes there is a (negative) reason for a high posting count.

BAM.

Source is important. Sometimes a high post count is just people pushing wishful thinking and massaging their ego. Look for less research and stalking, for people actually sticking their dick in a chick.

**Geechie Dan** · 08-22-22 19:16

Originally Posted by RomanRich [View Original Post]

I have had a free SA account for a while but keep getting scared off of upgrading and seeing someone. I find it to be a bit pricey for the membership and not sure I have the time to invest in a bunch of M&Gs. Anyways, I think I'm ready to take the plunge and this one caught my eye. Just wondering if anyone else has seen her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-89c00250d77f#.

I believe I know who that is and I've seen her. PM me for details.

**RomanRich** · 08-22-22 18:08

I have had a free SA account for a while but keep getting scared off of upgrading and seeing someone. I find it to be a bit pricey for the membership and not sure I have the time to invest in a bunch of M&Gs. Anyways, I think I'm ready to take the plunge and this one caught my eye. Just wondering if anyone else has seen her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-89c00250d77f#.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-22-22 11:10

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

So, the 30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm.

I met her my first night in town. Overall, not positive, sadly. Because she left out a couple of key things, including vaping in bed. IK it isn't smoking, but it still repels me. She did spend the night, oddly, but.

I had a crazy night on the town / in bed the second night w / the 30 YO sub / fetish model. I might see her again before I go.

Links so we can live vicariously?!

**FarFarAway** · 08-22-22 01:15

Originally Posted by HawkJock617 [View Original Post]

I have done the same. I travel exclusively for work and have had good luck all over the world. It is a lot of work tho, and a whole bunch of "first dates" can get expensive. But, it is a hell of a good time. Good luck!!

So, the 30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm.

I met her my first night in town. Overall, not positive, sadly. Because she left out a couple of key things, including vaping in bed. IK it isn't smoking, but it still repels me. She did spend the night, oddly, but.

I had a crazy night on the town / in bed the second night w / the 30 YO sub / fetish model. I might see her again before I go.

**HawkJock617** · 08-21-22 20:58

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I carpet bombed the site for youngish women, fairly limited to quality. I have messaged with a bunch, have texted w / a few, and gotten pix exchanges with many. No nudes, but IDCare.

30's MILF, works at a downtown law firm. Into a fantasy, wants to not talk to me or see me until we meet in person. Extensive texts, very detailed discussion, quite intense chemistry. Wants to meet as soon as I am wheels down, has basically already offered / planned a sleepover.

20's Ivy grad, dirty as they come, innocent looks though. Is all into the age gap, again extensive messaging, it could be super memorable, but she could also flake. Also didn't want to talk yet.

30's grad student gorgeous blond curly hair, erudite, we've spoken and are planning on an Asian fusion dinner.

30's sub, pool girl claims she wrote the Kama Sutra, again, doesn't want a lot of texting in advance, we'll also see if she delivers when I am there.

21 YO college girl, brags that the 3 guys she has seen off SA have been 30's, 40's, 50's. I asked why she likes older, she is begging off until we meet to say.

30 YO corporate employed sub / ex-fetish model spoken, super up, have no doubt she is DTF, just have to get there and make a plan.

I have not negotiated anything about $ w / them, I don't want to commit until I've actually met them. Given I have a room, I could go to 500 and be about even w / my usual. I have gotten some girls proposing 700,800 on the site, I just stop responding or tell them they'll get in trouble if they do that.

I have done the same. I travel exclusively for work and have had good luck all over the world. It is a lot of work tho, and a whole bunch of "first dates" can get expensive. But, it is a hell of a good time. Good luck!!

**BamBam** · 08-21-22 11:24

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I have posted before about using a girl's wishlist to get some insight. Here's a little poll. If the POT has a strap-on as one of the sex toys on her wish list, would you contact her?

My answer, I would move right along.

I also use the wish list for insight. It sometimes gives an indication of how the girl leans sexually. I also keep some Daisy and Flower bomb perfume around as a getting acquainted gift (after the first MnG. I am not wasting that much on a gift for just a POT.) The wish list tells me which one they might prefer. As for the strap-on, if I think it is used for anal play on men, I probably shy away but they are also sometimes used in lesbian play. Some bi- or gay girls might have such. If that were the case, I would want to explore further. I almost never use a single criteria to rule someone out. Well, except maybe weight. Hollywood Guy, my guiding spirit in all things Sugar, says he immediately rules out women with a septum ring but even he will admit he makes selective exceptions. Just my thoughts.

BAM.

**BamBam** · 08-21-22 11:11

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.

I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?

Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.

I agree with everything you said but would urge you to consider the source when responding. Sometimes there is a (negative) reason for a high posting count.

BAM.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 08-19-22 17:32

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I think what we are seeing here is that trying to discuss Ferraris on a Chevrolet enthusiast forum tends to create a lot of confusion among the Chevrolet fans.

I assume you've never actually been involved in the sugar lifestyle (or only have experiences where you met pros through sugar sites), thus don't understand the differences between an SB and a career hooker?

Looking at your post count, I'm guessing if that's the case after all this time any attempts to explain it now would be futile, so I don't intend to waste any time trying. If the value of your time is such that you don't mind wasting it, then have at it.

I agree. SBs tend to be a high quality lay. Not always, of course, but that's the aim. And high quality in this instance tends to involve time commitment. If you just want some quick action with little effort, there are always, SWs, Escorts and UTRs.

**Ernest Ll** · 08-19-22 10:13

Originally Posted by TakesALicking [View Original Post]

Whenever I hear a POT use that kind of reference, I usually remind them that there are men who need to pay that kind of outrageous rate. And then ask if they'd rather leave the encounter with a smile on their face and a fair allowance in their pocket, or have sold their soul and had to close their eyes for 2 hours.

"you really think some 22 year old really WANTS to have sex with you?

Having a "price" and having sex with someone JUST for the $$ is the very definition of a prostitute, which she was adamant she was not.

**TakesALicking** · 08-19-22 09:58

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Used that wording. https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-77bd7ddf7edc.

"A 2-4 k monthly allowance, only 2 sex per month, also include trips / gifts / shopping and dinners!

Apparently I'm a broke cheapskate because.

"I do have 3 or 4 offers at those prices".

And then she lays into me for saying "you only bang 2 x a month?" Guess only she can use sex work language.

Whenever I hear a POT use that kind of reference, I usually remind them that there are men who need to pay that kind of outrageous rate. And then ask if they'd rather leave the encounter with a smile on their face and a fair allowance in their pocket, or have sold their soul and had to close their eyes for 2 hours.

**OliverNP** · 08-18-22 20:28

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

In fact I've had some great SB relations that have lasted for years. I quit Seeking a long time ago because it's such a shit show. My point was, if I'm visiting a city for a couple of days and want some pussy, I'm not going to spend hours chatting, M&G'ing just to get laid.

If you want to think that's a Ferrari then have at it. I'm sure it's good for the ego. I'd argue people that think that have never been in a Ferrari. It is mildly interesting how mongers have convinced themselves they're somehow "superior" when they pay a girl from seeking for pussy instead of "pros".

It doesn't take hours of chatting to score a decent SB, but the ones that will just meet and fuck for an agreed on cash exchange are simply pros. The subjective part comes in with whether one believes a "less traveled" pussy (a lesser number of random dicks have been in it) is a higher quality pussy. Personally I prefer girls that are somewhat selective and want some connection with their SD -- building that can take a bit of conversation (which I can't imagine a reason to be averse to unless one is unskilled at it).

More subjectivity here, but to me there's nothing sexy about putting your cock somewhere another dude unloaded his wad in it an hour earlier. If someone is willing to settle for that, then yeah you can just dial an escort and not be bothered with establishing a connection. If you want fresher pussy though, you'll have to try a bit harder and invest some time with the girl.