"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**JoyDrop** · 06-25-22 17:35

Originally Posted by SanjuSams [View Original Post]

Hello,

Could any of you help / provide some tips on where could I get tested for STD's. I wanted to get that done as it could bring some confidence for the girl I am going to meet soon and it might be a better thing to do as well. I never have unprotected anywhere and usually very clean but just wanted to get it done for the sake of it.

Go here:

https://www.healthlabs.com

Choose the Comprehensive STD Panel. If you attempt to browse away from the site a few times, you should get a discount code for 10% off. Place your order, you can use fake contact info if you want to maintain your anonymity. Pick a Quest or Labcorp testing location near you. Go get your blood drawn, pee in a cup, wait 3-4 days for your results to show up (you get an email notification, then view the results on their website.

More details are available if you search for healthlabs.com in this thread.

**Han57** · 06-25-22 16:56

SA is simply this.

" What you put in, is what you get out " I have been very happy with the site for 3 years now.

**SugarDaddio** · 06-25-22 16:28

I realize there is a lot of talk on this forum lately about whether SA is worth it or not. Here is a very hot 20 year old DTF for possibly 250 plus a room. Even if it takes 100 tries on a freaking computer (ie not a lot of effort in my old life opinion LOL) I would say hell yes it is worth it. Also, don't you just love the fact she is into Religious studies and is down to fuck older guys. Oh my freaking god. In my eyes it doesn't get any better than this. I've been on SA for a number of years now and have had plenty of scammers, ghosting, threats, etc. And for me personally it is definitely worth it. I'm still all in.

May the hot 20 year old pussy be with you.

SD.

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Yourfavoritebrunette https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-d88d417adf02.

Had great conversation over SA, moved to text, and continued to have a good convo. Asked for a verification and she supplied. Eventually got to talking about arrangement, I offered 200 w / hotel or 300 if she can host (she can't). Eventually she agreed to 250 plus hotel. She wants to do a meet and greet no intimacy first, which was fine. Initially expected to be paid the arrangement even for no intimacty. Unlike a lot of the girls who get their bad ideas from Tiktok, she actually listened to reason. After some convincing she agreed to the meet and greet would have no expectations regarding allowance. However, the entire time we talked she hadn't asked me for a pic, and I didn't want to waste a drive to Lawrenceville on a non-intimate meet and greet if when she saw me things went nowhere. I sent her a pic, and she quit responding.

So if you're not a bearded overweight guy, and don't mind taking your time with an initial meet and greet, you can likely slow play this one into the sack for 250 plus hotel. Good luck!

**GoneForGood97** · 06-25-22 14:03

Yourfavoritebrunette https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-d88d417adf02.

Had great conversation over SA, moved to text, and continued to have a good convo. Asked for a verification and she supplied. Eventually got to talking about arrangement, I offered 200 w / hotel or 300 if she can host (she can't). Eventually she agreed to 250 plus hotel. She wants to do a meet and greet no intimacy first, which was fine. Initially expected to be paid the arrangement even for no intimacty. Unlike a lot of the girls who get their bad ideas from Tiktok, she actually listened to reason. After some convincing she agreed to the meet and greet would have no expectations regarding allowance. However, the entire time we talked she hadn't asked me for a pic, and I didn't want to waste a drive to Lawrenceville on a non-intimate meet and greet if when she saw me things went nowhere. I sent her a pic, and she quit responding.

So if you're not a bearded overweight guy, and don't mind taking your time with an initial meet and greet, you can likely slow play this one into the sack for 250 plus hotel. Good luck!

**GoneForGood97** · 06-24-22 23:28

Unearthlylover.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-90bb682493b0

Talked for a bit then moved to snap. She was easy to get nudes from. She's in Winder and claims to be hippy girl, but asked 800 PPM. Laughed in her metaphoric face and moved on. Apparently thinks having a Bush and a tattoo makes for a hippie. No babe, you're a literal disgrace to the "free love" movement.

**GoneForGood97** · 06-24-22 20:14

I'm bored tonight so I figured I'd post a little advice for those who feel like they are wasting their time chasing nothing but scammers. Here's a profile I just came across, and in less than a second I've decided they are a scammer and normally wouldn't even bother to message them. Now, for the sake of having a 2nd possible post later "spotting scammers in chat" I actually did message this one, but only as an experiment. If "she" responds (and I use quotation marks because they are almost certainly a Romanian / Indian / Russian dude running a scam) I'll post the convo and point out the obvious scammer signs.

**GoneForGood97** · 06-24-22 19:42

...and if you can't seem to hit one then it might be time to admit you're just not a very good shot LOL.

I'm currently plowing 2 early 30's hotties (not simultaneously LOL) for 300 each and they host. I also have a few more potentials in the wings as well, one for coffee and hopefully more afterwards, and the other I'm picking up at her place and taking her to a hotel (she's way out in the boonies so I'm plowing her for only 150).

Admittedly I've also met with at least 2 others, one was 18, the other 23, for an initial coffee meet and greet, and neither of those ever went anywhere. That's part of it. All it cost me though was the drive to a coffee shop and the 1 coffee for them at Starbucks. It happens, and I'm not super upset or frustrated or feel my "time was wasted. " The 18 year old is claiming to just be "busy" but keeps in touch, so I occasionally text her once or twice a week just to keep up contact. Eventually she'll need some $ or just be horny or she'll stop responding. And she's pretty good about sending me nudes and videos whenever I want them for nothing because she just likes the attention and likes that I'm able to fulfill her daddy dom fetish. So at the very least I'm getting custom nudes / vids from a cute 18 year old and all it cost me was a coffee and an hour or so chatting with her.

And of course the girls I'm sleeping with are usually good for nudes as well. Ever since I started on SA my phone has become a fucking hub of amateur porn LOL.

If you're looking for "click on girl, say $XYZ for fuck" and fucking her 2 hours later, you're not going to have much success. Stick with escorts. You need to have a little game to get anywhere. I'm not one of these good looking fit guys who pulls pussy easily. I'm an overweight middle aged guy who knows how to flirt. Does every girl I message fuck me? Hell no. But while my sub is active for a month I generally fuck between 4-6 different girls, all for between 200-300, almost always bare (and BJ is always bare). Once my sub expires, they go into my "black book" and I'll fuck them a few more times before I get bored or they decide they're done. Generally I'll cycle between 3-4 a month (usually see 1 girl a week, though sometimes 2 if I'm just extra horny that week). I was down to 2 girls in May, so when the Memorial Day sale came up I decided I needed to build up my dance card again. I've been intimate with 3 girls so far this month, one which I only saw once but flaked on our next date so I'm done with her. I should bang 1 more this weekend, potentially 2 if this new girl I've been chatting up doesn't flake, and then I just need to decide if I'm good or if I want to try and get into 1-2 more girls' pants this coming week before my sub expires at the end of the month.

If you're seeing nothing but scammers or GPS girls, chances are you're chasing the "instagram model" hot girls. And yeah, that's going to have a HUGE rate of failure because scammers tend to use pics of super hot girls to run their scams, and the ones that aren't are going to have serious GPS. I don't chase the 18-22 year old 10/10 hotties (well except occasionally), but I smash a TON of late 20's / early 30's 8/10 girls. And I'll put any of my 8/10 fuck buddies for 200 against any LC skank and be perfectly content with my buying decision.

Yeah, if you can't get laid by hotties on SA for 200 - 300 PPM, the issue is with you. Whether because you're letting yourself only talk to the super hotties (highest probability for scammers / GPS / flakes), not being charming in chat, or not practicing good scammer proofing (getting verification pics, looking up their socials to confirm they are real).

**SoonerFan72** · 06-24-22 18:05

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I am still having some good success on the site, with real girls who will CIP for 200 - 350 or so. I'm not pulling supermodels for that price range, but have more opportunities for real fun, than I have the time, and money, to take advantage of. The scammers are a minor annoyance. I screen them out pretty quickly.

Totally agree that scammers and chics from TikTok with GPS have flooded the site, but you can still find good chics if you look. Make no mistake, it takes a lot of work. You do have to grind, and I always recommend striking fast. If you chat too much, some other fish will flash a shiny object, and they will be gone. Once you find a good match, try and set the meet within the next 48 hours at most. I have noticed the normal ask has jumped from 300 up to 400 and higher, but If you are cool, and talk nice, you can usually get them down.

**Peter Johnson** · 06-24-22 15:48

Originally Posted by ParrotScope [View Original Post]

Yes. The "babies" are just using it to turnover quick sums of moolah. They look at this sb lifestyle as something quick and easy, and the mongers are viewed as simps and taken advantage of. Those girls are so bold they'll ask for anything, just to see how much they can squeeze from a Rich lonely simp.

I mean wasn't only fans enough easy money for them?

I am still having some good success on the site, with real girls who will CIP for 200 - 350 or so. I'm not pulling supermodels for that price range, but have more opportunities for real fun, than I have the time, and money, to take advantage of. The scammers are a minor annoyance. I screen them out pretty quickly.

**Peter Johnson** · 06-24-22 15:46

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-2517f780e36c

Pics look kind of inconsistent (and fake) and conversation was suspect too. Then.

"Could you please send money for hotel cash all $lanaaa28 Be a greasy help".

So scammer or beggar or whatever. I am blocking her now.

**Parrot Scope** · 06-24-22 13:10

Originally Posted by Dawgins [View Original Post]

I've been on and off there for years. I just won't do it anymore. It's a complete waste of time. In addition to the sheer volume of scammers there's been a huge influx of girls looking for rich BFs who are not interested in ppm situations.

Yes. The "babies" are just using it to turnover quick sums of moolah. They look at this sb lifestyle as something quick and easy, and the mongers are viewed as simps and taken advantage of. Those girls are so bold they'll ask for anything, just to see how much they can squeeze from a Rich lonely simp.

I mean wasn't only fans enough easy money for them?

**Dawgins** · 06-24-22 11:03

I've been on and off there for years. I just won't do it anymore. It's a complete waste of time. In addition to the sheer volume of scammers there's been a huge influx of girls looking for rich BFs who are not interested in ppm situations.

Originally Posted by ParrotScope [View Original Post]

SA is full of scams. You mongers need to figure it out. Are you praising it or admitting that it's full of scammers??

You have mongers on here who swear SA is the best and paying more for wannabe SBs on SA is better than any other platforms.

But every time you turn around someone is reporting a scammer here from SA.

More proof that the sugaring lifestyle isn't all it's cracked up to be. For the mongers and the providers.

**NewAnonymousName** · 06-24-22 11:00

Originally Posted by ParrotScope [View Original Post]

SA is full of scams. You mongers need to figure it out. Are you praising it or admitting that it's full of scammers??

You have mongers on here who swear SA is the best and paying more for wannabe SBs on SA is better than any other platforms.

But every time you turn around someone is reporting a scammer here from SA.

More proof that the sugaring lifestyle isn't all it's cracked up to be. For the mongers and the providers.

SA is great if you have the patience for it. You are correct that it is full of scammers. But every now and then you can connect with a true gem for an ongoing arrangement that makes it all worthwhile.

**Parrot Scope** · 06-24-22 07:21

Originally Posted by SavageThing [View Original Post]

Dude for real. Total scam I came across as well. It's so bizarre. Same circumstance.

SA is full of scams. You mongers need to figure it out. Are you praising it or admitting that it's full of scammers??

You have mongers on here who swear SA is the best and paying more for wannabe SBs on SA is better than any other platforms.

But every time you turn around someone is reporting a scammer here from SA.

More proof that the sugaring lifestyle isn't all it's cracked up to be. For the mongers and the providers.

**Happtrav** · 06-24-22 05:25

I was in Atlanta for a few weeks. I contacted around 200 woman on seeking. Ended up with around 45 phone numbers. Narrowed it down to 12 woman.

Here is a summary:

Real Money Hounds, who will show up to your hotel. Will provide Lame duck sex, Grab your money and leave:

Georgiablonde21 $4.

BendyBoss $4.

TemptingJ $4.

Beautifull $4.

Sophisticated scammers:

Sugarandspice Wants $6.

SugarandSpice lesbian couple (Yes the SN's are for different girls).

GPS and woman with attitudes:

SexykinkPrincess.

Woodstock $8.

CheekyAngel $1 k.

Atlanta is a tough market for SD's. Lots of scammers and Money hounds. Ended up meeting no one.