"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

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**GoinDonkey** · 06-08-22 23:58

Originally Posted by KingKane [View Original Post]

SBs don't care if we're married

This thread is full of reports from married guys about girls they've contacted on SA who told them they wouldn't see married men. There are many who will, sure, but it's far from universal.

**Tidad** · 06-08-22 23:47

Originally Posted by KingKane [View Original Post]

An SB on SA just let me in on a little secret. The site says that the girls are "currently online" for a full hour after they Log-off. I don't know if it's the same for us men. It's a money making scheme. SA is trying to make us believe that there are hundreds of girls that will sell their time, currently online, ready to chat. I thought the girls were ignoring me! It turns out, they weren't even online when I messaged them. They probably didn't get my message until days later.

Yes, it's a money making scheme. Before now, what did you think SA was?

**Gulf0521** · 06-08-22 23:06

Originally Posted by GoinDonkey [View Original Post]

I might call them if I thought I'd be meeting the girls pictured on their site. But they've had the same pics on there for years now, and there is no escort agency on earth with that little turnover.

I tried to call them to schedule a girl. Was informed they won't come to a Hotel. Maybe I spooked the attendant. Is this their policy? I'd appreciate feedback on this. I travel to VA often so I'd like to try them.

**Ernest Ll** · 06-08-22 20:51

Originally Posted by Shampoo55 [View Original Post]

Of course there is the risk that the wifey lies to you and says that her hubby knows and approves, then default to the above.

You mean like most of the men on SA do? What are the statistical odds of that many Open Marriages?

**DaveSalem** · 06-08-22 18:40

I have seen dozens of married women that I've met on AM.

Most free, a couple sugar babies.

The positive to the free ones, if you're also married, is that they have equal risk and usually want the same discretion. The negative, with both SA and AM sites, is that you pay through the nose and are up against 25:1 M: F ratios. So it's not uncommon to write 20 very creative responses, and get zero replies.

Keep doing it week after week, and eventually, like slot machines, it will pay out.

The cons are simple, as mentioned earlier. If she's not smart, you could have a very angry husband after you. I have been threatened by a couple, but nothing ever happened.

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts pros and cons on seeing married women?

Thanks CM.

**Madaboutmax** · 06-08-22 15:43

I really don't think it is that sinister. LOL.

The only way they know someone is active, is when they interact with site by clicking on something on a page on the site. It's not rationale to only show someone is online at the moment they click a page. Almost all websites that show online satus will classify someone as online based upon an arbitrary time since their last click. I don't think an hour is an unusual arbitrary time to use.

You need thicker skin. It's not that serious. LOL.

Originally Posted by KingKane [View Original Post]

An SB on SA just let me in on a little secret. The site says that the girls are "currently online" for a full hour after they Log-off. I don't know if it's the same for us men. It's a money making scheme. SA is trying to make us believe that there are hundreds of girls that will sell their time, currently online, ready to chat. I thought the girls were ignoring me! It turns out, they weren't even online when I messaged them. They probably didn't get my message until days later.

**CuriousVA** · 06-08-22 12:31

Originally Posted by KingKane [View Original Post]

An SB on SA just let me in on a little secret. The site says that the girls are "currently online" for a full hour after they Log-off. I don't know if it's the same for us men. It's a money making scheme. SA is trying to make us believe that there are hundreds of girls that will sell their time, currently online, ready to chat. I thought the girls were ignoring me! It turns out, they weren't even online when I messaged them. They probably didn't get my message until days later.

I found this out about 2 weeks ago. All these years I've been trying to chat with girls who were not logged on.

**MikeJones1962** · 06-08-22 11:10

Originally Posted by GolfMan57 [View Original Post]

Looks like she has put on a little weight.

Most definitely-- and has aged quite a bit since I first saw her years ago. That said, she will do anything.

**BobLobLa** · 06-08-22 10:42

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts pros and cons on seeing married women?

Thanks CM.

If a woman is married but looking, you can pretty much count on a serious nympho -- unless its an open marriage then there is some psychological component to sharing that gets them off -- not really my thing.

Since I'm married -- not openly -- married SBs are great because we both thrive on discretion.

**Neilll** · 06-08-22 10:32

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts pros and cons on seeing married women?

Thanks CM.

I did a few hookups with a married woman before she got into swinging. Then she and her husband got into swinging and said it was great! I knew my wife wouldn't go for it. She said we couldn't be together unless I agreed to meet her husband. I reluctantly agreed. I asked her when I would meet him. She said I didn't need to meet him, I was only required to agree to meet him.

**KingKane** · 06-08-22 09:26

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts pros and cons on seeing married women?

Thanks CM.

SBs don't care if we're married and we shouldn't care if they're married. Being married in our private lives has nothing to do with what we're doing on Seeking. We're not trying to have relationships with them. They're not trying to have relationships with us. We're just paying them for sex.

**KingKane** · 06-08-22 09:23

An SB on SA just let me in on a little secret. The site says that the girls are "currently online" for a full hour after they Log-off. I don't know if it's the same for us men. It's a money making scheme. SA is trying to make us believe that there are hundreds of girls that will sell their time, currently online, ready to chat. I thought the girls were ignoring me! It turns out, they weren't even online when I messaged them. They probably didn't get my message until days later.

**Shampoo55** · 06-07-22 22:49

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any thoughts pros and cons on seeing married women?

Thanks CM.

It is a risk reward thingie. You want some upset irate hubby after you when the relationship shits the bed or she gets found out?

Only married women I date are those that identify as swingers and the hubby is fully aware of and approves of their activities. Of course there is the risk that the wifey lies to you and says that her hubby knows and approves, then default to the above.

Other than that it's just common sense. Pussy is pussy. Like any SB or other situation you have to be watchful for a girl getting too close, too attached and wanting more than "just sex" from the relationship.