Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[KMumford2000]

This is sadly the case, but I also think a lot of the girls with GPS or scamming or whatever are also getting money through other means as well. It's actually even more of a numbers game for them to accumulate as much as they can by utilizing social media like Instagram, Snapchat, or * to get a lot of donations coming their way. So even if some of us don't fall for it on the site, there are other options that they have to keep that unrealistic way of thinking going. If a sugardaddy won't give her the cash that she wants, maybe someone following her on social media or on a stream will pay $50 or $200 and up just for a video of her doing something, etc. Etc.

It's no coincidence that the "good 'ol days" started to fade with the rise of and TikTok.

[TheEndlessEdge]

You forget what a bunch of idiots we have built into this group.

Paying for Content.

Paying in advance.

Overpaying.

Telling the "girls" about this forum.

Many many idiots in our pier group! Shhh, that is spelled wrong but they don't know it.

This is sadly the case, but I also think a lot of the girls with GPS or scamming or whatever are also getting money through other means as well. It's actually even more of a numbers game for them to accumulate as much as they can by utilizing social media like Instagram, Snapchat, or * to get a lot of donations coming their way. So even if some of us don't fall for it on the site, there are other options that they have to keep that unrealistic way of thinking going. If a sugardaddy won't give her the cash that she wants, maybe someone following her on social media or on a stream will pay $50 or $200 and up just for a video of her doing something, etc. Etc.

[TheEndlessEdge]

This has to quickly be becoming a sugar daddy kinda of a market, one would think? Plenty of these babies aren't very good with managing $$.

The lack of proper money management is usually the case, and while it is causing a lot of sugarbabies to flock to the site, I'd say it's still 70% scammers or those who want money upfront for pics / vids. The other 30% are all real and are negotiable, but you have to really sift through the site to find someone cool and down to earth (and hope that they haven't been overpaid previously by someone prior to you to give them unrealistic expectations).

[Bikjik69]

This has to quickly be becoming a sugar daddy kinda of a market, one would think? Plenty of these babies aren't very good with managing $$.

I wish that was the case but I think it's the exact opposite. The gov't has pumped trillions of dollars into the economy these last few years and most of it went to the top. They have a lot of money and they don't know what to do with it and some of it trickles down to sites like these, pricing out people who won't / can't overpay. Just my opinion.

[SR7D1]

You forget what a bunch of idiots we have built into this group.

Paying for Content.

Paying in advance.

Overpaying.

Telling the "girls" about this forum.

Many many idiots in our pier group! Shhh, that is spelled wrong but they don't know it.

LOL. So true. And I was about to correct you until I read your last sentence.

[PainWint]

This has to quickly be becoming a sugar daddy kinda of a market, one would think? Plenty of these babies aren't very good with managing $$.

You forget what a bunch of idiots we have built into this group.

Paying for Content.

Paying in advance.

Overpaying.

Telling the "girls" about this forum.

Many many idiots in our pier group! Shhh, that is spelled wrong but they don't know it.

[KMumford2000]

ClickNatsa18: Usual deposit scam. Wants to meet today / tonight right away for "300 for 2-3 hours", but then later on drops the "you need to PayPal me $50 as a confirmation." Hopefully nobody is falling for this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-049980bf1c81

[Bernie76]

This has to quickly be becoming a sugar daddy kinda of a market, one would think? Plenty of these babies aren't very good with managing $$.

[RaiderKid24]

I had some interactions with her through text, she seems like the typical 35+ cynical single chick that I find on traditional dating sites. I pretty much just stopped communicating with her because of her cynical attitude.

Pretty sure she used to have a profile a while back, and it stated she's not a hooker LOL, def probably paid per meet with her.

[Aslinger]

TemptingDame: turns out she is based in Youngstown and not Cleveland (which I get being careful on location, but that's a pretty big difference). Anyone got any feedback on how legit she is before I consider the long haul to meet? PM is fine if you prefer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-f6c377b89920

I had some interactions with her through text, she seems like the typical 35+ cynical single chick that I find on traditional dating sites. I pretty much just stopped communicating with her because of her cynical attitude.

[Jcle2020]

Aside from being a major flake, apparently she has gone full pro. Someone recently (last month or so) posted a link to a page she has on STG. So she was probably a little too busy "working" to get back to you.

Anyone else had a chance to spend time with this lady? Had a couple great visits, great communication, but the last 2 appts were no shows and then a message a day or 2 later, any similar experience? Feel free to pm me, except Cumshot19. I think he's Bukklulu in drag.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...873177a1c61954

[KMumford2000]

TemptingDame: turns out she is based in Youngstown and not Cleveland (which I get being careful on location, but that's a pretty big difference). Anyone got any feedback on how legit she is before I consider the long haul to meet? PM is fine if you prefer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-f6c377b89920

[OleDude]

Anyone else had a chance to spend time with this lady? Had a couple great visits, great communication, but the last 2 appts were no shows and then a message a day or 2 later, any similar experience? Feel free to pm me, except Cumshot19. I think he's Bukklulu in drag.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...873177a1c61954

[FunLuvNgyy]

Lots of girls, maybe the majority, want some sort of sugar from a meet and greet or even prior to meeting at all. It must work to some degree or the people running the scams (most likely men) would not be wasting their time.

My opinion is. Do not EVER give anyone any sugar at all until you've gotten what you're seeking. No sugar for "content" that can be easily found plentifully for free, not for meet and greets (beyond perhaps paying for drinks and such), and certainly not for promises or goddamn gas. Doesn't matter how hot you may think they are, doesn't matter what kind of promises are made, don't be a simp! They want something up front, want more than what you're comfortable with, etc, just wish them well and move on. Don't waste your own time and money.

SA girls are totally fungible. Just move on to the next. If there isn't someone that floats your boat this week, there will be next week. This isn't about finding a soulmate.

Just my 2 cents.

[SR7D1]

Met this one for lunch this past week. Ignored red flag #1, asking for gas $, and gave her fifty when she arrived. Bigger girl but I was ok with that, talked a great game, claimed she gets freaky in bed, I was really going to enjoy myself, hasn't been with anyone for a year, blah blah blah. Red flag #2, wouldn't have date that day because she had to pick up her daughter at 4 (which might also explain why she was an hour late.) Said really wanted to meet up next week. Red flag #3- asked for another fifty as I walked her to her car. Idiot reaction- I didn't have a fiddy but she had seen a couple hundos in my money clip when I paid the tab, so I gave her one. You all know roughly what happened next- ghosted my texts, saw her online on the site, messaged her there to ask if she got my texts, she said she didn't, asked what I wanted, said to get our next meeting on the calendar. I checked my texts to be sure they had been sent, and in the 30 seconds it took me to open SA messages back up she'd blocked me. Lesson learned- if they ask for any cash up front for any reason, run.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...0-47af35937657

OK, well I'm going to try not to be too harsh.

Even if I don't agree, I understand the gas $ (I think $50 is a lot but whatever). Gas is expensive now adays, single mother, hoping to get in her good favor, show her you mean business and will reward her if she does the same. I kind of get that even if it's not really my game.

I would ignore whatever they say about their own freak. I mean, you really won't know until the rubber hits the road what she is really like. She may suck.

But how can you justify $100 after lunch? She made $150 and did absolutely nothing. That does not make any sense to me.

I have a report to make soon, once I can find her profile. It was similar to yours but I handled it a bit differently. I think she is off the site, may have me blocked, IDK.