"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**DoneThatOnce** · 04-14-22 06:23

Originally Posted by StormyTuesday [View Original Post]

Thoughts on SD 4 Me?

I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back. (Been in the SB game in NC since the summer of 2015, was an active poster on Richmond until finally Raleigh got a SB section started).

I tried it years ago. It sucked big time. No replies, very small number of active users. I made only one connection from a gal that was on SA as well. Waste of time back then. My advice is to hope a recent user replies on here with an update.

**AssLuVA** · 04-13-22 19:01

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her recently? I notice she was back active today. I've always wanted to try seeing her but was discouraged by the past reports of cash and dashing and being strung out on drugs. If those are no longer issues, may trying reaching out this time. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-1de4e538c8e0

She hit me up via text; Completely out of the blue. I log in to SA and poof. There she is. I figured something is up. Either she broke up with a BF or needs money. Similar to your thinking; she's been on my list for a while but her last round on SA was a shit show and I didn't want that drama. If anyone takes the leap please report back.

**StormyTuesday** · 04-13-22 15:08

Thoughts on SD 4 Me?

I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back. (Been in the SB game in NC since the summer of 2015, was an active poster on Richmond until finally Raleigh got a SB section started).

**SBmidlo** · 04-13-22 12:09

Anyone seen her recently? I notice she was back active today. I've always wanted to try seeing her but was discouraged by the past reports of cash and dashing and being strung out on drugs. If those are no longer issues, may trying reaching out this time. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-1de4e538c8e0

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-13-22 08:13

I checked on line and you can buy a VA hologram drivers license "template" for $40. Cripes! I would have thought that was very difficult or at least illegal. I guess we need to buy lie detectors to prevent the underage problem. LOL.

**VAvet** · 04-12-22 20:35

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

Looks good in half the pics, not so much otherwise, but also looks very familiar - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-cc2b288f4de2.

Intrigued by the MBL - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-7a1aae062983 -- no replies yete.

Lists Slim but face is VERY round and only posts one body pic. Hmmmm - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-9ba5e29c1952.

You nailed it. Third one is super sweet, very accommodating and reasonable, can host but is definitely not slim.

**BobLobLa** · 04-12-22 11:24

Looks good in half the pics, not so much otherwise, but also looks very familiar - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-cc2b288f4de2.

Intrigued by the MBL - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-7a1aae062983 -- no replies yete.

Lists Slim but face is VERY round and only posts one body pic. Hmmmm - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-9ba5e29c1952.

**BamBam** · 04-11-22 16:04

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

If really true they got fake identification, I want to know where to get my own. I'd get one w / my sugar identity on it so I could check into a hotel without risking discovery at home.
Some girls I ask about their age say something like 'I couldn't join if I weren't 18'. Of course, if she lied about that.

Check in with your nearest Home Depot or U-Haul store. There is a huge demand among the immigrant community for fake ID's. The kids under 21 are just joining the queue line. It used to cost about $150 apiece prior to covid. They print them in China and smuggle them in. I suspect the price is much higher now but I am no longer in a position to check. I would also bet the holograms were only a temporary deterrent. In any case, in the past, the kids were careful to have a DL from out of state because they were harder for local police to run a check. If the chick you are seeing is using an out-of-state DL, I advise using extra caution.

As for checking into a hotel with a fake ID, in my experience, the hotel wants both an ID and a credit card and they want them to match. You can get a fake ID and you can get a stolen credit card but it is a pretty stiff challenge to get both in the same name - and with your picture on the ID. Just my thoughts.

BAM.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 04-11-22 12:31

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

She's blocked me, so that could be either.

Yeah I can't see her profile. This was a fake profiile. I didn't even message her and now I can't see her profile. This smells of fake profile.

**BobLobLa** · 04-11-22 09:16

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Ok, I am calling BS. Here is a SB saying she isn't here for the money. What do you guys thing, real or fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-b5bcd1342e8b

She's blocked me, so that could be either.

**FarFarAway** · 04-11-22 00:01

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

Very good advise. Unfortunately many underage girls have fake IDs. I think they tend to be non Virginia ones as VirginiaDMV has done a good job on making a secure license with the hologram on it and all. I have verified more than one, just ask them to put their finger over their name & address if they like. I'm interested in the pic & DOB.

As someone that has gone the SB route exclusively, I especially need to be careful as my pension for 18-22 y o coeds is my kryptonite. I do a good job of hiding my true identity, but they can almost never host, so I'm seeing them in a decent hotel. All they need is the date & room number & you are toast.

If Mom or Dad get wind that there precious Princess is sport ducking for dollars, she'll sing like JLO! I believe it's a crime if they send you nudes, not knowing they were underage isn't a defense. Be smart, think with the big head!

If really true they got fake identification, I want to know where to get my own. I'd get one w / my sugar identity on it so I could check into a hotel without risking discovery at home.

There have been issues w / girls not of legal age on seeking. I recall some hilarious cases. A girl whose joined date was 3 years ago, but she claimed she was 19. Obviously, this was at a time when the birthdate on the profile could be changed after the profile was set up. That is no longer the case as I understand it.

I agree that a girl fibbing to you about their age is no defense if you are charged. And I reiterate that to discuss (electronically. Texting or email. Or perhaps in person) something sexual w / someone who is not of legal age is itself in some jurisdictions a crime. You really really want to be sure, and ensuring this is a potential avenue to get their real identity (which can also confirm her age).

I understand there are a lot of guys here from the northeast, that isn't the bowl I fish in, but iI haven't seen things work this way out here. Some girls I ask about their age say something like 'I couldn't join if I weren't 18'. Of course, if she lied about that.

**Tidad** · 04-10-22 22:40

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Ok, I am calling BS. Here is a SB saying she isn't here for the money. What do you guys thing, real or fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-b5bcd1342e8b

Could be real. She only said she doesn't want you to pay her bills but you can bet the travel expenses for the 2 of you are on your dime

**TheHobbyLobby** · 04-10-22 20:13

Ok, I am calling BS. Here is a SB saying she isn't here for the money. What do you guys thing, real or fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-b5bcd1342e8b

**HottRod66** · 04-10-22 18:45

SA is running 20% off special today guys.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-10-22 16:48

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

I think they tend to be non Virginia ones as VirginiaDMV has done a good job on making a secure license with the hologram on it and all. I have verified more than one, just ask them to put their finger over their name & address if they like. I'm interested in the pic & DOB.

Underage is a big no-no and age verification is a must. VA has a hologram on drivers licenses and so does PA, CT, MA and IL. Since these are the states where I monger the most, it is easy to verify age because it is almost impossible for one of these girls to get a fake I D with a hologram.

You definitely and obviously NEVER want to have an underage problem!