"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**DickLongwood** · 04-17-22 13:35

Originally Posted by Tidad [View Original Post]

The only "scam" I can think (or have heard) of is getting a free ride. The rider in the car has the final say as to where they go / get out and if they change the destination the only thing you can do is message the driver and cancel or dispute it afterwards. Also, the rider can ask the name of the person paying. IDK if there is a set policy on that but its a crapshoot depending on the driver.

I was scammed out of a ride a couple of years ago. It was the first meet with a potential SB. She claimed the Uber never came, but the driver picked up someone and drove that person to a different destination. It cost me maybe $15. I declined to try to meet the woman again.

**Tidad** · 04-17-22 10:23

Originally Posted by FTP1999 [View Original Post]

Asking for a friend.

I am running into a lot of SA ladies who don't have a car or "it's in the shop" and will need an Uber ride to come to me.

Is there any way they can scam me if I indeed arrange for an Uber? The scammers are Always creative, so you never know.

Was just wondering what the experience here is?

The only "scam" I can think (or have heard) of is getting a free ride. The rider in the car has the final say as to where they go / get out and if they change the destination the only thing you can do is message the driver and cancel or dispute it afterwards. Also, the rider can ask the name of the person paying. IDK if there is a set policy on that but its a crapshoot depending on the driver.

**WaterBoi** · 04-17-22 09:15

Originally Posted by FTP1999 [View Original Post]

Asking for a friend.

I am running into a lot of SA ladies who don't have a car or "it's in the shop" and will need an Uber ride to come to me.

Is there any way they can scam me if I indeed arrange for an Uber? The scammers are Always creative, so you never know.

Was just wondering what the experience here is?

I've ordered Ubers before with no issue. Obviously you need to stay cautious. Don't give out your phone number or any other info. Simply order the Uber to her address, watch the ride as it happens, and then enjoy. Anything outside of that is probably a red flag and you can just cancel the Uber ride.

**FTP1999** · 04-17-22 08:45

Asking for a friend.

I am running into a lot of SA ladies who don't have a car or "it's in the shop" and will need an Uber ride to come to me.

Is there any way they can scam me if I indeed arrange for an Uber? The scammers are Always creative, so you never know.

Was just wondering what the experience here is?

**DrMaa** · 04-17-22 07:16

Beware of her. She will take your money and run. She was on seeking but must have disabled her profile as Nerdybabe.

She is Nerdybabe323 on WYP.

**RedBaron69** · 04-16-22 17:24

Anyone have a working SA promo code? I have a $100 vanilla card to use up. Thanks.

**RogerOver** · 04-15-22 21:32

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I'll never figure out women / SBs. This pudgy 19 YO coed was very interested from our first contact. Mind of a 30 YO, very smart, in computer science. We FC a couple of weeks ago. Like a lot of fat girls, lacks confidence, sent me a nude in the shower to get me interested, responded well to positive statements and direction. Absolutely slobbered all over junior + the boys, extremely responsive, loved a spanking. Also, she got us the room and let me reimburse her. So no risk for me. Just show up and bang her. Afterward, I texted her what a great time we had, we should get together again soon, what else is she into, all of that. And crickets.

She claims I am the 4th man to nail her, perhaps second thoughts about being in the bowl.

It's the same as it is IRL relationships, and she just isn't all that into you. Your memory of what happened could be completely different from her perception. Or, maybe just got a better paying daddy that she is more attracted to. I'm assuming you paid her for some ass. So hooker transaction complete. If she's not ready for more, next!

**FarFarAway** · 04-15-22 14:58

I'll never figure out women / SBs. This pudgy 19 YO coed was very interested from our first contact. Mind of a 30 YO, very smart, in computer science. We FC a couple of weeks ago. Like a lot of fat girls, lacks confidence, sent me a nude in the shower to get me interested, responded well to positive statements and direction. Absolutely slobbered all over junior + the boys, extremely responsive, loved a spanking. Also, she got us the room and let me reimburse her. So no risk for me. Just show up and bang her. Afterward, I texted her what a great time we had, we should get together again soon, what else is she into, all of that. And crickets.

She claims I am the 4th man to nail her, perhaps second thoughts about being in the bowl.

**HarryMcHardon** · 04-14-22 22:09

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

Very good advise. Unfortunately many underage girls have fake IDs. I think they tend to be non Virginia ones as VirginiaDMV has done a good job on making a secure license with the hologram on it and all. I have verified more than one, just ask them to put their finger over their name & address if they like. I'm interested in the pic & DOB.

As someone that has gone the SB route exclusively, I especially need to be careful as my pension for 18-22 y o coeds is my kryptonite. I do a good job of hiding my true identity, but they can almost never host, so I'm seeing them in a decent hotel. All they need is the date & room number & you are toast.

If Mom or Dad get wind that there precious Princess is sport ducking for dollars, she'll sing like JLO! I believe it's a crime if they send you nudes, not knowing they were underage isn't a defense. Be smart, think with the big head!

When I started out on SA a few years ago, I met up with a couple <20 yo's. I got I'd's and they seemed legit. Now, I realize what a risk that was, having learned since then how easy it is to get a very convincing I'd. Now I need to be comfortable they're 20+ at least. But not as much a problem now as it seems there are fewer <20 yo's to sift through now, vs. When I joined.

A couple years ago, I chatted and got a M&G with a girl who listed herself as 21, and she was hot of course, and her pics looked in general like an early 20-something girl. No sweat. I was stunned when she showed up at the coffee shop looking like a 16 year old waif! I told her right away she's too young and asked her age. She said she was 18 (turned the previous month) and reached in her bag to show her DL. NFW! I told her not to bother. We chatted for awhile, simply because I felt it would draw more suspicion if I immediately bolted up and ran screaming for the door. I went back and reviewed her pictures and sure enough it was her, just for some reason the pics made her look older. I don't care how old they are, they can show me 5 different IDs showing they're 21, if they look 16, it's a no-go for me. That's begging for unwanted attention.

**HarryMcHardon** · 04-14-22 15:06

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

It would really be helpful if people would read a page or two back before posting. Where this is completely discussed. I have done it with OneVanilla prepaid debit, non-reloadable. You have to wait overnight after buying it before it will work.

This is good information. May be why it seems acceptance of certain gift cards is so hit and miss on SA. I'm ready to rejoin, but my problem is I can't find the OneVanilla card anymore around here. The OneVanilla has never let me down on SA. Can only find the Vanilla Visa and this SecureSpend card. Someone posted here the SecureSpend replaced the OneVanilla. Hope that is not true because the one time I bought a SecureSpend, it didn't work on SA. I then promptly went and bought a OneVanilla card with the SecureSpend and the OneVanilla worked. Now. The one variable I'm not certain about either card, is whether I immediately tried to use the card, or if I waited a day or so to use. Could be they're all accepted but I just need to wait a day or so after I purchase it to use it. Guess now I'm relegated to using the Vanilla Visa, waiting a day or two and see what happens.

**DoneThatOnce** · 04-14-22 06:23

Originally Posted by StormyTuesday [View Original Post]

Thoughts on SD 4 Me?

I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back. (Been in the SB game in NC since the summer of 2015, was an active poster on Richmond until finally Raleigh got a SB section started).

I tried it years ago. It sucked big time. No replies, very small number of active users. I made only one connection from a gal that was on SA as well. Waste of time back then. My advice is to hope a recent user replies on here with an update.

**AssLuVA** · 04-13-22 19:01

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her recently? I notice she was back active today. I've always wanted to try seeing her but was discouraged by the past reports of cash and dashing and being strung out on drugs. If those are no longer issues, may trying reaching out this time. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-1de4e538c8e0

She hit me up via text; Completely out of the blue. I log in to SA and poof. There she is. I figured something is up. Either she broke up with a BF or needs money. Similar to your thinking; she's been on my list for a while but her last round on SA was a shit show and I didn't want that drama. If anyone takes the leap please report back.

**StormyTuesday** · 04-13-22 15:08

Thoughts on SD 4 Me?

I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back. (Been in the SB game in NC since the summer of 2015, was an active poster on Richmond until finally Raleigh got a SB section started).

**SBmidlo** · 04-13-22 12:09

Anyone seen her recently? I notice she was back active today. I've always wanted to try seeing her but was discouraged by the past reports of cash and dashing and being strung out on drugs. If those are no longer issues, may trying reaching out this time. Thanks in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-1de4e538c8e0

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-13-22 08:13

I checked on line and you can buy a VA hologram drivers license "template" for $40. Cripes! I would have thought that was very difficult or at least illegal. I guess we need to buy lie detectors to prevent the underage problem. LOL.