The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Mask2376** · 04-11-22 12:28

I have a few people on SA push for texting but then calling from a blocked number? WTF is up with that? I never answer my phone anyways. Anyone interacted with one of these people and actually take a call? The last one "Flame of Desire" didn't want to connect because I was too busy for her because I didn't answer in the middle of the day. I would think its easier to scam people with text unless maybe they are recording the conversation and trying to blackmail people who are married or something?

**StormyTuesday** · 04-06-22 15:44

I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back.

**ChuckTheFin** · 04-05-22 23:25

Anyone had any luck with this one? Looks TGTBT. I've gotten no response yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...0-5594e22bb426

**ElectricHug** · 04-05-22 10:09

Originally Posted by DJprofessorK [View Original Post]

From what I've been told from multiple SBs, is that because so many SD's want bare services (and many SD's use $ as an ultimatum in order to get it), it puts their mind at ease if he's only seeing one person. Because if he's going raw with her, he's going raw with other people. On the flipside, many SD's also get very territorial and possessive of the women. I don't remember where and who said it to me, but I remember being told that one SD said that he decided to play in the bowl because he 'didn't want to share women with plumbers and mechanics'. In my opinion, that sort of elitism brings shame to the hobby, but to each their own.

So, yes, back to what I've been told by SBs, many of the men in the bowl explicitly expect monogamy or exclusivity. It's also why many SB's lie about having boyfriends. Trust me, many of the bf's don't care. They're a new generation. It's the guys our age and older who get upset about it. Her boyfriend just knows that if he keeps his mouth shut he's going to get a new PS5 out of it. He'll learn to manage. Haha.

Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.

You're right as far as bare goes -- I genuinely hadn't even thought of that since I never do it outside a monogamous relationship (and even among those I've had a string of women who won't take birth control for one reason or another.).

**FarFarAway** · 04-03-22 19:41

Originally Posted by DJprofessorK [View Original Post]

Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.

I do hear that many guys expect to go bare w / SBs, and all that goes w / that. I personally don't, because I think like that girl. Mostly concerning all of those incurable viral diseases. And I have a SO, so coming down w / one of them isn't a soluble problem.

If you're going to be banging someone regularly you have to discuss STDs and pregnancy, IMHO. I cover both at the M&G, and offer to show a girl my recent STD panel, and offer to pay for hers if she wants it. I also ask if she has gotten gardasil, since that not only knocks out genital warts, it prevents me from getting throat cancer from eating a HPV infected girl. That being my reasoning always leads into a spirited discussion that sometimes makes a girl blush, which is exactly the point.

**DJprofessorK** · 04-03-22 18:36

From what I've been told from multiple SBs, is that because so many SD's want bare services (and many SD's use $ as an ultimatum in order to get it), it puts their mind at ease if he's only seeing one person. Because if he's going raw with her, he's going raw with other people. On the flipside, many SD's also get very territorial and possessive of the women. I don't remember where and who said it to me, but I remember being told that one SD said that he decided to play in the bowl because he 'didn't want to share women with plumbers and mechanics'. In my opinion, that sort of elitism brings shame to the hobby, but to each their own.

So, yes, back to what I've been told by SBs, many of the men in the bowl explicitly expect monogamy or exclusivity. It's also why many SB's lie about having boyfriends. Trust me, many of the bf's don't care. They're a new generation. It's the guys our age and older who get upset about it. Her boyfriend just knows that if he keeps his mouth shut he's going to get a new PS5 out of it. He'll learn to manage. Haha.

Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.

Originally Posted by ElectricHug [View Original Post]

At the beginning of an SD relationship, is there an expectation that you clarify with her whether you are being exclusive or not? I began one that was perhaps toeing the lines between a SD relationship and a regular relationship, and when she found I was seeing another girl as well, she became quite jealous and broke it off a few days later. I had assumed an SB would not expect exclusivity, particularly early on. Was that wrong of me? I guess more communication is better, but do you normally feel the need to spell that out or leave it unsaid and assumed?

**ElectricHug** · 04-03-22 15:12

At the beginning of an SD relationship, is there an expectation that you clarify with her whether you are being exclusive or not? I began one that was perhaps toeing the lines between a SD relationship and a regular relationship, and when she found I was seeing another girl as well, she became quite jealous and broke it off a few days later. I had assumed an SB would not expect exclusivity, particularly early on. Was that wrong of me? I guess more communication is better, but do you normally feel the need to spell that out or leave it unsaid and assumed?

**SmallAsianCock** · 04-03-22 10:26

Any info on this lady?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-2b7966a3ddc1

**SmallAsianCock** · 04-03-22 10:25

Originally Posted by Sobe69 [View Original Post]

No one pull the trigger on this one yet?? Her only fans is decent but still can't figure out what her angle is with the dick pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-2bc9c3e37e38

Am waiting to hear from her.

**Sobe69** · 04-03-22 00:43

No one pull the trigger on this one yet?? Her only fans is decent but still can't figure out what her angle is with the dick pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-2bc9c3e37e38

**German5050** · 03-29-22 14:24

This one will host. She's a mess. Bigger than her pics. Def on too many meds. Will not repeat. 350.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-e251c9f35d55

**SandPiper540** · 03-24-22 21:39

Originally Posted by LolBoat [View Original Post]

She's legit.

Did you ever meet her?

We went to dinner, but that was all. The pics weren't really very accurate. I told her I'd get back in touch, but I don't think I will. She wants a minimum of 400. I'll fish around for something tighter.

**Sobe69** · 03-24-22 15:28

Originally Posted by Sobe69 [View Original Post]

Her profile is down but the pics looks familiar I know she is a pro anyone know who she is.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-792dc4ac8837

**LolBoat** · 03-24-22 14:12

Social media and inflation are killing this sport.

There are big geopolitical moves being made atm, I would actually suggest you guys just pay up now because in a few months or a year all of this shit is going to come to an end with hyperinflation.

**ElectricHug** · 03-24-22 13:37

Originally Posted by ChiefQueef [View Original Post]

-Create a new account using a different device (if cell, then use a new profile).

-Do not use a VPN or any location spoofing.

-Upload totally new pics. Ideally you mask your face in case you need to repeat these steps, etc.

-Use a different payment method. I suggest using google pay, so that you can refund in case SA decides to ban you, or request your I'd, etc. In the future. Services were not fully rendered; hence the grounds for a refund.

Thanks. Has anyone here done a chargeback? Did SA follow through on their threat to send to collections? Any idea if they are more vigilant about banning your subsequent new accounts after that?