Arrangement Reports

[MwmChicago]

This one seems a bit off. Contacts me today and very quickly moves to text. Presses me to meet tonight and I say I can't as I have plans. She then tells me she'll contact me in 2 weeks. Tried to schedule for next week and she wants to meet Thur and than immediately says she can't meet me because people on this site are flakey and best of luck at whatever I'm looking for! WTF, I just want to fuck you senseless for an hour or two, like most of us do. Anyone actually meet her? She seems anxious to meet someone tonight or early tomorrow (Sat 3/19). Have at her, she seems unbalanced.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...4-b0b2d332efdd

[MwmChicago]

She favored me and we did some messages on the site and then went to texting. She was very warm and friendly and asked good questions and told me about here life. Then, wait for it, she said she wanted to ask me something but was afraid to ask. I said ask anything. Then she asked for money for groceries and feminine products. I told her I didn't do that but my intention was to spend time with her, leave her with a smile on her face and a few hundred bucks in her pocket and a sincere desire to seem me again. Her response was it was only a little money until we meet. Ha, Ha,

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-f1e76302420d

I just posted about her too, although the post has not been approved yet. We chatted yesterday and made plans to meet Sun. A few hours later she messaged me with her phone number but I was with my GF for the evening at that point. She then apparently blocked me this morning. UGH I really wanted to fuck her senseless!

[MwmChicago]

Was chatting yesterday with Sdj081a and we made plans to meet Sun. She messaged me her # a few hours later (9 PM) but I was with the GF for the evening and didn't see it until this morning on my phone. Got on my computer just now and it says she's no longer on site (or she blocked me). Still have the # surprisingly and texted her but haven't heard back. Is she still on the site? Really just curious as she's a hot young 23 why / o Asian and would love to bang a non pro young Asian. My first thought was she left the site after being overwhelmed on her first day from aggressive old white guys like me or she just blocked me because I didn't text late last night. Now I am on a mission to find that young hot Asian pussy!

[RayMunroe]

Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated!

If you're truly looking to sugar versus simply low mileage escorting, then you need to be direct in what kind of sugar relationship you want. Tell them how many times a month you want to meet. Describe what those meets would look like leaving out too much sexual detail. That is assumed and can be discussed in more detail off app. If you have other skills you can provide, mentoring, be sure to put that in there. If they respond positively to your description of the relationship I would try to move them off the app as quickly as possible to arrange a meet, discuss any sexual preferences (This may be best saved for the M&G), discuss PPM vs allowance. DO NOT PAY ANY DEPOSITS. If you're feeling generous, you can reimburse them for Uber costs once they are at the M&G regardless of how the meet goes.

[RayMunroe]

And a Butterface to boot!!

LOL.

This person has been discussed before. They were trying to line up 6 guys for a train and have them all pay and film.

[ChitownGuy321]

She favored me and we did some messages on the site and then went to texting. She was very warm and friendly and asked good questions and told me about here life. Then, wait for it, she said she wanted to ask me something but was afraid to ask. I said ask anything. Then she asked for money for groceries and feminine products. I told her I didn't do that but my intention was to spend time with her, leave her with a smile on her face and a few hundred bucks in her pocket and a sincere desire to seem me again. Her response was it was only a little money until we meet. Ha, Ha,

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-f1e76302420d

[TimeForPlay10]

Thanks for confirming my suspicions. Even though there's plenty of photos of the wife on his Facebook page it just feels odd. I can't find any info about the wife. Mostly just piqued my curiosity.

If you're intrigued, why not request a video chat? Outside of an in person meet, its the most efficient and effective way to confirm someone is real. If they balk, you have to assume something is up. I'm doing this consistently with POT SB's so I don't waste any time.

[MwmChicago]

That's how the profile reads to me. But seriously, looks like she could suffocate a man in them titties!

That's my plan, haha.

[Diginonomous]

Thanks for confirming my suspicions. Even though there's plenty of photos of the wife on his Facebook page it just feels odd. I can't find any info about the wife. Mostly just piqued my curiosity.

I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.

Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.

I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.

[FafaFooey]

But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?

It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.

I'll let anyone else reply who's had success leaving a deposit and ending up with a good session. To me, any request for advanced funds before meeting is a hard stop. There's no reason a girl who's a few hours away from making hundreds of dollars in cash needs a small amount sent electronically ahead of time. If the concern is no showing, the girls should be leaving us deposits rather than the other way around!

You can read back in this forum and even the general escorting forum about how pricing has gotten really out of control in the last year or so. It wasn't so long ago that 250 to 300 could get you some good variety. We can throw around guesses for the reasons (Covid, social media, etc), but it is what it is. There's only so much complaining that can be done, so we all just have to make our own cost / benefit judgements and only pursue arrangements where we feel the experience has some value in line with what we're paying.

[RayDonovan2000]

And a Butterface to boot!!

LOL.

Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.

[TimeForPlay10]

Wow super gps.

Quoted 1500. Just insane. This is so hard to find a not fat SA under 400.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-40a94af3ede3

Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.

[IronMan831]

Exchange a few small talk type messages on the site to make sure you're dealing with a real person, and then try to get them to move to text or some other messaging platform to talk details. I haven't had any problems myself, but there are too many stories already floating around about guys kicked off of the site for talking prices and acts in SA messages.

If a girl has a set of menu prices for certain acts & time limits, is hosting immediately, or will come to a hotel to meet you sight unseen, she's basically escorting whether she's also advertising on other sites or not. If she wants to do a meet and greet (ie meet for coffee, etc) before going further, then you may have a more traditional sugar baby looking to build more long term, exclusive arrangements. If she wants to sell you pictures or is asking for up front payments, then you have a scammer and its time to go silent and move on.

Pricing starting points unfortunately seem to have risen to around 400. Everyone's had different experiences, but I find much better chances of negotiating after a meet and greet where a girl's had a little chance to get comfortable with you and is more likely compromise a little on price if she feels like she'll be safe and might actually enjoy herself. Some girls will come down negotiating by text maybe if your location is very convenient or you can meet immediately, but just as many will stick firm to their 'price' or get pissed at any suggestion of coming down.

Wow this is super helpful, thank you! I actually stumbled upon the 3rd party msg system exactly like you said. But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?

It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.

[Vicdemoan]

That's how the profile reads to me. But seriously, looks like she could suffocate a man in them titties!

Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.

Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-125a75eeeff6

[Piper2005]

Haven't seen her, but I know what you mean, those tits fire up the imagination! Look forward to the report. Thanks.

Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.

Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-125a75eeeff6